Women for sure have much more to deal with when it comes to getting pregnant from sex. Not so say that a man getting a women pregnant is no big deal for the man but it's much more severe on the woman's body and if the guy leaves the woman is usually stuck with raising the child alone and even more they get hit with the stigma of being a single mom and even guys (the most desperate and sad creatures on earth) won't want a single mom. So when explaining female behavior we have to take this into consideration as a major factor in why a woman would be picky, they have to be. But at the same time it's not like there's a 90% risk that safe protected sex leads to a baby. A woman can have sex with plenty of men and use protective measures and not get pregnant. Sex workers are seeing multiple random clients per day and I'm quite confident they aren't just having random babies all the time. And for anyone who has seen a women in the presence of a top-level guy we see all these rules go right out the window and she will throw herself at the guy and offer everything for a small chance that this high level guy will be with her or at least have sex if he is hot. I think a lot of discussions here lack balance, sure the pregnancy risk is true but honestally it's not much of an excuse to reject most average guys, it's a bit of a lie and it's giving guys false information instead of the truth that they need to know to improve themselves or so at least they have realistic expectations with women. (But one more thing I want to add, this isn't an attack on women, they don't need to lie and use excuses, if women aren't attracted to 80 or 90% of men then that's just nature it isn't saying they are terrible, we shouldn't expect them to sleep with people they aren't attracted to just to satisfy men -but it is a little sad that this is what society has come to)