Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble?

real_mort · 2022-04-30T16:53:10+00:00

I just do it for ego validation. To proof to myself that I'm desirable.

Kyonkanno · 2022-04-30T19:48:42+00:00

This has something to with how we evolved as animals. It's just economics. Forget for a minute all the the intricacies of our social landscape and go back to basics. Our only purpose in life, is to survive and the perpetuation of our species, hopefully with our own genes in the pool.

Now, due to how males and females reproduce, we have vastly different mating strategies. Women can only reproduce once a year and even then, there's a limit to how many times a woman can reproduce because she has to try and keep the babies alive. Men on the other hand, can reproduce as many times as he finds a willing partner.

Given this biological fact, women's job is to be picky and try and mate with the male that will give her the highest chance of success in the survival of her offspring. Be it resources and/or healthy DNA.

Men's job is to nut in as many live vaginas as he can.

So socially speaking, a man that can convince many women to let him nut inside, is a man that has passed multiple filters by multiple "judges". Like an actor that has won many awards.

This is also why women with high n count are viewed on a negative light, because other might argue that she was not good at her "job" (being picky).

Obviously this super simplified and once you add in the intricacies of our world in 2022, things can get much more fussy and less black&white.

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-04-30T15:40:58+00:00

It's because women filter out men and therefore make it much more difficult for men to get with them. A man who is able to get with multiple women despite not being conventionally attractive would obviously have some kind of skill *or desirable traits that allows him to get past women's filters and barriers.

Its not the same the other way around though because men are more open to advances from women and women are less likely to get rejected.

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Opening-Twist-2362 · 2022-04-30T18:32:11+00:00

My ego is much better off knowing that I have values and standards about who I sleep with. I too was in a long time relationship, and I want to know that there is some things that we have in common before I have any physical relationship with a woman because I think that one night stands is just about fulfilling my needs, and I believe that it is selfish and doesn't mean anything

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-04-30T14:45:57+00:00

Cuz it's fun as fuck fam. The excitement and thrill of seducing someone new is like nothing else.

Shadow__Account · 2022-04-30T16:24:42+00:00

Its something that’s cool and a dream from a needy perspective. The first women I slept with had me walking with my head in the clouds for days and i always kept count on how many women I slept with and every one was a huge deal. That’s pure scarcity for you.

Lon4reddit · 2022-04-30T13:56:35+00:00

It's just desired if you want to do it. If you just want to do it because it's considered good by society or your buddies it is just a way to show neediness for validation from your group/society.

Do you want to sleep with many women? Sleep with the woman you chose?

2022-04-30T17:07:49+00:00

The most exciting feeling thing in the world is falling in love. I personally seek out relationships. I love the first few months, I’m willing to cycle through them if they don’t work out after that. Theoretically I’ll meet my soulmate one day but I agree people who just go for hookups are missing out.

ShortStuffV2 · 2022-04-30T16:56:40+00:00

It's purely egotism and a badge of status among men. Which is ironic because men prioritize appeasing other men's perception of them, rather than the woman they're in the relationship with. AKA, the person who matters more.

It can extend to other things such as mental health disorders, and just being horny af, but I don't think that is the case for most men, considering how unsatisfying rando sex is for most people.

batalieee · 2022-05-01T00:54:57+00:00

It’s for men to impress other men

PatientAssociation62 · 2022-04-30T14:44:34+00:00

I've known total man whores and really wouldn't trade places with them for anything. Endless drama and headaches with girls you don't even like. One man whore even had some girl's boyfriend show up drunk at his place at 3 AM while he was home banging her. What possibly could go wrong in a situation like that?

dancinqqq · 2022-04-30T16:32:56+00:00

Yeah I don’t like when men sleep around. Coming from a woman, if he is over a certain point I believe were incompatible because he doesn’t view sex the way I do.

2022-04-30T17:37:45+00:00

Because we're all going to for sure die before the expected time and I feel I'm missing out.

takeyourtime5000 · 2022-04-30T19:22:52+00:00

It's not. It's sleezy and takes away from meaningful relationships. Might as well masterbate.

wtjones · 2022-04-30T21:11:48+00:00

It’s mostly men who had difficult relationships with their mothers. Either too much attention or the wrong kind of attention. Those that are lucky figure it out in their 40s and move on.

-Rixi · 2022-04-30T17:11:34+00:00

Because they haven't been there yet, and people want what they can't have.

2022-04-30T17:15:55+00:00

Some may want to experience everything in life and find monogamy hindering that lifestyle. Dopamine, physical sensation, connecting with new people, experiences, ego boost I say. Eventually, this backfires but it is a good skill to to learn how to connect with people.

dons90 · 2022-04-30T20:47:14+00:00

Not every guy desires that kind of life. It's totally fine to be more relationship-driven as a man. Sure, you may experience sex with fewer women, but for me I like the longer term buildup and comfort you get from knowing a woman for a long time instead of the endless pickup culture

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2022-04-30T17:41:11+00:00

Men have a very steep learning curve in learning how to flirt and seduce women. Most men never learn this. And the Men who do, are capable have a certain attitude developed with social calibration developed where women love to be on the receiving end of it.

And every man wants unlimited access to sexuality and to be like that guy who women like to fuck.

nojremark · 2022-04-30T19:41:09+00:00

I'm old now. But, I was just having fun. That's all. Sex feels good, flirting and dating is fun. I still do this though I've slowed down a lot. Everybody gets to have their own appetite. No judgements allowed. 🙂

Only_Commercial_774 · 2022-04-30T14:49:39+00:00

It’s a good skill to master

charlie_cappa · 2022-04-30T19:04:25+00:00

The real answer is social conditioning that’s as old as time, but it’s really kicked up a notch in the contemporary era. Men are encouraged to (try to) sleep around because it’s an indicator of sexual skill/vitality and desirability. Speaking from experience: you’re at an advantage if you are happy with intermittent monogamy because buying into the social conditioning of hookup culture, like a lot of us here have, leads to a ton of frustration and insecurity if you don’t live up to the very high standards for sexual success. You do you and be happy!

Son_of_lakes · 2022-04-30T19:13:51+00:00

Honestly quality of sex is so much more important than quantity imho. I’ve boned a bunch of girls, and my best sex has 10/10 been with the ones that I had bonded with and been in a committed relationship after some time. So much more intimacy than just getting each other off during a random hook up with someone you just met, although that can be just as satisfying, it isn’t nearly as fulfilling.

Twiztid_Fun · 2022-05-01T01:05:37+00:00

For me personally it started freshman year of high school. A friendly bet between best friends, who can get to 100 first. (Childish, I know) for sake of maturity, I won't say who won... Jk, I won lol

Fast forward almost 20 years. Number unknown, but still enjoy/want multiple partners. Sexual experience differs so so much from person to person. I enjoy the the sensation and energy change. Hell, my own personal desires change from one partner to another.

2022-04-30T13:48:32+00:00

From a woman's point of view I would say some woman don't find it likeable. They may want you to "fit player ways" yet not actually have so many women. It just makes her feel less special. Unless you get the type of chick that don't mind your a player as long as she's always number 1. Sorry if this is not what your looking for.

Bulrog22 · 2022-04-30T21:45:21+00:00

Banging sluts is fun af. Titties man

Maecyte · 2022-04-30T14:07:37+00:00

Keys keys open doors

mikejamesone · 2022-04-30T16:38:34+00:00

Takes a lot of skill to get many women. You develop interpersonal skills by meeting many different women. Just always wear a condom and stds won't be an issue

longtonguebooty · 2022-04-30T17:34:25+00:00

Same reason why a girl sleeping with a lot of men is frowned upon and called a hoe! We are just inherently different. It’s ez for women to get sex so if they can easily do it there is no reward. For men however it’s very difficult to get sex (for the average guy) so when someone has the ability to not only have sex but with a ton of women he’s literally 1 in a few thousand probably.

Redidts-forscrubs · 2022-04-30T20:40:29+00:00

In the beginning it’s to simply show you’re desired and also you just probably get addicted to sex.After a while of being a degenerate you feel empty and you find a real relationship and since you’ve experienced so much woman you end up knowing what you like

Forgot3n_King · 2022-04-30T21:29:04+00:00

Sleeping with a lot of women is just for ego. In the long run it really doesn't matter. Especially because you can go to Vegas and pay for any experience you want. The real notch in the belt is having the ability to make women desire you. Especially with the amount of options that women have available to them.

LunaLovegood83 · 2022-04-30T22:08:31+00:00

It's not.

Davy120 · 2022-04-30T22:50:27+00:00

Usually ranges from it's proof of them being more attractive/desirable than those around him to associating consensual sex (at least I hope) with submissiveness.

Friendly-Fox-7707 · 2022-05-01T09:49:27+00:00

Its not As a woman i would freak out bcz of the stds possibilities I wouldnt touch u with a 10 ft pole

Glengarry_Leads · 2022-04-30T18:39:07+00:00

Because having sex with the same girl all the time gets less exciting sadly!!! Still good but sex with new hot women always a good thing, let's be real!!!

NalNahte · 2022-04-30T18:05:00+00:00

I mean it’s basically a signal of social desirability. What another commenter said is right. Women tend to be much more “choosy” with their sexual or intimate partners. Therefore, if you are able to get with multiple women, it is a positive signal for that social desirability.

It’s analogous as to why it’s impressive to get in to Ivy League schools. The actual schooling itself is not any more substantial than many other schools at the top 50 institutions that aren’t Ivy League. However, the fact that you got in is the positive signal, because everyone knows it’s difficult. The same logic can be applied to this.

devolve79 · 2022-04-30T16:21:50+00:00

We are biologically programmed to want to spread our seed. Go out and plow

2022-04-30T17:19:33+00:00

I don’t really care because lust is a powerful emotion no cap

MetaphysicPhilosophy · 2022-04-30T19:54:12+00:00

Almost every guy I know that's lived the hook up lifestyle says it gets old after a while and it's not really fulfilling. Then again, it might be a personal preference thing. Personally, I have a pretty high sex drive, but I like the emotional connection of an intimate relationship. As long as there is some good sex, I'm attracted to the girl, and, most importantly, she isn't psychotic then I prefer to be with one girl. But there is something invigorating and fun about picking up chicks that I think chicks notice to when they go out to get fucked. I think the true way to live is to have a main chick and side hoes. But I'm getting to that level.

TerpOnaut · 2022-04-30T13:16:48+00:00

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willgo-waggins · 2022-04-30T16:15:55+00:00

Honestly it’s you do you.

I have been with a lot of women but if it had turned out differently I would have been fine. While the thrill of the chase and new experiences have always been exciting, I have always been happiest and most personally and sexually satisfied when I have been in a steady long term monogamous relationship.

The problem I have had is that not all of those had that ultimate level. Really only two and the others I became bored. Right now I am good with that with my current girl.

JetPillar · 2022-04-30T17:26:39+00:00

Because men like to see sex as a game with a winner and a loser

MacinTez · 2022-04-30T18:59:16+00:00

You gather a lot of sexual experience typically… You don’t have to be a “hoe” per se… But all my sexual experiences, good and bad, have been INVAUABLE for me. Seriously. I’ve had partners that demanded a LOT more from me sexually that I was able to experiment on. Then I’ve messed with women who I couldn’t even get hard or get in sync with. You just learn a lot about yourself and others thru those experiences.

GLight3 · 2022-04-30T19:33:45+00:00

Because it shows that you're wanted and therefore valuable.

Placated_Venom · 2022-05-01T06:35:28+00:00

It's confirmation bias. If a guy has slept with a bunch of women then other women look at him and wonder "hmm, what does he have that makes so many other women want to sleep with him." Alot of women deny wanting a guy that's slept with alot of other women, but the anecdotal evidence is pretty overwhelming.

But if this isn't how you want to live your life, dont. Be selective and loyal to a single girl, I personally think that's the best thing as well, it's just not really where our culture is at anymore. This loss of that, along with many other reasons, is what has given rise the hook-up culture of our modern society.

Atibana · 2022-04-30T16:04:29+00:00

There’s no good answer for this we just want to. Same way you want one girl.

waresmarufy · 2022-04-30T16:57:59+00:00

why are there so many flavors of ice cream? Different tastes in the world

2022-04-30T17:37:33+00:00

For me it was “getting it out of the way early.” Just in case I had a mid life crises later it would certainly not be about the amount of women I slept with. Now I have a clear mind and can focus on everything else without having focus on picking up as many girls as possible. Almost 30 now so I’m glad I did it.

Alabasturder · 2022-04-30T15:50:48+00:00

A lock that can be opened with any key, isn't very useful.

A key that can open any lock on the other hand...

gl0ry66 · 2022-04-30T16:13:09+00:00

So you do what you're comfortable with. I don't think it's cool at all when guys do that. Also the double standard sucks. The key analogy is ridiculous.

2022-04-30T14:25:05+00:00

It just works.

Aktive_IV · 2022-04-30T17:14:44+00:00

It shows you are select, it’s in women’s nature to want dudes who other chicks find attractive. Big plus if the other girls who find you attractive are good looking. & it makes getting new women easier especially if your name floats around, chicks love to each other about who they been with, obviously in a low-key manner though (;

JambiChick · 2022-04-30T17:44:00+00:00

Ehh idk that it's necessarily considered desirable, definitely not when saying a "huge number". I think the idea is based on the concept of "more experience means better delivery", similar to how many ppl shop around when looking for a good restaurant, hotel, a mechanic, hair stylist...most ppl want to go with a reputable source. When it comes to sex, we can't really read reviews or look up a rating for how good or bad a person is in bed(although...hmm, not a bad idea haha). What we can do is ask how many they've slept with and draw conclusions from there. Ofc these conclusions aren't always correct. Having a lower number doesn't HAVE TO mean you're not skilled just as having a high count isn't always indicative of skill.

fewbar2021 · 2022-04-30T18:01:23+00:00

Variety is the spice of life. It also is just a diff kind of experience. You’ll meet so many different kinds of people who are into so many different things, it helps you understand your sexuality/sexuality of others. You may uncover things you never knew you would like (dont be afraid, now)

R4nd0m_T4sk · 2022-04-30T20:14:19+00:00

Better yet. Why do guys vilify women that have a high body count when they're just as entitled to enjoy themselves as a guy. Just sayin.

hagakurejunkie · 2022-04-30T22:01:16+00:00

It's not, you just missed the point.

You're trying to play is "safe" by saying " I only want just ONE woman, that's okay right??"

First of all, get that virgin crap about std's out of your head. My number is in the triple digits and I've NEVER gotten an std, not even a scare and I've done some dicey shit. Because I use protection and take care of myself.

I'm not here to prove anything. I hookup with women simply because I LOVE WOMEN! I fucking adore them, I love the way they smell, the way they talk, the way they say so much with that mischievous look in their eyes and slight curl in their lips. I love how they fall in love with me and text me a million silly questions, I love how they cuddle, their silly insecurities when they take of their make-up, how nerdy they are when they think nobody is paying attention, I love how they climb me like a tree and demand that even though I am sitting 6 inches away from them, I am too far away and need to be closer.

Women are completely ridiculous most of the time and I fucking ADORE them for it. I love talking to old women, young women, taking care of my niece. I flirt with cashiers 30 years older than me, I charm grandmothers.

I never even got married because I am totally addicted to the female race.

I do very well with women but it's not a conquest. It's like a dog lover who gets to hang out with puppies all day long.

The game it takes to get 30 women into bed is the same game it takes to meet the love of your life.

It's not different.

And here's a little secret. Women are attracted to men who are wanted by other women. Most women do not want to date the guy who has no other options.

BlinkinparkKrasus · 2022-04-30T22:23:42+00:00

It's not JUST about sleeping around. It's about showing women who don't know you how you handle yourself around OTHER women. Even if you swear a girl to secrecy (for whatever reason), she will talk to her friends and co-workers, the subject of "oh I had this awesome/miserable date" WILL come up, and you have the power to influence which side of that coin you fall under. What this does is social-proof you with other girls who don't know you yet. Because the word of mouth travels, a girl might already know about you that you're charming/flirtatious or amazing in the sack and she might want to try you out. (Not kidding about this last part - one time I had a one night stand with a girl, and the next day she came to meet me to try and get me to sleep with her a second time, she came with her sister who was engaged; and her sister openly tried hitting on me in front of the girl, it was a bit freaky, if not surprising)

Conversely, if all a guy does is bore a girl to death with "deep conversations", he's not gonna get far with other girls either (this sort of automatically excludes the possibility of getting comfortable with that ONE girl).

On a micro level, being able to approach a girl in a club or something, at a tighter scene, demonstrates a TON of balls, especially if you do it with a bit of style (i.e. not like a full-testosterone driven gorilla). This goes back to my first argument, showing other girls how you handle yourself, that you're used to getting attention from girls anywhere you go.

Again, this doesn't necessarily involve sleeping around, although it can lead to that. There's this tiny-ass grocery store I visit almost every day, one time I had a chat with one of the clerks (older lady, very nice and agreeable), and after a bit of a chat I throw out a compliment or two, she asked me what I did for a living (software developer), and also complimented how kind I was (as she doesn't get a lot of people interested in talking to an older woman), immediately a few days after, I started to notice a lot more attention from all of her coworkers, many of which are younger, hotter women.

As for the STD fears - use a condom.

TL;DR - you don't have to sleep with a lot of women, just get used to getting attention from all sides, that's what's most important.

WindJammer27 · 2022-05-01T00:35:25+00:00

When I was younger I was the type of guy that women liked to use to unload their emotional issues on. At the time I misinterpreted that as friendship. I was very popular in that regard, and had no problems making female "friends." But none of these women ever showed a sexual interest in me, and it became very apparent that the guys they were sexually interested in were far more important to them. Being able to sleep with a woman was an accomplishment, a difficult feat. So of course the more I could do this, the better I was in terms of being a desirable male.

But lately there's been an attitude shift, and guys who have a whole lot of partners aren't seen as desirable. I have had over 200 sex partners, but in real life I tend to downplay that number as I get judged negatively for it.

sarge4567 · 2022-04-30T19:15:51+00:00

The cultural reason: Since the dawn of time, at least in Western culture, a man with many "conquests" is considered a Chad that women aspire to be with. From Casanova to Zeus himself. And for women it's the opposite. A chaste beautiful woman that refuses many men is supposed to be the ideal.
The personal reason: To feel good about yourself and feel that the woman you are with hasn't "duped you" and that you are in control as you have "many options". All about ego. Nobody wants to be the man with no other woman that is getting dumped by the only woman he's with. It's all about a power struggle basically, as its assumed that any woman you are with is more or less always checking if there are no other better guy on the horizon.

It all seems very immoral but at the core that's it.

kmbd · 2022-04-30T15:55:21+00:00

--> evolutionary 🧬 biology <--

69thPercentile · 2022-04-30T16:27:10+00:00

One way people rationalise it is, you have a bigger pool of potential partners you can choose to date as opposed to just dating the first girl you get intimate with.

PondScum420 · 2022-04-30T17:12:42+00:00

In a nutshell, we are all horny, and variety is the spice of life.

HorusCok · 2022-04-30T17:52:43+00:00

It's fun.

avarageusername · 2022-04-30T18:32:53+00:00

A key that can open any door is a Master Key. A lock that can be opened by any key is just a shitty lock.

daring_innovator · 2022-04-30T15:49:50+00:00

Conquest & Spreading my seed with as many women as I can because I am aware this is what I was designed for. To penetrate the world and spread my seed everywhere (Ego/Biology)

High Sex Drive & Freedom

I am like a Master Key that could unlock all of the locks of every woman like magic. Yes, I am a dick & I’m selfish because I embraced the dark side.

Relationships aren’t enough for me. I don’t like being tied down to one person (unless shes comfortable knowing I have multiple sexual partners & willing to share me.) She’s gotta really compete with the other girls for the girlfriend position. I don’t see why I should commit when I can bang as many 9s & 10s as I want. I’m not gonna drop all my options just for her. Just because we have sex doesn’t mean you’re obligated to commit to a relationship. But that doesn’t mean I’m against relationships, gfs are amazing to have. It’s just not my focus because my primary focus is my own path.

Sandvicheater · 2022-04-30T19:58:17+00:00

Because for 99.99% of men out there getting sex takes time, effort, beauty and skill. For all women getting laid is one swipe away.

What's more impressive a guy who does record time on a casual easy hill or a guy who makes the world record for shortest time climbing mount everest?

laddy_McTaegue · 2022-04-30T20:21:42+00:00

Variety is the spice of life.

leelbeach · 2022-04-30T21:13:05+00:00

I really wish I had a higher body count. I've only been with 1 woman and I'm 25! I feel like it would be such an ego boost and really help with my self-esteem and confidence if I was able to pull a number of women.

Protocol_Apollo · 2022-04-30T21:29:04+00:00

Because it takes skill. And commands some level of respect.

Because it’s hard and rare.

Humans naturally respect skilled people. They innately believe in meritocracy.

Which is why everyone respects the guy in the Lamborghini. He could have gotten it in any way, but it doesn’t matter much, he gets more respect than if he didn’t.

You respect him for having it. Because you know either way, it’s hard and very rare to own a lambo.

Same thing with the muscular physique. You respect the guy for it, more so than if he didn’t. You know it takes work, and skill for that. You know it’s very rare for guys to achieve it.

Same thing here.

Modern think tries to brainwash guys into thinking not to be like those guys, but all guys would if you have them a magic genie.

And also, use condoms.

blackopsplayer5 · 2022-04-30T21:42:17+00:00

I did it to one up random guys when we bragged. Kinda sad but lol

BaconSexnDrugs · 2022-04-30T21:46:41+00:00

“A lock that is opened by many keys is undesirable, but a key that opens many locks is a master key” - Sun tzu probably

2022-04-30T22:11:32+00:00

At one point in time, it was for validation. I was extremely insecure at the time and didn't even realize it. Sleeping with women gave me temporary 'confidence' . But it wears off quick. External validation will not fix what is going on inside.

Now, I sleep with women because I'm horny and I like sex. Sure it does feel nice knowing chicks dig you, but I practice hard to steer my ego away from clinging on to this as the ultimate source of validation.

Former_Candle1330 · 2022-04-30T23:06:58+00:00

Cause it feels good simple as that. Maybe you're not as horny.

InfectionRx · 2022-05-01T01:03:52+00:00

It’s a “rites of passage” for men lol while gaining experience in bed

HowToStud · 2022-05-01T03:17:33+00:00

Because not everyone can do it.

Much_Silver · 2022-05-01T11:35:25+00:00

Spread your genes

Intelligent-Dingo-64 · 2022-05-01T12:40:03+00:00

I will do it because there's many stupid ass girls who rejected me so i am gonna satisfy my ego

2022-04-30T15:35:44+00:00

It’s desirable because men generally love sex and they like to have a lot of it. Once you get into a long-term ,committed relationship you’ll find you’ll be having a lot less of it, if you have any at all.

Monke_Good · 2022-05-01T02:34:12+00:00

It is evolutionary for men to pass on their genes to more women.

ComedianSquare2839 · 2022-04-30T19:17:45+00:00

You try to find out the 'ONE' , if you got her in first time you are lucky... Else your body counter keep increasing until you find her.

Jilluminati1 · 2022-04-30T21:50:28+00:00

Survival of the fittest. More people wanna sleep with you = you probably got some dope 👖

chiefchief23 · 2022-04-30T22:06:07+00:00

Have you ever watched any animal doc?

nofapkneel · 2022-04-30T23:55:46+00:00

I feel its my raison d'etre (my life purpose).

Blackgod_Kurokami · 2022-05-02T10:57:49+00:00

Because girls are hot and we get somewhat desensitized to just one person

TUKINDZ · 2022-05-02T18:03:50+00:00

Id like to sample all the different sex flavours the world has to offer. And I want to sample enough that of each flavour to know I'm not going to miss it. Plus, banging a bunch of chicks often comes with life experiences that you get to remember and learn from.

I don't think you've lived enough as a man if you haven't banged a loads of women. You need some experience.

Thin-Ad2750 · 2022-05-05T13:21:40+00:00

Just speaking from some limited experience in both worlds, a steady long ass relationship(s) and sleeping with multiple women, I can definitely say sleeping with multiple women is more fun but not necessarily great for the long term. To sleep with multiple women requires a mindset change of how we have all been socially conditioned. By dating and sleeping with multiple women, you see the differently and you will see social interactions with women differently. It also allows you to find hotter women that you desire as you will notice patterns in your interactions. Being in a stable relationship requires a lot more work to keep the flame alive. As for the stds thing, just strap on bro.

avarageusername · 2022-05-12T04:29:41+00:00

It's not. I prefer my men to have as low of a number as possible.

Tiny_Celebration_591 · 2022-07-14T06:41:09+00:00

Most of these comments sum up to insecurity…whether it be FOMO about experiences or not knowing your self worth outside of sexual conquests.

Someone mentioned that if you like sex it’s better. I question “how?” Having a stable partner(s) means you can really explore and hone in on what your partner(s) likes. Just because you have a lot of sex doesn’t mean it’s good. Plenty of men with high numbers just plain have no idea how to pleasure a woman; rather than confront that, it’s easier to just get off with another person.

2022-07-22T10:37:41+00:00

Way back I got myself best, loveliest and sexiest lady in the universe as first long term (>3 dates) girlfriend, then wife. I would say I have zero desire to do have any other women because I am 🤴 as I am. My friends that were dipshit to girls and slept around are mostly still alone and some of them are whining about being alone. Besides if do math I have had sex thousands upon thousands of times so it is hard to beat it :D

Title	Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble?
Author	avarageusername
Upvotes	309
Comments	226
Date	April 30, 2022 1:14 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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