(The following is from memory, so please don't have animosity towards Richard because I may be explaining things wrong.)

I used to watch a life coach called Richard Grannon (before he specialized in abusive relationships) who used to do an exercise with women who were confused why they couldn't find a "good man".

He used to get them to write down the traits of kind of man they want as a life partner, and then to write down the traits of the last 3 people they slept with.

If he saw that the ideal vs who the women slept with didn't match, he would suggest that they aren't actually attracted to the kind of man they say they want as a life partner, that they only mentally desire the partner.

Edit: He also outright asked them if the were attracted to men who displayed those traits they say they want, and they confessed they weren't.

The women would get upset and say that they want to be and don't like that they aren't attracted to their "ideal partner", and he would assure them that the kind of men they are attracted to can genuinely change, but that it's important to be honest about what they are actually attracted to at present. (If memory servers me correctly) he suggested that a relationship will create resentment if you enter a relationship because they are "good on paper" but you aren't genuinely attracted to them.

So that intro aside;

Single women, can you please list the traits the man you want in a life partner vs the traits of the last 3 men that you've slept with?

(This can be a good exercise for men too. Like a number of Red Pill content creators who have been found to be in a relationship with or dating women who have the exact things that they warn men against.)