Every other day to there seems to be a post on this sub by redpill/redpill adjacent men about women.

Women aren't doing enough of this, women aren't contributing enough of this, women should do this, women should do that...all to suit your biased desires and expectations of women.

So I think we've damn near heard enough about how the women is supposed to keep herself pure from other men, bear your kids, be loyal and adhere to your wishes,...now, what do YOU bring to the table?

She must put in effort not to gain weight, but what about you? Are you fat? What's your weight? Are you fat, are you not, really?

Do you make enough money to support a family of three kids in your country right now?

Can four people live comfortably on your salary?

Are you kind, are you good to people? If we were to put your looks and tangible possessions aside, what do you have as a person that would make you a good partner?

So incredibly critical of women, the redpill denizens, but when it comes to what a man should be doing or bringing into the relationship suddenly it's crickets out here.

I think the real bluepill is finding out there's so many conversations by men expressing expectations and demands of everything a woman should do and how she should behave, but men tell themselves they can throw pennies at anything and expect love, mothering, domestic labor and childrearing to come out of it, no efforts required. They have a large room to be themselves and fail as they please.