Why do women have issue with shoes inserters when they paint a whole different face?

AdHistorical3313 · 2025-10-18T15:08:34+00:00

Yup everyone does stuff to look good and everyone gets judged for it. Such is life. In life people will judge you on everything good and bad. Like to wear dress shoes? People will judge you. Hate dress shoes? Guess what you will still get judged. Can't do anything in life without someone judging you and forming an opinion based on that. That's just life I get judged all the time because I'm a tomboy who doesn't like makeup much but oh well their judgement caused them to miss out on a very good and decent person. That's their loss and not mine.

If she doesn't want a guy who wears insoles then oh well that's her loss and she isn't worth crying over. She lost a great guy just because of his shoe choices that's her issue and probably someone you wouldn't want to be with anyway.

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meangingersnap · 2025-10-18T19:36:20+00:00

As long as they’re as visible as makeup is, knock yourself out

ResponsibilityAny217 · 2025-10-18T15:11:01+00:00

This is likely unfair but the guy is still likely to pick u (woman) without the makeup or hair extensions or nails or pushups bras and heels etc.

But the women might not have picked the guy without the height inserters.

Edit :

The guy here changes the input and it changes the outcome.

The woman can change the input in dozens of ways and it won't likely change the outcome

MyLastBestChance · 2025-10-19T00:24:51+00:00

Makeup is RIGHT OUT THERE on her face. It’s not a secret, nobody (hopefully🙄) really believes that women don’t have pores or have naturally blue sparkly eyelids and shiny red lips …

High heels are also very clearly not her natural height…

Shapewear? Sure, that can be deceptive but there are limits to what spandex can achieve. Chubby is still going to look chubby, obese is still going to look obese, just slightly less lumpy. Push up bras? Are there really men who believe that normal women’s breasts can naturally serve as a chin rest? Really? But ok, if we assume that men are really that naive, I guess that they can be considered roughly on the same level as shoe lifts

Shoe lifts are designed to fool people. They are hidden precisely for that reason. If they weren’t, they wouldn’t be hidden. They would be male high heels, out and proud.

Ok_Royal_8429 · 2025-10-18T07:44:35+00:00

Do women even wear makeup this often anymore? I don't wear makeup, and I don't have a problem with shoe inserts. But I didn't used to go actively looking for men who wear them, either. Didn't simp for them online. Never dated a man who did wear them, though I dated some great men who did well for themselves. If someone is in high society, they might feel a different set of expectations and that's OK. As long as it's not an actual insecurity that impacts their ability to do activities or trust their partner or something.

stockingsinrainboots · 2025-10-18T09:12:27+00:00

I don't actually know many women who regularly wear a lot of makeup. I guess it depends on the country you live in, but I've lived in several western European cities, and you rarely see more than a little mascara, maybe some concealer. And people go bare-faced just as often as well. Hair extensions also aren't popular, or push up bras. That was more of a thing in the 2000s.

Either way, I personally don't care about people's style choices, be that fake nails or shoe lifts. It may not be my taste, but I don't expect people to cater to my preferences.

TeapotSoprano · 2025-10-18T06:28:58+00:00

I don't say this to hurt feelings, just to give an accurate reading of the world.

Men are in competition, women aren't.

We select.

Men compete for us, and we pick the best man.

Men will desire the women regardless of anything she does.

So when men lie by making themselves something they aren't, they're cheating.

You present yourselves for judgement.

Women are the selectors.

No woman wants to buy gold, and find out that it's lead.

Whereas men are just looking to be bought.

Your value is what you are through achievement and genetics, whereas ours is through our existence.

... lifts are also just cringe and embarrassing.

💅

Aimeereddit123 · 2025-10-18T20:25:54+00:00

I’m a woman, and I DO think it’s the same. I would never laugh at a guy if shoe inserts make him feel more confident. Power to him! Some women wear spanx to keep their fat in. A guy can do that too, if he wants. If a guy has zits, I also think they can use a light makeup foundation to cover them. They do with guys on tv. I have no problem with anyone of either sex doing anything to feel better about themselves. Why would I? It’s not my business, and I want people feeling confident.

Title	Why do women have issue with shoes inserters when they paint a whole different face?
Author	BitterWheel471
Upvotes	34
Comments	179
Date	October 18, 2025 5:17 AM UTC (9 months ago)
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