Just saw this on Tiktok and SO MANY GIRLS IN THE COMMENTS ARE AGREEING IM SO HAPPY!! The message is finally spreading. 🥳🥳🥳

blue_avocado · 2021-03-14T21:12:01+00:00

LVM will say they can’t date women whose love language is gifts, but they wouldn’t be able to maintain words of affirmation in a relationship either so....

randomgirlimok · 2021-03-14T16:32:36+00:00

I identify with “I don’t get jealous.” The minute a guy starts talking about some other chick- blocked. I’m not going to fall prey to some triangulation crap. This one guy I was talking to would text me with “wyd” and then I’d ask him back and he’d be like “hanging out with my friend “Suzie”. Ok well have fun, bye.

yoursultana · 2021-03-14T16:46:36+00:00

This is really gonna hurt male feelings on Reddit. They have major sour grapes phenomenon going on for FDSers. They label us as femcels bc we’re out of their reach. 🤭

person000000000 · 2021-03-14T16:18:59+00:00

To all the men who get pissed about this. . .don't date her if you don't like it. It literally has nothing to do with you. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

UnashamedWench · 2021-03-14T19:28:47+00:00

My love languages are receiving gifts and platonic cuddling. Bring it to the table.

Papaverinum · 2021-03-14T22:33:53+00:00

"I don't get jealous" I love this. Also hates those over-jealous pickmies sending dea*h threats to any woman who dares to look at her man. Like, umh, no, I'm not interested in your ugly cheating lying NVM 🤮😂

Lavender_flow · 2021-03-14T19:27:30+00:00

I also just want to talk about how pretty she is, I am jealous. This is why men hate FDS, they know these absolute stunners also have a brain, and say no, and they can't deal with it. This is a Queen they will never have and it makes them sooooo mad.

Subject_Ticket · 2021-03-14T22:25:03+00:00

I know a woman's worth does not come from her beauty or age, but it's just so funny how incels thinks FDSers are old and ugly because all the girls that get posted on here that preach FDS principles are SO gorgeous.

jem1173 · 2021-03-15T05:11:34+00:00

The difference between an LVM and HVM:

Few months ago, (33M) LVM takes me to the park and brings wine. First date, casual drinks, no problem.

Well, he tried to get sexual right away, offering a massage at his place (wink, wink). He walked me home later, then got annoyed I didn’t invite him up.

Second date, he proposes Netflix and chill with heavy sexual innuendo. I declined, saying I’d prefer a date out and about. His response? To grumble that “Nothing is good enough for me” as if I’m horrible for wanting a regular date. We didn’t go out again.

Last week, I had a date with a (36M) HVM. He lives on the other side of NYC (30-40 min train) but graciously chose a bar in my neighborhood.

We met and had drinks. He paid for everything and walked me home. Then asked my permission to kiss me, saying he can’t wait to see me again.

For our second date, we’re going out for dinner. His idea. Also in my neighborhood, he insisted.

To be clear, the issue here isn’t money; you can make any date special if you try—the issue is that the LVM didn’t. And when I wasn’t comfortable, he got mad and negged me instead of upping his effort.

If it wasn’t for FDS, Old Me would’ve second-guessed myself and lowered my standards. I would’ve tried harder to “earn” decent treatment; my self worth would’ve hinged on his approval. This time, I stuck to my standards and walked away.

So, this girl is absolutely right. When you don’t participate in low effort, your calendar is open and mental/emotional energy is available for the real ones. Big thanks to FDS for helping me learn this and truly value myself.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-03-14T20:56:16+00:00

I watched this video like 20 times because she is so beautiful. You would be a lucky man to be allowed to be in her presence, so yeah act right.

mackenzie013 · 2021-03-15T00:53:36+00:00

I got a notification from a sub I do not follow now participate in (not sure why?) with this post being reposted there; I quickly scrolled through (mostly men upset over women wanting gifts) and some people were pointing out she has an OF?

yolosunshine · 2021-03-15T02:25:31+00:00

Until they find out I’m 8 years older than they think I am—I’m their age.

Until they find out I canceled my ex for jealousy games.

Until they find out I have 2 ex guy friends who are ex friends bc one assaults girls and the other is shit to his wife.

Until....

waddamelone · 2021-03-14T20:46:44+00:00

Why wouldn’t you want to spend all your money on her and treat her like a queen in general? 🤩 She’s beautiful and I’m sure that she’s smart as well.

DifferentBar6 · 2021-03-14T17:36:54+00:00

good filters

Cool-Fill9819 · 2021-03-14T19:06:06+00:00

slight_sapphire · 2021-03-14T22:31:54+00:00

She’s gorgeous 😍

purziveplaxy · 2021-03-15T17:29:49+00:00

Good lord she's beautiful! Ladies, set those standards!

FURYOFCAPSLOCK · 2021-03-15T03:50:42+00:00

What is this song?

pinbug · 2021-03-14T21:04:49+00:00

🥰preach!

wibble69 · 2021-03-16T02:31:55+00:00

Why was this so funny though

TheOGJammies · 2021-03-15T05:04:34+00:00

Werk.

yoursultana · 2021-03-14T22:58:11+00:00

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AlexxyaKat · 2021-03-15T12:34:52+00:00

Tbh, I feel like most guys would accept this given how beautiful she is

Determinedblonde · 2021-03-14T22:56:35+00:00

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Title	Just saw this on Tiktok and SO MANY GIRLS IN THE COMMENTS ARE AGREEING IM SO HAPPY!! The message is finally spreading. 🥳🥳🥳
Author	angelcakegoddess
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Comments	94
Date	March 14, 2021 3:46 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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