A woman I know shared this...😬

2340000 · 2021-05-25T15:52:23+00:00

That's too low, even for pickmes🤢

inflingbio · 2021-05-25T15:45:39+00:00

Unfriend

vitryolic · 2021-05-25T15:53:33+00:00

It’s so sad when women gaslight themselves, but it’s dangerous to try to normalise this victim-blaming behaviour to other women. Cheating has nothing to do with what the loyal partner is lacking, and everything to do with the deficiencies in the cheater.

ucompost · 2021-05-25T16:39:58+00:00

Nah my father cheated on my mom. With a woman that looked EXACTLY like her. It was creepy. Down to weight and hair style. What she DID have that my mom didn’t was 3 underage girls and a grand daughter living with her and a willingness to send my father nude photos of her children.

During the affair my father kept pressing my mom to have another baby. Now we know he wanted the baby to consume not to love.

Edit: so yea guess my mom did have something that the mistress didnt. Dignity. Self-respect. Morals. And inclination to not break the law?

MACMUA · 2021-05-25T16:08:37+00:00

Her name looks really good on my blocked friend list

lunarfulminate · 2021-05-25T16:11:56+00:00

This "if he cheated, it means you're not good enough so you need to become more appealing to him" propaganda is a millennia-old psyop to make sure loser men don't have to stay single, but the women going along with it don't even get paid. 🤡

iwfdya · 2021-05-25T15:55:01+00:00

Ummm, what next level gaslighting bullshit is this??

immortallogic · 2021-05-25T16:16:53+00:00

Almost certain the original post was written by some redpill type dude. Even the lowest if low woman wouldn't say shit like this.

CokeMooch · 2021-05-25T16:39:08+00:00

If someone stabs you, and you bleed on their shirt, you should APOLOGIZE for bleeding on them!! Ask yourself, what did I do wrong that they stabbed me in the FIRST place???! Bc it’s 100% ur fault. Be better. Don’t get stabbed.

🤡🤡🤡Have a good day :)

superheroxnerd · 2021-05-25T16:41:13+00:00

HES INNOCENT & YOU ARE NOT

This is gaslighting, downplaying, blame shifting all sorts of mindfuckery

spinsterchachkies · 2021-05-25T15:48:12+00:00

Christ

MadamLeFay · 2021-05-25T15:56:51+00:00

I came here to comment and realized all I can do is shake my head...

_differentmentality_ · 2021-05-25T16:17:22+00:00

women always lose because they’re ready to gaslight themselves into oblivion to excuse men’s atrocious behavior when men never do the same in return

Curiousquest2 · 2021-05-25T16:41:01+00:00

Get your hazmat gear out ladies this shit is toxic ⚠️☢️

PBJellyNutella · 2021-05-25T16:19:16+00:00

What the actual fuck is that quote tho what the hell. Which disgusting dumbass would have the audacity to even write such fucking atrocity??? Jesus do people actually believe in this??

azureangel35 · 2021-05-25T16:20:55+00:00

The bar has passed through Hell and is now red hot and being used to beat women. WTAF is this inane bullshit??! The fact that this was posted by a woman is depressing AF.

ButterfliesHurricane · 2021-05-25T16:50:04+00:00

If the other woman had everything the SO had plus one thing the SO didn’t have, then the cheater would have dumped the SO for her. Instead, he much rather have his cake and eat it. So much easier than being a good partner. Truly sad that women blame themselves for their partner cheating.

Crafty_Collar8183 · 2021-05-25T16:11:54+00:00

There is no understanding in any part.

moonlightpuddle · 2021-05-25T16:50:49+00:00

This sounds like deep seeded, self-hatred. I feel so sorry for this woman. She needs years of therapy, not social media.

WittyImprovement · 2021-05-25T16:41:18+00:00

IF HE CHEATED ON U, instead of leaving him understand the fact that he is a shitty person who doesn't know how to treat you right. You've seen the error in him. Then leave without further explanation. U are innocent & he is not

carmen_sandiegos_hat · 2021-05-25T16:58:24+00:00

Wow. This is how people manifest illnesses (mental & physical) because they are too busy gaslighting themselves to listen to how their body is saying no.

Mcccy · 2021-05-25T16:26:14+00:00

🤢🤢🤢🤢

Br0ther-Finger · 2021-05-25T17:09:23+00:00

This mindset is really sad. This woman can’t accept that she’s settling for the leftover pieces of a shitty, cheating, lying, duplicitous man, so there needs to be something wrong with the main.

SeaNegotiation8 · 2021-05-25T17:56:56+00:00

Sounds like a man.

LittleWinn · 2021-05-25T16:57:27+00:00

Gross

girl_in_red_costume · 2021-05-25T17:03:19+00:00

Ugh, girl. I can't even...

Meadow97 · 2021-05-25T18:42:14+00:00

This has got to be up there with one of the most pathetic things I've ever had the displeasure of reading... Yikes.

growing_flower_ · 2021-05-25T18:11:10+00:00

WHAT IS THAT POST?! You know what no, absolutely not. Its so annoying that women have to think that something wrong with them because a guy acts a certain way or treats you a certain way. Like yeah let me give him the benefit of the doubt and fix it and blame myself. I think that is ridiculous - I blamed myself for my ex's reaction to my culture and you know what ladies? it messed me up, more than I ever realized. No one should ever have to blame themselves for someones shitty behavior and let your mental health suffer at their expense. This post sounds like it was a guy trying to justify his behavior..nah, sis.

Optimal_Grapefruit_5 · 2021-05-25T18:48:28+00:00

If she cheated on you, instead of leaving her just understand the fact that you lack something which the guy he cheated on you with doesn't. Find out the error in yourself, apologize to her. Say sorry to her. Accept it, be a better man. She's innocent, and you are not.

^ Dare you to find a man that would ever even consider accepting anything remotely similar to that.

Imaginary-Driver-767 · 2021-05-25T18:55:25+00:00

Pickme signal has been lit, now we pray /s

purasangria · 2021-05-25T19:05:55+00:00

What did i just read???

No, he cheats because he's a cheater.

If there was something that he wasn't getting from the relationship that he wanted, then he needs to break up and find someone else.

He cheats because he wants to keep his relationship with you locked in, but doesn't want to lose the relationship benefits.

DontAskTwice-A-Roni · 2021-05-25T18:14:44+00:00

I’ll take this seriously as soon as people start applying it when the genders are reversed. Until they start telling men to their cheating wives and to become better men, this is just bottom-shelf, dick pandering, pick me bullshit.

Fuckdoesithurt956 · 2021-05-25T19:48:39+00:00

Someone call the circus, another one got out.

aslirakhisawant · 2021-05-25T18:01:05+00:00

A part of me just died.

nickachka · 2021-05-25T18:13:02+00:00

Whhhhaaaatttt 😂this lady needs help, she has been severely brainwashed

all_or_nothing_bet · 2021-05-25T19:56:55+00:00

By this imbecile logic, women also should be sleeping around with randoes and blame their SO, right? Like, dear husband, you are lacking a perfectly shaped big toe like this fine gentlemen has, therefore I had to fuck him. Also, you are lacking these fluffy mustache that these two handsome men have. I had to fuck them too, because of you, you bastard! You better apologize for not having something I find attractive at the moment or I'll have to fuck someone again.

What a life 🙄🤢

PizzaHoe717 · 2021-05-25T17:30:15+00:00

No words 🤢🤢

The_Oracle_of_Delphi · 2021-05-25T20:15:07+00:00

Unfortunately, this blaming-the-victim logic is extremely common. When my ex cheated on me, a few men that we both knew made some comments to me about “but WHYYYY did he cheat?”, implying that I was lacking in some way, which drove him to do it. What an utterly obnoxious thing to say to an innocent victim! Clearly, they had heard his perspective and totally bought into it.

Blindtothesided · 2021-05-25T20:27:39+00:00

This is on the level with that one a few months back where the woman posted a pic of her man's cess pool of a shower, along with a photo of it after she cleaned it - and then on top of it all she laid the entire blame for his filth on his ex, the woman who had left his nasty ass two years prior.
Nothing bothers me quite like women gaslighting other women.

rednopal · 2021-05-25T19:57:08+00:00

This is sick. It’s like war propaganda

CashMoneyCarrots · 2021-05-25T20:02:35+00:00

Can we stop posting people’s profile pictures? This is the second post I’ve seen this week that has the person’s picture. Hopefully mods will make this a rule, idk.

Lavender_flow · 2021-05-25T20:15:56+00:00

As if this statement alone is not enough to show how much of an idiot this person is, the spelling definitely cements this fact. "U" 🤣🤡🤡

2021-05-25T21:01:39+00:00

Imagine my bisexual ass using this reasoning on a partner of mine ?

I should have just cheated on all my BFs saying they didn’t have boobs and pussies according to this woman ( lot of them sucked in bed). I am now with a woman but we could always use our strap on if I am missing men 🌚

Hikari3747 · 2021-05-25T20:52:26+00:00

Why stay if he clearly like someone else?

/s it would be cruel to force him to stay, when you can't give him what he wants

sassyheather · 2021-05-25T21:23:10+00:00

My boyfriend saw that, raised his eyebrows and said “I don’t get it”. I don’t get it either, love, it’s some sort of elvish. Miss me with that bs.

Witchy-Woods · 2021-05-25T21:46:16+00:00

honestly this is so bizarre that it made me laugh

asupernova91 · 2021-05-25T23:01:41+00:00

I think I just threw up in my mouth.

kycake · 2021-05-25T23:19:18+00:00

this is what i always say to all the men i cheat on. "don't get bitter, get better. he had something u don't so of course i cheated. u should apologize to me and be a better man from now on" strangely i've yet to have a male partner who blamed himself for my cheating. maybe we'll get there, hopefully.

on a real note, seeing women post bullshit like that is so infuriating. like we don't shame and abuse women enough, let's now make them take responsibility for some males deprived abusive behavior, oh sure. maybe consider unfriending this woman?

Title	A woman I know shared this...😬
Author	RoyalStay
Upvotes	272
Comments	74
Date	May 25, 2021 3:44 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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