Reject pornification and leave your pubic hair alone. It has a purpose, a job to do and it's healthy to keep it

freshpicked12 · 2021-04-21T23:26:24+00:00

Don’t even get me started on the amount of women that get Brazilians before giving birth. Like, you’re pushing a baby the size of a watermelon out your vagina and you’re worried that the doctor is going to see your pubic hair?! Girl, no.

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2021-04-21T20:09:30+00:00

Oh my god, this! I was a college student/young adult in the late 90s, early 00s, and the pressure to be bald as a newborn back then was insane. I never shaved further than my bikini line (i think it looks weird), but i had scrotes who would say shit like “i’ve never dated a girl who didn’t shave her bush before”, including one ZVM who wanted to shave off my pubes off with his electric razor (i had told him i didn’t shave because it leaves micro abrasions on the skin that can become infected—and it does: i knew a girl who got a MRSA infection from shaving her pubes, and had to have part of her butt cored out). I said “okay, but only if i can use it to shave that pelt of hair covering your ass” (he had no chest hair, but had the hairiest ass i’ve ever seen—looked like he was wearing furry boxers). He immediately looked disgusted “wait a minute. You want to shave my ass? Never mind, that’s weird.”

ketodietclub · 2021-04-21T21:20:20+00:00

Pubic hair removal naturally irritates and inflames the hair follicles left behind,

Can confirm, the one time I shaved I had the worst rash in history. Never again.

QueenIdia · 2021-04-21T20:10:14+00:00

I agree a 100 percent. I stopped waxing a long long time ago. I trim/shave occasionally to keep the area looking "neat". I have had no complaints so far, and I wouldn't give a damn if I do get a complaint. In fact, it would be grounds for instant disqualification of the man. The only person who is allowed to have an opinion on such an intimate part of my body is me.

amhran_oiche · 2021-04-21T20:54:16+00:00

This is a good article, but the line at the top listing reasons we shave includes "desire to return to childhood."

Girl just say pedophilia. 🙄

anotherdamnloser · 2021-04-21T22:46:25+00:00

Yeah I like to trim esp when it’s hot and for my period. I’ll never go bald - never have been! I just trim when I want. I’d never go bald for a dude unless he went bald first LOL! And you know those cry babies won’t!

Mcccy · 2021-04-21T21:05:06+00:00

This guy's comment had me dead:

"Surely all men shouldn't save their faces for the same reason? But we do to improve to chances of mating. Peacocks should all scrap nice tail feathers too I would guess. Why is every article in the Guardian pretty much against natural selection?"

🤡🤡

Papaverinum · 2021-04-21T22:06:41+00:00

75% of teen boys doesn't know that women actually have hair on other places than just head. Horrible

lolmemberberries · 2021-04-21T23:24:25+00:00

I ditched the dude who pressured me to always be as bald as a Q Ball down there in my early twenties. Since then, I've kept it around and trim/keep it washed and clean. I haven't been with anyone who has had a problem with it since. I've also found I enjoy sex a lot more when I don't shave. It's a good vetting strategy. If someone has a problem with how you are grooming your genitals that are clean and healthy, ditch them.

jasmine-blossom · 2021-04-22T01:21:40+00:00

For women like me who prefer to be very closely trimmed, but don’t want to use a razor to shave bc of micro cuts, ingrown hairs, etc....I highly recommend the philips norelco oneblade electric trimmer and shaver. It’s a men’s facial grooming electrics shaver but it’s fantastic and I have never nicked myself with it.

Protoetype · 2021-04-22T00:16:47+00:00

One awesome thing about struggling with self care my entire life is that I could never be bothered to shave and I just shrug and say fuck it.

I will occasionally shave my pits and legs like the one time I was in a wedding. I wasn't gonna upstage the bride by flashing my fuzzy pits to all the pearl clutchers.

Charming-Bee-2337 · 2021-04-21T21:06:28+00:00

I used to do this as soon as I started getting pubic hair and stopped a few years ago. Now I think its very weird and honestly pedophilic. But even besides that it feels soo much nicer and more comfortable not shaven.

katthekanuck · 2021-04-21T21:00:02+00:00

I shave only because of my period. I tried to go off it a while back but when my period came it was...an absolute mess. I’d much rather deal with the annoyance of careful grooming than go through that disaster again. 🤢

jasmine-blossom · 2021-04-22T01:14:28+00:00

A lot of people have recently been saying that there was another study that says that it doesn’t protect you and that it’s actually better to remove the hair, but that study was based on a sample size of like 450 people and the sample size for the study that says that it is bad to remove pubic hair has a sample size of over 1000, I think it was close to 2000. So I just wanted to put that out there because you’ll see a lot of people claiming that the old study is bad and the new study is good, but nobody’s looking at the sample sizes for these studies.

Throwawayrightaway28 · 2021-04-21T21:40:55+00:00

I shave in the summer because I live in the most humid place on earth, literally 100% humidity and temps of above 100 from June-August. Right now it’s above 90. I’ve never shaved my legs but I do my pits and pubic area every couple weeks because if you step outside here, you’re drenched in sweat. It would be far too gross for me if I didn’t shave.

persephonepleas · 2021-04-22T02:26:18+00:00

LONG LIVE FEMALE PUBIC HAIR!

LeanMeanIceQueen · 2021-04-22T10:55:16+00:00

Y'all- I don't even shave my legs or underarms any more. And guess what- the men I choose to be with have no issue with it! It's a great way to vet out vain and pornsick dudes. And I save money on never buying a razor again!

licoricespicedtea · 2021-04-21T20:24:07+00:00

I’ve noticed a similar thing with my legs. Especially when it’s winter and my skin is dry anyway, shaving my legs wrecks their skin barrier and I get so many micro-cuts and ingrown hairs. Since I stopped 4 months ago my skin has been so much happier and they don’t feel itchy in tights since they’re past the prickly phase.

I do shave my pubes though, I just find it more comfortable personally. And for some reason that skin is 100x more resilient than my leg skin.

2021-04-22T04:18:10+00:00

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Stuffnthings1840 · 2021-04-22T06:14:41+00:00

I have stopped shaving completely. My life hasn't changed in the slightest.

missgelassenheit · 2021-04-22T19:15:26+00:00

I have had mine grown out for the past year and I love how it looks and feels so much more. It adds pizazz

calico_moon · 2021-04-22T00:46:04+00:00

I always hated shaving, stopping was such a great decision. I was told by a friend that your hair is part of your body, just like your fingers or legs. Cutting it is like cutting off a piece of you, keeping it helps to balance you spiritually and keep yourself whole. Once I stopped shaving I had to agree. I feel so beautiful being natural and I am SO proud of my armpit hair in particular(:

margot96 · 2021-04-21T23:49:51+00:00

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___alchemy · 2021-04-22T18:38:39+00:00

Just think of all the extremely disgusting and debauched things men watch in porn. They get off watching prolapsed anuses. Just think. Spitting on crotches, crying women with smeared mascara gargling and almost vomiting from being orally raped. Urine. Scat. Torture porn.

All "sexy" in the eyes of men. "Kinky".

But OMG an adult female with natural body hair? The horror! Disgusting! Gross! Can't perform! Would never!

The lies men tell, to women and themselves. These types of men just get off on subjugating women. It's not about an actual "ick" factor, cause that doesn't bother them when it comes to watching anal fisting or incest porn. It's just about telling women to do things they wouldn't naturally want to do.

Oh, and the pedos of course. It's obvious why those prefer it shaved.

cmil7731 · 2021-04-22T02:13:47+00:00

Ugh I lasered everything off when I was in my mid-20s because my LV-ex husband liked it (and I hated the ingrowns that came with waxing). I am so sad I can’t grow more than baby fluff there now. I want to look like a woman!

Title	Reject pornification and leave your pubic hair alone. It has a purpose, a job to do and it's healthy to keep it
Author	Lykah
Upvotes	417
Comments	80
Date	April 21, 2021 7:43 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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