I'm so fucked up. I go to work in an office. Majority female. I've only ever been chummy and polite and as 'dad jokey' as I can be. Today a female higher up enters the officefloor and asks if 'ive' been using the female toilets because the toilet seat was up when she went in followed by cold death stairs from the entire room of woman. She justified this on the grounds that it's a boy thing when there are other men on site in higher management/ labouring areas. I felt singled out and pointed at as though I've been a pervert. I was so shocked that I said nothing and looked around for help. Luckily a female coworker suggested it could've been the cleaner but I feel like it would've done irreparable damage to my reputation. On top of this it's important to note that I work in a highly toxic powered driven company in general before even assessing societies breakdown of gender acceptance. So basically to point out the toxicity that's been sent at me would also put a target on my back for even having a say. Im ridden with guilt for doing nothing because I firmly believe in being as much of a gentleman to woman in the workplace as possible. I want to fucking die over this.