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"Males cannot be raped" (Warning: This might upset you)

anarchists_R_enemies
July 27, 2013
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Title "Males cannot be raped" (Warning: This might upset you)
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anarchists_R_enemies
Upvotes 1395
Comments 322
Date July 27, 2013 3:35 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1j5wer/males_cannot_be_raped_warning_this_might_upset_you/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/males-cannot-be-raped-warning-this-might-upset-you.1167800
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Top posts by anarchists_R_enemies

Ricky Gervais nails it. He perfectly demonstrates how silly the idea is that people need to be reminded not to rape.

130 upvotes
August 19, 2013
/r/MensRights

Just some sexism on MSNBC

109 upvotes
October 14, 2013
/r/MensRights

TIL men never need to pack a back. They also don't have to be cautious because they're never the victims of violence.

94 upvotes
September 23, 2013
/r/MensRights

Only murder cases that involve a man killing a woman are important, so let's ignore all others in our shocking statistic.

62 upvotes
October 26, 2013
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Comments

[–][deleted] 652 points653 points654 points 13 years ago (110 children) | Copy Link

It's an anti-violence commercial. A great one. Just wanted to point out it is played by actors.

[–]anarchists_R_enemies[S] 269 points270 points271 points 13 years ago (82 children) | Copy Link

Thank you. I didn't know that. This makes me less upset.

[+][deleted] 13 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

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[–]JamesRussellSr 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

You can do this in a men's bathroom as long as manbits are out of frame.

[–]yul_brynner 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

What country are you from?

[–]Blatherskank 19 points20 points21 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Manchesthair.

[–]Sindibadass 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

ha....I laughed.

[–]JamesRussellSr 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

The good ole USA. I was fought drinking out of a flask. I wasn't drunk, it was in a coat pocket the whole time.

[–]k1ngm1nu5 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Do you know about women's bathrooms?

[–]JamesRussellSr 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

The only thing I know about women's bathrooms is that they are nicer than men's.

[–]gatonekko 18 points19 points20 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Boy oh boy, you have not been inside a women's bathroom if you believe that.

[–]Meatwadrolls8 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

i work at a gas station. oh the horrors i have cleaned in the dreaded girl's bathroom.

[–]yul_brynner 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Oh fuck no! I worked for a pretty snooty financial company.

There were constant complaints being lodged about how the female toilets were a disgrace. Tampons all over the place, shite smeared up the wall and complaints of the smell reaching office workers that sat in the desks closest to the toilets. The mens, on the other hand, were pretty pristine. One time, I had the shits real bad and I swear I felt bad, because it was a great toilet (marble floor, fancy sinks, expensive looking porcelain dumpsters).

This happened on more than one floor. Some people literally just don't give a fuck and from experience, woman are scandalously bad for fucking up toilets.

[–]DachWuff 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

They seem to prefer to hover and not flush. It makes no sense other than having to hover because other ladies hovered and pissed all over the seat. Mall ladies room from what I hear are horrid because women bring small boys with them who pee EVERYWHERE. And the moms don't care because it's already messed up.

[–]yul_brynner1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Yeah, totally.

It's just fucking laziness. These entitled moms are another thing. I used to work in restaurants & retail. The fucking men were all fine for the most part, but the

Mom shopper: Why is it so hot in here!?!?

Me:I'm sorry, ma'am, but the air conditioning isn't working.

Mom Shopper: OMG HOW DARE YOU TALK TO ME LIKE THIS, WHERE'S THE MANAGER?

They are also the only ones, when at 16, essentially would say to me things like, "Why are you working here lol, don't you hate it?"

No, I just hate you

[–]GhostBeezer 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They may start out nicer than men's...

[–]k1ngm1nu5 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I will admit to accidentally having gone into them once or twice, and they are without a doubt much nicer than the men's.

[–]ObsidianOverlord 12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I clean them, they really aren't.

[–]The_Original_Gronkie3 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Oh, come on, I've heard about the ladies room. They have a piano bar with complimentary drinks served by muscular men in skimpy attire, massages, a hot tub, etc.

[–]VegetarianZombie1 102 points103 points104 points 13 years ago (62 children) | Copy Link

It still happens. I'm still upset.

[–]anarchists_R_enemies[S] 50 points51 points52 points 13 years ago (24 children) | Copy Link

Me too. Just a tiny bit less now that I know that at least the boy from my OP wasn't actually hurt.

[–]Offensive_Brute 11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link

to be fair, those slaps probably landed and probably hurt, but he gave consent and was compensated.

[–]SuperMegaCoolPerson 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Does anyone else realize that this attitude of "It's not real, it didn't happen, but because it does happen somewhere I am upset" is the same attitude that enables false rape accusations to be acceptable in society?

[–]Offensive_Brute 12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I dont think other people realize that because theres a big difference between the two. Theres a massive misstep in reason between being mad about a commercial and being aware of the reality of the subject matter, and trying to lock an innocent person away for some one else somewhere elses crime.

[–]SuperMegaCoolPerson -3 points-2 points-1 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I recognize that there is a huge difference in the actual action. It's the mentality that I am talking about.

[–]kurzwaffle 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But without that, we'd not have acting. We empathize with imaginary situations that emulate reality.

[–]Offensive_Brute 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

do you think its unfounded to be upset? Like if you're watching a movie about some atrocity in some country. The movie is fiction, but the atrocity is real, isn't being upset about it reasonable? I think there is a big difference in the mentality too. That difference is irrationality.

[–]mdoddr -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don Cheadle is an actor not a hotel in Rwanda

[–]skyeliam 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sorry for reawakening this after 3 months, but those are two very different scenarios.
I can be upset by reenactments of things, simply because they happen[ed]. Watching a war movie and seeing soldiers die may upset me, thus making me a more sympathetic person. If a person is upset by this video, it makes them more sympathetic to victims of rape, and alerts them to the issue of woman-perpetrated rape.
False rape accusations are the result of society accepting testimonial evidence as a basis for proving rape and giving the benefit of the doubt to women. Unfortunately stopping false rape accusations is difficult. The best way would be to not accept testimonies as the sole form of proof. However, in most cases of rape, testimonial and circumstantial evidence is all that is available. We could also start charging people who falsely accuse others of rape. This has the downside of discourage victims from pressing charges, for if the [guilty] perpetrator is acquitted, then the victim is now open to charges. It would also dissuade victims who falsely accused from recanting, and thus freeing the accused, for concern over their own well-being.

[–]anarchists_R_enemies[S] 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You really think so? It's not hard to choreograph a fake slap so I see no reason why the actress would have actually hit him.

[+]Offensive_Brute -14 points-13 points-12 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

why the hell not? I'd rather have some one slap me for money than to have to rehearse a choreographed slap. Lets just get this shit over with and get me paid.

[–]anarchists_R_enemies[S] -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That might get a little bit frustrating after the 20th take. :P

[–]Offensive_Brute -2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you use a real slap, the likelihood that you need more than one take diminishes greatly. You dont have to package and sell a real reaction the way you do with a fake one. A common trick for directors to get proper emotional responses from actors is dropping bombs on them in the moment.

[–]SpncDgg 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

They are actors.... There was no contact.

[–]Offensive_Brute 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

do you really think thats how it works?

[–]SpncDgg 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Uhhhmmm... Yeah. I know that's how it works, as a matter of fact. I am an actor and stage manager and many people I know get work within the industry doing commercials and PSA's. but that's beside the point. Do you think that actors actually hit each other? So you really think an agent would let their actors damage their faces? It's called stage combat.

[+]Offensive_Brute -10 points-9 points-8 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Its a slap in the face. Not a punch, not a stabbing, just a slap. Why not make it authentic?

[–]SpncDgg 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Because that is dangerous. Plain and simply. Slaps can be one of the most painful and dangerous things to screw up, if you miss and box someone's ear, that can permanently damage hearing. In my first combat course we spent 4 hours learning just slaps and the different varieties.

[–]Lokrye-2 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I don't think you're an actor and a stage manager. Or you're a real uptight one. Even in blockbusters accidental or unscripted or improvised contact happens. I think you're in a world of your own, good sir.

[–]HugsAllCats4 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Because something accidental occasionally happens, that means that it is okay for it to always happen?

[–]Lokrye-2 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

...

[–]SpncDgg2 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Lol, call it uptight, but I prefer safety myself. And seeing as I learned these practices, I wouldn't consider it my own world.

[–]Offensive_Brute-4 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I never realized slapping could be so dangerous. Don't take the training wheels off your bike!

[–]mdoddr 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Okay, good go guys, let's do a few more takes. Remember slap him 4 times in a row. REAL SLAPS!!!!"

Like the guys face wouldn't be spaghetti by the end. No, the slaps have to be real for the PSA.

they aren't making citizen kane for christ's sake. They're fake slaps.

[–]Lokrye 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't know why you're being downvoted. As someone that works in the film industry, real contact happens all the time.

[–]poloppoyop 24 points25 points26 points 13 years ago (36 children) | Copy Link

Hence why I usually let people know around me that women initiating a fight = I'm not going down w/o fighting back. And that I go for the eyes, larynx and liver first.

[–]Anon9742 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Why liver?

[–]johnmarkley 15 points16 points17 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's a big, sensitive organ with a lot of nerves running through it, and vulnerable because it extends below the rib cage. Hurts like a bastard, comparable to be being hit in the groin, and the shock to the autonomic nervous system can cause a drop in heart rate that robs you of the energy to continue fighting.

[–]muchachomalo 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I always wondered why people like to eat liver myself they say it is very healthy though.

[–]DachWuff 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you can punch the liver they tend to go down. It's a great way to sneak a knockout in boxing.

[–]lankydude1000 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't have to hit somebody hard in the liver to incapacitate them, it essentially filters the whole of the blood (except for water, which the kidneys do). Shut down the body's filtration system and you can't get rid of toxins for example. :)

[–]Anth741 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I mean, if you're in a position where a woman, or anyone, is starting a fight with you enough to have some sort of "usually" mentality, you should probably take a few minutes to think about some of the choices you've made.

[–]poloppoyop 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The "usually" word was refering to the fact of letting people that I'm not gonna offer the other cheek. I guess it is one of the reasons I usually don't end up in a fight.

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[–]Offensive_Brute 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Pussy Beggars.

[–]sixtrees 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Beta? Grow up, this type of terminology colors you as someone who follows pickup artist nonsense.

[–]herbandmargie -2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You shame pick up artists...why?

[–]Embogenous[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because it's shameful and they're just being honest.

[–]Octagonecologyst -3 points-2 points-1 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Terms like beta having nothing to do with PUA communities, you pathetic cretin.

[–]sixtrees -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Funny how the guys who buy into the silly pickup artist method of dating are the only ones who seem to use the term.

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[–]sixtrees 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Hahaahaaa, you sure showed me, internet tough guy.

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[–]sixtrees -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Hahaahaaa! Hillarious stuff, keep it coming. Have you considered trying out for the internet tough guy olympics? Don't worry you won't have to travel, it takes place in your mom's basement, or wherever your sad existence takes place.

[–]Lokrye1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

lol. Wish I could have seen his comments.

[–]sixtrees0 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Oh, nothing very original. Just insulting my abilities to please women sexually. And how my significant other needs a real man, etc.

[–]KikiCVIII -13 points-12 points-11 points 13 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Or, you know, some men know they can handle a women without having to fight her.

[–]ihardTroll 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I got hard.

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[–]businesstimemod[M] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

I'm giving you a warning for this comment and this one.

[+]Octagonecologyst -18 points-17 points-16 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Just fuck off.

[–]Kutharos 11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

You have a link for the video? I would like to see it.

[–]Aurum115 15 points16 points17 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Here is the link

I posted this a couple months ago on /r/MensRights

[–]phySi0 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I must learn [from her], and see if my husband [or boyfriend] will ever dare to say “no” again in the future~~~ haha.

Wow!

[–]Dreoh 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The comments on that link are just ridiculous.

[–]la-dirty-cuban 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for the link

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No, sorry. Perhaps someone could help with that?

[–]YoungZer0 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank god. Very much less upset now.

[–]Clausewitz1996 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Link?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There you go. Thx to the user Boethias:

http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1j5wer/males_cannot_be_raped_warning_this_might_upset_you/cbbfmfo

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[–]Ohanian_is_a_tool 13 points14 points15 points 13 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

keep talking kid, I'm sure it won't take long for you to get kicked outa the sub :). Of course, talking is all you are good for :).

[–]Bodertz 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

You shouldn't get worked up over morons on the internet. Just ignore them and move on. Unless you're having fun, in which case, have at it :)

[–]Ohanian_is_a_tool 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

lol sorry if it seemed I was worked up, I was honestly hoping to get him agitated. I'm fine, thanks though! :)

[–]Bodertz 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Jesus. I just realized five comments in a row ended in a smiley. They're freaking me out, man.

[–]Ohanian_is_a_tool 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

ha ha ha yah, that started getting over the top.

[–]zerostr 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

;)

[+]maybedeadsoon -18 points-17 points-16 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Funny it's just you who got worked up.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

So... Are you trolling for negative karma or are you serious? You're the stereotype of an edgy teen on reddit. Serious question though.

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[–][deleted]1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

The part where you were an edgy teen on reddit. I'm not going to talk logic to you, or facts. Because after reading your comment history, its obvious you're familiar with neither. I only asked because you seemed to trollish to be true.

[–]Ohanian_is_a_tool 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

look who's back! Where did you go kid? You still aint dead, that's a disappointing turn of events.

[+]tenhotuisku -9 points-8 points-7 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

ITT people who don't even lift

[–]Boethias 137 points138 points139 points 13 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

This was part of an anti-violence campaign back in 2010 by a Danish non-profit. The campaign is called The bitch hits back.

Here it is in full.

And a couple more:

The bitch hits back #2

The bitch hits back #1

[–]AlchemyPhoenix 33 points34 points35 points 13 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

Seems a bit over the top. I'd actually appreciate it more if it were a bit more muted and believable. That girl is a cartoon villain.

[–]dalsgaard 76 points77 points78 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

It's meant to be over the top. The anti-violence campaign was originally created around the website www.thebitchhitsback.dk - a website seemingly dedicated to people who like to watch women beat up guys. It contains videos like the one in the gif with actors playing out the scenes, and they are all pretty tough to watch.

After staying on the website for a while, a big banner pops up on the page with the words: "Busted. Violence isn't entertainment". It then redirects you to a stop family violence webpage, where you're greeted with the following words: " Sorry, but partner violence isn't entertainment. It's bloody serious no matter who hits who. So if you suspect that someone in your family or in your social circle are exposed to partner violence, don't just sit by passively - react immediately".

It's meant to break the illussion that only men commit physical violence in relationships. I honestly don't like the organization behind this campaign, but the campaign itself is very effective viral marketing, and overall I think it has had a lot of positive results.

[–]Mad_Sconnie 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Wonder if they realize that that seems a lot like a fetish site.

[–]Bodertz 12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Eh, wasn't that the point?

[–]Shiroke 16 points17 points18 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Seems like it.

What better way to bait rad fems and misandrists than showing a video of a male being beat up? There are tons of situations that people only thin are fucked up on one side, so it's interesting to see how much they care when the table is flipped.

For example, that video of the black woman that pepper sprays the white guy after taking time out of her day to kind of be a massive bitch after he cut her in line at a gas station.

[–]AustNerevar 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So it's posing as a fetish site??

That's a little stupid. They are rickrolling people trying to get off. I mean, don't get me wrong, the message is right, but it's aimed at the wrong audience.

I mean, Hell, I get off on femdom porn, always have. But that doesn't mean I approve of domestic violence.

Violent sexual fantasy and real life violence are not the same things.

[–]frankie_q 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's meant to break the illussion that only men commit physical violence in relationships.

And yet elsewhere on their website we have this gem:

Approximately 40 percent of all the girls and young women who experience violence during childhood also accept violence in their later relationships. About 50 percent of the boys, who grow up in an abusive home act out with violent behavior towards a girlfriend or a family member.

[–]dalsgaard 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep. But they have improved. Only a couple of months ago when you visited the website, and you clicked a link called "Are you a boy?", you were directed to a video of some coach talking about how boys need to work on their anger problems. That was absolutely horrendous. I wrote them an e-mail about how frustrating it was to see that, as a guy who has been the victim of partner violence. There is nothing worse than trying to seek help, and then find that all ressources are assuming that you are the agressor. It invalidates all you feel, and makes it even harder to step forward and find help as a boy who is a victim of violence.

I wrote them an e-mail about how problematic it was, and it seems that they have now removed the video. But what you mention is the reason I'm not too happy about the organization behind it. They are terribly behind the curve.

[–]ILoveHate 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

You should see the anti DV ad of a man eating breakfast with his kids.

In case you're curious.

[–]Lokrye 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

holy shit

[–]Ekekekeptangyazingni3 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Particularly when she comes back equipped with some kind of giant post and beats his ass into the ground.

It is a little over the top, but I get what they're going for.

[–]Hamakua 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Have you seen the tantrum video?

[–]Doobz87 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't get the name of it. I didn't see any of the bitches hit back.

[–]MS2point0 126 points127 points128 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

What's with all the SRS comments in here?

[–]nigglereddit 125 points126 points127 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

False flags and poes.

They brigade threads like this one to create "proof" that MRAs have unacceptable opinions about rape. All that happens is that the members here, who are of course universally opposed to rape no matter the genders of those involved, down vote them and this prove that they're wrong.

It's good that you've pointed out who's responsible though, thanks.

[–]Redskull673 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The down-vote brigade strike again!

[–]iluuuuuvbakon 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

SRS? I see maybe one pink RES tag but I think the trolls are mostly from Manhood Academy.

[–]ElfmanLV 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

How do you tag SRSers as pink?

[–]iluuuuuvbakon 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You need to have Reddit Enahncement Suite installed first. There will be a little tag icon next to any username that gives a menu like this when clicked where you can enter whatever you like in the tag field then select a color.

Since tagging manually can take forever and a day, somebody made an online tool which can compile a list of tags per subreddit automatically then following the instructions exactly, you copy-paste the list to your own RES tags.

[–]greatestbass 53 points54 points55 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The view I run across frequently seems to go like this... Women can be raped by just making them feel uncomfortable or if they regret sex later. Men could only be raped through intercourse, and that means the guy had a boner, which means he liked it, so it must have been consensual.

[+]Keiichi81 13 years ago* [recovered] (52 children) | Copy Link

When a man is physically aggressive with a woman:

"RAAAAAPE!"
"Misogynist pig!"
"NO MEANS NO!"
"A woman's body is sacred and no man has the right to force himself on her!"

When a woman is physically aggressive with a man:

"He probably likes it rough."
"If a man can't fend off a woman then he's not really a man."
"It's just some aggressive foreplay."
"What, are you a fag?"

And that's why Men's Rights exists. Because feminists sure as shit aren't looking out for us.

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[–]YetAnotherCommenter 10 points11 points12 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Those feminists who contribute to this subreddit are awesome.

But, unfortunately, those feminists are not in control of the powerful feminist institutions like academic departments, lobby groups, etc.

Which absolutely sucks. But, unfortunately, it means there is a split between Dictionary-Definition-Feminism (i.e. a belief in the equality of the sexes) and the official feminist movement.

Generally, when "feminists" is used here, its the official feminist movement which is being talked about... not everyone-who-accepts-the-label-of-'feminist'.

[+]glassuser -25 points-24 points-23 points 13 years ago (39 children) | Copy Link

I don't think you know what a feminist is.

[+]allnutty 13 years ago [recovered] (38 children) | Copy Link

Not exactly. An actual feminist is one who sees herself as equal to man and strives to do so. She doesn't consider her self better than him, but his equal. However, modern day, a lot of militant feminists.. if that is the correct phrase, see themselves as better than men. It depends on the setting, you can still be feminist and defend a man's rights.

[–]StuntPotato 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

To me it feels like what you said should be true, but it isn't. Somewhere it turned into advancing the female sex at any cost. Child custody cases are one glaring example. Or the use of he/she when describing generic domestic violence. Abuser is male and abusee is female, always. Or the headlines saying the men, as a group, should be ashamed because rape is every mans fault ever.

Glanced over SRS and it didn't exactly change my mind.

tl;dr feminism are no longer about equality.

:(

[–]imanedrn 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just because some women arent advancing the cause appropriately doesnt mean that's what it is or should be. That's an ivalid stereotype, just like saying men dont get raped.

As an aside, i'm a woman who willingly paid alimony without legal obligation.

[–]glassuser 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

An actual feminist is one who sees herself as equal to man and strives to do so.

Lol that's not a feminist. That's an egalitarian.

[+]Offensive_Brute -11 points-10 points-9 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thats not an egalitarian, thats a delusional bitch.

[–]k1ngm1nu5 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think you misunderstood that.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

An "actual" feminist? More like an exceptional one.

[–]Wikmeister 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No, the problem with modern feminism is the distinction between definition and reality.

[–]EnuffDakka 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (26 children) | Copy Link

sigh

Sadly, so many real feminists still call themselves feminists. Unfortunately for them, the second and third waves happened, which permanently blighted the word.

As it stands, if you are a woman who lives in the Western world, feminism already worked for you. Probably before you were born.

[+]TomBurlinson -13 points-12 points-11 points 13 years ago (25 children) | Copy Link

2nd and 3rd wave feminism helped a lot of women of different genders and sexualities as well as social sexism(2nd wave) whereas 1st wave was about institutional sexism and ethnic minority women were helped by 3rd wave feminism. and 2nd and 3rd wave also fought for bodily autonomy (right to abortions etc) so actually they did good rather than blight the world. as usual with social/economic etc etc groups there is a vocal minority that fucks up how everyone else views the whole group.

in short. shut up.

[–]EnuffDakka 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Shut up? Fuck you.

In short, you simpering, condescending twit, it is the vocal part of a group that defines it. Whatever good was done by the second and third waves was done in increments by otherwise irrelevant people who were not even necessarily part of those movements.

As it stands, the vocal minority of the second and third waves have propagated as much hate, vitriol, and slander as any other extremist group.

Do not attempt to gimp together a response if it as virtually-illegible as what you just wrote. Whenever you feel like responding as an English-fluent adult, be my quest.

And another thing: "word" is not the same thing as "world," you ignorant, dyslexic child.

[–]Leveroneh 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

One thing "quest" is not the same thing as "guest".

[–]EnuffDakka 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Mine was a typo. Tom based his response on the idea of feminism fucking up the world.

[–]Offensive_Brute -3 points-2 points-1 points 13 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link

ah the right to murder your own offspring. The hallmark of modern feminism.

[–]glassuser -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link

Choice for everyone, at least until we're talking about someone other than me!

[–]Offensive_Brute -3 points-2 points-1 points 13 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link

No. No one gets to choose to murder a baby.

[–]UninformedDownVoter 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Third trimester abortions are illegal: ie when one would consider the transformation from fetus to "baby" to have occurred.

[–]k1ngm1nu51 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Just because they are illegal doesn't mean they should be. We need to be able to measure consciousness (dunno if that's the right word) in the brain to determine when it happens.

[–]glassuser -5 points-4 points-3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I keep trying to ask why they call themselves "pro choice" when nobody is giving a choice to the one getting killed.

[–]k1ngm1nu50 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Neither are the anti-choice people, but your point is irrelevant for the same reasons you keep suicidal people from killing themselves, even when they want to die.

[–]k1ngm1nu5 -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

That's absolutely true, but unfortunately for you, we aren't talking about babies, we're talking about fetuses.

[–]Offensive_Brute0 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Calling a baby a fetus is like calling a jew a kike or a black person a nigger. Its just slurs meant to dehumanize the victim.

[–]k1ngm1nu51 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

There is no victim; not letting the abortion take place creates a victim, the mother. I respect your choice to not have an abortion, but don't try to force it on others by citing biased opinions and/or quite frankly stupidly inaccurate or even worse religion-based propagandized literature that has been categorically proven false time after time in scientific settings.

Fetus is not a slur, it is a scientific term for an undeveloped animal growing inside the uterus of the mother (think that's the right part).

I refuse to take your point in the least bit serious unless you are vegetarian and actively protest against hunting any kind of animal.

[–]Offensive_Brute-1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

False. Life begins at conception.

[–]k1ngm1nu51 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Due to a lack if scientific evidence, you can't say that as much I also can't say it doesn't. We just don't know when it starts.

[–]Offensive_Brute-1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Thats a commonly held believe thats simply not true. Once the two sets of chromasomes are made one, a new and distinct being begins its existence. That fact is just inconvenient for the blood thirsty baby murderers, so they try to muddy the water by claiming that there is some confusion. That confusion is 100%manufactured for political reasons. Medical science acknowledges life at conception, and it has consistently for many many years.

Before you start off, on the " but if its only one cell..." Single cell life forms are life, and this particular single cell life form is made up of human genetic material, and is therefore human life.

[–]k1ngm1nu51 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Yes, you are right that single cell creatures are considered life. That's true, but all those single cell creatures will only ever have one cell, and furthermore, unless you fight the bacterial genocide machine that is hand sanitizer, you're just fine with killing single cell organisms.

I'd like source on your first point. I don't care if its wikipedia or an actual study, just a source.

[–]Offensive_Brute-1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

here, have list of sources.

http://www.princeton.edu/~prolife/articles/embryoquotes2.html

right, but not human life. Hygiene serves a greater purpose than the whims of one washing her hands.

[–]k1ngm1nu51 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

From that source, third down:

"Embryo: the developing organism from the time of fertilization until significant differentiation has occurred, when the organism becomes known as a fetus." [Cloning Human Beings. Report and Recommendations of the National Bioethics Advisory Commission. Rockville, MD: GPO, 1997, Appendix-2.]

Which is the opposite of what you were saying before. And that's the full quote. As long as you use that a source, so will I, if you don't mind.

[–]k1ngm1nu51 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Oh, another thing. If I make a new set of chromosomes in a lab, and it could develop further, is that life?

[–]Offensive_Brute1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

How is that the opposite of what I'm saying. the source was meant to argue that life begins at conception, and this quote supports that claim by identifying the Embryo as an organism, i.e. life.

The only thing that I would argue there with is "significant differentiation". My argument would be that having 23 chromosomes that are different from the mother, is significant differentiation enough, and constitutes a human individual in the most basic sense.

[–]k1ngm1nu51 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It says it is a fetus. That's how.

And could you expand on that second part? I'm not sure I understand what you're saying.

[–]Offensive_Brute1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I'm saying that the unique combination of chromosomes you inherit from both parents is the very essence of your person, and the instant that combination comes into existence, "you" become an individual human being. Whether you have one cell, 100,000 Billion or 10 trillion cells is besides the point, and whether you live in your moms body, or in her apartment, or on the international space station in a pitri dish is also irrelevant. You are human life.

[–]k1ngm1nu51 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

But I don't think so. If that were true, then dead bodies would could still be considered "alive" in the same sense you consider a fetus to be alive (especially if you can call a petri dish home).

Also, this is getting a little bit into nature vs nurture. Which I am just fine with, but I tend to be on the nurture side more. Genetics determine things about your body, but your experiences shape your mind, and that is what makes a person a person, IMO. If you took your brain out, and plugged it into something to keep it alive and functioning, then you would still be alive and a human being, even if the rest of you is a computer. Of course, a lot of people disagree with me on that, so if you feel differently, that's fine and I respect that. The brain is almost all nurture. Twins are proof of this. Now, there can certainly be genetic bottlenecks like autism or down syndrome, but besides that, its all about how you develop and think.

One thing that is important to me, though, is that this is all opinion, so if you could not force this in us and allow abortions, even if you wouldn't have one yourself, that would be great. I realize that's asking a lot, and I can see why you wouldn't, and that's OK, I can't tell you what to do as much you you can't tell me what to do, and I don't expect you to change your opinion based on this. I know I wouldn't change my mind if I were you. But I think letting people choose for themselves makes sense.

Thanks for the debate, it was fun. I'm busy for a while, but if you want to pm me and keep debating, I'd certainly be up for that. Have a nice day, sir.

[–]Offensive_Brute1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

No i think we're good here. see ya around.

[–]YetAnotherCommenter 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

An actual feminist is one who sees herself as equal to man and strives to do so.

So, by "actual feminist" you mean "Dictionary-Definition-Feminist" right?

Then, unfortunately, the substantial majority of influential persons who call themselves "feminists" are not actual feminists.

This doesn't negate the contributions of actual feminists in any way. However, it does speak to a disturbing and IMO systemic problem within feminism... specifically, that the feminist movement's leaders, lobbies and opinion-makers have rejected Dictionary-Definition-Feminism in favor of militant feminism (to use your phrase).

[–]theskepticalidealist -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ahh yes the mythological feminists we never see any evidence truly exist but only hear about in fairy tales told by those defending feminism

[–]Offensive_Brute -3 points-2 points-1 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thats The Jesus Christ of feminism. Thats the ideal that feminists are supposed to strive for, but thats hardly the reality of it. The victim mentality and modern concepts of social justice allow for the mental gymnastics required to consider acts that generate inequality as just.

[+]Offensive_Brute -10 points-9 points-8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Are we counting the transgender "women"? Male feminists? Or just the straight up born with a vag female feminists? I think theres like 4 hat actually make positive contributions here on a regular basis.

[+]BrambleEdge -10 points-9 points-8 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

And how much better off we would be if they just fucked off.

Nay, how much better off the world would be if their bigotry were eradicated tomorrow.

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[–]BrambleEdge 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What's bigotted about disliking or even hating an ideology based on lies and hate?

If I were to say that the world would be a better place if all homophobes stopped being bigots, would that be bigotry?

There is nothing bigotted about wanting to rid the world of others' chosen bigotry (I don't care that it's learned from childhood, I was taught the same things, yet I managed to make the choice to not support it).

[–]Very_Juicy 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There are plenty of feminists out there that support the whole 'males can be raped' cause, just like there are men out there that do the same for women. /r/feminism isn't a breeding pool for male hate, /r/shitredditsays is. And /r/mensrights isn't a breeding pool for women hate, /r/theredpill is.

Men need to stop getting the first two mixed up and women need to stop gettig the last two mixed up.

Too often have I read about /r/mensrights being 'anti-woman', which is far from the truth, just like /r/feminism is 'anti-men'.

[+]Octagonecologyst -10 points-9 points-8 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

What the fuck is wrong with you, keiichi? Seriously, you're preaching to choir so hard it's not even funny. Get a grip of yourself.

[–]Keiichi81 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

What the fuck is wrong with you, Octagonecologyst, that virtually every single comment you make is talking down to someone and being a condescending prick?

[+]Octagonecologyst -9 points-8 points-7 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Too idiotic to even answer basic questions. You have my sympathies, keiichi.

Please stop posting here, though. It'd be greatly appreciated.

[–]Keiichi81 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Case in point. I feel sorry for you, man. You must lead a sad life.

[+]Octagonecologyst -7 points-6 points-5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Please don't project your bullshit unto me. It's not a good look.

Case in point.

Cute attempt at looking like you have the "upper" hand. Kind of adorable, really.

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[–]RANDY_SAVAGE_ 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I GOT BANNED AFTER ONE COMMENT THERE. WHY DON'T THEY LIKE ME?

[–]Decalance 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I got banned after I posted once. Only once. I wasn't even insulting them. It was a question.

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[–]Decalance 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I got like 700 of my comment karma from cj so yeah...

[–]xDrSchnugglesx 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I had like, an hour long argument in my college (COLLEGE) freshman year with these 3 girls who all unanimously believed that men could not be raped, because if you get a boner it means you consent.

[–]Quonsoe00 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You could bring up the point that females sometimes orgasm while being raped. Just because a bodily function happens does not mean you consent and does not mean that it is something you want to happen at all.

[–]xDrSchnugglesx 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's two years after the fact, and I did, but they were stupid.

[–]HydrogenxPi 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What say we leave the trigger warnings for the feminists and nut-job sjws.

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[–]Sinistar_Lives 42 points43 points44 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Couldn't agree more. If you are so fragile that you have an emotional meltdown because of an internet post then you should probably stay off the computer.

[–]Silver_Star 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you are so fragile that you have an emotional meltdown because of an internet post then you should probably stay off the computer.

Tell that to SRS.

[–]UDT22 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well said.

[–]OmegaVesko 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree. This isn't Tumblr.

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[–]indigoanasazi 10 points11 points12 points 13 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

If you can't handle images from a safe space on your computer, you really aren't ready to live on planet earth where things may actually happen in your face.

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[–]rabbitspade 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Didn't the first four words of the title give you a hind that it might be on the topic of rape? Or were you hoping for a nice, comforting story about rape?

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[–]rabbitspade -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Do you think you could a more positive way to garner attention rather than by scolding people for warning or not warning you about what they're about to discuss?

[+]-DASH- 13 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

If you are so easily disturbed, why are you clicking on these types of links?

[–]EnuffDakka -5 points-4 points-3 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

As others have said, and as I will say more bluntly, don't act like a child.

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[–]EnuffDakka -3 points-2 points-1 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It is a thread about rape. Surprise, nothing pleasant goes on in here!

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[–]EnuffDakka -2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, you obviously can ignore everything I'm saying. Listen closely: there is nothing pleasant about the subject of rape. If you are so easily "triggered," then avoid the fucking topic.

Or, you know, grow thicker skin.

[+]rabbitspade -9 points-8 points-7 points 13 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

The logic of trigger warnings is utterly moronic because it involves mentioning something that is going to be mentioned for the reason that merely mentioning it is going to crush some innocent's fragile snowflake psyche.

Seriously, grow up, or stick to the Disney channel and PG movies if you don't like the internet, but don't try to go on a righteous crusade against the adult world to defend your own hypersensitivity.

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[–]rabbitspade -3 points-2 points-1 points 13 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

And people experience break ups and divorces that push them to suicide, but do you try to ban any public mentionings of those things? Seriously, stop putting rape one a pedestal when there are so many terrible things that are equally extreme in their awfulness, but people who experience them are still able to get the fuck on with their lives without wrapping their consciousness in cotton wool.

And as for gore... why bring it up? In this comment you turned into some kind of wounded faun after the previous burst of sarcastic righteousness. Have you every been diagnosed with bipolar disorder?

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[–]rabbitspade -5 points-4 points-3 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

God dammit you're such a blatant SRStard... Are you really so arrogantly self righteous that you thought you have SO much in common with the rest of reddit that you could just blow in to any subreddit and non-chalantly start telling people how to think because of your hurt feelings, and they'd conform?

GTFO.

[+]ImAPurplePrincess -2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Whoaaaa I thought this subreddit was all for free speech, yo.

What happened man, what happened.

[–]rabbitspade -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

You mean /r/srs? No they ban people for thought crimes. Aren't they missing your righteous paranoid patrol against persecution over there right now? Some whitecishetmale might be trying to rape someone with his words over there.

[+]ImAPurplePrincess 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

No I mean r/mensrights.

Telling a person to GTFO just for expressing their opinion? For shame. :(

[–]theskepticalidealist -5 points-4 points-3 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

If you have such strong reactions to such things you should not be posting here

[–]ruderabbit 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

you should not be posting here

That is a terrible attitude.

I thought this subreddit was here to foster debate, not suppress it.

You don't attract people by offending them.

[–]theskepticalidealist -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I didn't say he shouldn't post I said if your PTSD is so strong that you need a "trigger warning" you should probably be avoiding places like this.

[+]Offensive_Brute -9 points-8 points-7 points 13 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

I hate this shit. I understand NSFW because some people browse at work and in public, but I hate when its all like WARNING: GORE. Some times shit happens to people and animals and their insides end up on the outside. An adult should be able to look at this, process it, and move on.

[–]ruderabbit 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

What the hell? Everyone should be able to just shrug off gore?

Please, you should get help or something ... that's not healthy.

[–]Offensive_Brute -2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

whats not healthy is not being able to face the reality of the human condition in a mature fashion.

[–]moorethanafeeling 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Some people have been to war and don't like watching videos of a head being chopped off when they're trying to chill.

[+]Gr8WhiteGrammarNazi -7 points-6 points-5 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Maybe don't go to war if you can't handle gore.

[–]moorethanafeeling 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Are you serious right now? You know that people try to live normal lives after being at war, right? It's hard enough as it is.

[–]OmegaVesko 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

If there was an award for most ignorant statement of the day, this guy would get it.

[–]Gr8WhiteGrammarNazi -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

"Volunteer Army"

"Oh boo hoo my life is so hard the military isn't fun"

[–]OmegaVesko 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You do realize "people who have been to war" doesn't mean they're all volunteers, right? Just because there is no draft now doesn't mean there aren't any drafted veterans.

[–]Gr8WhiteGrammarNazi -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, there are some. Not enough to cater the etiquette of a general website to, though.

[–]Gr8WhiteGrammarNazi -4 points-3 points-2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hahahaha is this your first day on the internet? Do you end each day curled up in a ball, sobbing?

[+]Mylon -11 points-10 points-9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But Reddit is mainstream now. It's not like the rest of the back alleys of the internet where people can look after themselves.

[–]AtheistConservative 29 points30 points31 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's obvious we need to focus on the real problem here, violence against women. Look at how he shoves this woman who loves him. - Feminism

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sadly you're probably not too far off.

[–]ChaplnGrillSgt 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have never raised a hand to a girl and only twice to a guy, but after she took a swing at him I'd hit her right back.

[–]pakiswag7 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

This was one hell of a PSA. The Danish had the right idea on how to raise awareness.

[–]tyciol 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So we have an animated GIF version of a video that's been posted before =/

Also interesting since this is more attempted rape than rape, misleading title I think.

[–]AustNerevar 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There are too many comments here treating this gif as if it's live video.

This is an anti DV commercial and has been posted here and other places quite a bit.

It sends a great message, but it shouldn't exist under the guise of a real life event. I understand that OP didn't know this, but, in my opinion, it should be removed and reposted under the appropriate label. Otherwise it just makes /r/MensRights look like a circlejerk.

[–]Calvin16E 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All too real. Been there.

[–]sl4y4 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

The amount of times I've seen this reblogged on tumblr with comments like 'aw she's so sweet, she really cares for him' etc etc is ridiculous.

[–]whovianfromhell 11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Would you mind maybe posting some links to this? Because I honestly have difficulty believing that anyone would ever say something like that. This scene is so obviously awful.

[–]mylatestindulgence 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed.

[–]sl4y4 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't have screenshots of my times on tumblr I'm afraid, if I did then I would happily post them, but I guess you'll just have to take my word that some people are really just that awful. Surely not difficult considering some of the stuff I've seen on this sub already.

[–]clockworkgirl21 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

...people do that?

[–]sl4y4 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Unfortunately.

[–]nonplussed_nerd 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Links or it didn't happen

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He should check his privileges.

[–]lball 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This kinda shit literally happens tho. And no one believes it.

[–]jeannaimard 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Having often despaired at how it is complex and hard to get a girl, I honestly wonder what could cause a girl to act like this...

[+]hectorlca 13 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Rejection, maybe? Bitches be crazy.

[–]Offensive_Brute -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I saw a video on facebook of a grown woman throwing a tantrum in the passenger seat of her husbands pick-up because he had shit to do and she wanted to go to the lake. She was literally kicking her legs in the air and screaming like a fucking toddler.

[–]klsuarez 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Whoever is of that opinion should take an extended vacation in a federal pennitentiary....

[–]JohnnK 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Really? Trigger warnings? Congratulations, you're morphing into a male SRS.

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[–]JohnnK -4 points-3 points-2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Who said that? I'm simply pointing out that this sub is this close from turning into something that resembles SRS.

[–]theskepticalidealist 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

No it's just some people have swallowed some of the stupid feminists have been feeding everyone

[–]speaktodragons3 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Girl beats up a defenseless boy in the back room. (Anti Violence Commercial)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aXE6ZWht0sc

[–]kulomascovia2 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

wow op way to put a ~[TRIGGER WARNING]~

[–]Perpetual_dissident 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I would have punched that bitch right in the fucking face.

[+]Offensive_Brute -6 points-5 points-4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would have punched her in the tit.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok, even knowing this is a commercial, this physically enrages me. I told my fiancé if he ever came home and said a chick raped him, I would always take his word until it was proven otherwise. Someone would have to physically stop me from tearing down her door and mauling her. This just...knowing that this happens (even if this is just an ad)...fills me with so much fucking rage.

[–]Bla34112 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Alright.. if this is in fact a commercial, please don't just rationalize it away. It happens, but it ain't happening here so don't use it in your arguments.

[–]Skillfulhoonan 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I know it's a commercial but it makes my blood boil

[–]lilranch_T-T1 point 7 months ago [recovered] | Copy Link

yo i wouldn’t mind tbh

[–]chefslapchop0 points 13 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

Downvote me if you want but that is not real it's a commercial and it is also not rape it is sexual harassment

[–]monstuman443 11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Switch the genders of those actors and any feminist would call it attempted rape and sexual assault.

[–]Umedark 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It doesn't really matter what they would call it.

[–]chefslapchop 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Well a court wouldn't

[–]MrStonedOne 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

ya, they call it attempted rape.

[–]chefslapchop 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Nope

[–]MrStonedOne 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You see his hand moving to block her hand on his privates (good acting on their part btw) that would (in a real non acting context) qualify it as forced contact of a sexual nature, all one needs to do is prove intent to escalate to forced sexual acts (easy enough if the genders are right, and remember, in this hypothetical, we are switching the genders, so they would be) and you have attempted rape of the 2nd or 3rd degree depending on state.

[–]gus2144 -4 points-3 points-2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Aaand that's the time I'd punch her in the face.

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[–]theskepticalidealist 16 points17 points18 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If it was the other way around we'd call it sexual assault and attempted rape. Use your brain I'm sure you have one

[+]jnjohnson -8 points-7 points-6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Knock that bitch out

[–][deleted] -5 points-4 points-3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wish someone would rape me.

[+]DefenseOptions -12 points-11 points-10 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Damnit. I have a boner now.

[+]Randomthrowaway1992 -17 points-16 points-15 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

strangely turned on...

[+]Toy_Cop -11 points-10 points-9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Upset? I'm more aroused.

[+]RetardedPonyLand -16 points-15 points-14 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Am I the only one who got a boner watching that

[+]Muntberg -12 points-11 points-10 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Am I the only one that finds this hot?

[+]Offensive_Brute -17 points-16 points-15 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Thats an issue I have as well. I feel like the next step in a natural progression is, I slap her back, grab her by the hair, and fuck the shit out of her. But I understand that not everyone responds to that kind of aggressive sexual stimulus the way I do. Maybe this dude has a legit reason to not want to fuck this chick.

[+]Muntberg -6 points-5 points-4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh yeah, that's totally fair. I have been pretty sexually deprived as of late so I'll basically take what I can get.

[+]Rmedero -10 points-9 points-8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've done this before. Turns out to be great sex, and what shes been waiting for all her life.

[+]phucitol -14 points-13 points-12 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Usually I have to pay for that kind of treatment. Lucky bastard.

[+]sleepyninja22 -15 points-14 points-13 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ohh it hurts so goood

[+]mindctrlpankak -13 points-12 points-11 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This fucking subreddit man. Sometimes I just don't know.

[–]m4dflavor -2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

...it moved

[+]Octagonecologyst -46 points-45 points-44 points 13 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

1.) Fake

2.) Would you fuckers PLEASE stop with this preaching to the choir bullshit?

3) GTFO

Edit: One of the largest MRM communities on the internet, yet so extremely pathetic. Quite a shame, really.

[+]OldArmyMetal -125 points-124 points-123 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

That actually made me slightly aroused.

[+]TreyWalker 13 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Not sure why you're being downvoted. There are also women who are totally into the idea of being raped / watching it happen.

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[–]TreyWalker 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Downvotes are for comments that don't contribute anything worthwhile to the discussion.

Yeah, but that's not why people really downvote :P

[+]Angus_Fraser -72 points-71 points-70 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I couldn't help but notice your username. Reason please?

[+]kotabear2121 -28 points-27 points-26 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Im thoroughly confused why all these comments are being downvoted into shit. I too would like to know the backstory to his name

[–]Demonspawn 19 points20 points21 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Because it's ad-hominem at it's finest. If the question is that important, send a fucking PM.

[–]Angus_Fraser -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I fail to see the ad hominem.

[+]kotabear2121 -18 points-17 points-16 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Because reddit is clearly the most organized and topic oriented place. I dont give a fuck about the ad-hominem of this situation i just wanna know why anarchists are enemies if you don't like it write me a strongly worded email you lifeless fuck

[–]TreyWalker17 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You don't give a fuck about the ad-hominem of the situation but whine about the downvoting? huehuehuehue.

[+]grindsgears -35 points-34 points-33 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Damn this is pretty hot. I can fap to this

[–]Dronelisk 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Cool story bro, you realize real life female rapist don't look anywhere near acceptable as the actress

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[–]CannedSewage 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

lmao

[+]MitchellStarkey -14 points-13 points-12 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

/r/noisygifs ?

[+]junoguten -14 points-13 points-12 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"[name of bitch] you are hereby banned from civilized society on pain of death by raping."

Oh, sorry. I must have been daydreaming again.

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[–]DerDietrich 35 points36 points37 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And this is why males being raped isn't taken seriously.

[+]Unknown_Brother -101 points-100 points-99 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That would be some passionate love making

[+]PoliticoG -100 points-99 points-98 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hey now, I pay good money for that sort of thing!

[+]ragechan -56 points-55 points-54 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Very nice

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[–]baskandpurr 50 points51 points52 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Pity Justin Bieber. He's considered fair game for any woman that wants to grope, kiss or hump him, and he's supposed to enjoy it.

[–]alaysian 23 points24 points25 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just look at how Jenny McCarthy sexually assaulted him on stage and then joked about it.

[–]icey123456 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

He spits on people for no reason. He's beyond normal moral boundaries, and their protections.

[–]baskandpurr 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I believe he spits on his fans and they don't mind. I wouldn't say I was concerned for their well being and self respect. I guess its a case of quid pro quo.

[+]not_2_smart -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why the fuck did I go into downvote oblivion for a question?

[+]yiliadk -10 points-9 points-8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is funny.

I'm 100% positive that boy has at one point in his life espoused racist or other bigoted views. For that a nice little beating is good.

Even if it's fake, any guy that has been beaten has probably at one point shown those views.

[+]paul-jenkins -109 points-108 points-107 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol. Where's the "okay" rageface.

[+]HortonHiresAHo -250 points-249 points-248 points 13 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

A man that is weak enough to get raped ain't a man to begin with

[–]druncanscot 73 points74 points75 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think there would be a lot of very burly men in prisons who would disagree with you on that.

[–]ProjectDirectory 47 points48 points49 points 13 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

You're a terrible person.

Edit: Your != You're.

[–]Captaincastle 17 points18 points19 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Technically it's you're

[–]ProjectDirectory 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Upvote to you.

[–]HIFW_GIFs_React_ 64 points65 points66 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A man that is weak enough to get raped ain't a man to begin with

That's a really horrible line of thinking. Swap man for woman in that sentence and you've got an equally offensive statement. No one's worth as a human being or "manhood" or "womanhood" is determined by their ability to fend off an attacker, whatever the gender of parties involved might be.

[+]Trosso 24 points25 points26 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's pretty ridiculous bro.

[–]DerDietrich 21 points22 points23 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And this is why males being raped isn't taken seriously.

[–]theskepticalidealist 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you're serious this is everything mens rights is fighting against

[–]larcenousTactician 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

SRS's strawman construction brigade is on the job

[+][deleted] 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

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[–]nigglereddit 18 points19 points20 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Now, it's okay to be angry but we shouldn't wish that on anyone.

[–]smashingval 15 points16 points17 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You're right.

[–]nigglereddit 18 points19 points20 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for removing your comment, it reflects well on you.

[–]Mightyskunk 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Your username. You said something that niggled at him until he removed his comment. You're like a really low-level superhero. Or a [wizard](i.imgur.com/c5RK0vk.jpg).

EDIT: After three tries, that still isn't a link. Oh well.

[–]Demonspawn 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

some links need the Http:\ at front.

[+]Vulpes-Vulpes-Fox 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Try removing the . afterwards

[–]JavaPants 15 points16 points17 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't think we should be hoping anyone gets raped...

[+][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ha, I love your username.

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