Men really do get blamed for everything, even a women's sex addiction. Apparently having CONSENSUAL sex is "taking advantage" of a women now.

TendieDinner777 · 2022-01-31T12:36:28+00:00

Unreal. I’m presuming she was supported in her vilification of the men who had sex with her.

I get that sex addiction is a real thing, but are we really to expect the people she chose to have sex with to push her away, like a bartender to someone who had too many drinks?

If she’s conscious/not overly intoxicated and able to make decisions for herself, that’s on her. It’s a common tactic for people to throw in more extreme examples (the parties, etc.) as a way to color the entire narrative as being beyond her control.

auMatech · 2022-01-31T10:31:58+00:00

I'm so torn on this.. On the one hand it reads like she's demonizing her own high sex drive in order to not stray too far from the feminist narrative and blames all the men around her for alleged predatory behaviour...

On the other hand, sex addiction is a real thing that can be incredibly damaging to both men and women experiencing it.

I guess that person needs help on two fronts:

dealing with her sex addiction in a safe and controlled environment via therapy
dealing with her inadvertent misandry and offloading her responsibilities on men around her.

DigitalisEdible · 2022-01-31T12:58:13+00:00

Being a “player” has negative connotations, not positive.

And it shouldn’t need saying, but the reason there’s a difference is because it’s really hard for the average man to sleep with a lot of women. And it’s really easy for literally any woman to sleep with a lot of men.

She talks about how many men she’s slept with, which proves how easy it is. Yet if she was a man she would struggle to satisfy those desires. Assuming any of this is legitimate, which I’m not sure it is. Seems like a bit of a troll to me.

VeteranOfDepression · 2022-01-31T11:40:22+00:00

I mean.. It could be taking advantage of her when she was a minor (depending on the age of consent in her area), but not if she's a consenting adult. Addictions like that suck but blaming men for it is ridiculous, she should consider seeking therapy.

If you have an alcohol addiction to do blame alcohol companies or do you seek help? If you're addicted to drugs, do you blame your dealers or do you seek help? She should stop playing the victim and seek help for her sex addiction.

Wafflefanny · 2022-01-31T12:34:12+00:00

I love how upset she is at the prospect of being called a slut, all the while making the claims that:

1) All Men want a partner they can sexually manipulate.

2) OP's inability to self-regulate is actually the fault of the men asking for consent, because OP can't say no. Except that the men who aren't her long-term boyfriends have no way of knowing this information.

3) Implying the internal shame they feel for their actions is a problem society needs to solve.

syedalired21 · 2022-01-31T10:17:05+00:00

God I hate this TwoX Chromosomes sub. And they've banned me for calling out their shit

mantools · 2022-01-31T13:04:18+00:00

"When I sleep with anyone who buys me a drink, well we all know what people will call me."

Stunning and brave? As I'm sure they are on that thread right now.

offtable · 2022-01-31T09:35:52+00:00

Some women consider having sex with a man is default rape, because there was a penetration involved.

Extra-Strike2276 · 2022-01-31T10:58:12+00:00

I wonder if you posted that on most subs and changed the genders what the responses would be. I can't imagine it would be any sympathy, more like insults. Creep, rapist, and other things I'm sure.

L3tum · 2022-01-31T12:09:54+00:00

Well, two thoughts:

She needs therapy
"She" is a dude getting off on that story

Personally I think 2 is far more likely.

Nevix20 · 2022-01-31T11:38:47+00:00

"My needs are overpowering and shameful" what a fancy way to say horny

Shirolover · 2022-01-31T14:03:21+00:00

"I want to have sex"

*gets sex"

"they are using this to their advantage!"

Naru4odo · 2022-01-31T13:43:13+00:00

Go see a psychologist, should have been your first decision.

Agaposavros · 2022-01-31T15:01:25+00:00

i get it and i hope her recovery asap.

Least_Chemical_7022 · 2022-01-31T11:56:00+00:00

These types can never take accountability.

Van_groove · 2022-01-31T12:22:25+00:00

Isn't that subreddit on the popular section

Nk-O · 2022-01-31T16:31:10+00:00

I'm sorry but after reading the Title in the Screenshot I really had a great laugh. How is that a bad thing? She wants Sex –> She gets Sex. –> Men bad. lol what

Considering the last paragraph, a bit more self-acceptance would help tho..

wwwhistler · 2022-01-31T20:14:21+00:00

the default libido of the average female is much much less than that of the typical male. this does increase dramatically if the female is in courtship....then their libidos become just about equal to men's. this typically lasts 2 years....then a woman's libido resets to normal (much much less than a typical male). that is not to say that some women are not outliers and have libidos equal to or even exceeding that of a typical male. it is just not that common. she sounds like she has the libido of at least a typical male. which of course, she finds to much to handle.

ssebastian364 · 2022-01-31T21:13:07+00:00

You are if you sleep with such a mentally challenged person, she belongs in a mental asylum after such a post

McFeely_Smackup · 2022-02-01T05:16:27+00:00

what does "taken advantage" mean?

are her boyfriends supposed to know what the perfect amount of sex is to stop from triggering her sexual self loathing? and enforce it onto her in contradiction to her consent?

She needs therapy. she's let something, likely family/culture/religion create a sexual taboo feedback loop, but refuses to take any responsibility.

If a man posted that he was a sex addict and blamed his female partners for taking advantage, what do you think TwoX would have to say to him.

Ballad_of_Eva_Green · 2022-01-31T13:11:17+00:00

This is just sad. She genuinely wants help. But she's only doing the first part of getting help, because she has to blame men in stead of taking responsibility for that second half. "I'm ashamed, I want to stop, etc." Should be followed up with diving into faith, 12 step program, therapy - something. Not "and it's the men's fault"! She's so young, too, to be dealing with it. No doubt some sort of trauma brought it on that young, surely?

This is what f3m1n1sm does to women. Breaks them and offers them no other solution than to hate men, when men would do anything to help women. (At least, pre-3rd/4th wave.)

guntherssheil · 2022-01-31T12:44:50+00:00

Man that's just sad

KINGSPAZT1K · 2022-01-31T12:27:17+00:00

That just sounds like a hoe with extra steps

CryingMadGirl · 2022-01-31T13:09:16+00:00

It’s… not your fault for being addicted, but you can consent. You are an adult, it’s not “taking advantage” you chose to do it. Yes, you have an addiction, but you have to fix it, that’s the only way

Cratonis · 2022-01-31T13:43:33+00:00

I have been very disappointed to see that sub slowly start transitioning into something akin to FDS. 4/5 posts these days there are so biased and absurd it is shameful. At least it used to be 50/50 and you could read it and see nuance. Now it is slipping into a no accountability man hating cesspool like other female safe space subs that just become toxic echo chambers. Very disappointing.

AviationJax1234 · 2022-01-31T14:28:22+00:00

I think people on Reddit make up a lot of stuff for fun

gerbil98 · 2022-01-31T14:33:02+00:00

Honestly, a dude who sticks it in anything with a pulse is kinda gross. Like yeah do what you want but I'm gonna judge you hard for it.

RandylVlarsh · 2022-01-31T14:41:04+00:00

The fact it has an award...............

penis-chan489 · 2022-01-31T15:40:37+00:00

this guys post:

my girlfriend is a sex addict and i’m doing my best to keep up with her but it’s getting hard to constantly be able to please her.

asdf333aza · 2022-01-31T20:23:35+00:00

A female dealing with a normal guy's sex drive and this is how she handles it.

Whispertoascream22 · 2022-02-01T04:35:16+00:00

This is something I’ve never understood… every guy with a high body count I know is regarded as a “man whore” or “fuck boy.” I find it so weird when people bring this point up, women are judged for their sexuality and so are men… It just always sounds like self victimization when I hear it

escalopes · 2022-01-31T13:37:22+00:00

And time and time again, the lie that promiscuous men are treated as heroes by other men keeps being spread

CommunicationSmall17 · 2022-01-31T13:55:11+00:00

C'mon y'all. We all know women can do no wrong and there's never consequences to their actions. It's us. We're the problem. So she's 3,000% correct * one hundred emoji. One hundred emoji. One hundred emoji*

scruffy-the-janitor1 · 2022-01-31T13:32:20+00:00

I would say it is messed up to know that someone feels ashamed of not being able to say no, and going through with it still. Yes she needs to seek help but a BF should understand the issue and not use it to his advantage.

brofesor · 2022-01-31T15:22:26+00:00

One thing I particularly dislike about these modern women is that they never take any responsibility for their own actions (but you have to praise them because they live off external validation, but that's another topic). Regardless of how long they go on about being strong and independent, they immediately transform into victims with no control even over their own behaviour the moment they experience an issue.

There's always someone else responsible, whether it's men, the whole society, long-dead ancestors, or even their own brain, as if that wasn't a part of them and they had no free will. Even the abortion was ‘necessary’ as opposed to her choice.

A heroin addict is provided with medical help. If he refuses, the society has no obligation to work around it, for example by tolerating his destructive behaviour at work, and we should apply the same principle when dealing with promiscuous ‘sex addicts’ who spout their BS on Reddit instead of visiting a psychiatrist.

Aeruthael · 2022-01-31T12:06:40+00:00

All I had to see was TwoX. Didn’t even bother to read the rest of their post, that sub is an absolute cesspool.

Jezz_ah_bells · 2022-01-31T10:47:49+00:00

Tat sub has got to be trolls

OA12T2 · 2022-01-31T12:21:38+00:00

The sooner you realize that everything is the man’s fault - regardless if it’s true or not - the happier you will be. Women want the power but not the responsibility.

DanteLivra · 2022-01-31T16:02:27+00:00

Men are to blame because that woman can't control herself ?

This is like blaming your dealer because you've became addicted to crack. There's certainly a link but clearly you are the one who made the decision over and over again.

SgtRinzler · 2022-01-31T15:41:24+00:00

This lady needs some therapy, stat

KINGCRAB715 · 2022-01-31T16:18:32+00:00

I like how she doesn’t list a single thing she is doing and trying to break her addiction. Just blames everyone else for issues around this.

killcat · 2022-01-31T19:32:33+00:00

It's as much the new attention seeking behavior, blame men, get affirmation that it's "all men fault".

rocket717_ · 2022-01-31T19:54:17+00:00

The zero accountability standard. Got it.

Kaylarmagic · 2022-01-31T20:19:59+00:00

Fucking sad

DemonizedHuman · 2022-01-31T20:40:48+00:00

And how is your sex addiction supposed to be my problem lmao

SnipeHardt · 2022-01-31T20:58:39+00:00

Unbelievable. Is this a shitpost? It literally looks like one it’s that level of ridiculous.

Uniqueiamjustjules · 2022-01-31T21:06:54+00:00

Is it sex addiction or impulse control? I knew someone who became like this after a serious car crash and traumatic brain injury.

alclarkey · 2022-01-31T21:25:56+00:00

Men don't get a pass for that. A guy goes around sleeping with all the women in his social circle, when they find out, he loses all his opportunity there. Also, guys that sleep with tons of women are gross.

3point33 · 2022-01-31T21:44:00+00:00

Hmm. I remember when this was called "having no self respect".

ThePiachu · 2022-01-31T21:59:35+00:00

Giving her a benefit of the doubt - if she told someone she's a sex addict, them initiating sex would be taking advantage of her. It would be like asking a friend with a gambling problem whether they want to play poker.

On the other hand, if they don't know about her addiction or other indication not to have sex if she asks, that's on her.

Now if they were told and she still initiated, it's getting into the grey area.

aknabi · 2022-01-31T22:13:59+00:00

That feminism… “agency”, “choice”, “empowerment” and someone else takes (men) takes responsibility… you’ll never see a feminist holding a sign saying “Equal responsibility!”

King_Of_Green · 2022-02-01T05:09:16+00:00

If you are an alcoholic, you cannot blame a series of bartenders for your problems. If these are consensual interactions, the problem is completely personal on a personal level

mimiczx · 2022-02-01T08:48:12+00:00

I'm sure she'll find the answers she's looking for in the FDS lite echo chamber. Good luck to her.

T0tallynotreptilian7 · 2022-02-02T06:41:38+00:00

The fact that it started at 16 is kinda insane to me

MrUncannyIncredible · 2022-01-31T12:16:19+00:00

That sub is just as cancerous as FDS

miohmeg · 2022-01-31T13:43:10+00:00

Bro… it’s literally a disorder

dougj182 · 2022-01-31T15:43:00+00:00

This woman hates herself. It looks like she's projecting that hate onto her sexual partners.

Rawrtherton · 2022-01-31T15:46:24+00:00

I think what she hasn't considered is how damaging her addiction is to the men she sleeps with.

1) she's teaching them that bad behavior can lead to sex. Seriously if a tactic works just once, it will get used over and over again forever. This isn't just harmful to the men, but other women as well.

2) she's teaching the genuinely interested men that she will have sex with them and ghost them making them doubt themselves. So someone with only good intentions will be emotionally damaged by her.

3) Given her descriptions, she's setting completely unreal sex standards that will damage men and the women they have sex with after her.

hammerfan · 2022-01-31T17:58:18+00:00

Poor girl. That real sounds like a condition that can ruin your life. I hope there is help for her. I am not being sarcastic, it really sounds terrible. This is not an issue against mens rights. Not everything is about men being evil. This a human who is hurting and not some who is blaming men.

CallOfReddit · 2022-01-31T18:55:43+00:00

You fuck her, she says she's taken advantage of.

You don't give in to her cravings, she, then gonna claim you're a rapist.

Moral of the story : don't stick your dick in crazy

OctaviaPinfold · 2022-01-31T14:17:29+00:00

At the age of 23 if somebody knows they have a problem but they don't even try to fix it, they have nothing to complain about and nobody to blame but themselves.

ImJustHereForCorn · 2022-01-31T14:19:11+00:00

Pretty sure this is a BS excuse to make up for her shameful past. Honestly, your sex drive doesn't control you into some unthinking, primal being that is only willing to copulate with the nearest person. You have control.

fuzijo · 2022-01-31T14:04:11+00:00

retroactively retracting consent

sirdonnerfurz01 · 2022-01-31T14:44:43+00:00

Hoe's will be hoe's

Waluigi_is_wiafu · 2022-01-31T15:24:44+00:00

'Cuz I'm just a girl who can't say no

Can't seem it say it at all!

HatchetXL · 2022-01-31T17:17:46+00:00

I'm a male sex addict. I love sex. I still can say no. And when the urges become too much, I masturbate. Sometimes this means 4 times a day. I have been married for 6 years, been with this lady for 9. She has had multiple affairs and in recovery from that has granted me permission to do the same. I still seem to be completely capable of denying sexual advances from other ladies. Even though the desire is definitely there at times, i seem to be a human person who had choices to make, and i make choices, and i stand by the choices i make, and i own my shit. I'm not alone in this, am i?

JamesBoyle123 · 2022-01-31T17:59:10+00:00

the mental gymnastics and denial of reality coupled with a lack of personal responsibility is beyond words disgusting , yet super typical.

adam_demamps_wingman · 2022-01-31T19:53:09+00:00

So men have the right to exploit a person facing an addiction? Learn something new everyday on Reddincel.

nyarlathotep999 · 2022-01-31T23:14:11+00:00

The patriarchy did this to her, dammit, for the express purpose of making her unable to resist her libido and benefit men at her own personal cost.

But seriously, sex addiction is a bigger problem for men. Should we hold the women they have sex with responsible for taking advantage of them?

Of course not. Those sex addicted men are obviously just predatory perverts looking to defile women who are utterly incapable of warding off their advances.

No double standard here. Move along.

WolfeBane84 · 2022-01-31T17:22:44+00:00

She’s just a slut and wants it to sound “sophisticated”

FH-7497 · 2022-01-31T15:52:49+00:00

Why the fuck was this posted here? She claims she has a sex addiction and is sad that has been taken advantage of. She is hardly blaming men she’s clearly guilt ridden herself. This girl needs sex and addiction counseling.

034TH · 2022-01-31T18:38:11+00:00

Don't really see her blaming men for anything. Lots of blaming her exs, pointing out real double standards in society, and a whole lot of anger, but nothing at men as a whole.

Then this whole comment section makes a bunch of assumptions and a lot of projection...

We really should be better than this.

Mythandros · 2022-01-31T16:20:01+00:00

I don't believe a single word of it and even if I did, it's HER fault for consenting to any/all of that and nobody else's.

MrProficient · 2022-01-31T17:21:54+00:00

This is one of those I'm also torn on.

1) Clearly there is evidence of guilt and admission of addiction. Addiction is a really destructive and detrimental thing in ones life and we're not really sure why. There are different factors that contribute to it. Based on the poster don't really have enough information to make an assessment, let alone how many people here are experts with credibility in addiction and mental health? If I take it at face value, I do feel sad for her. Addiction is a destructive thing that hurts everyone in the process.

2) If it is true that partners take advantage of this, then that is disgusting. Unfortunately I could see some males doing this as there are guys who are scumbags. However, not ALL men are. This is a 1 sides cherry picked statement/rant and we don't have enough information to make an assessment of the dynamics of her relationships. Maybe she dated only guys who would take advantage of her? Maybe she feels such shame that any man involved with her automatically gets paintwd with a broad brush of being that guy.

3) There is validity as previously stated when does a person know whether the yes is a genuine yes or her not being able to say no? That's the issue here, there are clearly a lack of clear expectations.

4) That being said she also has to take accountability and responsibility for her addiction in the regards of treatment. The only way a person can get over an addiction is that they have to choose to want to get over it, and then commit oneself to whatever it takes to get over it. It was the same when I quit cocaine. It was the same when I quit drinking. You only can quit when you decide you truly want to, and you're willing to do whatever it takes, and then you do it. I don't know this woman's life or her struggles, but I think all humans are strong enough to beat addiction if they truly want to. I just think most who are trying really don't want to beat their addiction. I think at their core, they want to do whatever they are doing.

At the end of the day, this girl has to stop being a bigot towards the male gender and needs to take ownership of her issues and do what is required to get to where she wants to go. Also, in this culture of work and college, I think that her sleeping with bosses or professors were initiated by her because of her addiction. I highly doubt in this current culture, that if it was her boss or professors, they would be initiating because they would be crushed immediately with a simple reporting to higher ups. That's not to say there aren scum who would, I just don't believe it to be the case here.

Njaulv · 2022-01-31T17:30:12+00:00

Wait, since she is a sex addict, wouldn't she be taking advantage of the men? She is treating them like drugs she uses to get a fast high and then shitting on them.

nooneinteresting-1 · 2022-01-31T18:20:17+00:00

She can always say no, if she has an addiction she can always seek help. But it's 'not my fault' it's the 'evil men'. I wasn't like that even in my teenage years, I was horny teen but I knew the line I would not cross. She should just ask for death by sex for all I care.

JeffroLoves · 2022-01-31T18:34:20+00:00

And the award for “biggest attention whore” goes to…

5ilenceIsAssent · 2022-01-31T18:40:01+00:00

Awwww...can't control herself, so men bad.

And that absolute sexist ignorance at the end. "fuck anything that moves" Honey, that's for women...as men, we have to work for that shit.

No-End-3298 · 2022-01-31T19:29:26+00:00

Dis bich

labomba225 · 2022-01-31T20:07:03+00:00

I was honestly with her up until the last pic

xcheshirecatxx · 2022-01-31T22:30:19+00:00

I'm a female sex addict and I can explain to you maybe what she means

The bad men will tell us lies to be with us while they can use us. For example, getting us to not use condoms. Acting like it can become a long term relationship

And the worst is using it to make us feel bad in the relationship, to get anything out of us

Depriving us of sex to get us to go crazy

The problem is making it a gender issue. It's an abuser issue

VegasGuy69 · 2022-01-31T23:22:35+00:00

She has absolutely no shame and wants to blame it on men? Lmfao. I’m a sex addict myself but I don’t go around trying to fuck every women I meet and think about sex to the point I can’t focus on tasks. She’s a mentally ill sex addict

Samurai-Andy · 2022-02-01T07:13:33+00:00

23 year olds are not renowned as the most intelligent people around.

DianeticDelight · 2022-02-02T00:25:58+00:00

I swear we could start a whole sub based off of making men the fault of everything.

TakeThe_LongWayHome · 2023-12-09T20:45:12+00:00

Porn is violence to women and children.

Men are allowing sexual perversion, blaming women while preying on women.

Men are getting the sexual landscape they have created. A generation of rebellious, unGodly people who take no personal responsibility for their own proclivities.

Your failure to own the terror your gender inflicts on women is your own downfall.

All men hate all women unless they fear God.

EzzyLight · 2022-01-31T13:48:53+00:00

That depends.

If she has nymphomania, than people taking advantage on her are utter shit. It is like stealing something from a blind one.

If she just tries to justify her promiscuous behavior via imaginary diagnosis, than she is a shitty person.

This is reddit, so we will never know.

Also, how it is related to men's rights?

MaxWillImprove · 2022-01-31T12:37:08+00:00

Don’t be stupid, she’s not blaming men… She even say several times how she’s ashamed of herself but that doesn’t mean guys don’t take advantage of this… and yes I understand and agree that she’s not absolutely a victim here but let’s not be too tough

Lets be honest here for a second, I honestly feel for her because any addiction is so hard to carry in every day life.

She needs to see a therapist (and not have sex with him/her preferably…) That makes me sad, advocating for men’s right don’t allow us to spit and blame girls for whatever happen to them.

We want equality, not superiority. Don’t become like these feminists we all hate

froggygun · 2022-01-31T23:18:51+00:00

This is one reason i hate girls Girls be like: OMG LOOK AT THIS HOT DUDE. HE IS SO MUSCULAR. And a guy looks at a girl for a few seconds and get cancelled. Girls can flash their body on twitch and dont get banned. A guy just is shirtless on twitch and gets banned. If you dont hold a door for a girl you get cancelled. You have a friend girl and your girlfriend will break up for just having a friend that is a girl.

rcclank33 · 2022-01-31T21:08:05+00:00

Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't this every mans normal behavior? It doesn't sound to me she has a sex addiction.

RookeyReviews · 2022-02-01T04:53:17+00:00

you knew she was messed up just by talking/seeing with her,but to satisfy your own lust you thotted it up toegther.Both parties are responsible.

hunkymonk123 · 2022-02-01T05:03:56+00:00

She definitely didn’t go about the right angle but sex addiction is like any other addiction. The only difference is, there’s a beneficiary. I don’t think she’s blaming men for her addiction tbh.

coffeedaiquiri · 2022-02-06T13:35:45+00:00

She sounds like she doesn’t really want to have sex and that repeatedly having sex makes her feel shame. I would suggest therapy as a solution for her to see why she feels this shame about sex

gimp_mother · 2022-02-08T04:36:14+00:00

Is there anything on this earth a woman can’t be the victim of?

themagnificentfaust · 2022-01-31T13:41:53+00:00

Just dont fuck a sex addict.

Its basically giving heroin to an addict.

Its not helping. Its enabling.

And yes it can be taking advantage of someone if you are aware of condition.

Clearly her consent doesnt count because she cant control her drive.

OP s rant is preposterous.

She clearly needs help

ThatScoutBear · 2022-01-31T16:55:55+00:00

But she ain’t blaming men for her sex addiction. She just hates everything about herself, like she throws up after relising (f dyslexia) what ~she~ had done…not what he forced her into or whatever. It’s a plead for help and she need to look into r/nofap and a therapist.

butthonkerthestomper · 2022-01-31T17:20:44+00:00

Sounds like she eats ass. She could be a lot of fun

Thick_Yogurtcloset_7 · 2022-01-31T13:27:49+00:00

Seek help from a mental health professional .. there is nothing on here that can really fix you besides getting the help you need. It sounds like you really need it. If you cannot afford one try the local university or many non profits that Can assist .. but please get the help you need

officerfriendlyrick7 · 2022-01-31T13:39:38+00:00

This is actually very common, especially among religious people sex is seen as something evil that a man does to a woman, in their view women get zero pleasure from the act, men routinely get lynched or beat to death by mobs in India over pre-marital sex, in several parts of the world men get murdered over premarital sex.

Hemusmacedoneus · 2022-01-31T18:35:36+00:00

🤯

Alarming_Jicama2979 · 2022-01-31T18:40:55+00:00

The Crappy Childhood Fairy has great advice for this & more! We need help, don’t we? Let’s work on ourselves…. Youtube it!

o-salicylaldehyde · 2022-01-31T19:17:04+00:00

I would rather say that if she is an addict, she can decrease the frequency by conscious acting and perhaps check her diets incase she is having aphrodisiacs too much. Other than that "being taken advantage of" is wrong terminology if she really wanted to have sex, she should rather think of herself as a female equivalent of a "stud".

International_Ad2893 · 2022-01-31T20:31:51+00:00

Meet the spy, 1:11

miminochill · 2022-01-31T20:35:56+00:00

Partner is not necessarily male though.

Sotemal · 2022-01-31T21:07:20+00:00

Imo it isn't bad to sleep with every guy who buys you a drink. Just so long as you haven't promised any commitment to any of them and just letting them believe shit while you play around.

Doing what you want while setting boundaries is totally fine.

John_doe_97 · 2022-01-31T22:39:02+00:00

I get the battle of addiction is hard but they aren't the reason for the addiction. Just because they are having sex with doesn't mean they are using your addiction. In the end of the day these are their decisions and if they have the mental ability to say that this is an addiction then they should also have the mental ability to realize it's not anyone's responsibility but your own.

wanthonio31 · 2022-01-31T22:58:52+00:00

No Self-accountability. wow

TokeHackChoke · 2022-02-01T00:26:24+00:00

Where are all these men that fuck everyday that women cant stop comparing themselves to?

They're just projecting their feelings and their own actions one another gender because they arent mature enough to own up to the actions they willingly make.

capitanMorgan89 · 2022-02-01T01:04:56+00:00

Just buy Dogecoin and you’ll be aight.

illnemesis · 2022-02-01T01:28:22+00:00

This is an average woman in 2022. She's just being honest about her behavior.

imAlreadyBanned11 · 2022-02-01T02:00:33+00:00

This thread is so funny, I thought about linking it here as well.

All I was thinking about is, at least she now finally knows how healthy males feel every damn day. Females and especially feminists are so quick to downplay a male's sexual needs, because none of them feels like we do and none of them even tries to understand us.

Inevitable_Brain9852 · 2022-02-01T02:15:38+00:00

What these women leave out is most of these people who sleep with them don’t know they have a sex addiction. So it’s literally not their fault.

If you have a problem with your addiction stop going to places that can feed into your addiction. Don’t blame the people who think your a normal consenting adult.

As for the boyfriend who possibly took advantage. We don’t know the details so he might have taken advantage. Or maybe in his mind he was just having sex with his girlfriend. We don’t know.

Either way sex addiction does not automatically mean you have revoked consent. Just like with any addiction you have to make the choice to stop, it is not any one else’s responsibility nor their fault if you relapse. People can help you but at the end of the day it is on you. And no one else if you relapse.

Mrbigballsmcgee · 2022-02-01T02:36:51+00:00

You’re telling me, go to the twoxchromesone or whatever you call it subreddit (feminist Reddit). You say anything that even remotely sounds like you’re defending a man and you get banned.

jarmbur · 2022-02-01T03:06:57+00:00

She's basically saying she has no self control and no desire to cultivate it. Sad

JP_Reeses_Pieces · 2022-02-01T03:11:40+00:00

Pure left wing ideology garbage

poopyroadtrip · 2022-02-01T03:40:55+00:00

Honestly hope she can get help

MattyK414 · 2022-02-01T06:24:14+00:00

A man's time/money is the equivalent of you sharing your body. Nobody wants a guy who pays for 50 dates that lead nowhere.

Noob_master_slayer · 2022-02-01T07:29:40+00:00

Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

Bet if her boyfriends didn't cater to her sex addiction, she'd make a similar post on the toxic r/TwoXChromosomes about how she is "sick of men being selfish and lazy in bed".

StarZax · 2022-02-01T08:09:14+00:00

« I don't get the same pass as men, boys will be boys, If a guy wants to fuck anything that moves he's a player »

Girl, shut the fuck up really, you don't know shit about how men behaves and think of these behaviors, go to therapy and stop blaming men for the shit you are going through.

Atoakai · 2022-02-03T20:05:38+00:00

I wish people like this and romcoms/sitcoms would stop spreading the "men who gets around is a player" crap. They still get called sluts and manwhores outside of media. Pretty much no one likes those sorts of people regardless of the gender.

CrazedKnightCK · 2022-02-04T13:36:54+00:00

Women love to be held, until it's being held ACCOUNTABLE.

DianeticDelight · 2022-02-05T07:00:39+00:00

This is a hall of famer

Emergency-Ad8214 · 2022-03-27T05:25:16+00:00

Not to throw fuel on the fire, but the OP is kinda creating outrage when there might not be need for one. She used the term "sexual partners" and didn't mention men once. Why are you trolling on that sub anyway? You're looking for an example with the ultimate goal of finding ammo to back your stance on how extreme feminism has affected men. I'm not saying that it hasn't, but I think examples like this are no different than doing exactly what you claim to stand against.

Maybe save that energy and stop creating conflict and use it to find a constructive way to offer facts and resolutions. This is part of the problem

Title	Men really do get blamed for everything, even a women's sex addiction. Apparently having CONSENSUAL sex is "taking advantage" of a women now.
Author	gonewildman5
Upvotes	1512
Comments	309
Date	January 31, 2022 9:19 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/sgx4ig/men_really_do_get_blamed_for_everything_even_a/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/men-really-do-get-blamed-for-everything-even-a.1211325 https://theredarchive.com/post/1211325

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