I was out with my girlfriend of over four years and she had drunk a bit more than she would normally would. She was clearly intoxicated and not doing well, but still coherent. In any case, while waiting for the tram home a concerned woman came up to us and asked if everything was alright. No problem with that. I explained the situation to her but she just couldn't believe that I was her trusted boyfriend and cared for nothing more than getting her home, tucking her into to bed and placing a spew-can nearby. She kept on asking "who are you?!" and demanded my address and/or my girlfriend's phone number. She also repeatedly offered my girlfriend a bed to sleep in at her place. This is even after my girlfriend repeatedly told her "no thank you, I'd much rather stay with my boyfriend and sleep in my own bed".

The not-so-subtle overtone of her offer and line-of-questioning was that I was going to take her home to rape her or take advantage of her in some way while she was intoxicated. It's nice that she cared but to imply that all men have ulterior motives is the height of prejudice. I'll also take into account that she, or a friend of hers, went through a bad experience and wanted to prevent it from happening again. I get that. But she should have left us alone after my girlfriend told her she was happy with who she was with and where she was going.

Not sure if this is the right place to put this but I needed somewhere to vent. Thanks for listening.