N Count Weekly Discussion Thread

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-04-06T12:16:09+00:00

Times are different now & I’m a nearly 60 year old woman. When I met my current (3rd) husband 12 years ago, I had not had sex with anyone else outside of my previous husband(s) since I was 19 years old in the early 80’s. I lived in my dead/unfair/me pulling most of the weight marriages for much longer than I should’ve and when I faced my 2nd divorce in my late 40’s after a long marriage that I gave my all to, I was absolutely ready to be alone for the rest of my life but am 100% happy that I took the chance to meet my 3rd (and final) husband. We met on a divorce support group. Neither of us were looking 👀 but it worked. It still works. There’s always hope, even when it seems hopeless. We were both older, previously married & ready to “close up shop”.

You younger people have the whole world to choose from. N counts? Who really cares?
I know his N count is higher than mine but he’s the best quality man I ever met in my life.

social_mule · 2023-04-06T10:47:52+00:00

I reported this thread for violating the no n count rule. Shame on you moderators.

TheThrowaway964 · 2023-04-06T03:15:20+00:00

It is perfectly acceptable for a virgin man to want a virgin wife. In addition, lying about shit you did in your past or your virginity to get a husband should earn you no less than a divorce & ending up with nothing but what you cam into the marriage with.

Slipthe · 2023-04-05T20:42:27+00:00

Wtf why did no one tell me that HDDs only last like 3 years??

I had mine for 7 years and yesterday it just expired. I didn't have backups for the files on there because I didn't know it could just die one day randomly.

Bandit174 · 2023-04-05T16:38:13+00:00

The averages n counts for men and women should end up being the same mathematically. What can be different is the median and the distribution and thats ultimately.

I think theres probably a lot of guys with n counts of 4 to 8 that end up with women with n counts of 8 to 16. In absolute terms those numbers are close enough that maybe you can say or they are n count matched but in relative terms the girl has 2x his experience.

The other factor is the quality of their partners. Women can fuck higher than they can date so odds are the guys in these scenarios are downgrades compared to the men his gf/wife chose for casual sex.

Even if a woman isn't riding the crousel and only has casual sex on a per exception basis she is likely making those exceptions for the same guys the carousel riders choose. So if a woman has an n count of 8 where only 4 were casual those 4 casual guys were probably fuckboys with n counts way higher than hers and way higher than whatever guy she chooses as her boyfriend/husband.

I also think there is a clear the rich get richer and poor get poorer dynamic with regards to male sexual access. So the more women you fuck the easiest it is to run through more even women and the longer you lack experience the further you fall behind and the harder it is to course correct.

PM_ME_ZED_BARA · 2023-04-05T09:33:14+00:00

Question to those who won’t date high-n people: would you hypothetically date high-n people who have taken a magical pill that made them totally and irreversibly forget their past sexual experiences?

Amazing-Key-1575 · 2023-04-05T02:40:26+00:00

If you’re aged 25+ and female above 10 but below 20 = standard.

If you’re aged 25+ and male above 1 but below 10 is probably average.

I’d you’re still single like me and either gender aged 30+ you’re probably in one or two camps: really high n-count or really low n-count (ie recent divorce or LTR ending can mean some women at 30 re-enter the meat market with lower n-count than their 20 year old competition. But the price for that is almost always a kid or three.

Amazing-Key-1575 · 2023-04-05T02:06:22+00:00

Does your n-count go down by 1 for every year you don’t get laid after you’ve lost your virginity?

FlyV89 · 2023-04-04T23:22:09+00:00

I'm actually 6.3', jacked, quite good looking I would say, in on the larger side, and I love to eat pussy (I can send you picks if you want, no kidding)

N-count around 70-80 (33 years old).

I have a strong preference for low N-count women.

Not that there are A LOT of them around these days, and not that I'm currently looking for a LTR, but yeah, because I've been with lots of women, I know how women operate, and I know there is a sustancial difference in the relationship quality with a low N-count woman VS a high N-count one.

Funny enough, one girl I was dating revealed she's actually a virgin. She's 25 and kid you not, quite good looking.

IDK if I should play along and se where she goes, if this is some kind of fetish or if she really is that stupid and thinks I'm going to fall in love with her because she's a virgin or what but honestly the situation is SO FUCKING FUNNY it makes me feel like I should just keep entertaining this.

Yeah, of course, I do not believe her.

I'm all in for dating a low N-count woman of, lets say, 1 to 6 ex boyfriends or so, but a virgin at my age is really rare.

Also, I wouldn't trust a woman past 18 years old to be a virgin neither, and I would think she's trying to play stupid games with me, which would be an inmediate, almost brutal next.

This is the first time that it happens to me actually (I never slept with a virgin since I started to be sexually active at 14) and that's the only reasson why I didn't broke up with her, we've been dating for almost a month and we didn't have sex, I made a move the other night at my place and she came up with this bullshit hahaha I swear IDK what to think, but I like the girl honestly, she's quite fun and kind.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-04-04T14:34:23+00:00

Just had one of my lady friends open up to me about something sexual in her past. As soon as she said it she got all embarrassed and said she shouldn't have said anything. I was a good sport about it, but it annoyed me, and her saying she shouldn't have said anything annoyed me even more... it was completely unsolicited so wtf?

She told me about a guy she met up with a few times before we met. They matched and apparently he was very good looking, and she just wanted to get laid. They met a few times for dates and always went back to his, but when it came down to it he couldn't get it up (whisky dick). She admitted she didn't even like him, but she was horny and he was good looking, so she would tried to get him hard to no avail. This happened a few times until on one date he said something that went strongly contrary to her political stance, and she cut off contact.

I am surprised at how sad I am about learning this. She swears that she never did the deed with him ( it sounds incredibly unbelievable to me ) but if I take her at her word... I'm left with a few thoughts.

If what she says is true: She knowingly went out with a guy she didn't like, nor have a romantic connection with, and still tried to have sex with him.

I'm so annoyed by this. I was disabused with the idea that a woman needed to be in love in order to have sex with a guy back in my younger years, so that part isn't a surprise. But she didn't even like him, there was no "rapport", there was no anything and she still instigated to have sex with him. Because she was horny and he was good looking.

Any woman who claims to need "time" or take it "slow" ... she's bullshitting you. She is lying to you.

Now I'm stuck with the thought that I have to wonder if she drinks a little bit and sees a hot guy, that's the only conditions necessary for her to want to fuck a rando.

And yet at the same time, am I really going to get bent out of shape? She fucked me early on, she has a high libido, we have have banged over 100 times over several years, she cooks and has bought me food, I fuck her anyway I want, nearly anywhere I want (plenty of blowjobs out in public, fuck her in the ass when I want) she's been 100% perfect.

Am I really going to be that upset over a guy she saw a handful of times and, allegedly, nothing really happened?

Or worse:

She was talking freely until she let something slip and she sort of backpedaled. She did in fact sleep with this guy. And it was lame but she still pursued it until his he fucked it up by taking a strong enough stance on an issue that she couldn't ignore away.

I'm really torn. And she hasn't communicated since. I'm really bummed, I thought she was really special and different.

Before all this, she mentioned a worry of hers is that a younger woman would flirt with me and want to take me to her bedroom. And eerily enough a match with a girl over the weekend that looks strikingly like her but 17 years younger... I am so tempted. Any fucking push back would be met with "it just happened, teehee". ..

StraightOuttaF_cks · 2023-04-04T13:04:00+00:00

Sluts aren't bad? I'm a very proud slut.. I mean.. I go through phases but I tend to just sleep around with the same few people with the understanding it's casual. They all know about each other. Lol, and a couple of them have fucked me together. But I'm out of reliable dick for the time being so I ain't slutting it up.

New_Hat8820 · 2023-04-03T23:10:07+00:00

The mods and the matrix keep silencing my voice and deleting my posts. Pray for me y’all. They really don’t want the red pill to succeed 😞

asofiro · 2023-04-03T19:46:08+00:00

I don't care about N count if the woman is hot, not mentally ill and STD free. There I said. Now send me back to horny jail please.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-03T13:14:03+00:00

Why would I want a partner who is going to actively compare me to her other partners? It doesn't matter if I'm better or not, being compared like that is disgusting.

Women wanna act like it's not an issue but if I'm comparing women's pussy tightness or how they perform, they wouldn't be so cool with it.

Impressively_Girthy · 2023-04-03T05:59:58+00:00

I think why is this even a sticky but then I guess it has 443 comments

2023-04-02T23:37:35+00:00

Reason #29284 why I'm glad not to be American.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-04-02T13:03:54+00:00

So just from this thread it feels like the people who have really strong opinions about this are the dudes who can’t pull so they area making up all kinds of reasons why it’s bad that women are pulling more than them. But not the dudes: all us dudes that might have added to any woman’s n-count get a pass even though suddenly the women we fuck are now “disgusting”.

Still feels like a whole lot of jealousy. “Dudes will be cool with any girl lower than them- it’s just how do you get lower than zero?”

Ylduts · 2023-04-02T09:06:46+00:00

One reason, to put it bluntly, is that it is no accomplishment for a woman to have slept with a lot of guys. For most women, having sex is an incredibly easy thing to attain. Sleeping with many men for a woman does not point to any "positive" traits she may have, whereas for men, to have sex, it usually requires having some type of "positive" traits: being good-looking, funny, charming, good conversationalist, has money etc. The literature is pretty clear with the statistics. Higher body count in women is correlated with higher prevalence of mental health issues, personality disorders, drug use and cheating.

Anyone looking for a long term monogamous relationship would be foolish to date these women.

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2023-04-02T03:47:05+00:00

i really fail to see the point of these discussions, yep, many men consider a womans sexual past a deal breaker, okay, whats the problem? women arent losing rights or opportunities because of that, they wont get stoned to death or isolated from society and nobody is advocating for that, that their dating pool changes? yeah welcome to the real world where none of us are entitled to dates or relationships, i for example, if i were a guy who spends his money with prostitutes, only fan models, escorts, porn content etc, i can guarantee you that all of my girlfriends would have never ever talked to me and many women would exclude me from their dating pool unapologetically and it's their right to do so, this is the same.

Demanding men to consider a woman deserving of special treatment no matter what she does reeks of entitlement and on top of that women dont need men anymore so they ll be fine....right?

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-02T00:24:11+00:00

High bodycount women are yucky. They are big stinky.

bootyhunter69420 · 2023-04-01T21:30:25+00:00

If a woman has a high body count but makes you wait or isn't as kinky with you, it feels like a slap in the face. Rather be alone than settled on.

FatmanSlim93 · 2023-04-01T21:20:28+00:00

I remember being on here a lot like 3-4 years ago. Good to see things never change 😂. For real though I used to care more about this back in the day but honestly it’s not really that important now. Sure there’s limits but too many of y’all want virgins and that ain’t common nowadays 😂

SecondEldenLord · 2023-04-01T20:14:34+00:00

Simple: women with high body count are less likely in establishing an emotional connection with a partner. Also the divorce rate in women with high body count is much higher. Nothing wrong with a man wanting a woman who has not been ran through.

WowYouMustBeJoking · 2023-04-01T19:54:00+00:00

Men don't care about N count, they care about D count. Stop pretending that men and women are the same. They are different and, consequently, sleeping with men and sleeping with women are different.

nunchuckbitch27 · 2023-04-01T19:49:59+00:00

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nunchuckbitch27 · 2023-04-01T19:19:11+00:00

QfM: I saw guys say they don’t care about N count they care about D count. So if that is true what do you count as sex is it just actual intercourse or dose that include blowjobs as well? If it also includes blowjobs because it’s still a dick how would you feel if the woman had absolutely no dicks in her but she was on the receiving end of oral? What if she refused PiV sex anal and bjs but she had 50 men go down on her and had mind blowing orgasms from it would that matter?

DumpApe135 · 2023-04-01T19:14:10+00:00

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VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-01T18:57:31+00:00

I refuse to say n count, it sounds too stupid.

ChadChasingB · 2023-04-01T18:50:58+00:00

I don't think there's anything wrong with people that sleep with whoever they want, but as a virgin I only want another virgin, no exceptions.

Ainsleygz · 2023-04-01T16:54:22+00:00

So attached that we couldn’t even pump and dump the thread

CimZim · 2023-04-01T16:53:01+00:00

It's kinda weird how some of the guys here get upset that low N women in general don't want high N men, but are cool with other men saying they don't want high N women.

helpless_rocks · 2023-04-01T16:51:21+00:00

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LeatherCarpet6791 · 2023-04-01T16:46:36+00:00

N count is just a way to tell something about the person ,like the way you dress or the way you handle thing , i cant look inside people head or see the future but i ll use the information that i have to try to predict it

But High n count is high lets its should be considering for everyone.

There should be not so ever double standerd in it if your self are hooking or TRYIN to hookup you should not be judgy about girl who hookup.

Also guys should consider its easier for women to have more n count so if you as guy had 2 n count maybe a women who have same view for relationship or set of morals have a bigger n count lets say double that.

Stunning_Thing4208 · 2023-04-01T16:31:43+00:00

Sup 304s

LeatherCarpet6791 · 2023-04-01T16:04:28+00:00

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