Seeing yourself anyway as a "nice guy" seems kinda redundant as anyone else, mostly, also is.

Everyone else would help a wheelchaired person unto a bus. Everyone else also cares about our climate, political tensions, their closest relatives, overall suffering, tries their best. Everyone else considers everyone else as a legit human being, mostly living under any golden rule imagineable, most of times.

So how should this characteristic anyone else also posesses to any normal extend define yourself? It is basically like stating "I have a pair of eyes, ears, hands... that's my peculiar specialty!"

There are extreme outliers in IQ, athleticism, beauty, etc. etc. etc., but not in "niceness", as it's basically just being a decent human being, following general conventions. (not meaning "agreeableness" as it could be misinterpreted as such)

If you completely missed out in any of the above, implying another misconception, that talents are somewhat balanced, you might consider you must be more than sufficient in some other realm?

"Jerks" as in "teasing the opposite gender in a playful, self esteemed way, which borders on brutality" as "those folks might be mature enough to know slight differences in appropriateness in any given context, which you, as unsocial one, lack"? Discuss.