Attention Male Lurkers: You need to SHUT THE FUCK up about your online dating problems

electroloop · 2021-08-21T15:59:35+00:00

Lmao 15 reports, keep screeching into the void scrotes.

pickmieshaexorcist · 2021-08-20T21:51:21+00:00

They never care what kind. They never care that it’s themselves and their fellow men fucking them over, too. They blame women. They act willfully obtuse if you point out that the “attention” is harassment and not pleasant. They just say “b-but sex. SEX. Women get sex.”

It’s like a toddler screaming that his sister got cake, but it’s a cake made of SHIT. But he still hollers because SHE GOT CAKE, it’s not FAIR!

Quillopedia · 2021-08-21T03:06:12+00:00

It's the same logic when Reddit men throw themselves a pity party about how "men don't get compliments 🥺". They fantasise about the reverse situation -- hordes of hot women pleading for sex from them. Because they always imagine the perpetrators as desirable options, rather than repulsive and potentially dangerous. Instead they should imagine what it would be like for them to get pestered for sex by the average unwashed scrote who is also holding a weapon he may or may not choose to use.

charmparticle · 2021-08-20T22:04:29+00:00

At a BBQ with neighbors, the organizer complained about his online dating difficulties, and repeatedly asked me to search how to grill (the food that he made for himself) 🍗♨️ and what time it was ⏳. Yooooo, if dude wants to date or invite neighbors to a cookout, research "how to grill [food]" in advance, and have a watch or phone nearby. Also he didn't bring paper towels or plates to his BBQ, so I have to replenish my supplies. LOL 😆

modernmedusaa · 2021-08-20T23:29:42+00:00

It’s a LIE

It’s all an illusion.....an agenda they created so they can bully and guilt trip more women into dealing with low value men

They pretend they’re all so lonely and not getting any attention- so they can trick more high value women into their harams.

The men I’ve met IRL who complained about online dating being hard for men and how they hated it....were the ones taking advantage of it most and cheating across 5 different dating apps!

They were WORSE than the men who never complained about modern dating. Much worse than the men they’re envious of as they were paranoid and obsessive with trying to ‘knock me down a peg’ even tho nobody was trying them. They’re just fixated on revenge & impressing other men. Emotionally stunted manchildren trying to collect women like coins.

Don’t believe the LIES!!

And quite frankly for the men who ARE struggling - they are usually unattractive, have horrid personalities and are only chasing conventionally attractive women. And they aren’t putting these clowns in line. So really how much of a ‘nice guy’ are they.

There’s always a long list of reasons and issues with their mentalities and entitled personalities.

I run into so many delusional men like that. Expect all the sympathy from women but don’t give any to women. See them as objects of their desire only.

So basically even the ones who are struggling - it’s their own fault and the fact they can’t seem to get attention outside of dating apps- tells you everything you need to know. They are lazy and low value.

fogplum · 2021-08-21T02:42:43+00:00

Men assume every woman on OLD is a whore and treat women on OLD accordingly. Then get butthurt when women on OLD don't want them.

Men, if you don't like it, don't use it. Simple as that.

jkklfdasfhj · 2021-08-20T22:20:24+00:00

Again, why do men run the world if so many of them are so immature? SMH

top_of_the_stairs · 2021-08-20T22:06:55+00:00

I'm a simple woman; I see "male lurkers" & "shut the fuck up" and then I upvote accordingly 🤷‍♀️👍😀

comet2004 · 2021-08-21T01:51:31+00:00

why is it sooooo hard for them to empathize with us. funny story but I had a ex guy friend who would constantly spew this bs about how lucky girls are for attention and how easy girls have it. one day we were out and he got hit on/propositioned by a old ugly ass dude. he sure as hell did not like it when it happened to him! I should have been like "oh man you are so lucky to be able to get easy sex like that!" but I was way too nice.

WorkaholicParty · 2021-08-21T12:57:33+00:00

They dont care about the harassment that happens to women, they think it's not that bad and they're happy we're upset.

The problem is, whenever i see them whining about dating apps these weirdos all talk about their fake fat/chubby female accounts they make and their logical conclusions about dating and I'm like....

You're probably american right? And in America 70% of people on dating apps are male but of the other 30% how many of them are actual women and not bots placed by the apps to lure the scrotes and fake profile made by "scientifically minded" incels? 🤕

I can only imagine being one of the few women, most of them probably aren't that aware of the make up of OLD, being swarmed by a bunch of entitled angry dicks. I got hateful scrote PM on here before I blocked them and wow they talk to me as if we already knew each other and there was a hierarchy. 🤢🤮🤮🤮 Can't believe these ugly guys give themselves the right to even see my user name.

Orangeminers915 · 2021-08-20T23:15:12+00:00

One of the bums followed me and his profile just talks about needing a girlfriend lol. This is the only dating thread I follow so idk where else he would’ve come from.

CrazyPaine · 2021-08-20T22:14:01+00:00

Why don't men date themselves? I mean they're complaining (bitching) so much about it then ya know date each other so they won't feel lonely, they can have an emotional punching bag, someone to coddle them, take their disgusting and offensive comments and they can simply laugh it off.

Datonecatladyukno · 2021-08-20T23:17:52+00:00

Could have ended that title after the word up, js. In general, silence from them would be glorious

Huntscunt · 2021-08-20T21:51:45+00:00

I feel like this is one of the best things about "aging out" of these apps. Once I hit 30, I stopped getting so much shit. I still get the harassment from time to time, but the level is way lower.

Net_Negative · 2021-08-21T06:05:23+00:00

"Why are women hungry when there are perfectly good hot dogs on the sidewalk?"

lolmemberberries · 2021-08-21T01:10:29+00:00

I'm all for letting them catfish and send dick pics to each other.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2021-08-21T05:02:06+00:00

They’re so entitled. They think that women exist to validate them.

I can’t stand men in mental health groups blaming women for their mental illness and saying they want a gf to be happy and then when I point out how selfish that is and how women aren’t their therapists and to get professional help they throw a tantrum.

They want women to be their mothers.

sparklingcandy · 2021-08-21T06:09:56+00:00

Men would fuck every living thing they could get and think women MUST too.

Dick is abundant and of low value. Nothing could be of lesser importance than (meaningless sex) for women. We don’t enjoy it, it’s traumatic for us. We want a loving partner in the true sense of the word, not some meaningless sex with some random dude.

Most women wouldn’t even sleep with the top 1% good looking men based on looks alone. It’s a combination of attraction, maturity, respect, financial stability, exclusivity, empathy, and accountability that does it for us. They call this a high standard lol any person looking to date and breed should meet these standards, man or woman, this is the bare minimum. SO many women meet them, Very few men do.

So if we reject the top 1% men if they have shitty characters and only want to use us, why on earth should we NOT reject the unattractive men with even shittier characters?

Scrotes seem to think a woman’s love for them should be unconditional, regardless of their lying, cheating, being broke, manwhoring, going 50/50, below average looks bullshit and their overall rampant misogyny.

Men must learn that if they’re attracted to us, doesn’t mean we must be attracted to them. And you should not be attracted to just any one, that’s the whole point of dating? to narrow it down to just one person.

Also, if we don’t feel sexual attraction why should we date you? lol the only difference between relationships and friendships we have with our friends is sexual attraction, otherwise we’d just go to our female friends who are much much more emotionally aware, love/understand/support us much much better than some cheating scrote.

AloofNerd · 2021-08-21T10:06:45+00:00

Why are men such absolute cowards? I wish we pointed this out more to them, because it is a flawed personality trait which all men seem to hold. Yet, women, historically weak, seem to be strong and pursuing their dreams regardless of obstacles and hardship.

I'm not even attracted to them at this point as I don't see them holding any admirable traits! Ugh, to quote, "i wish god made me gay."

Important_Insect1422 · 2021-08-21T05:50:21+00:00

I second that they are cheating. So many guys on dating apps are cheating lol I get husband's aaaaalllll the time messaging me.

jugularlemonade · 2021-08-21T03:07:58+00:00

Also it’s the them who are giving women so many matches. Why bitch about it? It’s you dude

misandryisnotreal · 2021-08-21T00:27:32+00:00

You little guys are afraid that a woman will ignore you or choose a better partner, but women are literally afraid of being assaulted or murdered. Grow tf up, or go date one of your bros.

Alpha_Aries · 2021-08-21T02:32:56+00:00

I’m bi but set my apps to “interested in women only.”

I accidentally set it to Men and Women for about an hour before I realized my error. I got dozens of likes and one negging message from a scrote.

OkAttorney2098 · 2021-08-21T05:23:20+00:00

👏 ! This! Idk how many times I've heard/read comments from men about how OLD is so unfair and hard for them and women "have it so easy," "just do it for the attention," "only shoot for the top 20% of men," etc etc. And I always want to jump in and say "for SEX only!" That is the only way women have it easier online - if we are looking for NSA sex and nothing else. I'm an average looking woman, I gave OLD a good try off and on for years. I would message men "in my league," and quite frankly below it based on looks. And nothing ever came of it. Most men wouldn't give me the time of day because I wouldn't put out. The only ones willing to keep trying were the desperate ones - you know, unintelligent, flat broke, bad hygiene etc.

circescircus · 2021-08-21T13:28:11+00:00

In a few years OLD will be even more congested with Insta/OnlyFans promoters, bots, sex workers, and dead profiles. That's the trajectory it's been on, because men collectively can't avoid abusing and harassing women on OLD. The peak days of OLD are over because men have basically scared women off of dating apps.

throwawayastrogirl · 2021-08-21T19:28:27+00:00

I laugh at their tHe gaME iS rigGEd nonsense. How? How is the dating scene rigged? You literally have access to millions of attractive women. What is stopping you from snatching one? Is there a dating police? Lurking in the shadows waiting to cockblock you? No? Then what is it? Oh that's right, you have nothing of value to offer. Your personality stinks through the screen and you are not a looker either. So, I dunno, go after a girl on your attractiveness level or i dunno, stay single, no shame in that.

Also, dear scrotes, just because a woman you deem "a 6/10" snatched a "Chad" does not mean she was lucky because men will f*ck everything and that she will have a rude awakening once she hits 30; the game is not rigged, you get what you can.

Or in your case what you can't. Stay mad.

dancedancedance7 · 2021-08-21T06:35:04+00:00

Have they considered their own advice of lowering their standards?

blackmetalbetty · 2021-08-21T02:17:07+00:00

Guy: y'all get all these messages and attention and don't even have to try

The message waiting in a woman's inbox on OLD:

Jeff says🗣: "123456ahsdjfhffjffnfndnddnfnfjtfj... ho"

Hot_coffee_and_Rain · 2021-08-21T01:37:06+00:00

Absolutely agree with this. Even if it starts out like the guys a nice well behaved gentlemen, it takes a turn so fast I get whiplash. All of a sudden it’s sexual and pushy. I’m glad my days dating are over.

aenema46n2 · 2021-08-20T21:55:40+00:00

Couldn't agree more 📢 📢 📢

exhalefierceness · 2021-08-20T23:24:08+00:00

Aaand this is why I’m never joining OLD

Junior-Lion7893 · 2021-08-21T06:32:04+00:00

Wait, idk know this but there are bots 🤖 with OLD lol

I never thought that dating apps would use bots to even out the number of girls. This is pretty funny and eye opening. This makes me wonder what the male to female ration is like on these apps…🤔😵‍💫

moistmonkeymerkin · 2021-08-21T02:08:36+00:00

This title had me screaming!!! 🤣😂☠️ I just deleted an OLD app today. Gonna focus on myself for a while. Live your best life ladies.

stchmittensocks · 2021-08-21T02:23:55+00:00

They go speaking FOR women and then get mad at women..based on their own imaginary beliefs of women

rm23848474 · 2021-08-21T04:53:36+00:00

Yeah and of those men on apps who actually sound polite enough to meet up with, a high percentage turn out to be abusive narcissist or rapists

Newwavesupport3657 · 2021-08-21T05:03:40+00:00

I will never use dating apps. Don’t trust men who use them.

vbych76 · 2021-08-21T05:24:14+00:00

The scrotes that crack me up 😂 are the ones that say : "wah,wah, another woman that doesn't know what she wants". B*ttface, deary, I know what I want and you ain't It.

ExistentialJelly · 2021-08-21T20:18:23+00:00

I had a ton of old guys asking me if I was dtf. Had to google what that meant because I don't use chat speak. Literally 20 pages of messages asking me to bang or just "hey".

Even one woman messaged me her husband's tiny 🍆 to see if I would do him while she watched.

External_Initial1918 · 2021-08-20T22:33:48+00:00

Have they considered that maybe the reason they don’t get matches is because they; are fat balding and ugly, or have photos of them holding up animals they’ve murdered? It’s literally not that hard to be attractive lol just don’t be gross!

Thestral-glow6 · 2021-08-21T14:59:09+00:00

This post 👌🏼😌

Thattonertho · 2021-08-21T16:48:52+00:00

They're always like if i got those messages blah blah blah. No. You wouldn't be flattered. You wouldn't like it. Fuck turning the tables, if a woman straight up messaged you hey sexy let's hookup you would flip shit about her being a slot or a horse. You would say fuck you go back to only fans. You would think she's disgusting and you would 1000000% NOT go for it.

Ilivetowork · 2021-08-21T09:29:52+00:00

Yeah I deleted my profiles . Even the ones the seem ok end up being fakes when you meet them . I'm good.

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Title	Attention Male Lurkers: You need to SHUT THE FUCK up about your online dating problems
Author	letsberealforamoment
Upvotes	1499
Comments	94
Date	August 20, 2021 9:44 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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