This is the prime example of rich =/= high value..

bleda_princezna · 2021-12-12T18:28:23+00:00

It's not that he doesn't/cannot realize that not everyone can afford this lifestyle. He knows, it's simple math. Definitely after showing him her payslips and expenses it's impossible to not understand.

But he chose not to. He chose to pretend he doesn't understand. Because he loves to humiliate her and abuse her. Piece of shit is pretending to be clueless.

Why is he dating a woman he hates? No man who at least somewhat likes his girlfriend would do this. But this trash of a human gets off on making her miserable.

I hope she realizes this and dumps him. Poor woman.

Specific-Composer300 · 2021-12-12T17:54:26+00:00

The question is why does SHE care about HIM when he clearly hates her?!

all_or_nothing_bet · 2021-12-12T18:03:02+00:00

Wait, she travels to him at her own expense, cooks for him with food she pays for, gives him sex, probably cleans too, doesn't get anything in return (no, getting fucked doesn't count) and gets berated by him for not doing it as often as he desires??

She is not his GF, she is his serf 🤦‍♀️

bleda_princezna · 2021-12-12T17:36:32+00:00

Y’all someone asked her why he doesn’t pay for meals and trips and OP said that her “””bf””” accused her of bleeding him dry 💀💀💀

JulyParade · 2021-12-12T17:27:44+00:00

He abuses her because it amuses him. Why on earth would she keep talking to him. The moment you feel like showing a guy receipts to "prove" yourself take a step back and BLOCK HIS NUMBER!

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-12-12T19:08:44+00:00

I guarantee he's dating her so that he always has the upper hand.

cml678701 · 2021-12-12T17:46:12+00:00

I’m tired of people from other subs saying we think the only thing that makes a man HV is money, and we just want a rich man. Clearly that is not true. Most of us want a man who is generous and invests in us, and can at least maintain a decent standard of living…which is also a standard we have for ourselves. We are not lazy leeches just looking for a wallet!

ello-motto · 2021-12-12T17:15:09+00:00

Can someone DM her about FDS?

scorchedsouI · 2021-12-12T18:17:50+00:00

What an unpleasant peace of shit. Insufferable men are a dime a dozen, why is she so desperate to keep this one?

BooksandEarlGreyTea · 2021-12-12T19:52:36+00:00

I wonder if she isn't the only women in this guys life and he keeps her around because abusing her amuses him. If he is several towns over and has money, it would be easy for him to try and get women in his home town.

bepbep747 · 2021-12-12T20:38:21+00:00

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Mcccy · 2021-12-12T17:16:00+00:00

He doesn't even like her or cares about her. Period.

Gallaballatime1 · 2021-12-12T18:20:32+00:00

This is foul. She has shown him evidence, repeatedly told him she can’t afford to visit him so often. Instead of paying for her trips, or visiting her instead he has her pay for half of the food when she does visit.

He does not care for her. If he did. There would be a much bigger effort on his part both financially and time wise.

Determinedblonde · 2021-12-12T17:31:44+00:00

You think he’d be paying for everything - I’m sure if the tables were turned he’d expect nothing less 😒

iacint · 2021-12-12T17:52:33+00:00

I bet he cries of being used/scared of being interesting only for money but will spend thousands on champagne and actually gold diggers/it-girls /party girls .

99power · 2021-12-12T17:17:20+00:00

I had an LVX who would go on European vacations with his LV bros but not with me… because he was a stockbroker and I worked retail. Did I mention we lived together for four years?

This guy is trash. DTMFA. Or he’ll get bored and dump you. Then you will have invested all that time and what little resources you have into this deadend, not-even-enjoyable, emotionally manipulative and abusive “relationship.” Spend those resources (time, travel money, emotions) on investing in ✨YOURSELF✨. Then you’ll meet a HVM because you’ve done the work to become a HVW

preppykat3 · 2021-12-12T17:59:39+00:00

Why is she with this cheap lowlife?? If a man is “rich” but acts like a cheapass towards you then he’s broke in my book.

donttextme_k · 2021-12-12T17:19:22+00:00

He is so fucking pathetic

The_Cat_Empress · 2021-12-12T19:17:22+00:00

If he can’t help her out with a little money or affection (or a lot of money, I don’t judge lol) then there is no point even having the man. Pah!

rainbowhelix · 2021-12-13T00:32:29+00:00

Oh my GOD. "Contribute to the meals we cook at his place?!?" GIRL. Next thing you know, he's gonna be charging for paper towels and toilet paper usage. BLOCK AND DELETE.

Davina33 · 2021-12-12T20:53:52+00:00

I commented on this. Her boyfriend is a control freak and a miser. I hope she dumps him.

Japanese_Lasagna · 2021-12-12T20:56:26+00:00

I had some similarities with my rich LV ex.

I had enough money to spend with hanging out with friends and when doing some dating only because I lived with my parents. If I lived on my own, I would not have had the means to do either at the time. I worked and did school full time, and the money I relied on was all my own and loans.

My ex was rich but didn’t think of himself as rich because it was his father’s money and he was 100% dependent on his father. He was too lazy to get an education or a job despite having a trust fund set up for his education costs and job connections through his father. (He kept refusing his father’s offers in regards to work for years. I think eventually his father gave him an ultimatum though.) He simply wasted his days doing a bunch of nothing and wondered why he felt like a loser.

My rich LV ex used the fact the money he had was his father’s as an excuse to only ever pay for himself and never spend anything on me too. “Oh I’d feel bad about spending my dad’s money like that. It’s really just meant for me.”Meanwhile, his LV father had so much money to waste that he had sugar babies who were my age. I doubt it would have been a problem, and if it would have been, that’s a sign to get a job and gain some independence.

I spent much more money on dates than I would have if he hadn’t had such expensive taste. He didn’t seem to understand why I couldn’t go on even more expensive dates.

And I had to drive an hour each way to see him because god forbid he make such a long journey for such a far distance. Realistically, he wanted us to be close to his home for dates because of hope for sex after the dates.

When he eventually dumped me (he was unwilling to put in any patience or effort to address a problem in the relationship and chose this route instead), I didn’t initially realize how much he sucked. It took years to fully unpack everything.

This woman needs to dump this man and move on. What she is describing is the selfish young rich man’s approach to dating women of a lower socioeconomic class. Rich men like this do not date fellow rich women because rich women expect to be treated like queens from their rich boyfriends. He is taking advantage of her all over the place and being purposefully obtuse.

AnniaT · 2021-12-12T21:22:19+00:00

Why isn't he visiting her instead?

Anyways NVM.

pinkcorolla · 2021-12-12T18:22:19+00:00

Reminds me of the guy who put slugs in his girlfriend’s foods.

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Jandi18 · 2021-12-12T21:45:55+00:00

I bet men of Reddit are telling her to "communicate" with her bf 🙄

Thesseli · 2021-12-12T22:23:50+00:00

She should dump him.

xfelugirlx · 2021-12-12T22:37:58+00:00

I dont even think he is rich and if he is, he is cheap af. And you being his mommy, hell no girl. Dump him and live in peace. You don’t need a 0 empathetic scrote

ironglaciers · 2021-12-13T01:09:24+00:00

I have found that the richer you are, the more likely you are to have impaired or nonexistent empathy.

At any rate, what is she getting out of this? He is ignorant at best and selfish at worst, he doesn't clearly care about her.

nothingt0say · 2021-12-13T00:05:35+00:00

What sub is this in?

So sad

quasarbar · 2021-12-13T02:48:56+00:00

He understands. He just doesn't care.

Big-Paleontologist13 · 2021-12-13T03:29:15+00:00

this guy is clearly just tormenting her

jijitsu-princess · 2021-12-13T03:24:15+00:00

I’m heartbroken for her. He damn well knows she is struggling. He just doesn’t give a damn.

Sewud · 2021-12-13T05:49:07+00:00

A poor guy can be like this too. I was dating a guy who was poorer than me and he still pulled that same thing where he forced me to spend more than I was comfortable. Plane tickets to go see him all the time, otherwise I "didn't care much about him".

_cnz_ · 2021-12-13T02:16:17+00:00

how much do you want to bet there's also an age gap?

vatellechef · 2021-12-13T13:11:23+00:00

“Shown him receipts and payslip”?!???? Sis, it’s supposed to be your boyfriend, not the local tax bureau

MmeNxt · 2021-12-13T10:35:22+00:00

She would be the perfect wife, as he has all the control over the relationship. Things will get even worse when they live together. She will never have anything to say because he will hold all the power.
She should run.

StalkerPoetess · 2021-12-13T12:38:39+00:00

The current guy I'm seeing lives in the next city and he has absolutely taking it upon himself to be doing coming to my city instead of the other way around. He didn't even need to ask, he just understood from our convos that I won't be able to be the one to go because of my family being very controlling and I want to keep the peace for now. He has been a gentleman about it and didn't pry into it. And it's the legit bare minimum. Like come on, if she can't come to you then you go to her of you actually care.

ilikedogsbutmenmore · 2021-12-13T05:09:22+00:00

Gaslighting.

Title	This is the prime example of rich =/= high value..
Author	Basem3nt
Upvotes	1108
Comments	72
Date	December 12, 2021 5:09 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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