Why Red Pill is Dumb Series Part 1: Women and the Table

Preface

Maybe it's because I'm good looking. Maybe, but I'm also 5'5. Yet I have zero trouble with women and have many women interested in me.

I've come to the conclusion that most men are mediocre. I'm not saying that talk shit or lift myself up over here as I have my own issues but to tell guys, that no, you aren't as good as you think you are. Most of y'all are followers. Not leaders. Or else you wouldn't frame your opinions from cult dudes trying to make a buck rather than having your own thoughts. These are my thoughts on why Red Pill is dumb. In this series of posts I'm going to deconstruct and break down various things Red Pill says, why it's dumb, and what to do instead.

Women and the Table

Red Pill likes to espouse the idea that you as individuals in a relationship bring something "to the table". Many men are being taught to ask women this, as if to determine a woman's value. But here's the thing: you should be trying to figure out what she offers just by talking to her. You don't have to ask so directly and the purpose of talking to a woman is to figure out if you're compatible to begin with.

Frankly, the people who ask stuff like,"what do you bring to the table?" are weird. Your main goal in talking to a woman is gauging if she will be a good wife and future mother to your children, not a future lay. Therefore if she weren't good for either of those things you wouldn't, or shouldn't if you had any self respect, be talking to her to begin with. What she brings emotionally, intellectually, sexually, spiritually to a relationship is what she brings to the table and that's shit you as a man should be looking out for without asking directly. What values does she have? What does she think philosophically? Is she okay with the alphabet people? Find out. How many children does she want? Would she be willing to raise the kid(s) by staying off for a year or so or would it be straight to work? Does she say she'd like to stay at home and raise the kids for a period of time without you even asking? Are you two equally yoked in the vision you have for a future family? What does she think will lead to a healthy family? What duties does she think a man should do and what a woman should do? Is she flexible in this regard? Does she have a problem with me cooking? Will you be able to sexually satisfy each other? Y'all should be having these conversations both ways.

If you ask what she brings to the table you're a man who still hasn't figured out what he wants in a wife, in which case you really need to figure it out and stop wasting women's time.

The only reason so many men are now asking what a woman brings to the table is because some other man told them to ask that. In which case, ladies if you're reading this, you're dealing with a man that follows and doesn't lead.

Far too many have completely lost the benefit of a woman and their nurturing instinct. Many men belittle educated women for instance. I see red pill guys on social media saying they don't want an educated woman. How droll. An educated woman is a man with ambitions greatest asset. She offers insight and plugs holes in your ideas you didn't think of before. She will give you opportunities through her network or come at it from a woman s perspective. My photography mentor ever sice he started talking to his lady has gotten opportunity after opportunity. Featured in New York Times, now he's a Eugene Smith winner. She helps schedule his shit on HER spare time, this former HBO exec. Moreover, a mother is a child's first teacher. How can you claim to want a family if you do not value intelligence in a woman? A mediocre man does not see the value in an educated/intelligent woman.

In their hubris, many men are devaluing women and the role they play. I doubt any of you Red Pill guys are keeping women with the way so many of you treat them like trash.

All of what I just wrote is also why courting is better than dating.

TLDR: Both parties add to a relationship and the goal is to see if you are both mutual in terms of mindset and values. Do not undermine women, their intelligence, or the role they play in a relationship. You will fail, repeatedly, if you do so. Deservedly, too.

Next Time: The Myth that Women Don't Want Vulnerable Men.