Ladies y’all need to be grateful to go to the SOUP KITCHEN! 🥴😩

cantstopthemachine77 · 2020-12-03T19:36:09+00:00

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destineygray · 2020-12-03T19:56:06+00:00

Also I’m not donating to the food bank so lvm can get free dates there

those resources are meant to be for people who need that shit - this girl obviously didnt (maybe she felt bad for taking charity she doesnt need/isnt meant for her)

I mean, would you sleep in a homeless shelter if you had a house??

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2020-12-03T19:46:21+00:00

ToO GoOd FoR a SoUp KiTcHeN

No. I would not go on a date to a soup kitchen. If I am in need of a soup kitchen I would not be dating. I would be doing everything I could to get back on my feet. Imagine trying to date when you're food-insecure.

Priorities, sir, do you have them?

Pasdepromesses · 2020-12-03T19:56:11+00:00

This rubs me the wrong way on so many levels. Even if I were a Pickmeisha and had a 50/50 mentality I still would be mad.

Why is this guy going to a soup kitchen at all? He's robbing people who really need it of their place at a table.

Edit: Also, 'miss a chance with him?'. Great. Miss me with that shit.

xdecadent · 2020-12-03T19:06:58+00:00

See this is why y’all single. Y’all too good to eat a community dinner at the soup kitchen /s

ivarteefies · 2020-12-03T19:50:03+00:00

This has to be a joke. All of it. That this man who can't feed himself would try to date, likely attempt to get sex in exchange for a free soup kitchen meal, and potentially bring another life into the world that he absolutely can not support.

I hope Ms. Bougie walked her fine ass out of there and gave a donation on the way out for the people who truly need a meal, not just some scrote fishing for sex.

suncolor · 2020-12-03T20:05:04+00:00

We have had coffee dates, field dates, parked car in an alley date and now the public assistance date...

cantsextihavebills · 2020-12-03T19:49:27+00:00

He's right- it was a great way for them to get to know each other. She got to learn he was a clown, and he learned that she's not going to put up with bullshit.

crispnails · 2020-12-03T19:48:33+00:00

If he can't provide for himself, she would probably HAVE to provide for him. No thanks, woman earn less statistically and what kind of impression does he even think he could leave on her? That he is poor and wants to stay that way?

Summerisle7 · 2020-12-03T20:00:10+00:00

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burpleseaurchin · 2020-12-03T20:25:25+00:00

B-b-but he heard women are out there on dating sites JUST to get "free meals"! 😢🤣

Summerisle7 · 2020-12-03T20:55:59+00:00

I mean, I'd feel bad eating at a soup kitchen not because I look down on it, but because I don't need free food. I'd be taking a seat and a meal away from someone who does need it. Also it's not exactly the most romantic atmosphere for a date!

This OP is probably a joke, but if it were real, I'd say this guy is not in a place in his life where he should be dating.

HolaHulaHola · 2020-12-03T21:02:38+00:00

A guy I knew in college and whom I still sometimes hear from (thank you FB) would approach women in bars he was interested in, and instead of sending her a drink, would send her a glass of tap water. He said it was free, and a way to get the girl to talk to him and hopefully sleep with him without having to spend any money. 🙄🙄

HolaHulaHola · 2020-12-03T20:41:29+00:00

sooo this dude is shamelessly using a community service for actually poor folks because he's tryna be cheap? what a catch, ladies!

g2g98 · 2020-12-03T19:43:05+00:00

Why do broke men even date like wtf

VulcanSpaceSquirrel · 2020-12-03T19:40:23+00:00

Lol

Let me cOnGrAtuLaTe this GeNtLeMaN for his graciousness and humility. TOO BAD LADIES ARENT SO HUMBLE FOR A FIRST DATE AT A SOUP KITCHEN

DO THEY SERVE OYSTERS AT THE SOUP KITCHEN? NO? OH NOOOOO MY STANDARDS

Edit to add: I have nothing against soup kitchens or the people who need them. I might, someday. But as of right now, if some dude brought me to one for a first date, I would politely decline. I’m looking for a different caliber of life and date. Something more akin to what I give to myself.

Crystal403 · 2020-12-03T20:14:42+00:00

🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 one clown emoji wasn’t enough...

2020-12-03T20:34:58+00:00

Although this seems subtle, this reads as abusive behavior.

Novemberinthechair · 2020-12-03T23:55:38+00:00

Um, is he performing community service? This is so weird. He's acting indignant, but soup kitchens are for people who can't afford hot meals. Why is he there? She knows that taking resources from people who actually need them is tacky. This is his test? This guy is off.

2020-12-03T21:26:00+00:00

I'd be completely fucking humiliated. That's stealing meals from the poor. No way in fucking hell would I ever do that and I volunteer too. I don't think that makes me entitled to eat their food.

SamuelaTheThrifty · 2020-12-03T21:03:30+00:00

That’s some next-level gaslighting!

2020-12-03T20:06:52+00:00

I hope this is satire

2020-12-03T21:42:57+00:00

His finances changed in a week? Wtf

2020-12-04T04:56:45+00:00

I used to volunteer at a “community cafe” (ie, soup kitchen) Dude, that is meant for people who can’t eat. You are taking vital resources from people who really really need it. That is disgusting.

smm1892 · 2020-12-03T20:31:28+00:00

I have no words...I video chatted my sister to do a dramatic reading of this! Absolutely incredible that he would still be trying to offer a date if his “finances changed”?

2020-12-04T00:16:55+00:00

Even when men have nothing, they still have the audacity

Novemberinthechair · 2020-12-03T21:19:23+00:00

the “brotha” tells me exactly who this is from/for. we receive this kind of messaging from a very young age. “build a brotha up”...NONSENSE

seraphinelysion · 2020-12-03T21:52:01+00:00

This is the reason so many of you are single. YOU'RE A BROKE ASS MOTHERFUCKER.

venomous_g · 2020-12-03T21:28:01+00:00

The soup kitchen is for people in need, and while they usually have enough to go around, the food they provide is for those that actually don't have other options, not cheap fucks that want a free meal. For him to think it was acceptable to take a date there shows a disgusting level of selfishness.

CityOfBirth · 2020-12-03T23:31:38+00:00

That's highkey terrifying. You asked her out a week ago, & your finances changed? In that short a time? If your living situation is that volatile, why are you trying to date? I don't think I'd have any issues missing out on my chances with a "good brotha."

Also "my finances changed in less than a week" & "I eat there about 5 times a week" don't make any sense together

BungalowBootieBitch · 2020-12-03T22:35:26+00:00

Wooooow basura dude! I work in a nonprofit that donates food to vulnerable families. I would be livid if a dude like this got his hands on food meant for people struggling to eat.

BeADecentHumanBeing · 2020-12-03T19:52:18+00:00

Loooooolll!!!!

2020-12-03T20:31:56+00:00

Thanks for the advice. Now I know what to do to avoid a chance to meet a 'good brotha'. What a catch

Diamond_fairy · 2020-12-03T20:50:23+00:00

Lower your standards and you'll end up asking yourself why even the pickmes around you could get away with better deals than yours.

It's also quite realistic that not even the people in needs eating at the charity would bring their first date there.

Next.

sunologie · 2020-12-04T06:22:56+00:00

Man took her to where the homeless ate and is confused why she’s upset...huh

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-12-04T06:41:32+00:00

IDK about this story. It sounds lie-ish to me. You can’t just roll into a soup kitchen if you don’t demonstrate a need and that probably takes more than a few days. And I’m pretty sure there are rules about bringing A DATE with you to the soup kitchen.
LVMs will tell each other anything to make women look greedy and “bougie” and themselves look humble and kind and victimized by us. Please. 🤡 Dude, did you get the attention you needed yet?

yesmme · 2020-12-03T21:44:20+00:00

I feel for poor people and homeless people but at the very least, a soup kitchen is where you would drop by or hang out for the sole purpose of eating. It’s not a place to bring a date to. What is this man thinking?

superderpina_ · 2020-12-03T23:08:38+00:00

So finding a guy whos not broke is an unrealistic standard now? Lmao hard pass on that good brotha

2020-12-03T23:50:05+00:00

This is extremely embarrassing!!! I wouldn't even step out of my car

Solivagant-C · 2020-12-03T23:15:59+00:00

These incels are getting funnier 😂

YesPleaseMadam · 2020-12-04T00:38:57+00:00

the unrealistic standard of not being homeless

bean-cake · 2020-12-03T22:30:50+00:00

Am I reading this correctly? Am I really reading the AUDACITY?

southernruby · 2020-12-04T02:03:39+00:00

Lol! I can buy my own damn meal, if a man can’t afford to take me somewhere decent he sure as hell doesn’t deserve my company, I’d rather go treat my damn self!

munissa · 2020-12-03T22:05:57+00:00

Um what.

NottodayScrote · 2020-12-04T02:10:18+00:00

This another scrote fanfic? These people have too much time on their hands

2020-12-04T04:53:51+00:00

Oh, this made me laugh so hard.

2020-12-04T10:39:56+00:00

This cannot be real 🥴

KitKat1705 · 2020-12-04T10:53:31+00:00

The level keeps going down 😂

rediitbuju · 2020-12-04T11:54:25+00:00

Wow! How sad is this man. Sad to say, I have been taken to one of those places and I felt bad not wanting to be there. I felt like I was being pompous but looking back it was not right. Thanks FDS for educating me about my own feelings

InayahDaneen · 2020-12-04T17:29:18+00:00

What this is to me: He’s bragging about stealing food from those less fortunate. 🤦🏻‍♀️

descending_angel · 2020-12-03T21:05:34+00:00

Lmfao... Wow.

letsberealforamoment · 2020-12-04T02:01:13+00:00

Surely this is a troll post

polardonut · 2020-12-04T02:27:17+00:00

Tbh ik really glad that those kind of LVM hate HVW so we r good. Like, we don't mix. They r so open about their "high" standards that its so easy to spot them and not waste ur time. No need to waste years on a man and then learning that he is a narcissist or a manchild. Here 5 sec and u know. Transparency is great.

goddessintheflesh · 2020-12-04T03:26:31+00:00

Please tell me this is a joke lol. I wouldn't be surprised if it wasn't though. The bar is so low when it comes to men.

waddamelone · 2020-12-04T00:03:43+00:00

EXC-AYU-SE ME?!

RojavaLover · 2020-12-04T00:24:59+00:00

Wow.... I have nothing to say to this. Just wow.

werker115 · 2020-12-04T01:38:53+00:00

Has to be a joke!

-badmadAM · 2020-12-04T08:16:23+00:00

Despite everything, i would feel guilty for going on a "date" at a soup- kitchen, when you can afford to pay for food. What exactly is this self- righteous shit here? Taking away from people who really need the food? This kind of "holy good" posturing, behind which is so much self-righteousness & arrogance and which serves to belittle and/ or "humble" others is really bothersome, no matter who displays it. If you see it, run very fast.

warinmymind94 · 2020-12-04T09:22:47+00:00

what's worse than going on a walk "date" or a McDonalds "date"?

GOING TO THE SOUP KITCHEN ON A DATE.

soup kitchens and community meals are for people that need them, you absolutely do not use these places for going on dates. the bar keeps getting lower and lower. what's next? going on a date where you dumpster dive together? who knows.

2020-12-04T11:08:12+00:00

So, you took 5 meals a week from the mouths of homeless people. What an absolute garbage

emtoots · 2020-12-04T13:54:49+00:00

Love that he truly believes he made a good point! 🤡 it does not sound like she missed out on “a good brotha,” sir.

-sIm0n3 · 2020-12-04T16:22:51+00:00

Now this has got to be the funniest thing I’ve ever read. This fool can’t be serious. As if any woman of substance would ever settle for a date at the damn soup kitchen. Get real.

Title	Ladies y’all need to be grateful to go to the SOUP KITCHEN! 🥴😩
Author	xdecadent
Upvotes	723
Comments	138
Date	December 3, 2020 7:06 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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