If we're talking about more traditional societies, I agree that women were often unfairly expected to keep the family together. But in secular western society , when divorce happens people always ask "what did he do" and assume the man was the problem. I have also noticed that on reddit for example there might be a post about a woman complaining about a man and she will receive a lot of sympathy in the comments. Then a man makes a nearly identical post and receives less sympathy and more skepticism.

It's like people automatically assume that men are the problem. And I get the feeling that it's only getting worse and worse.