LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

GridReXX · 2024-09-28T13:26:37+00:00

You can be 5’9 if you have the sexiest mouth and most sultry face that’s been plopped on a lad from beans and toast land 🇬🇧

Grow_peace_in_Bedlam · 2024-09-28T01:37:24+00:00

If we could genetically modify humans so that all future boys are born to be 6'+, square jawed, masculine framed, etc., would that make it so that men and women are finally equally attracted to each other, or would women continue to be the more selective sex with even higher standards?

Novel-Tip-7570 · 2024-09-27T18:12:30+00:00

I am fairly certain I am a closeted hybristophile. Ask me anything!

Elliejq88 · 2024-09-26T17:48:52+00:00

Stay single https://np.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneWomen/comments/1fnlz4w/this_is_why_im_scared_of_relationships_why_cant/

Muscletov · 2024-09-26T13:46:17+00:00

Reminder that male height is unique and has no female equivalent. That also means getting back at women via weight or such is meaningless.

Height is 100% genetic.
It's largely inconsequential in daily life, the attraction towards it is arbitrary.
A man's attractiveness is critically impacted by his height.
Height is obvious immediately.
Next to zero variance in valuation, i.e. tall is always better and next to no one prefers short men in any situation.
Being of average height is already considered subpar and a flaw.
A man's height influences other aspects of his life besides romance, e.g. his career prospects.
Short men are regularly associated with character flaws.
Height concealments or enhancements are impractical and socially frowned upon.
Men are firmly expected to tolerate and smile away height-based discrimination in virtually all contexts.

Of course, women have traits which fit a few criteria above, but none which fit most, not to mention all.

PB-French-Toast-9641 · 2024-09-25T15:39:31+00:00

CMV: bald isn't bad if you have a non-weird head shape + masculine face

Khanluka · 2024-09-24T20:03:48+00:00

My mom always made more money then my dad. yet my dad still payed for everything.

For a men outside of divorce there is no benefit to dating a woman who makes equal or more then you. you still have to pay every bill.

ThatBitchA · 2024-09-24T17:36:10+00:00

Looks threshold does not exist.

Women aren't looking for a romantic encounter every time they see a man.

A woman can see a man multiple times and not be interested in him romantically. They can work together and be friendly, but she's not interested in dating. His looks don't even register for her because she's not looking for a romantic encounter.

Dry-Ad3452 · 2024-09-24T01:12:14+00:00

This is perfection for me

my ideal looking woman.

Proudvow · 2024-09-23T17:30:48+00:00

It feels like some guys basically have to get leg lengthening surgery and skin whitening treatment and then passport bro to southeast Asia.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2024-09-23T16:17:03+00:00

How hard do you guys think it is for a man to pull his looksmatch?

What about for women?

(Assume both the hypothetical man in this scenario, and the women in her scenario, both want relationships)

Oh and bonus question, how hard do you think it is for a man to ONS his looksmatch?

BrainMarshal · 2024-09-23T15:02:59+00:00

Women of today, folks

Jaded_Bad2224 · 2024-09-23T10:36:01+00:00

does anybody know where i can get GLP-1 agonists on the grey market

SKY_ACTIV3 · 2024-09-23T01:40:31+00:00

B cups are not small

PB-French-Toast-9641 · 2024-09-22T21:00:01+00:00

Free skincare tip today. If you have an annoying zit, here's how to pop it safely.

What you need:

Swiss army knife
Rubbing alcohol
Neospirin/antibiotic gel
Dab of numbing cream (optional)

Guide: * Sanitize your damn knife and area of pimple before popping

If there's a white tip, use the scissors to cut it off and squeeze from the base
If there's no white tip, but the pimple still has a red tip. You have two options.

** Option 1: Quickly slice an incision dead center of the pimple and try to get as much fluid as possible

** Option 2: Cut horizontally as though you were peeling a potato. I'd suggest numbing cream for a less painful experience

Sanitize the wound again, clean up the blood, and cover with neospirin/iodine

EqualSea2001 · 2024-09-22T20:50:47+00:00

For me personally, you could be the nicest, most interesting person in the world - however you want to define the personality of someone you want to spend time with - but if you don't meet my minimum threshold for physical attractiveness I will never be open to being in any sort of romantic/sexual relationship with you. We could be platonic friends, maybe. That's basically the definition of all of my friends.

A wife/girlfriend is like a best friend who I also have sexy times with.

If you are physically attractive, then for the purposes for sex just for the fun of it, I am much more flexible on what kind of personality a woman has. There's still a minimum in terms of personality, but if most of our time together is sexy times then various undesirable personality traits are less of an issue.

Armagerdon · 2024-09-22T20:24:14+00:00

8 Charts That Will Change The Way You See Dating

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=45m-fYQTBn4

The women on this sub are extremely unhinged. They wrap their identity around felling superior to men by resorting to illogical and baseless arguments, and personal attacks. They have extremely fragile egos. It's sad, really.

No-Rough-7390 · 2024-09-22T16:45:10+00:00

“Be attractive, don’t be unattractive” implies how important behavior is in the equation. I knew a buddy who was not great to look at that would crush when we would go out. I have been told I’m fairly attractive, so we made a good team in regards to me getting girls to come over and then he would be able to hold his own. Insane charisma and learned a lot from him.

Sure, looks matter, but they usually just get a man in the door.

ThatBitchA · 2024-09-22T16:10:46+00:00

People focus on looks as if a relationship is built off two people just staring at each other.

Or that attraction is based on just seeing another human.

Seems like so many guys here miss that sex and relationships are built by conversations. Not just some weird staring contest because their looks are just so xyz.

Muscletov · 2024-09-22T10:49:42+00:00

Funny how "everyone has preferences" only became a thing when women's height and beauty standards became more widely known. Before that, when beauty standards were considered something exclusively men inflicted upon women, nobody said "it's just their preference". And even today no one would defend a man who openly stated he "only dates C cup or above", whereas a woman who said she "only dates 6ft or above" is.

Redpill-mind · 2024-09-22T10:18:21+00:00

This argument of which matters more between looks and personality is always like arguing with is more important for survival between water and air

PinchRunners · 2024-09-22T07:43:28+00:00

looks matter

ThatBitchA · 2024-09-22T05:35:21+00:00

I get it.... some men expect women to view men the same way that men view women. And then refuse to acknowledge or understand the reality of how women view men.

Women view men as a whole package. They care about who the man is as a person.

Men view women based on just appearance only. Nothing else matters (according to the experts here).

FizzleMateriel · 2024-09-22T05:33:38+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fmjw07/i_36m_had_one_of_the_most_bizarre_and_hurtful/

OP probably forgot to take a shower.

NalkaNalka · 2024-09-22T00:55:10+00:00

ugly and good personality: the closest you could ever be is platonic friend, including "best friend". you are not a candidate for spouse. no amount of good personality can get you in the running for the role of spouse
physically attractive and good personality: you are a candidate for being a spouse as well as being qualified for the platonic friend role
physical attractiveness is practically always judged before personality. the exception is rare cases where all you have to go on is what they write, sort of like with reddit. like, only going off of a user name and what they write. are you going to fall in love with someone over reddit, and then when you finally meet them, see a picture of them, or hear their voice - we could categorize voice as physical attractiveness if you want to - and then you're still romantically/sexually in love with them regardless of what they look like. it's an extremely rare scenario.

Elliejq88 · 2024-09-22T00:05:05+00:00

Women need to learn to see the men they consider "unattractive" as "attractive." It's easy. Most men have already expanded their range of what they find physically attractive in women. Modern women are like the average looking guy who insists he can only be attracted to bikini models. Like, give it a break, and stop being so entitled.

It's easy for women and they'll be better off as well as making men better off and society better off. Most modern women have a childish entitlement when it comes to physical attraction.

Everyone knows that female sexuality is much more fluid than male sexuality.

See, once women learn to see men in a different light they will see them as actually attractive and want to be with them.

There are many ways to do it. One way is self talk. Another technique is to keep your eyes closed at times and fantasize. With repetition they'll be able to consider most men to be physically attractive.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-09-21T23:45:59+00:00

Does the most attractive body type in your eyes vary at all based on the person’s other features like face shape, height, and coloring? Like, can someone with a baby face pull off a few extra pounds better than someone with a ‘mature’ face?

PB-French-Toast-9641 · 2024-09-21T20:19:44+00:00

Let's go full hangover schizo post

Personality has a direct impact on looks. I'm not talking abt whatever stupid halo/horn effect. As in you can get a general idea who's neurotic, batshit insane, dumb as shit, or a fucking asshole based off a general glance

ThatBitchA · 2024-09-21T19:03:09+00:00

Looks change and are never the same, so they aren't the deciding factor.

Looks can be increased or decreased because of a personality, the way a man carried himself, how he treats others, his interests, passions, hobbies, etc.

For women, men just look like men. They all look more or less the same. Like the Chrises of Hollywood. So we don't generally pay attention to men in every encounter. Especially because we aren't looking for a romantic outcome every time we come across a dude.

I've never found a friend's partner attractive. They've never found my partners attractive. Because we all have different perspectives and types on what is attractive.

PinchRunners · 2024-09-21T19:02:24+00:00

good afternnoon

PurplePillDebate-ModTeam · 2024-09-21T18:28:23+00:00

As a straight man in his 30s from Europe, I can tell you the only thing women care about is looks, namely being the hottest man in their life. If you're not model tier, you don't exist in their heads. Women are so shallow.

Jaded_Bad2224 · 2024-09-21T18:19:29+00:00

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6261420/

facial attractiveness has a higher correlation with income potential than iq or family background according to this study

Adject_Ive · 2024-09-21T18:07:08+00:00

It is about the looks bros, you can be the most degenerate asshole to ever press foot on this planet, you'll still get attention if you look good enough.

HeartTheHero · 2024-09-21T17:26:42+00:00

It’s not moids looks it’s that they’re porn addicted anime watching fuckheads

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