Q4M: for those males struggling with dating, would you marry Lily Phillips?

Master-Watercress567 · 2024-12-30T15:39:44+00:00

No, she is too much of a prude for my tastes.

Cyrrow · 2024-12-30T15:58:47+00:00

Accomplished-Alps204 · 2024-12-30T16:32:29+00:00

She is not dedicated to make her fans happy, she is dedicated to gain fame and money by selling her body. So that cute little bio of yours is deceiving. Nice bait btw. Oh and the answer is no.

MurkyBall5 · 2024-12-30T16:38:56+00:00

Even assuming she's head over heel's for me, maybe? I know nothing about her beyond what you mentioned about being conventionally attractive, healthy, friendly and resilient. I would need to know more about them for marriage.

I'd definitely date her based on that though. Her having been a sexworker is not a deal breaker. Its just a job to me. And you mentioned before she gets tested biweekly so assuming no STDs, its even less of an issue.

But for marriage I would need to know if they are someone I can just enjoy being in their company and that they feel genuine enjoyment from being in mine. Even when were not doing anything. Also their temperament and method of conflict resolution needs to be compatible with me. If its not we might end up arguing over pointless stuff without hearing each other out. Also need to know I can trust them.

As for the odd thing of 100 men in a day, IDK why they would do that but I was given no context to say if that was a well thought of rational decision, or an irrational one that shows a pattern of bad judgment. If the latter definitely wouldn't date or marry them.

SecondEldenLord · 2024-12-30T18:25:57+00:00

I struggle with dating and I never had a gf or a date for the last 8 years, I would never want anything to do with Lily Philips, she is beyond repair and damaged and she has only herself to blame. No marriage, no hookup, anything, like she didn't even had any idea that you can get aids if you get cum in your mouth and she also acted like she was the victim of her whole 100 men in one day escapade.

Cultural-Ad-8486 · 2024-12-30T18:08:56+00:00

Gods, this is definitely bait. But okay...

For starters, I don't have any particular difficulties in dating. She's not even my type. And Lily Phillips seems like a deeply mentally ill person to me and I seriously think she needs professional help.

And to be honest, for some reason I want to say that there is a chance. Provided that she has completely finished with her past, is mentally and physically (very important) healthy. And of course, it is extremely important that she is truly madly in love with me.

But for something to work out between us, she will have to leave the Internet space for a while and move. It is even possible to change her name or something like that (I suspect that if she is now in her right mind, she herself is not against it). So after a while, her "fame" on the Internet will subside and you can live relatively calmly.

I see it only this way, although I am still worried about whether she is mentally and physically healthy.

ComfortableJeans · 2024-12-30T15:55:56+00:00

There's not a single chance.

You can clearly see's upset the Brethren Court of Pirates. She's crossed her shipmates and been given the black spot on her left hand.

Betraying her shipmates, no doubt. Taking it all for herself, and leaving them with nothing.

The Black Spot

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AOC-HAS-HUGE-BUSH · 2024-12-30T15:54:08+00:00

Absolutely not.

stronknoob · 2025-01-01T05:08:33+00:00

Better than nothing

Podlubnyi · 2024-12-30T15:56:24+00:00

Would I marry a sex worker who is probably riddled with STIs and has a history of exploiting vulnerable men for fame and monetary gain?

Not even if I was desperate, and I don't find her particularly attractive.

EetinAintCheetin · 2024-12-30T15:58:42+00:00

Nah! She cries when you cum in her eyes. Not slutty enough.

Ego73 · 2024-12-30T15:44:38+00:00

Nope. I don't even care about her past, she's just not attractive.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2024-12-30T16:16:11+00:00

No. First,im against the existence of marriage as an institution at all. Second,that person has severe mental issues (bottom level self esteem, compulsive behaviour and self harm).

Goonerlouie · 2024-12-30T16:19:21+00:00

No. I’ve realized I am kinda sex-negative (I think I’m using that correctly) so to me she is tainted and ruined. It’s worse than an escort because all her work is public knowledge so there is more shame associated with her.

Even if I was single and hadn’t been laid in a while, I would still have more self worth and trust I could find someone “normal”.

Yes, I think she is attractive

meisterkraus · 2024-12-30T16:43:15+00:00

I feel there needs to be more details added to give a proper answer. As of what you wrote no. What is the up side for me?

teball3 · 2024-12-30T17:24:26+00:00

Taking your post in good faith (though it obviously wasn't made with any) no, I would not marry her. I find the stunt that has made her famous personally revolting. That's just my opinion, I'm not trying to make a value judgement about her.

Taking it in bad faith, I'm confused about your angle here. My kneejerk reaction is think this is a "See! You do have standards!" type of post, but that doesn't pass muster. The only thing this would disprove in that regard is obvious hyperboles like "My requirements are that she's a woman and has a pulse". Outside of that, I can think of a few possible reasons for this, like morbid curiosity, or n-count stuff, but it'd save us all some time if you were just straight with it.

Pro-IDGAF · 2024-12-30T17:59:16+00:00

no and the same goes for strippers. they got too much baggage. assuming the stripper was doing it long term amd for a living. that said, my exwife worked as a cocktail waitress in a stripe club before went we dated before being married. same as my current gf, after we dated in college she did a short stint as a stripper.

guessing this was fantasy they both had and both had daddy issues. oh lucky me…lol. for some reason i’m drawn to those types like a moth to a bug zapper light.

i dont judge them though. thats their mental manipulations to deal with.

AFuzzyMuffin · 2024-12-31T15:48:36+00:00

Sure would

GrandpaDallas · 2024-12-30T15:49:48+00:00

Nope. Far too young for my taste.

weenieandthebutt · 2024-12-30T16:10:29+00:00

Let's assume she's a good person whom I have a connection and our future values align.

If she's willing to be sexually freaky with me from the get go whilst maintaining a sense of security and loyalty, then possibly. But if she want to "take things slow", gives me the prude treatment whilst she expects the princess treatment in an attempt to prove myself, then no thanks.

Your past experiences will always have a price and I certainly don't want to pay full price for something that's been passed around for free (been there done that).

soontobesolo · 2024-12-30T15:47:56+00:00

I wouldn't marry anyone, and for sure not her. She isn't attractive to me at all.

LostWanderer88 · 2024-12-30T16:05:04+00:00

If she leaves her current line of work and we live where nobody can tell who she is, then yes

She looks like she needs someone supporting her low self-steem

LapazGracie · 2024-12-30T16:05:47+00:00

She looks like absolute dogshit in that video. You should find some pictures where she doesn't have 38 pounds of make up on her face. She looks way better.

A lot of these guys saying NO are full of shit in my opinion.

It would certainly be a lot to overcome in the disgust factor. But ultimately she's sexy and that will get a lot of guys to forget about a lot of shit.

I personally wouldn't but I'm married.

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Artistic_Speech_1965 · 2024-12-30T16:01:47+00:00

Well, that's the same for all the women I meet. Princess treatment has a price. We will start the courtship and the process to get married if our values and life goal matches

wtknight · 2024-12-30T16:54:39+00:00

Back when I was struggling with dating I would not have married her. I consider myself a virtuous guy so I want a virtuous woman.

SuckingMuffin · 2024-12-30T20:03:30+00:00

Of course not.

If I'm starving to death, it doesn't mean I should suck wet dogs hit from between the cracks in the road.

kwikkwikstudy · 2024-12-30T21:10:22+00:00

Well if I did and ended up with a dead bedroom, at least I'd be accurate complaining that she'd fuck a 100 other guys but not me. So there's that.

mik537 · 2024-12-30T22:12:15+00:00

Maybe, I don't know anything about her as a person though. She's not really my type but if she was genuinely into me and our personalities synched I'd consider it.

Stock-Argument-1040 · 2024-12-31T02:39:45+00:00

Probably not. I don't think I'd be able to be with a woman if when I search her name I see other dudes having sex with her. Abstractly I don't care about sexual history but I'd prefer not to have it be so in my face. It's probably insecurity on my part but it's insecurity that is extremely unlikely to ever affect me or the people around me so it's not really worth the energy to focus on.

DoinIt989 · 2024-12-31T05:48:11+00:00

The General tried to make her mains, and it didn't work. She for the road.

No_Curve6292 · 2024-12-31T06:54:01+00:00

Hell no. Forget about marrying, I wouldn’t even date her. Sure, in this hypothetical situation she’s done with that life but it still happened. And the fact that it happened is a deal breaker for me.

giveuporfindaway · 2024-12-31T08:11:56+00:00

Marriage is for having children. Her genetics are obviously garbage, which will result in garbage children. So no point in that.

She's would be fine as a sugar baby, escort, etc.

Proudvow · 2024-12-31T08:44:30+00:00

No.

100 men had to invest virtually nothing to bang her. I have to give everything? Nope nope nope.

BobtheArcher2018 · 2024-12-31T10:13:35+00:00

Highly unlikely.

I think the N Count debate is a shitshow lacking all nuance. But what she has done triggers even my biological "male disgust with excessive female sluttiness triggers". Even if I thought I should overcome them, I doubt I could.

tl;dr I don't know exactly where the line is, but she is way over it.

Neptune-Jnr · 2024-12-31T19:04:31+00:00

Yeah sure but we'd have to date first.

Title	Q4M: for those males struggling with dating, would you marry Lily Phillips?
Author	Windmill_flowers
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Date	December 30, 2024 3:37 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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