Every man has biological urges no matter what he looks like or who he is. Even the kindest most down to earth men. They're all primarily attracted to thin pretty 18yr old's. They all eventually lose attraction for their female partners as they age. This may be hard to spot because men will still carry on the relationship as usual because its not like he has access to hot you women anyway. And of course men will still fuck their aging partner because men will stick their dick in anything!

And cheating for them has everything to do with ability to cheat and not some good moral compass. Because how many 35+ yr old guys ever get propositioned for sex from a young women? basically none.

So as a women, if you decide to be in a long term relationship with a man there will come the days where he's looking at your daughters friends in the pool a bit too long, or you find barely legal porn on his phone, or he keeps checking out the young waitress. And its hard to not compare right? Because you dont look like those young women, far from it. Even if you birth his kids you will become less attractive to him even if he never admits it.

So what make this hurtful reality ever worth it?

Are you going to just ignore this reality because your partners nice on the surface and never admits or talks about this reality with you?

Is denial enough?

Is that really what you want as a women, to slowly become less sexually desirable to your partner as each year passes? For every sign of aging to mark a loss of your attractiveness to him? Do you ever want to give a man babies who will be disgusted by any sign of no longer being a childless young women?

I think women need to start thinking about their standards and what they want from men in return for going through the experience of being with a man that has male biological urges. Because your boyfriend or husband isnt special. Me, personally, a guy has to have a lot of money to make that experience ever worth it.

Proof

"One in six (or 15.1% of) Australian men aged over 18 recently surveyed said they had sexual feelings for a child or teen younger than 18 years."

"Around one in ten (9.4%) Australian men has sexually offended against children"

https://theconversation.com/a-survey-found-1-in-6-men-admit-sexual-feelings-for-children-so-is-paedophilia-increasing-218124

"Between 80% and 90% of all pedophiles are male."

https://screenandreveal.com/pedophile-statistics/

"When it comes to hiring the short-term services of a prostitute, men pay the most for women between the late teens and early twenties. Between the ages of 25 and 35, the price men are willing to pay for a prostitute drops precipitously."

"For each increase of a year in age, a prostitute's hourly wage decreases 4.5 percent. Looked at another way, Sohn found that prostitutes between ages 35 and 40 earned 52.8 percent less per hour than women under 20."

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-murder-and-the-meaning-of-life/201608/a-link-between-a-prostitutes-age-and-her-income

"The researchers determined that while men’s sexual desirability peaks at age 50, women’s starts high at 18 and falls from there."

“The age gradient for women definitely surprised us — both in terms of the fact that it steadily declined from the time women were 18 to the time they were 65, and also how steep it was,”

"The study results echoed data shared by the dating behemoth OkCupid in 2010, in which the service found that men from the ages of 22 to 30 focus almost entirely on women who are younger than them."

“The median 30-year-old man spends as much time messaging teenage girls as he does women his own age,” 

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/15/style/dating-apps-online-men-women-age.html