Disclaimer:.This strategy only works if you're reasonably physically attractive and have a life. If you're a smelly, ugly basement dweller who plays video games all day it's obviously not going to work.

If you're autistic and struggle with dating.... Just lean into having an aloof persona and try to seem like mild narcissist. Lots of chicks fall for that shit. It's actually how I met my current boyfriend. I used to think he was an asshole, now I think he's just undiagnosed neurodivergent.

My boyfriend is a tall, handsome man with a good job. He has had lots of women throw themselves at him. He seems like an aloof, arrogant tech bro who is a mild narcissist or something. I only know the truth about him because we have been together for years and also because I am autistic too and can see the signs.

1) Instead of coming across as awkward, try to seem aloof instead.

2) Use social obliviousness to your advantage. Point out their flaws, make subtle jokes at their expense, be a dick.

3) Use your autistic knowledge of subjects to be a smartass. (Only works if your special interest is tech or grammar or something. Doesn't work if you're into some dorky shit unless she is into it too)

Again it only works if you're reasonably physically attractive and have a life. If you don't meet the criteria then either change or it's over.