When you’re dating, the initial attraction comes from the person’s looks. It’s arguably not as common for someone to go on a date with someone they have zero attraction to and then later fall for them. So the attraction is often needed which correlates to sexual feelings.

I keep seeing videos of women posting about how they hate lustful men and everything. What exactly does it mean? Do these women hate sex and just want a man that doesn’t prioritize sex?

I assume they’re talking about men that are so obsessed with sex that they don’t even take the time to learn about their partner and instead just use their bodies and then move on to something else when they’re done. If that was the case, it’d make sense.

However, what didn’t make sense was when I started seeing videos of women doing the trend and the comments are filled with women saying saying they hate sex and just want to cuddle, etc. and not have sex be a major part of the relationship which makes it seem like they’re more on the asexual spectrum if they don’t desire any intimacy from their partner.

So I was hoping to hear from women about it. Are the women posting this stuff just referring to men that are unhealthy obsessed with sex? Or are they women that have a low sex drive and just want a relationship without sex?

And I’m not trying to group women together. I’ve met women that were very sexual and were so freaky that they had me running but I’m just specifically talking about this trend.