I see this misconception often. It's likely because of projection -not in a bad way, just assuming other people behave and feel like you do-

"If you point out something unfair or wrong, why aren't you doing anything to fix it?"

"If you say women should choose better to avoid pain, why are you not trying to change men that hurt women?"

"If you tell men to avoid dating apps because women flock to the top 10%, why don't you tell those men to stop cheating and fucking around?"

"If you point out something bad, why aren't you making an effort to fix it?"

And that makes sense, for an ideology. Feminism shines light on what they consider uneven to make it even. Most leftism is based on "raising awareness" to make things fairer. "Social justice", all that stuff.

So it's easy to think that the red pill is just that. A lot of the red pill demonization, actually, comes from the idea that we somehow want or intend to change society.

And maybe some of the more... socially entitled members of the red pill do come up with some prescriptions like "women should...", "dating should...", but they are a minority and not really saying anything red pill.

Red pill isn't conservativism. It's not social justice. It is not about changing the world. It's about the individual adaptation to the current circumstances.

So of course, the current circumstances have to be said aloud. But not to change them.

Women are attracted to looks, confidence, charisma, assertiveness and competence. Roughly in that order.

Is that good? Is that bad? Is that fair?

I don't know, I don't care, those aren't relevant questions to the red pill. It just is and if we want to be attractive, then we need to operate under that heuristic.

Women (and men, but that's irrelevant to me) have a set of rules if they are attracted to you and another if they aren't.

Fair? Don't care. Should it change? Again irrelevant.

I don't say it the same way a social ideology would. I say it because it's true, and if you want to have success with women, you need to understand that.

You don't need to change it. Whatever those rules say about the nature of women is an amusing thing to think about, but not at all practical. The why doesn't matter.

I don't need to understand why there's a traffic jam at 8:40AM. I am not pushing for the jam to be fixed. I don't know if there's a fix. I am just telling you to either take the train or travel at 8:00 before it forms.

"If the jam is so bad why aren't you contacting the local government to find a solution?"

Just take the fucking train.