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Is this blatant disrespect OR shit test?

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October 11, 2018
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We're cuddling and watching a Halloween movie after dinner. Throughout much of the movie she sends texts to a married male work friend about the movie. They both love this movie and share humor about it at work. Okay, understandable. But the texting increases as the movie progresses. I'm getting annoyed. She begins to explain to me her relationship with the friend, telling me they share lines of this movie at work quite often, and she tells me he's married. Okay, she probably is able to tell I'm annoyed and feels the need to explain herself. She goes on to tell me that they once ate edibles together. She tells me that during her out of town conference they might sit in his hotel together, eat edibles and watch this movie. Even though I feel disdain towards her in this moment I can't help but laugh internally at the reaction she's attempting to get out of me.

I try to play cool and not react. I noticed that she sometimes plays these games where she tries to gauge my reaction to see if I'll attempt to control her or to see if I get pissed off. She rarely ever follows through with the things she says about hanging out with male friends. I don't know why she does it. Her last LTR was very controlling, so she always tries to gauge whether I'll try to control her so that she can tell me off.

Why do you think she does this kind of stuff? How should I react? Is playing cool and pretending like it doesn't bother me the right move? Sometimes I wonder if she does this kind of stuff to gauge whether I'm okay with a polygamous relationship, which I'm not.


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Title Is this blatant disrespect OR shit test?
Author crunchyteabiscuts
Upvotes 17
Comments 225
Date 11 October 2018 09:24 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/203908
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/9ne3mv/is_this_blatant_disrespect_or_shit_test/
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[–]gettingmymojobackRed Beret72 points73 points  (3 children) | Copy

OP, the simple answer is any man with an ounce of self respect would get up, put their shoes on and head out the door...

Her: where are you going? We’re watching a movie.

You: no, I was watching a movie, you were texting your boyfriend.

Her: so where are you going?

You: to meet up with your replacement.

Then leave. Why the fuck would you tolerate this shit? She has your balls in a fucking vice and you’re worried about wether you should ask her to loosen it up a bit....

Stop drinking soy lattes. Faggot.

[–]seedster520 points21 points  (2 children) | Copy

OP, this is the right answer right here.

[–]Red-Nerd1314 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy

2nd this

[–]sbh884 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

3rd that shit

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret21 points22 points  (7 children) | Copy

She all but told you they are fucking. This is probably the most common type of affair- 2 married coworkers.

Here’s the shitty part. She will never tell you, and you will never know for sure. But, what she said basically makes her behavior totally inappropriate anyway. For me, I’d end it for that reason.

[–]simbarlionRed Beret2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yet we normally say if she is upfront about it they are not

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

A trickle truth is mostly all a guy will ever get

[–]UEMcGillI am become McGill, Destroyer of Blue Pill11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

My wife finger fucks her phone in front of me, I walk away. I have better ways to spend my time. Why don't you?

[–]crimson_chris0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly. If my wife is on her phone, I leave.

[–]mrpthrowa10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Cuck. Literally

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret9 points10 points  (22 children) | Copy

This is a LTR? Wholey shit man.

Are you apprehensive about going back out into the dating scean again?

You have life by the fucking balls. How old are you?

Your asking a room full of men with teeth marks on their face if you should put your head in that lions mouth.

Don't do it!

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret17 points18 points  (86 children) | Copy

"In one corner, we have crunchyteabiscuts's girlfriend. She has her phone out, and movie ready to watch. In the other corner, we have our hero crunchyteabiscuit!"

"Crunchy! Crunchy!"

"The crowd is going wild."

ding goes the bell

"Look at them folks, here they go.... oh wait... crunchyteabiscuit's girlfriend has PULLED OUT HER PHONE! Oh shit, she's texting ANOTHER MAN! Wait... wait... He's MARRIED!!!"

"crunchy is trying to play cool.... but... but..."

ding ding ding

Round goes to the girlfriend.

Why?

Because you are a weak ass man who tolerates disrespect. Who cares why she does what she does. What is more important is what you do.

Stop being weak.

[–]FoxShitNasty834 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

I can't wait for round two, my money is on crunchyteabiscuits girlfriend

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

7 to 2 odds the girlfriend wins.

[–]OxfordCommasRGud5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy

I’m assuming from your recent posts that this is your gf (“LTR” and “gf” both used) and not your actual wife.

We're cuddling and watching a Halloween movie after dinner. Throughout much of the movie she sends texts to a married male work friend about the movie. They both love this movie and share humor about it at work. Okay, understandable.

So her attention would rather be on her phone messaging a guy rather than enjoying cuddling you, watching a film that she loves and waiting to speak to him the next day. Not understandable to me.

But the texting increases as the movie progresses.

Because she’s enjoying the interaction

I'm getting annoyed. She begins to explain to me her relationship with the friend, telling me they share lines of this movie at work quite often,

Why are you showing enough emotion for her to feel like she has to explain herself?

and she tells me he's married.

Sounds like plausible deniability for her dopamine fix.

Okay, she probably definitely is able to tell I'm annoyed and feels the need to explain herself.

Corrected.

She goes on to tell me that they once ate edibles together. She tells me that during her out of town conference they might sit in his hotel room together (they all get their own rooms), eat edibles and watch this movie.

Sounds like trickle truth to me as she feels somewhat guilty for making you annoyed

Even though I feel disdain towards her in this moment I can't help but laugh internally at the reaction she's attempting to get out of me. I don't react.

I don’t think she’s trying to actually get a reaction out of you, mate. I think she actually enjoys getting her dopamine from this man, even in your company and although she feels guilty messaging him and making you annoyed, she can’t help herself and is giving you trickle truth of past events as a means to lessen her current feelings of guilt.

I try to play cool and not react.

You’ve already reacted enough.

I noticed that she sometimes plays these games where she tries to gauge my reaction to see if I'll attempt to control her or to see if I get pissed off. She rarely ever follows through with the things she says about hanging out with male friends. I don't know why she does it. Her last LTR was very controlling, so she always tries to gauge whether I'll try to control her so that she can tell me off if I try.

Sounds to me like she’s using your lack of frame as a rebound and recovery for her previous controlling LTRs and taking control herself, in the most powerful way she can possible do, by cheating on you.

Why do you think she does this kind of stuff?

Sounds like shit

How should I react?

End it. Your frame is non-existent and she’s showing you complete lack of respect.

[–]r_u_a_badfish25 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

OP, your wife's behavior is NOT okay. It is blatant disrespect. If she is not already fucking her co-worker, then she wants to fuck him and probably will first chance she gets. Getting high with him in a hotel room? Alone? Dude, huge lines being crossed here.

You're asking what you should have done in the situation. Well, you should have confronted her right there on the spot. "I'm sorry, but say that again? You got high with him in a hotel room, both of you alone? And you tell me this just now?"

But what does it matter? The situation has already passed. But what you need to do now is yes, confront her. Do not let this slide. The longer you wait, the more you look like a cuck.

I don't care how you do it, but just be calm and direct. Don't beat around the bush like, "umm, honey, so tell me more about your co-worker, Chad." No, you tell her you want to talk to her and at this point you ask her straight up what is going on between her and co-worker.

I'm not sure what your marriage is like but this is definitely an existential threat to your relationship...meaning this could potentially be grounds for leaving her. I dunno, it's up to you. O

The biggest red flag about your post is that you seemed to have completely misread the situation. Your wife basically just told you she is either having an affair with this guy or she will be having one soon. And you did nothing. Good luck.

[–]WesternhagenWinner6 points7 points  (13 children) | Copy

Did she pick the movie? If she did, she totally set up the texting the male coworker thing in order to make you kill the puppy. And yet here you are asking what she meant by it...

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dear rp... I was cross stitching with my girlfriend ...why was she sexting Chad but telling me they both share a love of quilting?

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

“They both love this movie and share humor about it at work. Okay, understandable”

Fuck No, Not Understandable. Fuck that.

That’s your problem right there. And yes,, she is fucking him.

Faggot

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red13 points14 points  (12 children) | Copy

Am I the only one who wants to know what the movie was?

Sounds good bro. Please advise.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine15 points16 points  (7 children) | Copy

Broke back mountain.

And she’s making fun of him how he reminds her of one of the characters.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

I don’t even know where respond so I’m going to tag off of this.

I leave for kids ball practice with 12 replies and I come back and this thread has over 100 LOL

And I have like 20 messages from noobs.

🤷🏻‍♂️

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Noobs took over during your very brief fattening up time away. Possibly something to do with TRP being quarantined and/or a recent influx of gay cowboys.

[–]light-----------dark2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

😂

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

It was actually a pretty good flick, all things considered.

:-/

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Not you Johnny , not you!

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good direction, good actors, good story line, good cinematography, and gay cowboys. What's not to like?

[–]PersaeusRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

plus it's a constant source of jokes when you go camping with your bros

[–]UEMcGillI am become McGill, Destroyer of Blue Pill4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Gotta be Evil Dead. In which case I would make relentless jokes about showing her my bang stick.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Shop smart. Shop S-Mart. You got that?

[–]robertwservice19742 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You are not alone.

Has to be a chick flick. My money’s on When Harry Met Sally.

[–]wkndatbernardus1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Waiting to Exhale if they're black, Love Actually if they're white.

[–]cholomiteMod / BP Downvote Magnet5 points6 points  (6 children) | Copy

What should you do? Stop giving so many fucks.

Even in this post, you care way too much and you're defensive as fuck. Your attitude and beliefs are the problem, not who your gf is texting. Bitches ain't shit and you're on here acting like it's life or death if she doesn't give you her undivided attention.

I don't know what you should have done, because this would never happen to me. If my gf spent her time texting another guy while we watched a movie, she knows the next movie I watch would be with a different girl. Your girlfriend doesn't feel that way. That is what you need to change.

[–]rpjacobius4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dude, checked out your post history. All of the shit you are getting from our flared brethren is because you are looking for a shortcut that isn't there. They are trying to teach you something. That something CAN NOT be just explicitly told. It's something that you would just get if you put in the work. It's like riding a bike, you keep falling over until you put enough time in to stay up straight. Imagine describing how to ride a bike to someone that's never been on one. You can't, it HAS to be learned though experience. No where have you answered any of the basic questions.

What are you stats? BMI? BF%? Lifts? Readings? Career? Fucking GOALS?

If you build it she will come.

Or the other option is to stay in the status quo.

Go back to r/relationshits and r/deadbeadrooms. Obviously they havethe answers.

Faggot

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret11 points12 points  (13 children) | Copy

You were on the couch watching a movie being butt hurt. She spent a few hours at a conference with the guy watching the same move and had a fantastic time.

You don't see the problem here?

She fucked him.

Like him being married has anything to do with it. In their hotel room? High? Together alone?

The fuck is wrong with You.

[–]this_weeks_account23 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Seems you and I wrote the same thing in two different ways lol

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

I agree with both of you. Though I have seen women lie just to get a rise out of someone, which fits the nature of what happened.

[–]this_weeks_account24 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

I always hoped the boyfriends of chicks I was banging were as clueless as this fella

[–]matrixtospartanatLVRed Beret3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

When all is said and done, her texting another man while engaged in an activity with you is only a symptom of the real problem.

Until you come to the fullness of your understanding of the real problem, you will continue to put up these shituational posts to address the symptoms of your REAL problem.

[–]Frosteecat4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

My wife was texting a FEMALE friend during some mutual screen time recently. I looked at her twice and on the 3rd "chime" I calmly paused the movie, stood up and said "are we watching this or are you texting?" She apologized profusely and turned off her phone. THAT'S how you handle THAT. Had she persisted, I would have turned it off, STFU and gone outside to LIFT on my janky prison yard weights. This is my go to response to ALL disrespect &/or time wasting. AA, AM, "I'm going to lift". Period.

[–]this_weeks_account25 points6 points  (15 children) | Copy

I mean this with peace and love and I guess someone has to be the one to tell you: Your wife is banging this guy and you’re being dragged through their affair blindly.

They go to his hotel room and get fucked up together? Come on dude.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

You had a recent post saying that 3 months ago, you were a 30 year old virgin. Serious question, does the woman in question even know that she's supposedly in an LTR with you? I mean really know, because that BS "monogamy talk" (LMAO!) that you described is nothing.

Trying to fight through the cringes and piece together what's going on here, she's a 40+ single woman that's DTF now that her kid is away at college. Met you and what should have been an easy lay and a good plate turned into... whatever the hell this is. You cling to her like a barnacle to a pier because she's the first woman that's ever let you fuck her, betaize yourself in the cringiest way possible, and nuke whatever sort of attraction was ever there.

Stop calling this an LTR, stop with the "mommy won't text me goodnight" and "when do I tell her I love her" posts, stop spending your entire day thinking of her. You have oneitis, possibly terminal, fueled by the most rampant example of a scarcity mindset that I've ever seen.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

Do you lift weights ?

Do you care enough about you and yourself to actually take care of you and physical self ?

I would say that I would pretty well lose my shit and let her know it Of course, I haven't really dealt with that

I have dealt with a cross the boundary comment in front of the kids that I AA/AM off, since that is how I learned to deal with such extreme family conditions as a child, but I eventually erupted a year later

If you have a condition when you feel you are blatantly being disrespected, then stand up and say something when it is happening, don't talk it to death. State your case and say enough of this shit. I won't stand for ...... No ultimatums, just enough

Self respect is paramount

[–]gettingmymojobackRed Beret0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Glancing at his post history, I can almost guarantee he does not.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

well, hopefully he will

[–]gettingmymojobackRed Beret0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Slim odds. His ego seems far too fragile to heed any advice given.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm getting along with my body weight exercises

How about you ?

[–]gettingmymojobackRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I got my mojo back doing pilates and going for romantic walks at sunset....

[–]TaipanshimshonRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yea man. I totally agree that chatting with a married man while hanging out with your SO is ... understandable.

.... if your SO is a faggot.

( not a homosexual. A Faggot)

[–]Two_kids_in_a_coat1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You can call her out. It’s totally disrespectful.

[–]seedster51 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

It's because you let her walk over you. My girl knows not to pull shit like that on me. From the get go she knows how I am. Dude is married. He has a wife. This is how cheating and divorce starts. I'm not here to break you. I'm here to tell you there's a catastrophe waiting to happen in a few months if not few weeks. Look yourself in the mirror and tell me truthfully that you think you're the man you want to be. You've come to the right place. Now get studying

[–]screechhaterRed Beret1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Wait - are saying you don’t live with this woman ?

[–]Brickles091 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

She is shit testing the hell out you while giving an easy ride to the stranger, can you see what’s going on? Good girls do the opposite. And I agree that she’s trying to kill the puppy, you are running out of time, lift and read the sidebar. Probably too late to save anything anyway. I’ve been married for 13 years and my wife never did anything even close to that total lack of respect. She is getting ready to jump ship. You probably have a deadbedroom too.

Edit: just saw you history, you have a db. She will leave you.

[–]ChokingDownRPRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She goes on to tell me that they once ate edibles together before I met her. She tells me that during her upcoming out of town conference next week they might sit in his hotel room together (they all get their own rooms), eat edibles and watch this movie.

Good chance she fucked him & sounds like she may be planning to again (though she is just planning to hang out and it will "just happen"). Grow a pair and set hard boundaries now. Guarantee his wife doesn't know he texts with her, let alone that they will be getting high and watching a movie in his hotel room. He wouldn't tell her that because he's a man with intentions of fucking any girls who chooses to get high with him in his hotel room.

Don't feel safe just because "he's a married man"....married men wanna fuck too.

[–]LeanFatso1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Holy shit, even in my worst beta shitcringesoyface phase I wasn't such a faggot like this.

Grow some balls and self-respect.

Also, read the fucking sidebar and stop asking questions that are easily answered by it.

[–]bogeyd6Mod / Red Militia1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not only would you get up and head out the door, if you had your shit together she wouldn't dare do that in front of you. This isn't some sort of shit test or comfort test, or any other lame MRP term we have coined over the years. This is called blatant disrespect and open rebellion.

To put it another way, she is absolutely comfortable texting other guys she has relationships with, in front of you, during an intimate time. When the movie is over and her fuckbuddy lets her know its ok to go sleep. She will wake up tomorrow and seek him out.

Why aren't you that guy?

[–]JudgeDoom691 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy

Would appreciate constructive advice. Ignoring the "faggot haha this guy wow" and "stats?!? lift more" and "beta this and that omega" useless posts from bitter twats. I post here for help just like anyone else.

You'll catch some shit because you come across as a guy looking for the "cheat code" without putting in the work first.

That aside, forget the phone incident for a minute. Your biggest problem is that you lack the mentality of Abundance. You are the poster child for acute Oneitis. (If these terms are foreign to you it's because you still need to read the sidebar materials).

She is your first long term relationship, and you need her more than she needs you, so she has all of the power in the relationship. The solution is to develop your Game. For every married coworker she has in her phone, you should have three Thots that you can text.

See how her attitude changes when you have become a man with Options. Real, live, breathing options. Then her little phone games will be much riskier.

[–]dandar46001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Her last LTR was very controlling, so she always tries to gauge whether I'll try to control her

That is a lie told to men who see disrespectful behavior and instead of bailing, they try to make her stop. You can't control her, you can only control yourself. This was not a shit test. Shit test is also known as compliance/fitness test from book Married Man Sex Life Primer. This was blatant disrespect and if you're not married you should demote her to a plate, ie start dating other women. If you live together, start looking for a place.

You think this is overreaction on my part? You need to look at what she does, NOT what she says.

1) She prefers to read romance books than to have sex with you. They usually have an asshole that the protagonist falls for.

2) She has for a while not fucked you so that you spend time online trying to find a way to fix it.

3) She is openly flirting/texting with other man while spending time with you...and blatantly tells you that she is planning on spending time with that man on a work trip that they will be taking next week. That by the way is called Please Break Up with Me!

You are obviously new and did not read the books listed in Married Red Pill sidebar. I know you hate reading books, you were whining about it in your post history. At least read The Best of Rational Male - Year One. No more mr nice guy is also very short. You could read that in less than a day and that's a real eye opener.

I agree with some newbies who are whining here about others calling them faggots, etc. It wasn't like that back in the day and it makes it harder for men to actually get the message but mods condone it so it goes. The sidebar though is not calling you a fag and it was created with the idea of helping men. It certainly has helped me in my marriage as it has helped many others. If you're going to ignore the many useful replies, at least do not ignore the sidebar.

[–]Bedtimeshine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Honestly if a woman gave her attention to a man all day and then spent her time with me also giving him attention... I’d wouldn’t want to be in that relationship. I’d also tell her that being alone in a hotel room with another man doing drugs isn’t something I would ever accept. I would ask her phone and if she said no... I’d end it on the spot.

[–]i_stuckmydickincrazy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Trolls gonna troll. Seriously dude, are you coming here because you want to grow, or because you want to tell all these men how wrong they are? Because nobody here gives a fuck what you think of them. I don't come here expecting hugs and rainbows when I'm full of feelz because my harpy cunt wife treats me like shit, because I chose to accept that behaviour from her. People are calling you a faggot because you are a faggot. Right now I am thanking Bruce Almighty that I am only 99.9% as much of a faggot as you are, and if I stick around and listen to these fuckers instead of whining to mummy about them being mean and nasty and calling me horrid names, that percentage will go down while you will remain 100% faggot. Lift. Read the sidebar. STFU. Faggot.

[–]hack3geRed Beret0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I'm going to give you two responses mostly because I was where you are at once and I know all too well what happens. One is what you need to do and the other is what you need to hear so hopefully you actually do what you should.

What you need to do:

Lift, Sidebar, STFU and NEXT HER ASS

What you need to hear:

I was there - I let some married guy talk to my wife after work hours as her "friend". I was a pathetic, piece of shit that I don't even consider a man now. You are that same guy right now and your choice will literally determine the rest of your life. For sake of brevity, lets call you Captain Cuck (stick around here long enough and you will get the irony I promise).

Captain Cuck will likely ignore the behavior for a while, pretend it doesn't bother him and then like a typical nice guy explode on her in a victim puke and say its unfair and how could she treat him that way. He will cry about how much he loves her, buy her flowers and try to take her on dates but that only makes her resent him more. He will try to set a boundary and she will skirt around said boundary by claiming things like we only talk about people at work, he's just a friend why are you so controlling, he's going through some stuff and needs my help (and by stuff she means her pussy), etc. Captain Cuck lets her continue talking to the guy all the while stewing in hate, not realizing he actually hates himself for being a little bitch.

Captain Cuck continues to suspect that his woman is fucking, sucking and doing downright raunchy shit with her married co-worker but never finds out - more than likely it ends between them and she doesn't get her branch swing because he won't leave his wife. A few months down the line, shes talking to a different co-worker this time, same story as before because Captain Cuck didn't set a boundary or walk the fuck out the first time. At some point, she says she wants to marry Captain Cuck and have kids to expand the crew and Captain Cuck is so happy that she finally came around and wants him. Fast forward a fea years, Captain Cuck is raising 3 kids by 3 different men thinking all the while that they are his. Captain Cuck continues busting his ass at work, doing all the chores around the house and living off his bi-annual sex and meanwhile his wife is getting railed in all her holes during her co-worker orgies.

Don't be Captain Cuck.

[–]bling3650 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Act like nothings wrong, get up and say "well guess I'm gonna head home, tired." Her hamster will be spinning as to why you left. The next day when she asks you about it, say "not sure if this is gonna work out with me and you. Never dated a girl that texts other guys while she was spending time with me...especially if in a relationship." Don't argue or seem butthurt. Act like you don't care much. She will be doing some major ass kissing after that. Just watch her behavior from now on. And if anything like this happens again, leave. Don't put up with that shit.

[–]Redpillbrigade170 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I literally just gave this same advice to another dude on this sub minutes ago. She’s on her phone? If you have nothing better to do : Start sexting her right then and there. She’s your woman, no? Hit on her - make your intentions known...

[–]Skiffbug-1 points0 points  (5 children) | Copy

Seriously, the replies in this post are worth shit...

Go back to the basics:

  • She is shit testing. Good opportunity to AM the fact that she is trying to get a rise out of you. You are seeing that she is going about getting feels in a childish way, tease her about it.

  • She is not valuing her time with you by texting co-worker. Go do something else. The more productive the better. This demonstrates that your time is too valuable to be wasted by not having her attention.



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