We live in a paradigm where women have successfully pushed for equality in every facet where men have previously held privilege, whilst somehow still claiming and maintaining exclusivity to any form of historically held female privilege, AND also claiming and receiving exemption from any form of historically imposed male disadvantage.

This has led to a society where women have unprecedented access to all the education, jobs and opportunities men used to have, many very lucrative jobs, opportunities, and benefits men can not have, and also none of the financial burdens, disadvantages, and expectations that men still are saddled with. This is a system where, quite paradoxical, we see the trope of a highly educated and high earning woman refusing to date or get involved with a man who does not earn significantly more than her, while also still expecting to be wined, dined, and pampered with gifts and vacations, and all the while spending every penny she earns on luxury items and vacations for herself. Or worse still, a hot 'sugar' gf or Instagram model making $$$$ through absolutely zero skill or merit of her own, yet still expecting her man to financially support her in every facet of life, up to and including her University education. And let us not get started on the inherent imbalance in the sexual marketplace or legal system.

But it doesn't have to go this way. We 'can' refuse to enable or encourage this type of out of control privilege and entitlement we observe among a large percentage of women. Through our choices and behavior, whether tacitly or implicitly, we can bring things more into balance, while also giving them more of the equality they claim to want so badly. This implicit statement is both powerful and practical, as it asserts strength of character in refusing to kowtow to the fem-centric social paradigm, while also protecting our own interests both legally and financially in a biased and corrupt system .

To that end, here are just a few examples of the type of behavior I'm thinking about (though I'd be happy to hear others!):

  • Stop paying for everything all the time: Dinner, drinks, movies, concert tickets, vacations, Ubers etc. Heck, even let them pay for you for a change.

  • Stop rewarding them financially for sexual profiteering: Sugar babies, insta models, cam girls, strippers, hot servers etc... with maybe the exception of a straight 1-1 exchange of money for sex in the case of incels or those who have no other options).

  • Reject any and all forms of lopsided relationship, marriage, or cohabitation arrangements: No live in girlfriends unless she splits the bills 50/50; No extravagant engagement rings; No marriage without prenups; No unemployed housewives (stay at home mothers 'possibly' excepted); NO open relationships, unless it's explicitly what YOU want.

  • Reject the dynamic of the lopsided dating economy: Don't swipe on women below your looks level; Be the 'buyer' at all times in interactions; Hold women to high standards of personality, ethics, and achievement, and always be the one rejecting them if they don't measure up.

  • Hold them accountable: For everything. Don't let them get away with excusing or rationalizing shitty decisions and behavior; Hold a light up to it, call it out for what it is, and then let them pay the consequences.

    Change my mind.