Before reading RP and starting to understand the nuances of men wanting sex and women wanting commitment, I found myself several times filled with disgust, when I could observe the "techniques" men were willing to apply when they tried to make women want to have sex with them.

To me it seemed needy, desperate and "low". Now I think that I understand that the moral judgment probably arose from simply having a different priority. To women commitment seems to be the big deal and for men it seems to be sex. So I could never understand how somebody could consider sex so important that he is willing to lie or cheat for it and thus violate the commitment aspect and I simply felt disgust for what I considered to be weakness arising from neediness and not having spine in the first place.

Now, I believe that there must be similar feelings of disgust in men towards seemingly feminine weaknesses.

I would like to avoid those traps, or if not possible, I would like to at least understand the male perspective on them better.

Which are the traits for which you "despise" women? Particularly with respect to the sex vs. commitment polarity? Which are the ones that stopped making you feel disgusted as soon as you understood that even though women and men basically want the same from each other, they have fundamentally different priorities and thus their strategies in mating vary, and that was seems to be character weakness and thus despicable is in fact just the result of these different priorities?

Is there something as "women go so low in their quest for commitment that they just pretend to enjoy sex" and does it have the potential to raise disgust with respect to those women that pretend? I guess, yes, as it seems quite obvious? And others? Are there more of those "weaknesses"?