How many partners have you had?

NarniaFox · 2020-06-29T08:36:25+00:00

One and we're married now.

ex_red_black_piller · 2020-06-29T19:26:23+00:00

31 M.

One.

TBH I'd rather be a virgin, it was stupid and it sucked.

Business-Welder · 2020-06-29T10:26:09+00:00

2 men. 0 women.

21M. I don't like men btw.

eveleaf · 2020-06-29T16:27:19+00:00

2 men.

My first husband of 10 years, and my second husband of 11 years. As long as he doesn't tragically die young or anything, this is it for me. He's all I want.

Karmanger · 2020-06-29T13:31:41+00:00

it was only 3 up until I was 28, then found TRP and now at age 34 it's around 22.

LucyLaceATX · 2020-06-29T19:18:11+00:00

I’ve (F28) had a grand total of 39 (38 men, 1 woman). I’ve always felt like my number is pretty high for a woman, but I wouldn’t change it for the WORLD. I had some bangin’ (lol, get it?) times! Call me a hoe/slut all you want, I’ve had a good sex life in my 20’s.

Mrs_Drgree · 2020-06-29T15:56:20+00:00

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RottingAway90 · 2020-06-29T08:55:45+00:00

Lost my virginity at 21, slept with about four people between the ages of 21 and 23, five if oral counts. They were all underwhelming drunken hook-ups that were basically for validation since I couldn’t get a bf. Got my first bf at 23 and was with him for seven years. Haven’t been with anyone since. So six in total.

781234567 · 2020-06-29T15:01:33+00:00

10 I’m 27F

Reisiluu · 2020-06-29T07:35:25+00:00

One.

death_by_1000_cats · 2020-06-29T14:29:38+00:00

4 if you just count PIV, 9 if you count other stuff.

TheGirlGetter9000 · 2020-06-29T14:50:09+00:00

About 25 women, I’m a 22 y/o male.

I was in a frat. I don’t expect my n-count to grow much anymore though. I have an LTR and I consider her pretty high tier

GroundSloth123 · 2020-06-29T14:57:40+00:00

I don't know exactly but 3 men and more than 10 women probably less than 20 though? I didn't go back and count so that's an estimate. I'm 30 and female.

i_have_a_semicolon · 2020-06-29T15:00:28+00:00

15 ish, don't know the exact number. Maybe a few more like 18 ish if we count oral.

CyJackX · 2020-06-29T15:03:13+00:00

47

30/M

Notsonewguy7 · 2020-06-29T15:27:30+00:00

Men 19, women 40 So around 60 all together but some stuff is sex, some isn't really otherwise the number would be different.

Mimoxs · 2020-06-29T17:18:55+00:00

2, unfortunately

sritaunicelular · 2020-06-29T21:05:44+00:00

Around 40 men and 10 women. (35 yo female) Currently in a very fulfilling LTR so not adding for a while, his count is around 30-40 women himself. I like the fact we are evenly matched/have experience, and since we are not monogamous and in the BDSM community, the stats and interactions are a little different.

CosmicBioHazard · 2020-06-29T21:55:25+00:00

26M

one, an ex wife.

It’s one too many, as far as I’m concerned. There’s no substitute for discovering it for the first time and I want to associate that with someone who I’ll actually be spending my life with so that she gets that status to make her, y’know, worth spending my life with.

I want it back, really bad.

decoy88 · 2020-06-29T07:26:15+00:00

Two.

My ex-boyfriend and my fiance.

pooppeebuttmcnuggets · 2020-06-29T08:01:35+00:00

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Mrs_Drgree · 2020-06-29T11:13:17+00:00

30 something ish. I lost count exactly.

ThisIsMyAccount135 · 2020-06-29T19:17:16+00:00

On this thread, the men have higher n counts than the women. Are the redpillers claims about hypergamy wrong? :)

saladfingers4141 · 2020-06-29T11:11:22+00:00

Male 31. Around 50-60. Probably unusual for this sub but whatever. I don’t think my high n count makes me an unsuitable partner or that I’m more likely to cheat because of it. I just have a healthy relationship with myself, my sexuality and don’t see anything wrong with casual sex.

AdaTennyson · 2020-06-29T13:58:35+00:00

50 ish - 40 men, 10 women. All before I was 25, and I've been married for the last 10 years.

the_purring_jew · 2020-06-29T14:03:11+00:00

in trying to estimate from 14-23 subtracting BFs and then adding my h I've estimate roughly 80-100, but a really have no actual idea

HappilyMrs · 2020-06-29T12:30:58+00:00

Define sexual partners? Are we including oral/handjobs? Are we only talking about opposite sex encounters?

PIV: 1 (lost our virginity together, then got married)

Oral: 2 men, 2 women

Handjobs etc: 5 men, 3 women

36F, married 17 years.

dylang92 · 2020-06-29T13:37:29+00:00

I have had sex with 7 women my entire life.

wtknight · 2020-06-29T14:23:40+00:00

Three. All of them very long-term relationships.

basedmillennial95 · 2020-06-29T19:11:42+00:00

SkookumTree · 2020-06-30T00:53:59+00:00

25, male. Never even kissed anyone.

jacemano · 2020-06-29T08:45:41+00:00

40-50 range.

Am 28M. I go through periods of wanting quantity and periods of quality

Getting laid got super easy once I was earning + dressing well + remaining swole. I'm lucky enough that I even legit get approached.

Also helps I'm a total degenerate who loves drugs, raves,loud music

ihavesprivilige · 2020-06-29T07:09:22+00:00

At thirty two it was four.

At thirty seven it's forty or so. The wife asked me to add them up, I think it was thirty five. Things blend together it gets hard to tell

I wish it was one and I would have just driven over to where she was and taken her at sixteen. Magically

LemonOne9 · 2020-06-29T11:32:05+00:00

34 y/o male, 40.

c_dolly · 2020-06-29T12:53:13+00:00

6 boyfriends, was sexual with 4 of them and dating the 6th one long term.

CatchPhraze · 2020-06-29T14:12:17+00:00

2 men 1 women.

Infammo · 2020-06-29T15:31:35+00:00

At 32 I've slept with 11 women. 3 ONS, 2 FWB, and 6 LTRs.

NothingButAPoS · 2020-06-29T17:05:20+00:00

18M, I stopped counting around the double digits and don’t really know by now tbh. I slept 5 times with 3 different women in 6 days about a month ago. Trying to fill the void kappa nokappa

iamsojellyofu · 2020-06-29T17:44:05+00:00

Do online relationships count? In that case, only one lmao.

cloudydays84 · 2020-06-29T18:22:48+00:00

I've had 6 sexual partners and have been in 5 relationships, 3 girlfriends, 2 boyfriends, and one current fwb (girl).

Honisalivebitch · 2020-06-29T19:14:12+00:00

25M - 0

ThisIsMyAccount135 · 2020-06-29T19:14:55+00:00

22M, my n count is 5. 2 gf, 3 hookup. If you count other stuff than PIV my count is like 7, and including making out is around 10 or 11. I don't reall keep track that much.

slavicgypsygirl · 2020-06-29T20:50:29+00:00

I am 27, have never counted so rdk

LucyLaceATX · 2020-06-29T22:26:57+00:00

He doesn’t know the exact number, but he is well aware that I’ve had my fair share of fun, along with the fact that I was a stripper for 2 years. He’s not in the slightest bit bothered by any of it, if that’s what you’re getting at, haha. We have a really great sex life within our relationship precisely because we both arrived at our relationship with plenty of practice, knowledge of likes and dislikes, and comfortable enough with our bodies to communicate effectively and play :)

eternitypasses · 2020-06-29T22:30:25+00:00

Only had 2.

Pastelitomaracucho · 2020-06-30T00:02:56+00:00

Superfluous_Toast · 2020-06-30T01:19:22+00:00

Female, 29. 6 including my current SO. 2 long term relationships, 1 short term relationship, and 3 FWBs I suppose.

Sid_Insidious · 2020-06-30T02:35:40+00:00

40-45? ish?

I was a almost a chad-lite once... good shape, decent looking. Nice clothes, car. I got laid. It was good. Took more effort than a Chad-lite, but (shrug) I just put in the effort.

SmurfESmurferson · 2020-06-30T03:45:02+00:00

I lost my virginity at 15. I’m 40 now. It’s less than one per year

ghoulish-thermometer · 2020-06-30T06:24:26+00:00

23M number is like 20 ish? Kissed a few boys here and there but never went the whole way.

All of my promiscuity was during a pretty rough time in my life and I somewhat regret it, I hurt a lot of really nice girls feelings pretty bad because I was vindictive and hated everything myself included. You really can’t find love till you love yourself. Probably gonna marry the current girlfriend, she’s my best friend ever and has a comparatively low n count which makes me feel even more guilty.

ivy176 · 2020-06-30T14:10:55+00:00

I am a woman and I've had sex with 3 people. I've kissed 5 people but 2 of them were in school.

wardenferry419 · 2020-06-30T18:43:00+00:00

Only 2 were LTR.

Elver86 · 2020-06-30T20:37:45+00:00

Thank you guys for answering- I appreciate it. Would anyone mind telling me what an n-count is?

Sisi21cent · 2020-07-01T00:01:23+00:00

BimaxResearcher · 2020-07-04T01:34:57+00:00

25m, 11 lays. I was only genuinely attracted to 2 of them. So in my head, my n count is 2.

tradwife_commie · 2020-07-09T18:19:14+00:00

8 not including bjs (I’m 20F)

Mrs_Drgree · 2020-06-29T09:21:38+00:00

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Mrs_Drgree · 2020-06-29T10:38:42+00:00

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ZestycloseAardvark2 · 2020-06-29T14:27:23+00:00

28M 0 Partners No sex drive

Technical-Gold5772 · 2020-11-16T15:54:54+00:00

I think I might be a bit out of the ordinary but here goes. 43M and I have had approximately 63 female partners plus a further approx 157 transactional female partners ( of whom I was the recipient of the payment 6 times) as well as well as three transsexuals, and about 180 men of whom 8 were random hook ups, three were previously acquaintances, 4 were threesomes with my wife, 3 threesomes with other guys wife/girlfriend, one was a threesome which involved three complete strangers hooking up, plus my best estimate of 164 clients when I worked as an escort. My wife, we believe had 271 male partners before me (she had a slutty period and she likes to experience life to the full and we did in fact count them up way back when) as well as 11 women she has told.me about but I suspect there were a few more and two transsexuals. Since we got together she has had 48 more male partners and another 27 women. She also satisfied a long held curiosity with my support to be a sex worker. It is legal in Australia and she has worked in a number of brothels and as a private escort in three states over a period of 15 years. During the course of her employment she has had sex with another 137 women and 8672 men. So as a couple we have had a total of over 9500 sexual partners and no STIs.

Guarnerre1995 · 2020-06-29T10:37:19+00:00

1 ex and 15 bedpartners

25 male here

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Title	How many partners have you had?
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Date	June 29, 2020 2:24 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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