Is easier said then done. The moment a woman brings up divorce is usually over, they’ve been thinking about it for months if not years. She grieved the split long ago at that point she’s checked out. When a woman says she loves you but not in love with you is over.

Stop holding onto the woman you fell for, she’s a complete different woman that could careless for your well been. Begging and trying to make changes would do nothing at this point. Best course of action is to come with terms that chapter is over and is time to start fresh.

It hurts because you spend so much time with someone trying to build a life for them to turn around and victimize them selves and take no responsibility for their part on the failed marriage.

Remember woman chose who they want to be with but guys chose who they marry.

Most woman want to be marry but not be a wife. There’s billions of them, what’s so special about this one particularly? If she’s not willing to do her part what’s the point of salvaging something only one person is willing to work for.

People get divorce everyday you too would be ok. As long as you keep your dignity and let her go, the next one would come in due time.

Find your self and who you use to be, that’s who she fell for and that’s what the next one would fall for. We got this, reach out for help and don’t rely on alcohol during this times.