i was looking at the comments of the recent r/dating_advice post that was crossposted here (about the girl who gave a blowjob to the guy she was seeing who then started fading her) and the comments are infuriating. that motherfucker is obviously not into her but all the commenters are gaslighting her for her totally correct gut feelings and telling her to "talk to him" so he can manipulate her more and use her sexually again. i didn't even bother commenting because i knew they'd be like "well you post in FDS/PPF so you're an evil femin*zi!!!" and i'd be downvoted into oblivion.

it's the same with pretty much all mainstream relationship/dating subs. women come there with legitimate concerns and then the men and handmaidens there routinely dismiss and minimize their issues and tell them to "cOmMuNiCaTe" with their abusers. it's almost intolerable at this point. this sub and PPF are the only subs that don't lie to women to benefit men meanwhile if you even dare link to FDS on any of the relationship subs, your comment will be automatically removed and you'll be banned. god forbid women want to help other women avoid abusers and users. i wish there was an FDS relationship advice sub tbh.