Seriously, what a Queen

AmeliaEmiliaEmma · 2021-12-23T18:51:38+00:00

My sister did this. Her bf begged her for a kid, BEGGED, ASAP, he is getting old, and as soon as she got pregnant, he started taking back. Suddenly marriage was “too much pressure”, he did promised this and that but now he was reconsidering. So she went and terminated the pregnancy. He cried his eyes out. Sobbed and begged again.

MsWriteNow07 · 2021-12-23T16:27:23+00:00

I was going to post this here! I’ll have to see if I can post my favorite reply instead.

fogplum · 2021-12-23T19:25:12+00:00

Good for her. I'm glad it wasn't too late for her. That's one of my worst nightmares.

throwawaynevermindit · 2021-12-23T18:59:30+00:00

Normalize this. Women need to have full, unquestioned control over which fetuses we devote the resources of our bodies to and need to be willing to exercise it in this ruthless a way if necessary. Hopefully it won't ever be for any of us, but if it is.... no apologies. This level of sharkishness and unrepentant preservation of our time and bodies is what it will take to fix things for women in the world.

And yes, while very unlikely to occur to me because of other selection mechanisms I use and because I live in a country less backward than some re: women's rights, if it ever did occur, I would absolutely do this, hate to break it to skeptics. It's a fully reasonable thing to do, no matter how men try and spin it. Remember, the things men are most eager to spin as Mean and Bad things for women to do, are almost invariably the tools and attitudes that will free us.

Honestly, more than that, if I was ever raped and forced to carry the child to term, I'd more than likely make use of the nearest foundling box or equivalent asap. Shitty men, of whatever degree, will NEVER win with me in terms of reproductive success in any way that requires even an ounce of my cooperation... or breast milk. Sorry not sorry.

august-27 · 2021-12-23T13:08:55+00:00

HAHAHAHA you treat women like shit, you forfeit access to our wombs! You don't deserve to procreate!

tallwomenneedlovetoo · 2021-12-23T13:58:03+00:00

AHHHHHH. He thought 🤣🤣🤣

He’s probably punching the air and crying. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: men get us pregnant to have a hold on us. It’s typically about control.

queencharlie · 2021-12-23T16:28:10+00:00

This needs to become normalized. If I had had this mentality my life would have been significantly better. Now I’m stuck for life dealing with an abusive POS.

mareetran · 2021-12-23T08:24:36+00:00

These men want their “legacy” to carry on without any of the responsibility. Good for her, sis had to do what she had to do to ensure her future isn’t tied with an lvm.

OrangeyPanda · 2021-12-23T16:15:50+00:00

I'd do the same, a fetus doesn't have anything to do with a man until it's a born breathing child. Women need to protect their own lives and futures first. If men don't like that, well it's INCREDIBLY easy to not treat your pregnant spouse like shit.

So many men think as soon as they impregnate a woman he owns her and she is trapped, nope.

PossibleCook · 2021-12-23T16:08:31+00:00

I wish most woman did this. Stop having children with shitty men!

Bekinditsfree · 2021-12-24T02:03:54+00:00

Yupp. Not every man deserves a legacy.

The_Cat_Empress · 2021-12-24T16:50:49+00:00

"tHiS eVIL wOmAn kIlLeD tHeIr cHiLd, DOeSn'T hE hAvE a SaY?!"

No...

Seriously, men have next to 0% of the effort involved in pregnancy, I'll say it a million times.

I'm so happy that woman cut it off at the knees and chose her OWN life rather than become a slave to both the man AND the child.

scorchedsouI · 2021-12-23T08:14:06+00:00

Good on her for realising before having children with that man. A lot of women aren't as lucky.

Carneliancat · 2021-12-23T17:52:28+00:00

Good for her. She avoided passing on his inferior genes AND freed herself from a lifetime of being attached to a LVM. She will now be able to have children with a man who is worthy of her and the future kids. She is the one with the womb, and gets to decide who she will allow to gestate.

JustTrynaSleep266 · 2021-12-24T02:59:49+00:00

I can’t even imagine having the kid of someone like that. It makes me sad to know girls who have never known what a HVM is and set the bar so low for scummy dudes

lansburysoda · 2021-12-23T08:39:38+00:00

The words “pregnant” and “girlfriend” shouldn’t even be next to each other. Good for her

blackmetalbetty · 2021-12-23T14:39:24+00:00

He was probably hoping to go Montezuma all over the freaking earth, never taking care of any of his offspring because MuH lEgACy!

BrightIdeaGenerator · 2021-12-23T17:07:46+00:00

Welp. Good for her for figuring it out before kids got here. Hopefully she won't let that happen again, but but I'm proud of her.

PalmTreePhilosophy · 2021-12-23T19:10:40+00:00

Good. Complacency is a man's worst habit. Hopefully she will get to know what type of man he is before she gets pregnant but many guys tend to lie like hell until the woman is trapped.

Novemberinthechair · 2021-12-23T20:56:18+00:00

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

DiosaCordilia · 2021-12-23T21:03:13+00:00

🙏🙏🙏🙏

iacint · 2021-12-23T11:39:29+00:00

Good for her!

uwillneverfindmeirl · 2021-12-23T09:09:44+00:00

What a queen

FDS-GFY · 2021-12-28T05:17:23+00:00

Queen shit. This is why they want to outlaw abortion.

Alpha_Aries · 2021-12-23T17:46:21+00:00

Can you do this in a marriage?

jupitaur9 · 2021-12-23T16:44:59+00:00

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queeninprogress · 2021-12-28T01:40:28+00:00

Good for her. Save yourself queen

PieChemical1996 · 2021-12-23T10:21:43+00:00

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Title	Seriously, what a Queen
Author	ColdxConfection
Upvotes	1833
Comments	73
Date	December 23, 2021 8:08 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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