Yes. Yes. Yes.

RadarFemef · 2020-07-06T02:30:54+00:00

This is an idea I’ve seen more and more, the fact that men have vastly more respect and attention to their homosocial friendships than their wives or female partners. Men love and value other men more, and their opinions are the only ones that matter.

Ka_Tetof99 · 2020-07-06T04:04:43+00:00

“To say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex (fucking exclusively with the other sex, i.e., women). All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men. The people whom the admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom the imitate, idolize, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn, and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honor, reverence and love they desire… those are, overwhelmingly, other men. In their relations with women, what passes for respect is kindness, generosity or paternalism; what passes for honor is removal to the pedestal. From women they want devotion, service and sex.

Heterosexual male culture is homoerotic; it is man-loving.”

-Marilyn Frye, The Politics of Reality

onthechainwaxx · 2020-07-06T01:46:03+00:00

I think about this all the time. Especially in regards to my own dating life - these men don't actually like women (or me), they just like pussy and being babied. My recent ex definitely liked the idea of me so much more than the reality.

Nimmly67 · 2020-07-06T07:16:17+00:00

LIKE ISNT IT A BITCH HOW BOOKS, MOVIES, AND MAINSTREAM IDEOLOGY ALWAYS PORTRAY MEN AS GIFTS FROM GOD. BUT in reality theyre either children who need their hand held at best or controlling asshats at worst.

Obviously not all men, but fuck man, truth right here

husheveryone · 2020-07-06T02:14:56+00:00

She had me at “ya’ll wish ya’ll homies had coochies.” 🥇🤣 Yup. Truer than true!

dzgata · 2020-07-06T02:04:27+00:00

When men describe the type of woman they want they describe a slave.

outside-perception · 2020-07-06T02:20:33+00:00

The intuitiveness part. Omg. This is why most of us gaslight ourselves after a few bad relationships. And this is why I no longer question my intuition. Women know.

ReignRain95 · 2020-07-06T03:28:31+00:00

Ive thought about this before. Sometimes I overhear stuff or read stuff and even question if men are attracted to women sexually naturally, they want a perfect plastic doll or something.

lluuni · 2020-07-06T03:28:51+00:00

Not sure what she means by sensitivity and emotions making us women. Both over-sensitive and emotional men are a major problem for women as a whole. I’ve honestly encountered far more men with these problems than women.

Canijustbekim · 2020-07-06T11:42:31+00:00

This is why I say sexuality can't be a choice. Who would willingly choose to be attracted to men?

RedRetrograde · 2020-07-06T02:18:06+00:00

Heterosexuality Is A Misleading Term For “No Homo” Men. Men Do Not Feel Attracted To Women, They Do Not Like Women, And They Do Not Love Women.

1.) Men are not attracted to women.

Men constantly talk about how disgusting vaginas look, smell, taste, and how much they hate the idea of going down on women. If they have the choice, they prefer female genitals that are mutilated: either via “old-fashioned” techniques like in some African and Islamic communities or via “modern” cosmetic surgeries that some women in porn have performed on them. The goal of this is always a kind of sexless, “genitalless”, pedophilic look of a pink little slit.

Men also hate any amount of natural body hair on women although (or because!) it is a sign of sexual maturity. Men hate normal amounts of body fat on women although (or because) it is a sign of sexual maturity and fertility as well.

Men want babies with big tits.

And what do they want to sexually do to these babies with big tits? Fuck them in the ass, fuck them in the throat, beat, rape, torture, and humiliate them until they cry.

Male sexuality is nothing but fetishized violence against women. They love anal sex because it is hurtful to women and doesn’t give women a chance to orgasm themselves. And the moment they realized that some women actually enjoy giving blowjobs have they come up with “throat fucking” and “deep throat”: they HATE women, they HATE female bodies, and they HATE the idea that a woman could enjoy sex.

It is often said that “Porn tells lies about women, but it tells the truth about men”. And the truth is that if you take the brutal anal/throat penetration out of male sexuality, what’s left is men casually beating, hurting, whipping women. The distinction between “vanilla” and “kink” doesn’t make sense in the case of men. It’s just a matter of degree. “Vanilla” men want to rape women and beat them - “kinky” men want to rape women and beat them and electroshock and water torture and mutilate them.

Men are not attracted to actual female bodies. Men only enjoy the idea of DESTROYING female bodies: both through absurd beauty norms that effectively destroy these bodies and turn them into absurd dolls and through sexual practices that are always about hurting, beating, whipping, raping, anal fucking, throat fucking female bodies.

2.) Men do not like women.

Men do not feel attracted to real women. And men do obviously not LIKE women. They hate women so much that the moment women like something, men hate it: if women like flavored-coffee drinks from Starbucks, men hate it BECAUSE women like it. (As if bacon and bacon memes are funnier or better than women making memes about pizza or enjoying pumpkin-spice lattes!) If women join a fandom, men leave because the moment women like it, they start hating it.

Some sociologist has coined the term “gender pollution”: it is a sexist term itself but it describes a real phenomenon: the more women enter a particular space (e.g. a profession or a hobby), the more it is “polluted”, the less it is valued and the less people in this job get paid. I think in some Eastern European countries this is actually the case with doctors even: but as there are many women in this field - both among nurses as well as among doctors - doctors are also not valued anymore.

The moment women became good in school was the moment boys increasingly dropped out. Men now associate doing your homework and reading books with women - and they rather ruin their lives than to be engaged with something women like! So instead of doing their homework are they now playing video games 24/7. But now women have obviously started playing video games as well. So now they become mass shooters because they hate the idea of female video game characters.

3.) Men do not love women.

Winston Churchill famously said that you have the Germans either at your feet or at your throat.

Now, I’m not sure about the Germans, but I think that this is definitely true for males: they are always either at your throat or at your feet. Males fall in “love” with e-girls...but the moment they find out that those women already have boyfriends they want to kill them. (I’m not even sure if I have to put “love” in quotation marks here because the idea of a REAL love in contrast to quotation-marks-love feels a bit like the idea that only “men” in quotation marks are toxic and shitty while REAL men are all these heroes and these supermen…)

...Consider how many males murder others and/or end their own lives because of love. Just like being pornsick makes it hard for males - and for women - to develop a realistic understanding of human sexuality with its possibilities and limitations, being “lovesick” makes it hard for males - and for women - to develop a realistic understanding of human relationships. People these days expect love to do what previous generations expected miracles and gods to do. “All you need is love” vs “All you need is Jesus”.

There are also studies that show that males fall in love easier and earlier than women. And they surely fall out of love easier as well. Males are like the flickering flame of a candle that burns brightly for a second and then goes out again. This is why it’s so super common for women to think that they do not know their husbands anymore because they feel that these males are completely different persons suddenly.

Males can be lovesick and pornsick at the same time. They masturbate to torture porn in one moment, and the next moment they write a 20-page love letter to some e-girl and emotionally vomit all over them, confessing their undying love. (Many women receive as many rape threats as they receive cringe love letters in which males emotionally vomit all over them.) And one moment later do they already want to kill those terrible “e-thots” again: males are always either at your throat or at your feet: the romantic concept of “love” is a literary construct at best and a religious tool at worst but it’s simply not true that men are able to “love” women in the sense women dream about being loved.

Men are not attracted to actual women.

Men do not like actual women.

Men do not love actual women.

—u/ConsidertheHorses

NeptunianBabe · 2020-07-06T06:29:09+00:00

If this isn't true. This is exactly what I was telling a friend yesterday,that it's always the pickmes that are trending on twitter and not cause they're pro women but cause they're pandering to men and throwing women under the bus. Just recently a lady was trending and she was telling women that they were given vaginas for free therefore they should share them FOR FREE, like they shouldn't expect a man to spend on them and spoil them and pay for stuff cause "hE's Not hEr FaTher" (amongst other things like encouraging women to lower their standards). I got so disgusted and angry I almost cried smh, I hope she finds out that being a pickmeisha is a scam and 90% of what men say they want, they only say it cause it benefits them.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2020-07-06T07:25:58+00:00

This is why I find most men utterly unattractive.

They remind me of my father and this is absolutely how he views women. He gets off on humiliating and degrading them (Mormon who porn-fies women. His father was also Mormon, and got off on abusing his wife and kids and showing them porn. Joyous childhood.)

I’ve had one short relationship and due to circumstances have remained single due to trauma and even if I heal, most are LVM.

My first relationship actually made me feel humanized; they would see me being mistreated and stuffing my feelings down and would immediately ask either the next day or moment after if I was ok. I’m not use to being treated well so my jaw dropped the first time especially because I hide my emotions really well. They were “energy sensitive” like me. I appreciated that. I didn’t even have to communicate my feelings to feel seen and heard. They did not watch porn and I noticed even with my autonomy I never had to explain my boundaries, not once, they were empathetic and intuitive about it and would do things to “butter me up” which made me want to initiate. It worked that way. I appreciated my boundaries respected. And this is such a basic thing to ask for it’s a shame that’s deemed worthy of “praise” when its basic human decency. I have to even keep this in mind; never idealize anyone. The bar is set so low...

They complimented me on being sincere, a good person, hardworking and driven. I never saw or felt those were attributes I had, somehow I believe they believed what they were saying though.

Validating my emotions (without being asked,) being spontaneous and valuing me for my internal attributes made me feel very humanized and taught me I deserve to be treated well.

And I won’t settle for less. I’m a human being and being dehumanized is a very common and undervalued trauma in women. I deserve to be treated well.

I remember my father would do “homo-erotic ” bonding with other males, objectifying me or threatening to objectify me if I had positive attention from males or was interested. He would say “all guys are like that.”

I won’t tolerate that at all. If I ever date key things I want to for are how they are with body language and subtly emotions.

Honestly, I’m repulsed by most men because most watch porn and lack empathy.

I don’t know how women settle for men who only view women sexually.

My mother was one of the most unhappy women I know and he sexualized her even in death.

Never ever tolerate someone who views you sexually primarily... I feel like sexual attraction should follow emotional attraction personal...(apparently thats suppose to be a type of sexuality... isn’t that normal lmao wtf. Demi sexual or some shit. Porn isn’t normal sexuality. )

FuckinGandalfManWoah · 2020-07-06T11:24:13+00:00

Lots of men are attracted to femininity, not women.

Villanelloh · 2020-07-06T12:55:36+00:00

Men love men. This is why the beard trend took off - have you noticed how they all sit around admiring each other's beards, stroking their chins, giving praise to men with beards they find especially attractive?

perkytitssolidshits · 2020-07-06T14:55:26+00:00

Men say they hide their emotions to be more attractive...well they sure aren't hiding their emotions from women. They'll cry, scream, and show every emotion under the sun around us. When they're around men they pretend to be their "stoic" (snort) selves to appear more manly. So tell me again, who are they trying to be attractive for?

adertina · 2020-07-06T02:10:40+00:00

men sexualize wlw bc they cant comprehend how beautiful women are and the women who see it

muludnepgnicnad · 2020-07-06T08:10:58+00:00

1000%

anonymousgirl99 · 2020-07-06T06:38:34+00:00

Pink pill ideology has (finally) entered the chat

Myplummms · 2020-07-06T19:37:58+00:00

It’s insane how much homoeroticism is encouraged with women if it’s for the male gaze, but discouraged in men as being unmasculine. And yet, most women live in a culture where men prioritize other men’s thoughts,feelings, and beliefs above their own. How do men bond over misogyny influenced by tradition, and yet also complain about what traditional gender roles expect of them? Make it make sense 😪

HaveNoIdeaWhatToPick · 2020-07-06T09:34:34+00:00

Some of scrotes are so hopeless, we as a gender are so annoying when we refuse to be control by these scrotes. The minute they barely get females they freak out. Thank to fucking god this year and last year I refuse to ever put a man on a pedestal.

99% most of the time doing this just makes the male ego worst. I always wondering how to these men we are so annoying? my abusive ex was the same way he claims he loves me but he made it clear a lot of things he couldn't stand about me. The minute I was enjoying my life and he couldn't find pussy he crawls back and "realizes" he can tolerate me now. Like fuck off and second move on with your life. These men are so psychos about females but apparently you can't call it what it is.

Novemberinthechair · 2020-07-06T09:13:26+00:00

Mmmm, yeah.

Sasofa · 2020-07-06T17:22:52+00:00

You can look up Matriarchal societies both historical and current. One thing they all have in common is that all women are treated relatively equally and there is rarely marriage to men and if they do get married, it doesn't resemble what we think of as marriage. Women if they get married will not sleep in the same bed or sometimes house as the man. In these societies will sleep with a man and work with him to take care of the child and that's it. Many times, they don't even ALLOW men to be around women. They seem pretty happy.

Maybe they're on to something 🤔. Marriage takes more from women than it does men. I'm starting to believe that marriage is more about control than love since matriarchal societies abandon it and patriarchal ones cling to it.

SpaceC4se · 2020-07-06T11:43:07+00:00

Go off sis.

naturopathicfantasti · 2020-07-07T05:33:13+00:00

Even when you are a hairless pink slit, outrageously attractive, loyal and agreeable... they will hate you and cheat whenever and with whom ever they can.

They hate women they know. When they know you, you aren’t an attractive, hairless slit anymore. You have a personality and ideas and feelings.

When we cease to be an idea we aren’t idealized any longer. It’s the new that gains their adoration. The new is an abstract construct in their mind. In short, a person who has not yet been effected by them.

What they hate in us is the reflection of their damage done on our minds.

SuchBarracuda · 2020-07-06T14:49:23+00:00

Truth Hurts

preopium · 2020-07-06T21:51:39+00:00

Even their sexuality revolves around hurting women. Just look at the shit that’s trending these days... anal prolapsing, choking, slapping, beating, hatefucking, throatfucking, rape, forced, etc. How come “real orgasm compilations” never trend? Men couldn’t give less than a damn about pleasing women and making us feel good.

quirkypinkllama · 2020-07-06T15:28:37+00:00

Amennnnnn

CoyoteaParty · 2020-07-06T22:14:41+00:00

This is why I went from being bisexual to being a lesbian. I no longer have any attraction whatsoever to men.

Tiffglamour · 2020-07-06T20:53:11+00:00

A QUEEN 👏👏👏👏

lyricthesecond · 2020-07-11T23:24:35+00:00

They never love you, they just love how you make them feel.

Title	Yes. Yes. Yes.
Author	cremeblushers
Upvotes	1941
Comments	166
Date	July 6, 2020 1:30 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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