Daily Community Chat Megathread

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-05-22T20:03:43+00:00

I want to live in an idyllic suburb. I want to own a house in a nice neighborhood where I can go outside after dark for a jog without fearing for my safety. I want to have my kids go to public schools with good teachers, reasonable class sizes, and good resources especially if they are in high school. I want them to be able to play sports, join the theater or debate team, and take fun elective classes. I want them to be able to bike at the park after school. I want to live near good parks. I want to be able to go on hikes on the weekend without driving all day. I don’t want a 10 mile drive to take over an hour. I want my kids to go to kumon, dance, sports, art, and piano and to learn a second or third language. I dont want my kids to not have opportunities and waste their potential. I want to be able to afford weekly Pilates and spin classes, the occasional spa visit, and annual vacation with nice hotels and travel arrangements. I don’t want a car accident to be the death of me financially and a trip to the homeless shelter.

Men: GoLd DiGgEr

Peacesquad · 2023-05-22T20:00:11+00:00

Btw why is there a pregant man emoji? Lmao🫃🏻

Peacesquad · 2023-05-22T19:59:56+00:00

Men can’t get a date? Get therapy. You’re the problem. I love women!!🍻🙈🙉🐒💩🤤💅🏾🤷🏽‍♀️🧏‍♂️🫃🏻🧌🥷🏿

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T19:56:49+00:00

Listen l always on first dates especially if am really interested in her which am over 90% of the time since am always the asking her out

But the arguments for it doesn't add up

Women online will say: you should pay because she took the time looking beautiful for you

Fair but l also took the time looking handsome unless of course they think otherwise lol

potoricco · 2023-05-22T19:50:13+00:00

Am I a specimen or am I just sheltered?

-rarely get ill, never been seriously ill

-never broken a bone, never been seriously injured

-Never got COVID 19

-Don’t gain weight easily (and I live in america)

-Not allergic to anything

-Athletic

Who won’t me 🔥🔥

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T19:46:06+00:00

Also guys, it's important you vet your woman for more than 6 months before getting in a long-term relationship with her

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T19:44:19+00:00

"You said marriage is bad"

I've no problem against marriage but l just want guys to have the sexual experience they desire before deciding to get married, l've had many married men tell/advice me to not get married until l've blown some sexual steam off

Because you get guys like Ben Shapiro who rush things because they never had that sexual experience

Bandit174 · 2023-05-22T19:37:30+00:00

lol @ comments

"would rather be homeless than date an average man" - average woman

questioningfeminist · 2023-05-22T19:31:21+00:00

Q4Mods: Why do you hide the upvote/downvote score for like 1 day?

thestruggle-isreal · 2023-05-22T19:22:23+00:00

So from all the answers I got from my question , it begs the question, why are so many men stuck in friendzone ?

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T19:17:03+00:00

As someone who doesn't care about how many sexual partners she's been with(sike) l don't understand the notion of being called insecure because of it

I understand/acknowledge both sides, l understand why some guys don't care and also understand why many guys care

lolmastr13 · 2023-05-22T19:16:49+00:00

The actual biggest problem with dating is the lack of reasonably mixed gender spaces appropriate for making friends and romantic partners.

JiifuhTV · 2023-05-22T19:16:08+00:00

reddit is the only app where women think you are insecure if you don’t want women with diseases

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-22T19:13:20+00:00

https://imgur.com/gallery/CbzyEaV Dad is awesome and mom is backing him up.

Maffioze · 2023-05-22T19:01:23+00:00

I keep getting the "nothowgirlswork" sub recommended to me and I hate it. These people are often as delusional as the memes they post.

Just saw one argue the relationship standards are way higher for women than for men. Come on now... if you believe that in the west you're truly delusional.

happy_discus · 2023-05-22T18:55:12+00:00

The BBQ with me, myself and I went well. I made some really fcking tasty spare ribs and bratwurst. Made some grilled feta cheese too. Had a great time alone. :D
I went to a Skorpions concert later that day. If you get the chance you should really watch the show. Its probably their last tour, since they are old af.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-22T18:45:33+00:00

For folks struggling to get a date, there seems to be a lot of conversations about divorce.

Feels very cart before the horse.

Y'all don't even have a long-term girlfriend, and you're pontificating about divorce rates? 🙄

Wild.

Peacesquad · 2023-05-22T18:33:42+00:00

What do you bring to the table? I am the table

saraimarsena · 2023-05-22T18:31:47+00:00

when i go out without him, being drunk j makes me miss my boyfriend even more. i can’t relate to the thinking behind alcohol making people cheat

anyone else experience that?

Peacesquad · 2023-05-22T18:31:45+00:00

Women

questioningfeminist · 2023-05-22T18:23:35+00:00

Q4W: What's the difference between confidence and arrogance?

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T18:07:27+00:00

"I don't want other men around my girl"

I just laugh in this situations since l constantly see them

At the club, girls who are in relationships kissing ending up kissing other dudes

Once happened to this guy l knew and they legit both admitted making out once he saw them

But l always ask myself "why is your girl at the club" since being with you should be enough for her

Clubs are just filled with horny dudes and girls who wanna be hoes behind their bfs/husband's

VampireChaser · 2023-05-22T17:55:24+00:00

Most women have such bad game/rizz that if men wouldn't approach them, they would be single forever and end up dying alone, lol.

questioningfeminist · 2023-05-22T17:42:41+00:00

If you, as a restaurant, want to hire mentally handicapped people, that's awesome!!

Just... tell your handicapped people to not go table to table bugging the guests with your tales of how embarrassed you are because you told someone it's Father's Day.

I've pretty much resigned that I'm not going to this place anymore because he will ALWAYS come over and bug me when I'm just trying to have a peaceful lunch.

Peacesquad · 2023-05-22T17:34:44+00:00

I’m so dumb. I’ve been driving for 10 plus years and I just found out last week that the gas icon on the dash has an arrow next to it that shows you which side of the car has the gas tank

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-22T17:09:05+00:00

What does life look like for you in 10 years?

Let's assume you get everything you want, desire, are striving for.

potoricco · 2023-05-22T17:07:51+00:00

Also:

Women end up with shitty husbands and boyfriends = “women need to pick better partners”

High amount of single men with no gf in sight: “Why are women so fucking picky waaaahhh”

scwizard · 2023-05-22T17:07:10+00:00

Lmao this fucking guy

https://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/nick-cannon-doesnt-pay-government-child-support-12-children

potoricco · 2023-05-22T17:02:44+00:00

It’s insane the lengths people will go to to defend men and blame women. This is a real conversation I just had. The topic was about a man who murdered a young woman who rejected him

Someone: “it wouldn’t have happened if she hadn’t manipulated him”

Me: “there is no evidence she manipulated him and that’s not an excuse to kill people”

Someone: “well, it’s because criminals grow up in a single mother households, he lacks self control”

Me: “he grew up in a 2 parent household but his father was abusive”

Someone: “Well, his mother should have chosen a better partner”

And men say we lack accountability

Peacesquad · 2023-05-22T17:02:31+00:00

It’s the woman’s job to keep the man

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T17:00:25+00:00

Once l realized destiny was bi

It made all the sense in the world since that's why he allows other men to smash his girl

But she's not attracted to him lol, they just a brother and sister type relationship from what am seeing/observing

What's weird is they allow other bi men to join the relationship but no Heterosexual men allowed, l mean l understand since destiny might be jealous they only want his girl but not him

Peacesquad · 2023-05-22T16:59:21+00:00

Men and women

Peacesquad · 2023-05-22T16:59:05+00:00

What did I miss?

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-05-22T16:47:47+00:00

When it comes to dating and misleading the other gender; men run a short con where women play the long con.

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T16:45:54+00:00

One of the many problems l see guys don't realize/observe is what the women around them are attracted by

When l was in HS l realized/saw girls were attracted to confidently,charismatic guys

In uni it was the same but more so guys in their social circles and funny good-looking guys

So it's important to be aware of such things

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-22T16:42:52+00:00

There's something really enjoyable about a lunch break workout.

Lunch tastes even better after some movement.

My-wifes-bronzemedal · 2023-05-22T16:34:42+00:00

Today's women dressing in active wear have no modesty. Whores...

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-05-22T16:34:06+00:00

I have a female friend that I debate gender related topics with, today is on divorce. She hit me with this

A lot of men have issues and are not great partners for a bunch of different reasons (tiktok storytimes are making this clear). Which is why women are divorcing them more often then they are divorcing women. If women were the ones not doing carrying their weight in the relationship, being abusive, cheating, not caring for their children, men would be divorcing them. The conversation with men is always about what women should do to be worthy of marriage or keeping a man, but never the other way around.

So I brought up the fact that lesbian relationships have the highest divorce rate, especially in her country (Netherlands) where between 2005 and 2015 the lesbian divorce rate was 30%, gay divorce rate was 15% and straight divorce rate is 18%. Then she responds with this

I've gone down the rabbit hole of relationship stories, I keep getting them recommended to me and simply put men are behaving really shitty (literally and figuratively🤢). Saying lesbians have high(er) divorce rates doesn't change that fact. Meanwhile men keep blaming women for divorce rates instead of having the necessary conversations about what it means to be husband, what they need to bring to the table in terms of qualities/character/cooperation. Just having a job and providing for your family ain't cutting it no more🤷🏾‍♀️

I just wanna know if I'm tripping here. If women divorce women at a higher rate than women divorcing men, and men divorce men at the lowest rate, how are the actions of men primarily contributed to the huge difference in divorce initiation? I'm not saying she's completely off base because sure abuse and cheating are reasons to leave, but this isn't the whole picture. I believe the reason men don't divorce women as much is because "it's cheaper to keep her", and more often than not she doesn't have as much to lose so she pulls the trigger. And if women were the ideal partners and men are the shitty ones, then we'd see lesbian couples divorcing at the lowest rate, not twice as much as men. Idk maybe I am tripping what are your thoughts?

Justwannaread3 · 2023-05-22T16:33:30+00:00

If you’re an incel or red pilled or whatever: What would the average woman have to do to convince you that we don’t hate men or only want to use them in relationships?

I’m generally just curious about what it would take to change your views about what “most” women are like.

JiifuhTV · 2023-05-22T16:30:38+00:00

it’s not misogynistic to kick someone out after they fail to do their job

hold this dick or leave the property 🤷‍♂️

armpitpics · 2023-05-22T15:56:24+00:00

Watching 1917 has been a curse. Seeing George MacKay fighting the bad boys in this one made me realize how much I love pale butterfaces in WWI uniforms.

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T15:50:48+00:00

I still remember last year or 2021 when Myron went viral on tik-tok and website news for saying you should kick her out or call another girl if she doesn't want give you sex

Got labeled as "misogynist" on the media, lol am really amazed how saying things like that gets you viral and false labels

Patient_Recording_96 · 2023-05-22T15:46:34+00:00

Unconditional love in a relationship, e.g. wife and husband, doesn't exist. The relationship is solely based on giving and taking. One partner expects things from the other.

thestruggle-isreal · 2023-05-22T15:41:36+00:00

Q4W- have you ever not been interested in a guy until he started flirting with you ?

I’m not talking about a guy you didn’t know. Someone you knew and have interacted with on several occasions

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