Daily Community Chat Megathread

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-05-22T20:03:43+00:00

I want to live in an idyllic suburb. I want to own a house in a nice neighborhood where I can go outside after dark for a jog without fearing for my safety. I want to have my kids go to public schools with good teachers, reasonable class sizes, and good resources especially if they are in high school. I want them to be able to play sports, join the theater or debate team, and take fun elective classes. I want them to be able to bike at the park after school. I want to live near good parks. I want to be able to go on hikes on the weekend without driving all day. I don’t want a 10 mile drive to take over an hour. I want my kids to go to kumon, dance, sports, art, and piano and to learn a second or third language. I dont want my kids to not have opportunities and waste their potential. I want to be able to afford weekly Pilates and spin classes, the occasional spa visit, and annual vacation with nice hotels and travel arrangements. I don’t want a car accident to be the death of me financially and a trip to the homeless shelter.

Men: GoLd DiGgEr

Peacesquad · 2023-05-22T20:00:11+00:00

Btw why is there a pregant man emoji? Lmao🫃🏻

Peacesquad · 2023-05-22T19:59:56+00:00

Men can’t get a date? Get therapy. You’re the problem. I love women!!🍻🙈🙉🐒💩🤤💅🏾🤷🏽‍♀️🧏‍♂️🫃🏻🧌🥷🏿

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T19:56:49+00:00

Listen l always on first dates especially if am really interested in her which am over 90% of the time since am always the asking her out

But the arguments for it doesn't add up

Women online will say: you should pay because she took the time looking beautiful for you

Fair but l also took the time looking handsome unless of course they think otherwise lol

potoricco · 2023-05-22T19:50:13+00:00

Am I a specimen or am I just sheltered?

-rarely get ill, never been seriously ill

-never broken a bone, never been seriously injured

-Never got COVID 19

-Don’t gain weight easily (and I live in america)

-Not allergic to anything

-Athletic

Who won’t me 🔥🔥

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T19:46:06+00:00

Also guys, it's important you vet your woman for more than 6 months before getting in a long-term relationship with her

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T19:44:19+00:00

"You said marriage is bad"

I've no problem against marriage but l just want guys to have the sexual experience they desire before deciding to get married, l've had many married men tell/advice me to not get married until l've blown some sexual steam off

Because you get guys like Ben Shapiro who rush things because they never had that sexual experience

Bandit174 · 2023-05-22T19:37:30+00:00

lol @ comments

"would rather be homeless than date an average man" - average woman

questioningfeminist · 2023-05-22T19:31:21+00:00

Q4Mods: Why do you hide the upvote/downvote score for like 1 day?

thestruggle-isreal · 2023-05-22T19:22:23+00:00

So from all the answers I got from my question , it begs the question, why are so many men stuck in friendzone ?

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T19:17:03+00:00

As someone who doesn't care about how many sexual partners she's been with(sike) l don't understand the notion of being called insecure because of it

I understand/acknowledge both sides, l understand why some guys don't care and also understand why many guys care

lolmastr13 · 2023-05-22T19:16:49+00:00

The actual biggest problem with dating is the lack of reasonably mixed gender spaces appropriate for making friends and romantic partners.

JiifuhTV · 2023-05-22T19:16:08+00:00

reddit is the only app where women think you are insecure if you don’t want women with diseases

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-22T19:13:20+00:00

https://imgur.com/gallery/CbzyEaV Dad is awesome and mom is backing him up.

Maffioze · 2023-05-22T19:01:23+00:00

I keep getting the "nothowgirlswork" sub recommended to me and I hate it. These people are often as delusional as the memes they post.

Just saw one argue the relationship standards are way higher for women than for men. Come on now... if you believe that in the west you're truly delusional.

happy_discus · 2023-05-22T18:55:12+00:00

The BBQ with me, myself and I went well. I made some really fcking tasty spare ribs and bratwurst. Made some grilled feta cheese too. Had a great time alone. :D
I went to a Skorpions concert later that day. If you get the chance you should really watch the show. Its probably their last tour, since they are old af.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-22T18:45:33+00:00

For folks struggling to get a date, there seems to be a lot of conversations about divorce.

Feels very cart before the horse.

Y'all don't even have a long-term girlfriend, and you're pontificating about divorce rates? 🙄

Wild.

Peacesquad · 2023-05-22T18:33:42+00:00

What do you bring to the table? I am the table

saraimarsena · 2023-05-22T18:31:47+00:00

when i go out without him, being drunk j makes me miss my boyfriend even more. i can’t relate to the thinking behind alcohol making people cheat

anyone else experience that?

Peacesquad · 2023-05-22T18:31:45+00:00

Women

questioningfeminist · 2023-05-22T18:23:35+00:00

Q4W: What's the difference between confidence and arrogance?

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T18:07:27+00:00

"I don't want other men around my girl"

I just laugh in this situations since l constantly see them

At the club, girls who are in relationships kissing ending up kissing other dudes

Once happened to this guy l knew and they legit both admitted making out once he saw them

But l always ask myself "why is your girl at the club" since being with you should be enough for her

Clubs are just filled with horny dudes and girls who wanna be hoes behind their bfs/husband's

VampireChaser · 2023-05-22T17:55:24+00:00

Most women have such bad game/rizz that if men wouldn't approach them, they would be single forever and end up dying alone, lol.

questioningfeminist · 2023-05-22T17:42:41+00:00

If you, as a restaurant, want to hire mentally handicapped people, that's awesome!!

Just... tell your handicapped people to not go table to table bugging the guests with your tales of how embarrassed you are because you told someone it's Father's Day.

I've pretty much resigned that I'm not going to this place anymore because he will ALWAYS come over and bug me when I'm just trying to have a peaceful lunch.

Peacesquad · 2023-05-22T17:34:44+00:00

I’m so dumb. I’ve been driving for 10 plus years and I just found out last week that the gas icon on the dash has an arrow next to it that shows you which side of the car has the gas tank

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-22T17:09:05+00:00

What does life look like for you in 10 years?

Let's assume you get everything you want, desire, are striving for.

potoricco · 2023-05-22T17:07:51+00:00

Also:

Women end up with shitty husbands and boyfriends = “women need to pick better partners”

High amount of single men with no gf in sight: “Why are women so fucking picky waaaahhh”

scwizard · 2023-05-22T17:07:10+00:00

Lmao this fucking guy

https://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/nick-cannon-doesnt-pay-government-child-support-12-children

potoricco · 2023-05-22T17:02:44+00:00

It’s insane the lengths people will go to to defend men and blame women. This is a real conversation I just had. The topic was about a man who murdered a young woman who rejected him

Someone: “it wouldn’t have happened if she hadn’t manipulated him”

Me: “there is no evidence she manipulated him and that’s not an excuse to kill people”

Someone: “well, it’s because criminals grow up in a single mother households, he lacks self control”

Me: “he grew up in a 2 parent household but his father was abusive”

Someone: “Well, his mother should have chosen a better partner”

And men say we lack accountability

Peacesquad · 2023-05-22T17:02:31+00:00

It’s the woman’s job to keep the man

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T17:00:25+00:00

Once l realized destiny was bi

It made all the sense in the world since that's why he allows other men to smash his girl

But she's not attracted to him lol, they just a brother and sister type relationship from what am seeing/observing

What's weird is they allow other bi men to join the relationship but no Heterosexual men allowed, l mean l understand since destiny might be jealous they only want his girl but not him

Peacesquad · 2023-05-22T16:59:21+00:00

Men and women

Peacesquad · 2023-05-22T16:59:05+00:00

What did I miss?

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-05-22T16:47:47+00:00

When it comes to dating and misleading the other gender; men run a short con where women play the long con.

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T16:45:54+00:00

One of the many problems l see guys don't realize/observe is what the women around them are attracted by

When l was in HS l realized/saw girls were attracted to confidently,charismatic guys

In uni it was the same but more so guys in their social circles and funny good-looking guys

So it's important to be aware of such things

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-22T16:42:52+00:00

There's something really enjoyable about a lunch break workout.

Lunch tastes even better after some movement.

My-wifes-bronzemedal · 2023-05-22T16:34:42+00:00

Today's women dressing in active wear have no modesty. Whores...

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-05-22T16:34:06+00:00

I have a female friend that I debate gender related topics with, today is on divorce. She hit me with this

A lot of men have issues and are not great partners for a bunch of different reasons (tiktok storytimes are making this clear). Which is why women are divorcing them more often then they are divorcing women. If women were the ones not doing carrying their weight in the relationship, being abusive, cheating, not caring for their children, men would be divorcing them. The conversation with men is always about what women should do to be worthy of marriage or keeping a man, but never the other way around.

So I brought up the fact that lesbian relationships have the highest divorce rate, especially in her country (Netherlands) where between 2005 and 2015 the lesbian divorce rate was 30%, gay divorce rate was 15% and straight divorce rate is 18%. Then she responds with this

I've gone down the rabbit hole of relationship stories, I keep getting them recommended to me and simply put men are behaving really shitty (literally and figuratively🤢). Saying lesbians have high(er) divorce rates doesn't change that fact. Meanwhile men keep blaming women for divorce rates instead of having the necessary conversations about what it means to be husband, what they need to bring to the table in terms of qualities/character/cooperation. Just having a job and providing for your family ain't cutting it no more🤷🏾‍♀️

I just wanna know if I'm tripping here. If women divorce women at a higher rate than women divorcing men, and men divorce men at the lowest rate, how are the actions of men primarily contributed to the huge difference in divorce initiation? I'm not saying she's completely off base because sure abuse and cheating are reasons to leave, but this isn't the whole picture. I believe the reason men don't divorce women as much is because "it's cheaper to keep her", and more often than not she doesn't have as much to lose so she pulls the trigger. And if women were the ideal partners and men are the shitty ones, then we'd see lesbian couples divorcing at the lowest rate, not twice as much as men. Idk maybe I am tripping what are your thoughts?

Justwannaread3 · 2023-05-22T16:33:30+00:00

If you’re an incel or red pilled or whatever: What would the average woman have to do to convince you that we don’t hate men or only want to use them in relationships?

I’m generally just curious about what it would take to change your views about what “most” women are like.

JiifuhTV · 2023-05-22T16:30:38+00:00

it’s not misogynistic to kick someone out after they fail to do their job

hold this dick or leave the property 🤷‍♂️

armpitpics · 2023-05-22T15:56:24+00:00

Watching 1917 has been a curse. Seeing George MacKay fighting the bad boys in this one made me realize how much I love pale butterfaces in WWI uniforms.

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T15:50:48+00:00

I still remember last year or 2021 when Myron went viral on tik-tok and website news for saying you should kick her out or call another girl if she doesn't want give you sex

Got labeled as "misogynist" on the media, lol am really amazed how saying things like that gets you viral and false labels

Patient_Recording_96 · 2023-05-22T15:46:34+00:00

Unconditional love in a relationship, e.g. wife and husband, doesn't exist. The relationship is solely based on giving and taking. One partner expects things from the other.

thestruggle-isreal · 2023-05-22T15:41:36+00:00

Q4W- have you ever not been interested in a guy until he started flirting with you ?

I’m not talking about a guy you didn’t know. Someone you knew and have interacted with on several occasions

neverjumpthegate · 2023-05-22T13:38:39+00:00

This sub has fully convinced me that most red pills really are young guys who have never had a relationship or even lived without their parents.

I didn't think that before but there are just way too many posts on here from guys who don't understand basic adult things like finances or chores and why you wouldn't treat your partner like a roommate.

It's like a fun house mirror, somewhat interesting and mildly entertaining. Also kinda sad.

saraimarsena · 2023-05-22T23:06:15+00:00

when you guys talk about men not being “allowed” to have preferences, what governing body of women are you running your preferences by for clearance? are you afraid to invoke the wrath of twox?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-23T00:54:21+00:00

I wish sheltered suburban boys would remember poverty, high crime areas, and unstable homes are a massive problem before yelling that “single moms create criminals” bullshit.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-05-23T03:59:47+00:00

Someone posted this study, which I think is highly underrated & highly accurate:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2018/02/12/in-experiments-researchers-figured-out-what-men-and-women-really-want-in-a-mate/

Both sexes value attractiveness almost equally
Both sexes have 'shallow' preferences/tendencies
Women are not the more noble sex, so stop pedestalizing them.
Men love to shoot for the same hot women, which is why the beauty industry is so massive.

In short, neither gender is perfect or better off.

All you can control is the hand you've been dealt, and making the most out of it.

potoricco · 2023-05-23T04:08:36+00:00

Trad people are so fucking dumb it’s insane

“I need a wife, she needs to be young and beautiful (nothing else matters, including her career, education level or intelligence), we are gonna push out lots of kids, of course she will cook and clean also she needs to homeschool because public school bad and everyone knows overworked pregnant 20 something year olds with no college degree make awesome teachers. Oh what am I gonna do? I am going to spend my days making fun of minorities on twitter and flexing on you and have a Roman/Greek statue as my pfp, obviously. What do you mean my kids will be dumb and sheltered, don’t you get it, we are trad ™️. we won’t feed them seed oils so it’s okay”

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-23T00:07:35+00:00

CMV: Being the pursuing gender (male) by default gives you worse options than then selecting gender (female) by its very nature.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-23T00:18:01+00:00

Thinking about this whole “sex is a need” thing, and there’s two types of people I have seen say this:

1). People chasing that massive high. They seem to think if you WANT something REALLY REALLY REALLY BAD, it must a need. They say they need sex because they refuse to acknowledge their “need” for that high is not unique to sex. Its called a “need” because they feel less silly obsessing over it and allowing the obsession to make them miserable.

2). Psychological problems or hormonal imbalances. They feel that its a need because something’s off or something is missing in their lives. Its similar to people on My 600lb Life where the people feel like they need the large amounts of junk food they consume because it makes them feel whole and it makes them less depressed.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-05-22T14:57:20+00:00

Those who are most ardent about saying others are "arguing in bad faith" are often the ones who argue in bad faith the most.

Semantic/logical traps, uses logical fallacies yet accuses everyone else of using them, refuses to engage people on their actual argument and instead attacks how they made that argument, uses insults and slurs regularly yet cries a river when someone is slightly sarky to them and last but very not least, reaches hard with obscene jumps in logic to achieve whatever conclusion they had in mind.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-22T22:57:58+00:00

It's so bizarre to read 20-something male comments about "hitting a wall at 30"

It's like some people believe a person wakes up on the 30th birthday, looking like 99 year old Betty White.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-05-22T23:36:52+00:00

Got my first aid certs updated for work. Instructor for the course a retired ambulance driver. Saw some shit.

Got to the portion about the heimlech maneuver.

Dude said men are way more likely to die from choking. They stand up and leave the table embarrassed or somethin and are found dead in the bathroom.

When women choke they flail their arms for help and get helped.

Thought that was morbidly funny and kinda ppd relevant.

PSA fellas it ain’t cucked to get rescued if you’re choking on a chicken wing. Don’t be stoic about it.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-23T01:15:49+00:00

Dumbasses: You cant speak on this topic! You’re not a man/woman!

When a person points out there are men/women that agree with them.

Dumbasses: They dont count.

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-23T13:47:12+00:00

There are a lot of crazy claims Red pillers make but the absolute craziest one is that "I don't hate women".

Like they'll say this immediately after using some of the most dehumanizing and angry language imaginable. They dehumanize women like I dehumanize MAGA Americans. And then go onto say "Nah bro I don't hate them at all". It's crazy.

AdOpen432 · 2023-05-22T13:04:10+00:00

Omg first

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-05-22T20:32:32+00:00

Shout out to this guy for not being a simp and going along with it. https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/13orwf0/bullet\_dodged/

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-23T00:57:00+00:00

Is access to CASUAL SEX the way to measure a man's success?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-05-23T09:06:47+00:00

The quality/validity of their content aside, I just don't understand how anyone can watch particular Manosphere (or adjacent to) content creators and find them anything other than annoying Cunts.

I tried to watch F&F out of curiosity and Jesus Christ they are just the most hateable Twats. Even if they were just hosting a Tolkien Lore podcast or something they would still be utterly hateable.

I can only come to two conclusions as to how someone could enjoy watching them as people:

1) They're kids.

2) They're also Cunts who think someone being a Cunt is somehow worthwhile in of itself.

Steakman1 · 2023-05-22T13:23:00+00:00

His n count high because nobody came back for a second.

Treacle-Flimsy · 2023-05-22T13:37:31+00:00

Honestly, after some active dating, it seems to me as if the order of the dating today is toxicity.

Everyone's toxic in their own right. Be it PUA (which is literally about manipulating women into sleeping) or baddie attitude (meal date, friendzone, etc)

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-23T05:00:48+00:00

You know that one insane schizo who comes around here to talk about he's being gang stalked in super long paragraphs?

He's username commented me in like 5 messages (all auto deleted by Reddit) and has now created a subreddit to try to talk to me and keeps messaging me lmao

It's fucking insane lol

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T15:38:42+00:00

I mean if you had to beg a woman to marry you cough Ben Shapiro and Jordan Peterson cough

Then yea you shouldn't be be any advice towards young men about dating in my opinion

Even more one got married in the 2000s which was 10+ years so dating has significantly changed and the other so long probably even before the 80s

jobbo321 · 2023-05-22T22:38:15+00:00

Being cringe also means that you are free

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-22T23:37:36+00:00

Me: can you provide an example?

User69: my cousin's sister's brother's daughter's boss heard it from their dentist's dog walker's sister. It's absolutely FACT.

Me: uh.... so no example.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-23T00:08:18+00:00

What should I order for dinner?

Sushi?

Burger?

Pizza?

scwizard · 2023-05-23T00:57:27+00:00

We need to stop vacationing in countries that do not support women

It's amazing how many people I have known who will write off their principles via a vacation to a place that is largely anti-woman (or, I'll just say, "and anti-LGBTQ+") just for a pleasure cruise, vacay, etc. Many of these countries make their income based on tourists. So here's a chance to do some real voting with your purse. If the place doesn't support women, stop supporting its economy.

One of the things I've learned from working with a team that's mostly people in central/south America is just how many places there are south of Mexico for vacationing, that aren't well known. There's lots of neat resort spots that are mostly visited by tourists from other spots in South America.

I've heard great things about Florianópolis but I don't think it gets a huge amount of Western vacationers.

potoricco · 2023-05-23T01:11:00+00:00

I wish I was closer with my cousins

We are all approaching adulthood now so it’s kinda weird to try and form a relationship outside of occasional calls

It doesn’t help that we all live so far apart as well. I’m also one of the youngest so I don’t want to be like annoying clingy younger cousin

social_mule · 2023-05-23T02:21:58+00:00

Anybody else get a bullshit private message like this?

Hey there ! I hope this note finds you well. I'm sorry for reaching out , but I was wondering if you could help me real quick. I've been developing my own OF page lately, but I'm having a hard time getting
any attention . Since we're both members of the same subreddits, I thought I'd connect and ask if you would be willing to support what I'm sharing. If you have a moment , I'd really appreciate it if you
could visit my page . I understand you're probably busy , so please don't feel obliged . But if you do decide to lend me a hand , by subbing I'd be so thankful . Thanks for your time, and have a fantastic week
!

scwizard · 2023-05-23T03:07:39+00:00

When I got married my "friend" told me that I was never to refuse my husband sex. Her words were "unless you are too physically ill to even lay there, there's no excuse to deny him sex. If you do, he WILL cheat on you with someone from work." She said that men need respect and women need love. She was perturbed when I told her to speak for her marriage because in the case of mine, we each need both love and respect. She's heavily involved in the church. I stopped talking to her and I'm glad I did.

Is she saying that because she's already been cheated on? Pickmes are something special...

HighlyFlashy · 2023-05-23T09:23:50+00:00

By 2024, I will write an at least 50 page report about “the settle down girl”. Manifesting it.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-05-23T10:59:03+00:00

The absolute funniest part of the Manosphere to me is when they try to justify why it's fine to make no effort to make a girl cum.

Like bruh, don't hand yourself the L so easily 😂

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-22T14:37:10+00:00

Q4M: How often do you notice your partner faking an orgasm? How do you feel about it?

Q4W: How often do you fake it with your partner?

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T20:12:54+00:00

You know sometimes it's nice when your girl adopts to your interests

My girl when we met she wasn't a premier league football fan but now she's a big of a fan as l am since we've our moments every weekend

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T20:39:50+00:00

In my experience the two most scariest moments for women is when they've to meet someone for the first time on a date and when the bill comes

So guys make sure you handle this situations well since it can drastically increase your odds

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-05-22T20:47:08+00:00

People who have known cheaters (or have cheated themselves) in the past: Did the cheater’s friends usually know what was going on? Or was it a secret from everyone?

I’m curious which situation is more common; I’ve seen situations where pretty much everyone knew about the unfaithful partner’s indiscretions, and situations where nobody ever found out.

potoricco · 2023-05-22T21:45:56+00:00

When I start traveling I don’t want to go alone

But it’s also weird to ask someone that’s just your friend to travel with you

I need to start finding Bffs/soul sisters now

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-22T23:01:47+00:00

Q4A: do you know a man whose wife "settled" for him?

Do you know a woman who "settled" for her husband?

Settling = choosing crumbs because you couldn't get the whole cookie

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-22T23:53:10+00:00

"A conversation that no one is ready to have is what exactly is consent."

-JP

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-05-23T04:41:41+00:00

I see a lot of people saying it’s ridiculous for a slim guy to expect a non overweight woman since in terms of attractiveness a slim guy is not attractive to women in the same way a healthy weight woman is attractive to men.

Ignoring the larger point for a second that guys who can manage their weight want women who can do the same, what weight what would be a slim guys physique match so to speak be anyways?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-05-23T08:18:19+00:00

Men will stumble over their words and overthink with women their own age.

Put them in the nursing home with all of Nan's friends though and he turns into Casanova. As he should, we gotta get the bag somehow.

dbz__f · 2023-05-23T10:47:53+00:00

I’ve had sex with my gf dozens of times and probably easily triple digits

If you told me, for one night, if I could have a free pass with a 10/10 instagram model (with nonnegative repercussions and my gf would not be upset at all), or have sex with my gf for the millionth time, I would 100% choose my gf and enjoy it more

Maffioze · 2023-05-23T11:19:26+00:00

One thing I don't understand is this idea that women find nerds unattractive.

In high school that's the case because in that environment nerds are low status and not really confident.

But once true adulthood starts nerds do have high status and often develop a normal level of confidence. My experience has been that women find it both extremely adorable and hot whenever you're passionate about something nerdy. Especially when you say something really intelligent they just wanna jump you lol.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-23T11:28:23+00:00

Idk why it took so long for me to realize that this subreddit likes to be hyperbolic about ALL their first world problems. Really making me think we have alot of sheltered suburban boys here.

relish5k · 2023-05-23T12:54:09+00:00

I’m not religious or anything but my advice to women getting married is this:

“You know how sometimes you don’t feel like going to the gym but you just do it anyway and then afterwards you are glad you did? The same applies to certain physical activities within your marriage”

Of course women (and men) should be able to say “not tonight babe” but that really should be the exception and not the rule. Too much rejection from either side hurts morale in a relationship.

Also read the room - if your partner is sick, tired, super stressed then maybe don’t be like “hey but what about my dick?” (Though it’s never a bad idea to offer a massage and then see where things go…)

UnjustlyBannedTime11 · 2023-05-23T13:37:03+00:00

Women like to point out that in animal kingdom males build nests, dance, strut and fight with other males in order to attract mates. While this is true, it omits a very important fact; in animal kingdom, it is females who approach males for mating . Males are supposed to make themselves attractive options and just wait until an interested female approaches them. This is absolutely not the case in humans, where males have to do all those things and still be the ones having to approach women if they want a mate, while women just enjoy the show and kick back and relax.

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DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T13:04:16+00:00

Money makes me attractive not my looks by future

Anyways first

Hatefuleight-36 · 2023-05-22T13:17:01+00:00

Can anyone tell me why the post I've been reposting three times has gotten moderator approval but still doesn't end up coming on the front page?

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-05-22T13:22:22+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/ENqZ4GoORF0?feature=share

Purple_Cruncher_123 · 2023-05-22T13:22:44+00:00

It’s Monday! What motivates you to get out of bed (besides hunger, sex, and bills)?

DerayRevan · 2023-05-22T14:01:47+00:00

Yea Aba and preach are nothing but cowards

They always make attack videos with no context

In 2021, they came to F&F podcast and where having a nice/peaceful discourse then weeks later they decide to attack them saying they "changed their mind"

Aba pays for sex and talks the most about how stupid RP content is

Preach has a fat wife yet laughs the most at RP content

Haven't met one fan of them, that says "you changed my life for the better" lol

throwaway164_3 · 2023-05-22T14:58:02+00:00

Question: do we know if women are better in betting/predicting the outcome of MMA/boxing fights or even sports in general than men?

The evolutionary argument would be that, in our common ancestor, it is beneficial for women to pick/predict the winner of fights between males as mates.

So they probably are better predicting winners of fights between men (and tend to be more attracted to the winners vs losers as well).

teball3 · 2023-05-22T14:58:33+00:00

Women on PPD: guys need to stop chasing stacies and go after average women!

Guys standards: https://www.reddit.com/r/meirl/comments/13oo5xk/meirl/

potoricco · 2023-05-22T15:00:20+00:00

I am a Master’s Psychology student at John Jay College, and I am conducting research on masculinity and perceptions of violence. If you are a heterosexual man over the age of 18, and you have 10 to 20 minutes to complete my survey, I would greatly appreciate it. You will find the link below, which includes a consent form with more information about the survey and the purpose of the research. Please reach out if you have any questions, and thank you for supporting my research.
Please use this link to access the survey:
https://gccunyep.az1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV\_8lkIP2usYBGHxkO
If you have already completed the survey, please DO NOT complete it again.

potoricco · 2023-05-22T15:08:45+00:00

Why does it feel like being a gay male is stigmatized? At my school there are plenty of lesbian/bi relationships, but no gay ones, even though I know several boys that are gay. Or is it that gay males experience relationships differently?

HighlyFlashy · 2023-05-22T20:25:14+00:00

I’m big on monitoring my feminine health so every time I had sex this year I would track it. I just went to look at the count of how many times I had sex to date and I’m at 342. I’ll update you guys at the end of the year. Happy Monday🥳

WestCombSplit · 2023-05-22T21:54:22+00:00

Is dating a single woman over 30 the equivalent of dating a broke man?

EulenWatcher · 2023-05-22T22:00:10+00:00

Have you tried HEX condoms? How are they?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-22T22:13:13+00:00

My partner bought me a car. 🚗

The joy of being a woman.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-05-22T22:25:27+00:00

There are some cute girls in my classes this summer semester. It’s a shame approaching women in 2023 is basically a toss up between a public shaming or a prison sentence or else I’d actually go talk to them and introduce myself.

Bandit174 · 2023-05-22T23:53:18+00:00

Which guy would you rather be?

potoricco · 2023-05-23T01:07:49+00:00

“Why are Americans so fucking fat”

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-23T01:26:18+00:00

I can't fucking stand having like 5 to 6 women a day (and it's always women) come up to me to pet my dog. It pisses me off even more because the people at my gym make fun of me for not getting peoples' numbers when they come up to pet my dog.

It's infuriating because you can see them go from super excited petting your dog to annoyed that I'm the one who is walking him to scared in a "Wow is Lenny going to accidentally hurt me?" kind of way when I start stimming.

Moose-Ring · 2023-05-23T02:47:55+00:00

I've noticed there's a growing segment of women that claim they've given up completely on dating men, or that if their currently relationship doesn't work out they'll give up on seeking a new one. The interesting thing is that they haven't given a name to themselves. It would be useful so these kinds of women can find each other more easily and commiserate with each other, form support communities, etc. I think because they're following a path that's so far from what society expects it could be something like "women going their own way". It could be shortened to WGTOW.

EulenWatcher · 2023-05-23T04:46:07+00:00

Is this a flipped TRP advice?

Flipping it doesn't make it any better btw.

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-23T05:06:45+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/MsFPsi1

This is an actual mesage I got lol

DerayRevan · 2023-05-23T05:31:06+00:00

The fact that many traditional men here still have to argue about wanting to become the provider in their relationship/marriage makes me realize male preferences are never accepted

My edivance: the lastest Q4M

scwizard · 2023-05-23T06:24:24+00:00

As I'm finding myself at 30 after a rough relationship that encompassed my late teens and all of my twenties, I'm able to look back and recognize the places where I was doing the same thing. I created unnecessary distance between myself and my loved ones because there were things going on that I didn't want to tell them because it would sound bad or they would think poorly of him.

She didn't even get to slut it up during her 20s. Was just attached to a jerk who went 12 years and never even proposed...

happy_discus · 2023-05-23T08:38:18+00:00

I feel like Garfields evil twin hating on Tuesdays. I am just so sick of this fking day. BAN TUESDAY.

On a more serious note. Last three weeks I helped some people from the student council organize a event. This week they ghosted me again. Can't wait for the fallout once they realize cleaning up at 4 am with two people is going to be awful. Still, I am starting to despise other students.

AspiringMogger · 2023-05-23T09:56:54+00:00

I had two funny matches today when I opened my dating apps: An 18 year old stripper and an 18 year old single mom. Brutal dating life of a 21 year old

Traditional-Bad-4055 · 2023-05-23T11:23:32+00:00

The threads here keep getting posted on Twitter

DerayRevan · 2023-05-23T11:52:56+00:00

Listen with the latest Q4R post

I acknowledge some men are interested in dating young women but also acknowledge other men want to date women close to their age

My problem is when they used one example to disprove the preferences of the men interested in dating young women

AspiringMogger · 2023-05-23T12:56:49+00:00

This is the type of stuff I talk about when I say men can’t take a hint. No woman who is interested in a man talks to them this way.

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-05-23T14:00:09+00:00

I’m at an impasse, I have money but no looks and status. I don’t want to use pure money to get women cus my parents divorced over money and I’ve seen the corrupting influence of a marriage solely anchored by money. So instead I’m trying to transform my money into looks via diet/skincare/gym equipment/hair transplants but this stuff takes time and there’s the permanent temptation to just get laid today by pulling golddiggers or sugar babies.

How do I stay patient?

JiifuhTV · 2023-05-22T20:47:14+00:00

you a whole bitch if you can’t walk outside alone at night

It’s a skill issue as much as it is a personal problem

RahLyt · 2023-05-23T02:08:45+00:00

Very surprising to me that I leave this place for a bit, come back and the arguments get even worse. Does anyone know how testosterone works? It's a sex-seeking (with a partner to make this clear) behavior hormone both in men and women. Men have way more testosterone than women.

So the argument on "Why are men not satisfied with just masturbation" is very female-centric, solipsistic, and dumb.

How can you make an argument when you never experienced not even 1/3 of men's testosterone?

The other very dumb argument and rationalization for not accepting sex as a need is "because men think women owe it to them", food is a need, where are the people enforcing anyone/government to get free food on a large scale? I don't really care if it's a need or not. I Just find itabsurd how these dumb arguments make it through any topic like they make sense.

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-23T11:50:43+00:00

You know one thing I always wanted to do in my life that I never had the chance to was "hang out" with someone. I've always heard people talk about it but I've never done it. Just like go somewhere with someone else and do things with that person.

potoricco · 2023-05-22T14:57:32+00:00

I don’t understand women who take birth control (talking about for reproductive reasons and not for their health)

There is a completely painless solution that is also 100% free called celibacy

AspiringMogger · 2023-05-23T11:22:50+00:00

Spamming dick pics have been the meta all along.

Last wendsday I started asking my matches for their snap on dating apps so I could send unsolicited dick pics. This was the breakdown

About 15% of the women I’ve been sending my dick pic too have sent a nude back showing their interest.

Another 35% have been showing their interest to dirty talk

30% have been uninterested in the dick pic but have still wanted to talk to me

And the last 20% have unadded me and been completely uninterested.

I went on a date with a girl on Friday and yesterday (Monday) as a result of this. I slept with both of them

scwizard · 2023-05-23T12:43:24+00:00

My parents had a classic American marriage. Supermom who does everything and loves everyone, and drunk "3rd Child" Dad who did nothing but add stress to everyone's lives.

And when she died, he still didn't change. And I inherited an alcoholic husband when I was just a child.

I did all the cleaning, all of his disgusting laundry, his toilet. I endured all his relentless bullying. I moved from house to house with him all over the country because he kept fucking up and burning bridges and having to run. He drove me everywhere drunk and high, never following traffic laws because he considered himself above them. He taught me horrific "life lessons" when all I wanted was saftey. He wasted no time exposing his horrible past, that my mother had tried so hard to protect me from ever knowing.

He had to expose himself for the awful person he really was because he needed to have me scared. He warned me that he had other children from other women that he didn't give a shit about, and he would abandon me or worse at the slightest disobedience.

Assuming he's not lying about the other children, from reading twox it seems like the rotten men are outbreeding the good men. Whenever you hear about good men on twox they're respecting her decision to remain childfree, or she's marrying them in her 40s and he's helping raise her abusive ex's children, or he's supporting her in her decision to abort, or he's agreeing to get a vasectomy. Meanwhile these rotten guys have three children with their wives and more children from a previous relationship and even more children with the girls they're cheating with.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-22T13:44:20+00:00

I think Lena Dunham and and Seth Rogen are a pretty good example of average. People like them share seat with us in public transit, visit the same restaurants we eat at and stand in front of us at the supermarket line and we go home without noticing them. Neither of them is either pretty enough of ugly enough to be remembered and this type is the majority.

The so-called Beckies are already in the top 20% whereas Stacies almost exclusively exist on Instagram and movie theaters after a good makeup session and possibly surgery.

This post perfectly demonstrates how delusional women are about what a male 5 is and what a female 5 is.

Lena Dunham is a legit 2, and Seth could be considered above average looking in certain photos, especially now that he's lost weight.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-22T21:31:44+00:00

Women have it easy in life. They can act however they want and still be loved and be seen as attractive because men have a diverse set of tastes in personality.

As long as you're not a bitch, everyone will love you when you're a woman. Otherwise, there will be a lot of men who like your specific personality. Are you shy and introverted? Many men like that. Are you extroverted? Many men like that. Are you mellow all the time? Many men like that. Are you always joking? Many men like that.

You have to actively mess up as a woman to have a bad personality. A woman's personality is just her unique personality that people appreciate.

If you're a man, you have to be unnaturally stoic, confident, extroverted, funny, etc. If you're not, people will say there is something wrong with you because women are a hivemind and all have the same narrow taste in personality, so you're stack ranked on a one dimensional line. A man's personality is something that is good (if it meets the narrow personality taste of women) or bad, something to be criticized, otherwise.

It's a privilege to be a woman and be able to have any personality you want and to do anything you want and have everyone love you no matter what.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-22T23:14:46+00:00

Women complain that men are ageist but they get much less attention now just because they got fat/chubby, not because of ageism. Oldie, fattie women just want an excuse to keep eating like a slob, but all they need to do is stop eating so much to get male attention like they're young again. It's not their age. They just don't have a healthy (19-21) BMI anymore.

It's unfortunate that the bar for women is so low but oldie fattie women just need to stop being fat and they'll get attention again. If so many women weren't fattie slobs, the wall would actually exist, but right now oldie fatties just need to stop being fat and they can have good market value despite being oldies.

I don't know why women keep insisting on being fat when it's so easy to not be fat and not being fat makes dating trivial and on tutorial mode for them.

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