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[–]Corbast7Feminist + Leftist Woman / no war but class war 3 points4 points5 points 10 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]Cultural-Ad-8486Slavic Purple Pill Man 5 points6 points7 points 11 months ago* (89 children) | Copy Link

[–]AlmostKindaGreatPurple Pill Man [score hidden] 10 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have had many valued, meaningful experiences with lots of humans. Especially conversations but also other shared experiences - enjoying music, trying amazing food, visiting a significant location, celebrating something, laughing until it hurt. Sometimes they're with friends or just strangers I met. I am naturally unreserved and expressive emotionally and I love making these connections with whoever. I live for these incredibly human experiences that make me feel alive.

I am lucky to have had so many of these experiences that I probably can't remember them all. I certainly can't bring them all to mind and list them. I don't remember everyone's names. Some were people I had an incredible conversation with in some country on the other side of the world who I never saw again.

Does this mean I've had too many of these experiences? Does it mean I'm not properly honoring and respecting the people I've had these experiences with? I don't think so.

For me, sexual experiences are included in this. I consider sex to be an extremely vulnerable, intimate, and quintessentially human act. It's not tainting or degrading. It's a beautiful thing that we can share. I don't think sharing it with more people depletes what you can share with someone else.

It's totally fine if you disagree. A lot of religions have rules around sex. Cultural norms, often derived at least partially from religion, also say people can have "too much" sex. I believe a lot of this is harmful shame but not necessarily all of it. Maybe you believe that sex is not "special" if you've had too much of it, or with too many people. I don't think so, but people should all do what feels right for them and I completely respect them for it.

Since it's relevant to this topic, I have had a lot of sexual partners. But I take respect, kindness, and dignity seriously. Having sex, for me, demands respect for another person's physical and emotional vulnerability. Sex should always involve should involve care for the other person and a desire that they have a positive experience. I want any partner to feel that they're better off after it. If I could see the future and somehow know they would regret it, I would not go through with it.

Like those other meaningful experiences I've had, some of my sexual experiences have started to fade from memory. To be honest, I found this alarming at first. I actually started a file in a notes app to make sure I remembered everyone's names and some basic details because I felt like forgetting this would not be honoring them. I don't know if this unease I felt is just internalized shame from religion or societal expectations or, like you're suggesting, it's just too much somehow. Ultimately I decided that sex should not be considered something that taints us and should just be included with all those other human experiences, as described above.

Maybe I'm wrong and I'm not giving enough consideration to the downsides. Or maybe those religious and cultural standards actually are arbitrary. I don't know. Really I don't think there is a definitive right answer on this and everyone just needs to decide what's right for themselves.

That's my take. Sorry for the long ass comment.

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So as I’ve gotten older and filled the time between being single and now with a loving family and friends and lot and lot of fulfilling experiences, a lot more of my memories are locked in on happy moments with my wife and kids and family and not with some crazy ONS from decades ago.

I got too much in there like the birth of our youngest, the first time our oldest (foster) called me dad, family trips, my honeymoon, buying our home together, bring the kids to grandparents. So as im focusing on what’s really meaningful now to me, other things that seemed important that just aren’t anymore are starting to fade.

Like what do you think is gonna become core memories, some experiences with women that aren’t in your life anymore, or all the good times (and even the bad times) you have had with the one that’s been with you for years as your best friend and lover?

[–]Cultural-Ad-8486Slavic Purple Pill Man 2 points3 points4 points 11 months ago* (46 children) | Copy Link

That is, too much time and events have simply passed...

>Like what do you think is gonna become core memories, some experiences with women that aren’t in your life anymore, or all the good times (and even the bad times) you have had with the one that’s been with you for years as your best friend and lover?

Memories are still memories, + they are grouped by «categories» so to speak

They don't have to be "core memories" to be somewhere in the subcortex

I probably won't remember the last name of my first girlfriend (and in fact the first girl who invited me on a proper date), because it's been... 8 years probably... But I still haven't forgotten her completely and the same thing with almost everything. Hell, I probably won't remember the names of some of my classmates (after all, even more time has passed), but I still have some memories of them and even some emotions about them

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Women remember all the impressive dicks that they see. Its seared into their brain, including the instant submissive instinct that seeing a large dick produces that regular guys will never get to experience... even if she chooses you later.

Stuff like this is why n count matters.

Same with every other kink and taboo. The second some guy chokes her (if thats what she likes) or really fucks her and says all the right dirty words, spins her fantasies and pushes her buttons just right and gets her into "the zone". Well once she experiences that, you have to replicate it or else your done, challenge failed. "Sorry I just don't feel the chemistry". Even if you are a regular old guy who brings it in bed, you won't be good enough for her, ms slut who has had "the right guy" once.

The higher the n count, the less men a woman will find attractive.

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Women remember all the impressive dicks that they see. Its seared into their brain, including the instant submissive instinct that seeing a large dick produces that regular guys will never get to experience... even if she chooses you later.

Cool story. It’s easier for me to empathize with this because I’m bisexual, but what size would you pick if you wanted to be pegged?

Same with every other kink and taboo. The second some guy chokes her (if thats what she likes) or really fucks her and says all the right dirty words, spins her fantasies and pushes her buttons just right and gets her into "the zone". Well once she experiences that, you have to replicate it or else your done, challenge failed. "Sorry I just don't feel the chemistry". Even if you are a regular old guy who brings it in bed, you won't be good enough for her, ms slut who has had "the right guy" once. The higher the n count, the less men a woman will find attractive.

Or she’ll just tell you what she likes. This might be a hard concept for you to understand, but people who will sleep with a ton of randoms often actually aren’t that picky.

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that it would be weird if they didn’t know what they liked.

The number of lesbians that really has no like for men and dick is very low. Lesbians are basically another version of the women PPD loves to champion who 'drop out' of the dating game unless the "right guy" comes along.

Yes the vast majority of men lesbians want nothing to do with, but if you are high enough value, they biologically want to feel full and plastic does not feel like real dick. Its often less about them being attracted to "men" and more that they just biologically crave being "fucked" by a "real man" or simply having real PIV sex, when theyve spent so much time simulating it with other girls. Its like women who do cuckholdry and kink BDSM play, its about the experience, not love or even attraction to the person on a personal level.

And that’s assuming it actually happened lol

No. The one I am think about specifically, is from a very charismatic man who is friends with multiple lesbians and hes known to be a good fuck with a good dick and she basically propositioned him. Per his account.

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How far do the downsides of each go?

The worst downsides of OnlyFans could be:

jobs potentially don’t want you in the future if they find out (like being a teacher)
friends and family of course will probably see it
potential stalking by creeps

The downsides of an n count of 200 could be:

hiv, hpv, or hepatitis
angry exes or exes that are still friends
reputation among her friends could be annoying
potentially not looking for a relationship, even if she says she is (watch out really hard for red flags related to this)

If it’s the worst case scenario of either, I’m not sure if I’d be a huge fan of either. However, absent of the mentioned downsides, both are fine, but I’d find the OF model fun to participate with if she’s looking for that. An n count is just an n count, it doesn’t have any real upsides for me.

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“A lot”

“research suggests around 4-5% of people in the U.S. are currently in non-monogamous”

I guess 96 percent should be ignored?

And birth control?

If you use a birth control method with very high effectiveness — such as the implant (99%), IUD (99%), shot (96%), pill (93%), patch (93%), or ring (93%) — along with condoms, you’re extremely protected from pregnancy.

Using more than one birth control method during sex is a really great way to lower your chances of getting pregnant. you’re also helping And if one of those methods is a condom, you’re also helping prevent STDs”

So with those odds in like the 1 percent range with two contraceptive methods woman can 99 percent of the time be casual and dudes will be cool with gfs doing casual that’s not them

that’s what your saying, right?

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Now he CAN be held accountable by the law because of breaking the law

Oh no I picked the example I did precisely because that can't happen; under presidential instruction the department of justice got the charges dropped and the courts to dismiss the case with prejudice. Political kickback scenario. These guys are "above the law".

I'm saying moral judgements are beyond consequences. Theft is theft, and hypocrisy is hypocrisy. Regardless of how much society abritrarily punishes a particular instance of it.

Who exactly is saying “it’s wrong” with sex?

Should be nobody. Hence why I'm advising to stop with the hypocrisy arguments against men but then hiding behind unrelated factors to avoid making hypocrisy arguments against women. That in itself is hypocritical.

"Your life is bad so I will argue against your quality as a person" is just bullying.

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women who want a tall man despite being short

Women didn’t choose to be short, and men tend to want to date shorter women, so it basically works out for both sides.

want a man who is confident despite them being insecure

This is a valid one, but the thing is, confident guys, shy women, and confident women don’t care. Shy men and shy women not approaching each other can be painful, though, and the lesbian community kind of suffers from this. The thing is, there is no solution outside of telling 2 people to “be more outgoing” if one of them wants to date the other, so it’s a logically forced dynamic.

or want a man who is braver than she is

In 2025, it doesn’t matter as much probably. Still, I blame gender roles. Men hunt, women gather. I think the supply/demand ratio between these types of people tends to be about biologically equal, so no one really complains as much about it. It just works for both sides.

or one who makes more money than them

This is a preference where it actually makes sense for things to be asymmetrical. If a guy is rich, then why would he want a woman with more money? If a woman didn’t “choose” to be poor, but some rich guys are into her, then there are super obvious benefits to marrying a rich guy. While a hot guy benefits from a hot woman, a rich guy doesn’t materially benefit from a rich woman.

I think some broke men are also super open to dating rich women, though. Literally anyone would choose “more money over less money”.

The n count thing in men just doesn’t align closely in ideals with any other preference. The high n count men are the literal cause of high n count women. High n count men repeatedly choose to participate in hookup culture (they chose to do this as many times as their n count is), they aren’t born with their n count. It’s a logically inconsistent preference.

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Using “biology” as a post hoc justification for any emotion you have is not a way to argue though. There’s a reason why appeal to nature is a fallacy. Sexual dimorphism influencing what we find beautiful is a theory, but it’s not the sole theory influencing what we find beautiful. There’s actually plenty of exceptions to it that stem from cultural differences.

Like I can just make the argument that a man who’s had other partners might leave more easily, right? Yet many people still believe that a person who is a virgin or low n count can still want to cheat on you out of fomo, depending on the general circumstances. And similarly someone who’s adventurous in life usually thinks a partner who’s similarly adventurous as themselves makes a more compatible life partner. They’d find it less ideal if they didn’t experiment before them.

So all that being said, I think the most insecure people are the ones trying to grandstand that their dating preferences are superior to other peoples’. They’ve got something they’re trying to prove.

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My outline for why women who've had casual sex are a personal no-go is simple: Insufficient compatibility.

I want a partner who is only attracted to men similar to me in nature.

I've never had casual sex. Never got close to having casual sex. Have no idea how one would go about getting casual sex, and apparently the odds are lower the older you get (women retiring from it over time + blue pillers badgering you to date women your own age).

So if a woman's had casual sex, that means she did so with a man who's not remotely similar to me.

Which means there's something she likes in men that I do not bring to the table.

Whoch means the compatibility is insufficient. If she wants things that I do not have, then she needs to go off and find them elsewhere.

Not every man is in this predicament so casual sex-having women would be fine for them, naturally.

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[–]Grow_peace_in_BedlamMarried Leftist Purple Pill Man, DeCrowist Feminist 1 point2 points3 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Lift_and_LurkMan: all pills are dumb 2 points3 points4 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Logos1789Man 0 points1 point2 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]N_Count_CouncilRed Pill Man 1 point2 points3 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]PopeoathRed Pill Man 2 points3 points4 points 11 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Grow_peace_in_BedlamMarried Leftist Purple Pill Man, DeCrowist Feminist 2 points3 points4 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]RedhotangelxxxNo Pill woman 1 point2 points3 points 11 months ago (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]Reasonable_Mouse789No Pill Man 2 points3 points4 points 11 months ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]RedhotangelxxxNo Pill woman 1 point2 points3 points 11 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Reasonable_Mouse789No Pill Man 1 point2 points3 points 11 months ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]splittingxheadachePurple Pill Man 3 points4 points5 points 11 months ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]RedhotangelxxxNo Pill woman 2 points3 points4 points 11 months ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]splittingxheadachePurple Pill Man 1 point2 points3 points 11 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]RedhotangelxxxNo Pill woman 1 point2 points3 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Fan_Service_3703Why not, just at the end, just be kind? (man) 2 points3 points4 points 11 months ago (26 children) | Copy Link

[–]Logos1789Man 3 points4 points5 points 11 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Fan_Service_3703Why not, just at the end, just be kind? (man) -1 points0 points1 point 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]N_Count_CouncilRed Pill Man 5 points6 points7 points 11 months ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Fan_Service_3703Why not, just at the end, just be kind? (man) -2 points-1 points0 points 11 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]N_Count_CouncilRed Pill Man 4 points5 points6 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]OtPayOkerSmayRed Pill Man, Devil's Advocate 4 points5 points6 points 11 months ago (17 children) | Copy Link

[–]Lemon_geckoWoman, poly, somewhat blue 3 points4 points5 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]ThatBitchAPromiscuous Woman -1 points0 points1 point 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Colt_MasterBlue-red 🐎👞 law (Man) 8 points9 points10 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]splittingxheadachePurple Pill Man 1 point2 points3 points 11 months ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]OtPayOkerSmayRed Pill Man, Devil's Advocate -1 points0 points1 point 11 months ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]splittingxheadachePurple Pill Man 2 points3 points4 points 11 months ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]OtPayOkerSmayRed Pill Man, Devil's Advocate 1 point2 points3 points 11 months ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]splittingxheadachePurple Pill Man 1 point2 points3 points 11 months ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]OtPayOkerSmayRed Pill Man, Devil's Advocate 0 points1 point2 points 11 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]splittingxheadachePurple Pill Man 1 point2 points3 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]RedhotangelxxxNo Pill woman -2 points-1 points0 points 11 months ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]OtPayOkerSmayRed Pill Man, Devil's Advocate 4 points5 points6 points 11 months ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Morgoth_WorshipperFeminist Woman 1 point2 points3 points 11 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]QuirkyPanda007 2 points3 points4 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Fan_Service_3703Why not, just at the end, just be kind? (man) 2 points3 points4 points 11 months ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]OtPayOkerSmayRed Pill Man, Devil's Advocate 2 points3 points4 points 11 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Fan_Service_3703Why not, just at the end, just be kind? (man) 3 points4 points5 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]VersionEins 7 points8 points9 points 11 months ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]splittingxheadachePurple Pill Man 5 points6 points7 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Fan_Service_3703Why not, just at the end, just be kind? (man) 8 points9 points10 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]N_Count_CouncilRed Pill Man 15 points16 points17 points 11 months ago (44 children) | Copy Link

[–]Lift_and_LurkMan: all pills are dumb -3 points-2 points-1 points 11 months ago* (12 children) | Copy Link

[–]N_Count_CouncilRed Pill Man 5 points6 points7 points 11 months ago (11 children) | Copy Link

[–]Lift_and_LurkMan: all pills are dumb 1 point2 points3 points 11 months ago (10 children) | Copy Link

[–]N_Count_CouncilRed Pill Man 4 points5 points6 points 11 months ago* (9 children) | Copy Link

[–]Lift_and_LurkMan: all pills are dumb -3 points-2 points-1 points 11 months ago (8 children) | Copy Link

[–]N_Count_CouncilRed Pill Man 4 points5 points6 points 11 months ago (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]Lift_and_LurkMan: all pills are dumb 0 points1 point2 points 11 months ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]N_Count_CouncilRed Pill Man 3 points4 points5 points 11 months ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]Lift_and_LurkMan: all pills are dumb -1 points0 points1 point 11 months ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]cantevergobackRed Pill Man 11 points12 points13 points 11 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]N_Count_CouncilRed Pill Man 3 points4 points5 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]OffTheRedSandYour favourite rage baiter’s favourite rage baiter ♂️ 5 points6 points7 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]ThatBitchAPromiscuous Woman -1 points0 points1 point 11 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]fiftypoundpuppyArrested by the tone police 🚨🚔🚨 ♀ 5 points6 points7 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Reasonable_Mouse789No Pill Man 7 points8 points9 points 11 months ago (25 children) | Copy Link

[–]PopeoathRed Pill Man 7 points8 points9 points 11 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]OfSpockBlue Pill Woman -2 points-1 points0 points 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]splittingxheadachePurple Pill Man -1 points0 points1 point 11 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]operation-spotPurple Pill Woman 2 points3 points4 points 11 months ago (18 children) | Copy Link

[–]N_Count_CouncilRed Pill Man 6 points7 points8 points 11 months ago (17 children) | Copy Link

[+]Present-Interest-975Blue Pill Bisexual Woman -6 points-5 points-4 points 11 months ago (11 children) | Copy Link

[–]N_Count_CouncilRed Pill Man 4 points5 points6 points 11 months ago (10 children) | Copy Link

[–]Present-Interest-975Blue Pill Bisexual Woman 1 point2 points3 points 11 months ago* (9 children) | Copy Link

[–]N_Count_CouncilRed Pill Man 2 points3 points4 points 11 months ago (8 children) | Copy Link

[–]Present-Interest-975Blue Pill Bisexual Woman 0 points1 point2 points 11 months ago (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]N_Count_CouncilRed Pill Man 2 points3 points4 points 11 months ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]operation-spotPurple Pill Woman -3 points-2 points-1 points 11 months ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Title	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD
Author	AutoModerator
Upvotes	7
Comments	490
Date	August 30, 2025 4:00 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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