Lately reddit has been BUBBLING with frustration over the online dating scene saying the "sky high, unrealistic standards" women set hurts everyone because it leads to women "literally dying alone".

One thing they got right; the players who are good at manipulating might actually still get through. This is why we have such a strict set of rules to help filter them out.

One thing they still haven't realized is that dying alone is actually a winning situation compared to settling for less than ideal.

Just this week i saw some headlines even in my local newspaper saying "men are increasingly single against their will" and "fewer men have a family". It takes two to tango, so this could only mean both women and men are increasingly single, but only one of them complains.

I'm super proud of all of you who strive to raise the standards. Every unwillingly single man is a possible count on another woman who dodged a relationship that might not have beeb beneficial to her. Keep doing your thing and remember; when LVM say this is somehow hurting women because of loneliness, they're projecting. Hard. Stay safe and stay loving to yourselves!