It doesn’t matter how much women shame men for going for younger women, or how much society pressures men to not start a family after they are a certain age: Nature itself has the final say.

Natures law basically says:

Most Women’s fertility declines after 35 and usually ends between 43 and 50.

Most Mens fertility barely declines at all until very advanced ages barring health issues, and usually ends when the male simply can’t attract fertile women (doesn’t have the drive, looks too old/unattractive and doesn’t have enough status/resources)

So while both sexes have a decline and an end, the game is very different for both. Most Women have immense market power very early in adulthood, which disappears in middle age. Most men have little to no market power their entire lives unless they are able to become high value men; HVM often peak in early middle age since it usually takes time to build yourself and aquire resources; and this lasts as long as their health remains and their ability to aquire young fertile females through any means remains.

Most mid and lower value men lose what little power they had by middle age also from getting out of shape or having health issues and looking old or not having resources. But high value men are able to attract young beautiful women even in advanced age using any reasonable means necessary including resources.

Disputing this is actually disputing scientific facts. The most bitter and angry people come up with is studies which show that mens sperm declines with aging and that the chance of having a child with autism is up to 8x higher with men over 60.

This is actually true: but if you actually look at the data you find that the argument is totally misleading. The chance of having a child with autism is less than 1%, and the average chance of a 60 year old man having a child with autism is 8x higher but still less than 1%. 8x a low chance is still low. Many men remain capable of fathering healthy children even into late adulthood. Mel gibson recently had a child at 65 with a 25 year old and the child was perfectly healthy. An Indian man in his 90s recently had a healthy child with his wife who’s in her 20s.

So back to the original point: Why shame older men who want a young wife to have a family with? Nature will already decide if it’s going to happen because if the man is low value, he simply won’t get a younger woman. If he’s high value, then the market decided he deserves to be able to have a family and continue his bloodline.

There is only one answer. Bitter, resentful people resort to shaming, moral outrage, and virtue signaling in order to subconsciously feel less bad about their own situations by bringing people who are trying to “win” in life down.