1. she complimented my new sweater "it just means she likes YOUR sweater"
  2. he complimented my new dress "it means he likes how YOU look wearing it"
  3. I caught him looking at me "he probably thinks you're pretty, beautiful, hot
  4. I caught her looking at me "girls stare at trainwrecks too you know"
  5. a guy sent me a selfie "he likes you and wants to know what you think"
  6. a girl sent me a selfie "doesn't mean anything, stop overthinking"
  7. he asked me when my shift ends "he was asking you out, prob a stalker"
  8. she asked me when my shift ends "she just wanted free drinks, not you"

unny isn't it? Women, we are told, are simultaneously more 'subtle' at expressing interest yet every subtle action should be viewed as them just being raised to be 'friendly' and 'polite' living with a forced smile on their face out of fear of men.

if there was a AI system that would round up advice threads on this topic we'd get a picture where answers on topics are radically different all depending on whether a woman or man is doing the asking.