I'm not even that attractive. I look like an uglier, slightly more overweight version of Richard Ayoade from the IT Crowd (without the crazy hair). I have thinning hair and a patchy beard. But when I'm in a social setting, often times I get chicks saying "hi" to me, smiling at me, asking me what I'm drinking at the bar, toasting drinks with me, telling me I'm cute, eye-fucking me, dancing near me trying to get my attention, etc. Usually they're okay-looking chicks (5's and 6's) but sometimes even hot chicks will do this too. I even get interest in non-social settings like grocery stores or the airport.

And again, I'm not conventionally attractive at all. I know this because I only get like one match on Hinge per week. But maybe it's the way I carry myself (I'm pretty confident), or the fact that I'm willing to actually make eye contact with these women and not shy away like many people do? Or that I've developed the ability to actually read people's expressions as I've grown into my late twenties? But I feel like a lot of guys on Reddit who claim that they get zero interest from the opposite sex are either really young, really shy, don't understand how females operate, or just don't go outside.