Ultimately it doesn’t matter how much you have over a woman, she will probably still reject you or not reciprocate

Expensive-Tea455 · 2024-02-19T00:40:21+00:00

I’ve heard some women refer to Jason Momoa as ugly… I, on the other hand, think he’s hot as shit… the point here is that different people like different things, not everyone is going to be into you…

krayon_kylie · 2024-02-18T18:24:10+00:00

dude so many of these threads are like "how dare women want the best for themselves: an essay"

EulenWatcher · 2024-02-18T18:20:14+00:00

Dating isn't a video game or a slot machine where you put your traits and get a girlfriend. Sure, your traits and behavior are important, but human interactions are less direct and more variable than machine code. We have to rely on luck, context, appropriate time etc. It's just one of outcomes of dealing with people.

NJFlowerchild · 2024-02-18T20:30:29+00:00

This just world fallacy of “if you check all of the boxes you shouldn’t be struggling” is a crock of shit lol. I’ve seen dudes who look like Ryan Gosling and act like George Clooney get brushed off by extremely mediocre women in every respect.

Well no shit. No man can get every woman. Everyone faces rejection at some point. You are not checking the boxes if all you're facing is rejection.

spanglesandbambi · 2024-02-18T18:15:20+00:00

So, who are women marrying and having relationships with then?

SmallSituation6432 · 2024-02-18T18:48:02+00:00

What makes this weird is ending with "a good opportunity". By what possible measure is it good if there are readily available better options?

That and the creepy tone of "it doesn’t matter how much you have over a woman". That shit just screams "Women SHOULD like me but don't and its not fair". Really undercuts the whole message. Work on that.

Safinated · 2024-02-18T19:05:57+00:00

I am glad you finally understand how voluntary, consensual relationships work

vimsoparafazerraiva · 2024-02-18T18:44:29+00:00

I’ve seen dudes who look like Ryan Gosling and act like George Clooney get brushed off by extremely mediocre women in every respect.

Are you confirming that simply being attractive isn't enough to get with a woman?

optimuscrymez · 2024-02-18T18:32:21+00:00

Yes. No man on earth goes 10 for 10.

All men get rejected.

You still get rejected if you dumpster dive, just much less.

Again it's not just looks. It's also just randomness and a big part of that is HER.

Where she's at in life her mood that day etc.

Stunning-Spirit5275 · 2024-02-18T18:24:25+00:00

Most people go through a bunch of mid relationships before they find someone compatible and loyal. Even then, there is always a burden of performance places on men to ensure the relationship lasts. Sucks but it is what it is

MyLastBestChance · 2024-02-18T18:18:18+00:00

Is it Groundhog Day again?🙄

Objective_Ad_6265 · 2024-02-18T19:54:57+00:00

Because it's not a numbers game. It's about the spark, falling in love, attraction... Even situation, if she is open to a relationship... It's not that you check the list and it's done, it'not a computer game. It depends on idividual unique people. Different people have different tastes.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2024-02-18T21:26:02+00:00

Chemistry, charisma and vibe between the two individuals is what matters. Somebody can seem like a perfect option on paper, but actually getting along and clicking irl is what makes women fall for a guy.

TotalTravesty · 2024-02-18T18:18:34+00:00

It doesn’t matter what you saw one time. If a guy actually looks like Ryan Gosling or George Clooney, they’re going be fine and don’t need your pity.

The just world fallacy is thinking an attractive man should never face rejection ever. The just world fallacy is thinking that women are better off automatically accepting the advances of a man you like even if she personally doesn’t like him.

krayon_kylie · 2024-02-18T18:23:34+00:00

skill issue

Spicy_take · 2024-02-18T19:17:43+00:00

Agreed. Being 6’2”, athletic, and making money, are now the bare minimum. I decided “fuck that” because they want interesting and exciting. I want relaxation and peace. If you're like that though, you just have to wait. Dating gets easier as you get older.

Valuable-Marzipan761 · 2024-02-18T19:20:51+00:00

Sometimes high quality men get rejected, like how sometimes top football teams lose. Doesn't mean there's no point or benifit to being high quality. Your odds are better

thetruthishere_ · 2024-02-18T23:07:19+00:00

Why would a good woman want to be with a man with a mentality of 'how much you have over her'?

Your energy is sus.

Cringe.

Nobody can help you if you think attractive people never get rejected.

WANT_SOME_HAM · 2024-02-18T21:18:49+00:00

Jesus fucking Christ, this sub.

It isn't "just world fallacy" for the Universe to refuse to grant you a permanent female sex slave. You're confusing a "just world" with "women being forced to stay with you no matter how they feel."

Sexually insecure nerds on Reddit who are wildly unqualified to talk about relationships are obsessed with this stupid idea that attractive people don't live normal human lives and have a line of hot people knocking on their door every two minutes, offering sex and handfuls of gold doubloons.

The most basic concepts of healthy, mature, adult relationships escape them. They cannot understand that it's way more complicated than "If I raise my Sexy Stat high enough, I can go on permanent autopilot." And then, when they invariably find out this stupid fucking theory doesn't play out in real life--like people had been telling them for years--they act like they just spotted a major plot hole in the fabric of reality.

It's like Incels who swear up and down that women will only have sex with obscenely perfect-looking men with perfect faces and bodies, then freak out when they spot a beautiful woman with a normal guy and actively get angry at the girl for not being shallow.

Fucking grow up.

grillopie · 2024-02-18T19:39:22+00:00

Getting brushed off means nothing. Any individual person can be in the wrong mood, not single, or otherwise unavailable.

You cant be discouraged by one rejection. Thats just not how life works.

ReplacementPasta · 2024-02-18T20:07:57+00:00

Ultimately it doesn’t matter how much you have over a woman, she will probably still reject you or not reciprocate

Yeah? Why would someone like you or want to be with you just because you have more than them?

HumpsyDumpsy · 2024-02-18T22:11:35+00:00

This right here proves that women value more than looks, and material assets. Just because a man has all of what he thinks women desire, doesn't mean she owes him sex, her time, the honor of being his girlfriend.

Women reject men who do not click with them. If there is no spark, nor chemistry, he's not worth her time, even if he looks like Ryan Gosling, or George Clooney.

There is more to life, and relationships than just sex and having options, for women. Just because we receive a lot of offers, doesn't mean we don't value a great man when he comes along, and keep him, especially considering an emotional connection is the best investment for a lady, opposed to short term and casual. Remember women value quality, over quantity.

Silver_Past2313 · 2024-02-18T18:37:07+00:00

It's not that "it doesn't matter how much you have" it obviously does. The value you have to hold is just extremely high compared to previous decades.

izoldetales · 2024-02-19T00:10:49+00:00

Ultimately it doesn’t matter how much you have over a woman, she will probably still reject you or not reciprocate

People will probably tell you it's because how " unique " women are when in reality It's because modern women were raised in a culture where even attractive men put effort for them . I watched 100 episodes of IAN SOMERHOLDER being crazy in love with a girl that didn't do nothing for him. Women now thing that they will get the best men ever just by existing . People don't even know what women offer or how women express love . As long as women refuse to put effort , men will keep fighting against each other for even a reply to a DM until they found out that even in a relationship , women offer nothing, not even frequent sex let alone affection. I saw women posting gifts from their bfs while men getting bashed cause they told their gf or wife to cool after a long day of work . Most men are not ready to how small the effort women put for women , It's closer to zero than zero itself

P.S : Men here may deny but men were advocating with women about how attractive men should put effort and not see women as object so you're also to blame .

cuteTroublexo · 2024-02-19T18:39:34+00:00

I met my bf because he saw me post on Reddit, saw me link my IG, and followed me! We went to an edm festival for new year's, not together though. But he said he saw me walking around and DMed me after new year's. Been chatting since! He asked me out and asked if I wanted to do shrooms.. I said hell yeah. Our date went great. He bought me VIP to a fest next weekend. Drives an hour and a half to see me (we live that far apart). He brought my mom flowers when he came to the house for the first time. He made an excellent first impression. Receiving gifts is my love language and he buys me anything! He brings me surprises, as well! He ticks off all the boxes!

No, we don't reject all men. Some men just have to show a little effort and be thoughtful about their lady. I think most women would love roses and a gift that shows you were thinking of them!

Oh and, I definitely reciprocate! My mom and I sent him home with SO much food!

thisreallyisnotok · 2024-02-18T18:44:19+00:00

The insecurity epidemic among young misandrists means they get off rejecting people who are higher value than them. They feel the act of rejection itself is what determines people’s value so these misandrist cunts think they are better than every man they reject.

It’s not how normal people date. Most normal people understand that it’s about compatibility not an ego trip

I honestly think we need a new word for it because it’s a combination of insecurity and narcissism (although certainly not actual NPD)

boom-wham-slam · 2024-02-18T19:19:18+00:00

This is why you need to have a rotation AND learn self control ie no porn or masterbation.

Then tada, you have the power over women since you need sex from her even less.

GhostofAugustWest · 2024-02-18T18:28:40+00:00

George Clooney never had women. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

RubyDiscus · 2024-02-19T01:40:42+00:00

Simply being attractive isn't enough to get sex or dating. Has to have personality 🤔

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Commercial_Tea_8185 · 2024-02-19T14:48:13+00:00

‘It doesnt matter how much you have over a woman”

Wtf is that supposed to mean? 😂😂😂

Human_Jed · 2024-02-22T07:50:43+00:00

And with that I go back to my initial comment. Being a “spoiled princess” making minimum wage is not a positive thing, and most good quality men do not and will not want someone like that. How exactly did you earn it? You didn’t, you’re just pathologically entitled and low-key taking advantage of someone.

In this case it sounds like you’re afforded the role of “spoiled princess” as a result of your boyfriend’s current and likely temporary desperation having never had a girlfriend before. He lives with his parents, so is obviously struggling to meet his own expenses, let alone yours in addition. You are accepting gifts and money despite those expenditures causing harm to the guy’s already poor financial health. Let’s be very clear, you do not care about this person’s wellbeing. There’s also a significant amount of narcissism at play given that everything you say you like about him is basically about you. You seem incredibly stunted for your age in terms of emotional maturity.

He will get tired of it, and you’ll posting some insecure “Am I ugly?” pictures attention seeking on Reddit again in another couple months from whatever truck-stop oriented town you live in. After that very predictable outcome, I hope he finds someone who treats him better than you do.

As for your mom’s house, you better hope your mom doesn’t have any long term care costs, because that’s where most of what would otherwise be inherited assets go. The whole LTC industry is built up around siphoning assets from elderly people. Smokers also tend to need a whole lot more medical care for chronic illnesses as they age since they basically all end up with chronic pulmonary and cardiovascular issues. Cancer treatment is even more expensive, bankruptcy is common. Banking on an inheritance is a VERY poor long-term strategy in general. Most people get a fraction of what they expect, if anything at all.

Title	Ultimately it doesn’t matter how much you have over a woman, she will probably still reject you or not reciprocate
Author	The-Loop
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Date	February 18, 2024 6:13 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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