Let’s cut the fluff.
The men who claim they’re “done with dating” usually have one core problem: a total lack of critical thinking. No real analysis. No effort to separate emotion from reality. Just knee-jerk conclusions based on what the internet throws at them.

How do I know?
Because the same guys always say crap like:

“Women don’t want to be approached anymore.”

Okay. Simple question: How do you know that?

And what do they say?

“Dude, just look at TikTok. Look at Instagram. It’s everywhere.”

And that’s where your brain should start bleeding.

Here’s what’s actually happening:

  1. Social media doesn’t show you reality. It shows you what keeps you scrolling.These platforms make money from ads. The longer you stay on the app, the more ads they can shove in your face. So the algorithm learns what triggers you emotionally—and gives you more of it.

  2. You get angry at videos where women bash men or say

“Don’t approach me.”

So you pause. You rewatch. Maybe you even comment. Guess what? The algorithm thinks:

“Nice. This guy’s hooked on outrage.”

So now, every time you open the app, it slaps another “angry feminist” video in your face.

  1. You fall into the illusion that all women think like this.

You’ve seen 10–20 similar videos in a week, so your brain—lazy and emotional—goes:

“Yup, this is what all women think now.”

Even though there are 4 billion women in the world. But sure, let’s trust 20 TikToks.

  1. You internalize the message. Now you’re afraid to talk to women.

But then—surprise—you see a video from a woman saying:

“Why don’t men approach anymore?”

And now you're even more confused.

So what do you do? You cope by saying:

“Women are crazy—they don’t even know what they want.”

No, man. You’re the one who’s lost the plot.

This is the internet. There’s content out there to support every idea—and its exact opposite.
So if you're building your beliefs based on what goes viral, you're not thinking. You're reacting.

The Real Question You Should Be Asking:

  • Is what I’m seeing online actually representative of real life?
  • Am I being manipulated into outrage and hopelessness?
  • Could it be that most women don’t think like that, but the ones who scream the loudest get the most views?
  • And could it be that my beliefs are being shaped by algorithms—not by truth?

Sit down. Think. Don’t let internet noise hijack your brain.

You want clarity? You want to know how media warps your view of dating and women?

Start here:
👉 What Social Media Echo Chambers Are Doing to Your Brain