I have seen women say that they hate the fact that they keep going back to toxic men and the toxicity they are referring is that are aggressive, rude or violent like if meet someone I find attractive and I see them be horrible to someone who doesn’t deserve it my basic human morals would prevent me from being attracted to them. I have seen it so often that its very scary. Also these individuals present themselves as the monsters they are like they dont pretend to be nice but nobody seems to care. The main problem with this is that people become who they need to be to function is someone who is horrible or abusive is rewarded why would they ever change. To be extremely clear obviously the men who are toxic are the main problem and they need to change but that doesn’t mean you run into their arms. Also i always hear they are trying to fix them but how insane must one be to believe you could convert a criminal to being a straight edge which the justice system and rehabilitation process has struggled to accomplish. My main reason for this post is curiosity like why do people do this and I dont have any desire for women who are attracted to toxicity to come anywhere near me because they seem kinda strange but there is so many women doing this that they cant all be bad people for doing this surely there is a justifiable explanation.