A lot of you have really conflicting values. What are your core preferences?

Popeoath · 2025-09-18T01:51:05+00:00

There are no conflicting values, the complaints in both scenarios are about option C:

C (1) - A woman with a high n count (compared to you at least) who's slept with other men quickly, but now wants you to wait.

C (2) - A woman with a career she worked hard for, but still expects you to have a bunch of money, disproportionately pay for dates, etc.

Either of A or B is fine. Men do not like getting the worst of both worlds with C.

James_M_Croft · 2025-09-18T00:02:26+00:00

A: a woman with a low n count
A: a woman with no real career prospects that would be a good mother. She relies on you for money.

Destinyciello · 2025-09-17T22:37:29+00:00

The second one is easy. A all the way. I'm the man I'll figure out how to earn the $.

The first one you kind of want the best combination of both. You don't want some hooker who has slept with 500 men just because she let you hit it on the first night. Conversely you don't want some low n count woman who will string you along for god knows what reason.

I suppose you didn't say that B has necessarily slept with a lot of men. It's only somewhat implied. So most guys would choose B there.

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throwaway73737828 · 2025-09-18T18:55:30+00:00

First one B, second one is neither. Having a LTR or marriage is just stupid.

SexCrispies · 2025-09-20T07:13:48+00:00

I choose a woman who sleeps with me on the first date and has a high n count, and a woman who has her own career and money. I also choose no kids.

Barely-moral · 2025-09-17T23:13:18+00:00

A: a woman with a low n count

B: a woman who sleeps with you in the first 2 weeks of knowing or dating you

A consistent woman. If A is consistent then A. If B is consistent then B.

I want the same treatment previous partners got. I am not waiting more than previous partners did.

a woman with no real career prospects that would be a good mother. She relies on you for money.

This one. I have no use for a woman that spends 8+ hours a day at her job/career.

Ego73 · 2025-09-17T22:44:32+00:00

B both times

James_M_Croft · 2025-09-18T00:20:16+00:00

Both A, obviously, if I were to get a long term partner I would want the best partner possible in all respects.

N_Count_Council · 2025-09-17T22:54:04+00:00

A: a woman with a low n count

and

A: a woman with no real career prospects that would be a good mother. She relies on you for money.

A is preferrable but I understand that most homes require dual income in 2025 so A may not be an option.

InterestingGoose5507 · 2025-09-18T12:07:30+00:00

A & A easy!

DzejSiDi · 2025-09-18T13:06:07+00:00

First two are not mutualy exclusive, but this apply mostly to young women, because they did not have many chances to get into high n count. What's the problem to be, let's say, 25, have 2nd boyfriend and slept with 3 men in total? Personally I am fine with either A or B, but slight A preference.

Second question, both are fine, but i prefer B, as long as her position is not higher, so I don't need to deal with her whining hipergamy that much.

Turbulent_Humor_8465 · 2025-09-18T16:24:19+00:00

A woman who has a great personality and takes care of her body. Everything you said doesn't matter!!!!

davebicycle69 · 2025-09-18T18:27:27+00:00

First question is B, easily. Second is a false dichotomy, I do not want or need kids.

PattayaVagabond · 2025-09-19T18:09:33+00:00

I would take A and A

onlyaseeker · 2025-09-19T19:34:07+00:00

A, B

It's not complicated.

I wouldn't like B1, but I wouldn't mind A2, if society was better.

But those aren't my core preferences. That's a stereotype being projected based on a poor understanding of what it is to be red pilled.

gokeke · 2025-09-21T04:17:24+00:00

Traditional man will choose A both times but a Modern man would choose B both times

EsotericRonin · 2025-09-24T02:58:11+00:00

Both A, easy.

Title	A lot of you have really conflicting values. What are your core preferences?
Author	Reasonable_Mouse789
Upvotes	23
Comments	144
Date	September 17, 2025 10:35 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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