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Hot_Lack_4868 · 2026-03-14T05:18:38+00:00

Just a reminder

Past-Shoulder-631 · 2026-03-14T04:46:46+00:00

What do you define as the manosphere? Is it just anyone who holds vaguely socially right wing or traditionalist views?

Past-Shoulder-631 · 2026-03-14T04:17:22+00:00

Do you ever feel that when you’re living with a woman in the same home, they have these little passive aggressive things they do to make the home “theirs” and not “yours”. Like they will suddenly impose rules and restrictions on order and housekeeping that you didn’t agree to, but they just make it the default norm and expect you to adhere. They place little decorations here and there, like small things over time, without consulting you. Not big things but gradual small things, like I slow steady incursion, to leave their footprint on the home and erase yours. Yet every change or addition you want to make they will fight you tooth and nail over it

TheCounsellingGamer · 2026-03-14T04:09:23+00:00

Update on the kitten: Her tail seems to be growing twice as fast as the rest of her. She has met the resident cat. Resident cat has smacked her round the face a few times, but I'm hopeful that they'll be friends soon.

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Logos1789 · 2026-03-14T03:42:55+00:00

Divorce Double Standards

The Domestic Labor Paradox

The Standard for Her:

If a woman performs domestic labor, it is viewed as an "unpaid investment" in his career that he must repay with interest (alimony) after the divorce.

The Standard for Him:

If the man hires domestic labor (nannies, cleaners) so she doesn’t have to do anything, that is weaponized against him. Instead of being credited for alleviating her burden, he is told he has established a "Standard of Living" that she is now entitled to afford via his future checks.

The "Self-Reliance" Penalty

The Standard for Her:

If she paints a room or plants a garden, she is credited with "active appreciation" that entitles her to a 50% share of the home's increased value.

The Standard for Him:

If he fixes his own pre-marital home with his own hands, his "marital labor" is seen as belonging to the partnership. By doing his own work, he effectively "gifts" her half the equity.

To keep his house truly separate, the law essentially forces him to pay a contractor with money from a pre-marital, passively managed account to do the work.

The "Career Contribution" Logic

The Standard for Her:

Her "presence" in the home is legally assumed to have enabled his success, granting her a right to his future earnings—even if he achieved his career milestones before meeting her.

The Standard for Him:

His provision of a "chill life" is never viewed as enabling her; it is viewed as a vested right she acquired.

He is not credited for giving her ten years of leisure; he is penalized for the "opportunity cost" of her not working during those years.

The Retirement Double Standard

The Standard for Her:

Her choice to be a stay-at-home spouse is treated as a protected status. She is almost never found "underemployed," and her lack of income is viewed as a "need" he must fill.

The Standard for Him:

His choice to retire early is treated as "Voluntary Underemployment." The court can impute income—inventing a fake salary based on what he could earn—to force him to pay alimony from his savings.

The "Autonomy" vs. "Control" Flip

The Standard for Her:

She is an "Equal Partner" with a right to half of every dollar he earns the moment it hits the bank.

The Standard for Him:

If he acts like a partner by questioning a budget or suggesting frugality, it is rebranded as "Financial Abuse" or "Coercive Control."

His attempt to manage the wealth he creates is treated as a violation of her "agency."

The "Accounting" Trap

The Standard for Her:

Having her own joint or separate account is framed as a sign of her independence and empowerment.

The Standard for Him:

In court, that same account is rebranded as a "Stipend" or "Allowance." Lawyers argue that by "capping" her funds while he held separate wealth, he was "infantilizing" her, which justifies a larger payout to "restore her dignity."

The "Pre-Marital" Eraser

The Standard for Her:

The wedding day is a "Safety Net." It ensures she never drops below the highest lifestyle she experienced during the marriage, regardless of her own financial history.

The Standard for Him:

The wedding day is a "Reset Button." It effectively erases the decades of solo work he did to build his wealth, treating his private excellence as communal property and his "magnanimity" in sharing it as a permanent legal obligation.

The system operates on a "Heads I Win, Tails You Lose" logic:

His money is treated as communal, but his time is treated as a debt.

Meanwhile, her time is treated as an investment, but her lifestyle is treated as a right.

Steakman1 · 2026-03-14T03:36:49+00:00

Reddit just really knows what I want

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fiftypoundpuppy · 2026-03-14T03:31:15+00:00

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Ok-Coat7665 · 2026-03-14T03:08:34+00:00

Being a 24yo volcel woman is agony. I can’t wait to have my way with a man (consensually).

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2026-03-14T02:09:44+00:00

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Silver_King_602 · 2026-03-14T02:00:59+00:00

If I could be reborn it would be as a japanese salaryman in the 80's. I won't elaborate.

Talking_Tanuki · 2026-03-14T01:55:26+00:00

Spousal loss linked to higher risk of dementia, mortality among men, but not women.

Widowed men experienced a decrease in physical and cognitive health, as well as social support, while widowed women tended to experience an increase in happiness and life satisfaction.

PrinceDuneReloaded · 2026-03-14T01:34:01+00:00

when we are all in the metaverse will you guys come to the ppd megathread virtual reality clubhouse?

Logos1789 · 2026-03-14T01:06:28+00:00

The “double bind" for the providing male spouse:

The system is designed to value the outcome (the comfortable life) when the woman receives it, but value the labor (the chores) when she provides it.

Here is how that specific "logic" plays out in a courtroom:

If He Pays for Help (The "Lifestyle" Trap)

If you hire a housekeeper, a nanny, and a gardener so your wife doesn't have to work or clean, you are unintentionally setting a high "Marital Standard of Living."

The Entitlement:

In a divorce, she argues that she has become "accustomed" to a home that functions without her labor.

The Alimony Bill:

The judge doesn't say, "Well, you don't have to clean anymore, so you're fine." Instead, the judge orders permanent or long-term alimony specifically so she can afford to hire those same people in her new house.

The life you provided becomes a legal requirement you must continue to fund.

If He Does the Work (The "Default Credibility" Trap)

If you do all the cooking, cleaning, and childcare yourself while working, the "Replacement Cost" theory is used against you.

The Assumption:

Unless you have a mountain of evidence (logs, witnesses, receipts), the court defaults to the societal narrative that the non-earning or lower-earning spouse provided the "domestic infrastructure"

The "Shadow" Value:

Her lawyers will argue that even if you "helped," she was the "manager" of the home. They calculate the market rate for a house manager or nanny and claim that her "unpaid labor" (even if hypothetical) is what allowed you to have the career success you did.

The "Unjust Enrichment" Paradox

The legal system is terrified of "Unjust Enrichment"—the idea that one person leaves a marriage with a huge career and the other leaves with nothing.

The Provider's Penalty:

To prevent "injustice," the court treats your career as a jointly owned business.

The House as a Job:

They treat her time in the house as "work" that has a dollar value, but they treat your time in the office as "marital property" that she owns half of.

The "No-Win" for Men

If you provide a luxury life: You have to pay to maintain it forever.

If you provide a frugal life:

You might save money, but she’ll argue you "stunted her growth" and "defrauded" her of the life she deserved.

If you do the chores:

It’s often ignored or rebranded as "helping out" while she "managed".

The law views the man’s money as a communal resource and the woman’s time as a private investment that must be paid back with interest.

Logos1789 · 2026-03-14T00:06:07+00:00

Data from the U.S. Census Bureau and Pew Research Center debunks the narrative of a widespread shift toward female economic independence by revealing the following:

The Myth of the "Female Breadwinner"

While headlines claim nearly half of mothers are breadwinners, the majority of this group consists of single mothers who are the sole providers by necessity, not married women out-earning their husbands.

Single-Mother Inflation:

63% of women categorized as "breadwinners" are single mothers with a median income of just $23,000.

The Reality of Single-Earner Households

When a couple has only one person working, the data reveals a stark imbalance:

Husbands as Sole Providers:

In 23% of all U.S. marriages, the husband is the sole breadwinner.

Wives as Sole Providers:

Only 6% of marriages have a wife who is the sole breadwinner.

Stay-at-Home Gap:

Mothers account for approximately 82% of all stay-at-home parents, while fathers make up only 18%.

Married Reality:

Only 16% of opposite-sex marriages feature a wife as the primary or sole breadwinner.

Male Dominance:

Husbands remain the primary or sole breadwinner in 55% of all marriages.

Wealth Acquisition Through Marriage

Wealth data shows that for many women, marriage remains the primary vehicle for high-net-worth status rather than independent earnings.

Top 1% Access:

Research shows women are 991% more likely to be in the top 1% if they are married, as only 4.5% of women earn enough individually to reach that threshold.

Wealth Disparity:

Married householders under age 35 have a median wealth 12.9 times that of unmarried female householders.

The Marriage Premium:

The median wealth for a typical single woman is $58,100, whereas married couples have a median wealth of $269,000.

Circumstantial Roles vs. Planned Arrangements

The data suggests that when women are the sole breadwinners, it is often due to a husband's inability to work rather than a lifestyle choice.

Health and Unemployment:

Households where the wife is the sole earner are most frequently triggered by the husband’s poor health, disability, or job loss.

Marital Fragility:

Marriages with a female breadwinner face a divorce rate three times higher than those where the man earns more.

Stability Risk:

A Harvard study found that when a husband is not working full-time, the couple is 32% more likely to divorce, regardless of how much the wife makes.

This implies that even if the money is there, the loss of the "provider" image damages the foundation of the marriage.

PrinceDuneReloaded · 2026-03-13T23:57:07+00:00

If i had a girlfriend and i called her a cunt i would expect her to break up with me

Ok-Party8338 · 2026-03-13T23:37:59+00:00

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Ok-Coat7665 · 2026-03-13T23:37:44+00:00

I’m excited to have a boyfriend but also kind of scared because he will expect s*x.

Silver_King_602 · 2026-03-13T23:15:06+00:00

Flat chested women are always mean. They are mad that their titties aren't bigger so they take it out on others.

Silver_King_602 · 2026-03-13T23:03:27+00:00

Do women know when they go on their spiels about their bf's/husbands that no one gives a fuck? You would think the way some of them operate that there is a long line of people going "and then?" "what happened next??". But no it's always shoehorning a topic no one cares about in a setting where no one really asked.

saraimarsena · 2026-03-13T21:53:10+00:00

i love love

Ok-Coat7665 · 2026-03-13T21:38:50+00:00

I can’t believe the right allowed a woman who looks like this to rise to prominence.

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growframe · 2026-03-13T20:38:43+00:00

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Many such cases

ThatBitchA · 2026-03-13T20:11:37+00:00

Wait that podcaster cheats on his girlfriend and she's not allowed to cheat?

And this is one of the manosphere big boys?!

No wonder young men are cooked. They don't want relationships. They want sex on demand.

Apparently, there's a new documentary on Netflix about the Manosphere.

Just a bunch of sheep following the worst examples of men.

Mq200 · 2026-03-13T19:52:54+00:00

Your nervous system is part of your market value/smv. It should be called LMN. Looks, money, nervous system.

alpha2828 · 2026-03-13T19:36:00+00:00

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What do you think about this movie? It is coming out soon.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2026-03-13T19:34:46+00:00

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Kitchencel final boss

Consistent_Bet_5318 · 2026-03-13T19:04:52+00:00

Reddit is just introverts taking out the frustration they had with extroverts irl on other introverts online.

Scr*w that.

Interesting_Show_962 · 2026-03-13T18:56:26+00:00

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alpha2828 · 2026-03-13T18:36:16+00:00

I matched with someone who wants something short-term. It’s really ego-boosting, women choosing you for short-term more than long-term.

monster_lily · 2026-03-13T18:24:48+00:00

Headed to the Bronx 📍

No_Self_2165 · 2026-03-13T18:21:37+00:00

Life update:

I got a new crush now. She seems to avoid eye contact but I saw her peeking at me for once today (that was the exact moment of crush).

Though she either acts or is truly not interested.

winter_lover28 · 2026-03-13T18:21:13+00:00

Men who can easily have casual sex are the highest-value men.

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2026-03-13T18:13:40+00:00

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IgorXY · 2026-03-13T18:09:01+00:00

Whooooh, interview seems to went well. It was my first real life round since 2019 probably.

Finally feierabend, to the bar!

Have a nice weekend, need a break from this sub <3

gtbreddit1 · 2026-03-13T18:04:40+00:00

There needs to be a different term for casual sex with drunk women you met at bars/parties and casual sex with sober women off a dating app. The latter is far more desirable than the former and it is getting annoying how often I talk about the latter and people think I'm talking about the former.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2026-03-13T17:47:36+00:00

As a hypergamous child of divorce, I’m looking for a man with happily married parents.

WebNew9978 · 2026-03-13T17:30:20+00:00

It's amazing how society nonchalantly expects certain men to be nothing more than asexual and aromantic worker drones and be totally ok with it.

autistic_cool_kid · 2026-03-13T17:17:08+00:00

Poly people only want one thing and it's fucking discussing

OffTheRedSand · 2026-03-13T17:15:38+00:00

a male man just sent this reel to me with the caption "I need this with you"

i wonder how many guys did he mass send this to, what number am i?

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2026-03-13T16:43:45+00:00

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Parallel universe be like:

OffTheRedSand · 2026-03-13T16:39:32+00:00

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Morbidly0beseCat · 2026-03-13T16:37:16+00:00

I don't expect women to advocate for men's rights and interests, but I do expect them to not actively support and uphold institutional discrimination that favors them, like affirmative action in employment and education, women-only scholarships, gendered treatment of sexual violence/IPV, etc.

Any woman that claims to be for "equality", while fighting to maintain their privileges, is full of shit.

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2026-03-13T15:19:44+00:00

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Equivalent_Dance2278 · 2026-03-13T15:02:29+00:00

Yup. Just as we all thought would happen. Myron blaming Louis for making him look crazy and somehow it’s Louis’s fault that his gf broke up with him. Accountability much, Myron? It absolutely baffles me, that men follow these potatoes. And hand over their money and lives to them.

Maffioze · 2026-03-13T15:00:51+00:00

Emotional intelligence maxing actually works if you're average looking.

FuuraKafu · 2026-03-13T14:40:59+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/self/comments/1ou5h2k/i_dont_think_women_can_really_define_how/

Just a small post on an apolitical subreddit where people can just post whatever (so I don't think it's a specific echo chamber or my "ragebait algorithm", just a lefty space because reddit itself is mostly lefty).

Top comment:

Jesus this sub is such an incel cesspool lately and it makes me sick. You guys need therapy or the society is lost as we know it

I wanted to make a full post about this but somehow it couldn't go through the automod. But I'm basically very curious whether it's possible for you "okay men have these issues so what, what do you want to change" folk to comprehend with some of your cute braincells the unadultarated hatred mainstream progressivism harbours for me due to my idea that men suffer as the more eager gender. Probably not, right? Tiny braincell too cute.

Lemon_gecko · 2026-03-13T14:36:29+00:00

Just saw a tik tok when a woman got after a date and said "do you have that feeling, that you come after a date, receive his text about how good it was, he had such a nice time" etc, but he didn't ask a single question? You talked about his work, family, hobbies, and not a single question about you"

And it was actually a bit of a shock for me when i started dating. I had more than a few dates like that.

Mammoth_Ad_5181 · 2026-03-13T14:35:02+00:00

Bi-phobia is not a thing, you guys are pussys. “Bi-phobia” yea we’re loosing the plot

Ok-Swimmer751 · 2026-03-13T14:25:34+00:00

I’m having a good hair day. The curly hair routine is doing its thing 💁🏻‍♀️

PrinceDuneReloaded · 2026-03-13T14:03:36+00:00

Dark Sneak Love Action by Tom Tom Club is my album of the day

CofeeHideCrimsonMind · 2026-03-13T13:58:22+00:00

Woman thinks because I'm quiet, I'm probably aloof. I'm not aura farming, sweetie. I just don't have the balls to talk to you....

Lemon_gecko · 2026-03-13T13:00:46+00:00

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Just now a man personally attacked me for having unpleasant opinion. And how did he do that? This how.

How egocentrical you must be to think that people might not like your gender only if they are not attractive. Yeah, your whole gender are sweet bunnies who poop rainbows.

GridReXX · 2026-03-13T12:56:04+00:00

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This is pretty niche because it’s about rich kids and their rich schools, but it echoes sentiments I’ve been hearing from all of my teacher friends for a while. Boys (especially boys from individualistic western cultures) when left unchecked seem to default to Lord of the Flies-esque cruelty.

I saw some research that said girls in same-sex school environments tend to perform better or even thrive. And boys in same-sex school environments tend to default to testosterone’y (and often coercive) behaviors which means comparatively they perform worse academically. All else equal, boys in co-ed schools tend to perform better and I guess the theory is that the girls have this “socializing” effect on the boys.

Kinda like how grade school teachers used to seat the unruly boy next to a female classmate almost as if to parent him by proxy.

But back to the screenshot, it’s not just “women.” Girls are wanting to distance themselves from boys because of how the boys act and the boys’ worldviews. To me that’s logical. Can’t even blame the girls.

autistic_cool_kid · 2026-03-13T12:51:44+00:00

I discussed recently with a guy who worked his ass off to get a girlfriend but never succeeded.

When asked about what the work was, it was typical redpill stuff (go to the gym and put yourself out there). And he sent me pics, physical attractiveness is absolutely there.

But the guy did absolutely zero of the work that is much, much more important and which redpill absolutely doesn't advise to do, or worse, actively discourage.

People need to understand something: going to the gym is supremely easy compared to the work that will actually give you success.

If you're unable to connect to other humans and feel respect for them, no amount of gym will ever fix that. You need to fix much deeper things inside you, and that part is the actual super extra hard work.

You need to be vulnerable and in touch with your emotions for that. And obviously you don't want to. It's fucking scary, and it goes against the kind of person you are at the moment.

Going to the gym doesn't require any vulnerability or hard work. It's super easy to run for 30 mins and push weights three to four times a week. It will also not fix your deepest issues.

I wish the redpill understood that.

GridReXX · 2026-03-13T12:30:07+00:00

By most broad measures, men and women have reported equal amounts of “feeling lonely” and sexlessness.

Yet it’s the “male loneliness crisis” or epidemic that’s become a thing discussed all over mainstream media for the last 5 years.

I think that’s because society has never been afraid that lonely disaffected females would start harming others. Society is afraid of lonely disaffected males raging out.

growframe · 2026-03-13T12:08:33+00:00

"Women aren't a monolith" is a fair rebuttal a lot of the time but sometimes it gets taken too far. Every so often I'll see some very basic, harmless advice given and there'll be a woman that responds with "I don't like this. Don't do this. Different women like different things".

Different women do like different things but men also need to know that you don't have to care about what some women like.

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2026-03-13T11:58:14+00:00

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IgorXY · 2026-03-13T07:36:18+00:00

Moin 🌞

fiftypoundpuppy · 2026-03-13T08:25:59+00:00

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Women in male-dominated fields 😌

K4matayon · 2026-03-13T08:31:42+00:00

amica </3

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FaceFruit27 · 2026-03-13T08:25:00+00:00

bronze

MasterTeacher123 · 2026-03-13T09:05:02+00:00

Pete Davidson said that Ariana grande telling everyone he has a huge penis is a gift and a curse.

On one hand putting that out there got him a lot of women in the industry because they were naturally intrigued and curious about his size. If Ariana says he’s packing I wanna explore that right? The problem is it set off unrealistic expectations lol.

TermAggravating8043 · 2026-03-13T10:14:20+00:00

Today in my country, marks 30 years since we had a mass shooting in a school where 16 children were killed with their teacher. We banned guns after this and we’re never had another since.

That’s what I don’t understand with America, you guys want abortion banned to save babies but are happy that random men can walk into schools on a daily basis and murder children

Hot_Lack_4868 · 2026-03-13T12:05:27+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/selfimprovementday/comments/1rsc739/can_i_be_saved_my_nose_is_wide_and_asymmetrical

Just look at the comments, and some people will still say that men try to lower women's self esteem 😒

MasterTeacher123 · 2026-03-13T19:54:47+00:00

Fat people hate getting banned was a watershed moment in Reddit history.

pwnedinthepnw · 2026-03-13T07:51:54+00:00

This account of mine is one month old now. How time flies! It seems just like yesterday, when my comments were still getting caught in the CQS filter...I wonder if they're still stuck in some lint trap that only mods can see, or if they're gone gone for good by now. One was an embarrassingly long essay I wrote, which I briefly considered reposting when enough karma had accumulated, but then the topic OP went and deleted his account. Oh well. Hope he's enjoying life touching grass somewhere fun

MasterTeacher123 · 2026-03-13T08:48:15+00:00

Guys realizing they aren’t attracted to the women that they can actually get is a cannon moment.

Morbidly0beseCat · 2026-03-13T09:06:07+00:00

If Americans are wringing their hands over a handful of military deaths, then you're absolutely not ready for a war against the PRC over Taiwan.

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