To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..

Kevinclimbstrees · 2026-05-18T15:55:29+00:00

You quickly learn they aren’t actually 10/10

MineDesperate2920 · 2026-05-18T15:47:50+00:00

I have dated some fairly hot girls. Bit of luck is involved and right timing usually. Need the skills to get the 7/10. Usually it happens when I’m on the ball with myself and sometime on a roll.

JackSquirts · 2026-05-18T15:34:32+00:00

Be amazingly awesome.

Truth is, most of them absolutely suck to date. They generally are devoid if anything remotely interesting personality wise and often completely separated from reality because theyve never been humbled. They were always the prettiest girl everywhere they went and everyone just kissed their ass 24/7/365. Exceptions are the ugly duckling or girls with brothers close to their age. Also ones who came from rough childhoods, but that brings a whole host of other problems. They're also like a drug and get normal dudes to do stupid shit to keep them around.

Honestly, 7s and 8s are where its at. 9s have similar problems with 10s, with the added baggage of losing their minds when a 10 walks in the room. 7s and 8s are still the prettiest girl in the room most of the time while also being actual people.

ne0b0rn · 2026-05-18T22:07:25+00:00

A 10/10 girl on looks/physical appearance is not 10/10 girl or woman.

Think hard on that wisdom.

jsanchez030 · 2026-05-18T15:33:23+00:00

I’ve dated 2 10/10 abgs recently. not worth it tbh. But I will say it is insane the amount of attention they get.

aajiro · 2026-05-18T17:10:58+00:00

I married one. Her personality was a 0/10, she was extremely proud of how she could manipulate people, and cheated on me at least twice.

Leewaak · 2026-05-18T18:35:18+00:00

To be completely honest with you, Luck. Thats it

i got really good at getting girls and i use the same tactics with every girl regardless of her looks. Most of them are 7-8, but twice i hooked up with personal 9-10's.

I didnt try anything different, didnt change anything. The opportunity presented itself and it just happened.

brique879 · 2026-05-18T17:12:17+00:00

High end events like charity galas, luxury club level seating at sporting events, the hot trendy restaurants all places to meet them.

howtobemisha · 2026-05-18T15:12:33+00:00

what is the difference between 9 and 10? or 7 and 10? can someone explain me the concept please

Matter_Still · 2026-05-18T17:14:55+00:00

"I know for 10s different rules apply:

- no (physical) compliments
- lots of push before pull
- making yourself rare"

There's the problem. The rules don't change because of a simple fact: The "10" in your eyes may be a five or six in hers.

An actress who was once declared People Magazine's "Most Beautiful Woman in the World" for three consecutive years did not know how that could be possible, and point by point criticized her features, which she found unsightly--nose, eyes, eyebrows, chin, etc.

Jettison your artificial and arbitrary rating system, and everything gets a lot easier.

AcedtheTuringTest · 2026-05-18T17:17:55+00:00

Be careful when focused on looks.

Having a stunning partner is great and all, but do they excite you? Are they interesting? Are they kind? Can you connect with them on any level?

If all you're looking for is a short fun time, then none of that may matter to you, but if you're wanting a regular gf, make sure she can fulfill your life beyond her appearance, and if she does, she could be your 10/10.

And additionally, it's a two-way street; what are YOU doing to make yourself a valuable and desirable person? Always try to the best version of yourself, whatever that entails. So, even if you run into bad luck when trying for a beauty, you still improved yourself, so it's never a total loss.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-05-18T15:12:33+00:00

I met a few on dating-apps. But traveling is key. You gotta fish in different pools with better odds.

You can still fish 10s on dating-apps being an 8. But you have to have that special-something. Like being from a different country, or having some kind of unique selling-point that sets you apart from the male 10s on the app. Heavily leaning into a sub-group can work.

another tip is to have something in common with models. Think about what you might have in common with female models and cater your dating-app bio to have those similarities.

For example, you're into photography - that is very appealing for wannabe-models. Or you are working in the event space or PR space. Or you make business deals for online creators. Something that gives you special value over other men to that "beauty" crowd. They should think "I need to know this guy, he's connected in THAT industry".

eviljack · 2026-05-18T20:00:15+00:00

Never dated a 10, but she was much more attractive than me, so for all intents and purposes, she might as well have been.

Will never do it again (or at least, unlikely). It always felt like she thought she was "better" than me, and could leave me at any time. Which, in fact, she did.

Then I dated a couple of women who were conventionally less attractive than her, but both loved me more than I ever thought possible. Instead of feeling like dirt and being belittled by an ego-maniac, I was loved and cared for like a partner/lover. Will never go back.

ChicoBrillo · 2026-05-18T15:38:59+00:00

I need you to understand these "rules" you speak of come from random guys on reddit that you can't confirm if they actually know what they're talking about. A lot of blind leading the blind.

My last girlfriend was very attractive. She got compliments constantly, service workers, strangers, randos would always come talk to her and be nice if not overtly flirt with her (compared to other women I've dated who might as well be invisible to others).

I didn't follow any "rules", we clicked and she was into me. To the contrary of what you say, she was insecure despite all the positive treatment, and she thrived on physical compliments.

I didn't bother trying to push/pull her either, I just acted authentic to myself. I didn't desperately pursue her, I took my time, and didn't rush in while also showing genuine interest.

becomesharp · 2026-05-18T20:02:17+00:00

Dont try for 10s if you can't get 8s. It's like asking how do i beat a UFC fighter but ive never fought competitively before.

The only way youre going to make that happen is by cheating. With dating, that means paying for it or having cocaine. With fighting it means bringing a gun to the fight. Do not recommend.

Vyvansss · 2026-05-18T17:29:40+00:00

The first mistake is believing there is such thing as a 10.

kysbruh · 2026-05-18T20:10:29+00:00

i got lucky and didn't fuck it up lol. just need to be confident and trust yourself

naitdawggg · 2026-05-18T22:10:49+00:00

If you’re not a 9-10 (overall) you should try to be close enough to their level that a 9-10 will settle for you at windows of opportunity: hostel vacations, raves, etc

Hydroplanet · 2026-05-18T23:26:53+00:00

Get to know them as a person and have a genuine real connection that isn’t tied to their looks. The good ones are craving to actually be seen for other things. When you love them for who they are while maintaining your own sense of self and life, they don’t want to let you go.

OkDevelopment4587 · 2026-05-19T02:24:18+00:00

I was with over 100, probably 160 girls since i was 15. Now im 37. I had 12 10sin my life with my very critical judgement. My friends were trying to steal them, I was losing friend, cuz girls would show me their texts..
10s at different age groups are very different. I'm from Moscow Russia. It's also important cuz now I live in NYC and have difficult times. Also once you get used to 8-10s you can not look at 7-.

So from 13 to 16yo it's one thing when ure a teen, from 17 to 19 another, then 20-23 is a big difference. 24-28, 28-34 and etc.

After you are older than 20 and they are older than 22 most of the time you need a certain lifestyle that they are attracted to and if you are not part of it that I was, I was struggling.

But sometimes I was getting crazy lucky cuz these 10s would find me hot.

I cant say anything about rules. It's all about how you deliver whatever you deliver. And it's a big deal.

for example. There was this girl, she was 27 i was 29. She was making 5 times more than me. And on the first date she said, you know I need a man to support me yada yada, like take me 3 times on vacations yada yada..
My response was (in a strong and calm manner, like im pissed of and yet composed af): Listen, I'm not against traveling, I like but I wanna make something clear. If you need money, I'm not making that much to be giving it to you. But like one vacation a year is easy So if i'm not what you're looking for, let's turn around and go our separate ways right now.
She replied: well, i don't need money, i just want a man to enjoy traveling so 1 vacation sounds good too! in a positive manner
later.. at a restaurant
I orders tea (i love tea and i don't drink alcohol), the teapot was standing for 4 mins and we were talking. I was waiting her to make the move and pour. But she was completely unaware.
So I said: well, the is not that hot, would you pour us the first set.
Her: What?! Me?!!
Me: Yeah
Her: No, im not doing this
Me: lol why?
Her: Never have I ever poured tea to anyone in my live, all the men were serving me.
Me: Oh wow! No way! (seriously with true curiosity) So you never met a man how you'd feel pleasure to serve? So all men were that so-so?!
Her: what?!! what did you just say?
Me: (calm af tone, respective and a little surpized) Well, if im not that good for you that can not enjoy making good thing for me, I'd rather not be present here right now. I'll pay for the table and go then.
Her: ok... I will do it, sit. but you do the next round.
Me: ok, deal.

Next evening she sent me a nude photo of her laying in a tub with foam.. and the ice was broken.

But some other girls would not stay around me for long, some would say I drove a car that her peer group wont understand and we were taking her car every time until she disappeared.

It's also about how you are advanced in sex. Can you make them squirt and orgazm so that they cant walk and cant control themselves, so they cry hysterically, or pass out? this is a strong wiring. Very few men can do it. Can you go emotionally deep into conversations, can you support and protect their insecurities and weak sides?
Like in the story above with the tea - I made her be part of our team without judging or abuse or any other bs. She just didnt know and lived in a different universe. And probably it was the only one with me and all other men after me - she treated then like she treated ones before me.

Also there are hot girls that are not wealthy, low key hot. But the mindset is different. It's all about what you need.

Also There are hot girls that know that they are hot and hot ones that think they are weird.
The last ones are diamonds in disguise.

Also ure talking bout dating apps. None of the 9+ girls were using them for longer than a week. They get 1000-4000 matches in one weekend and delete the app cuz its like swiping through 4000 guys before matching.

Were I found them: I was a guest to different tv shows, higher level business forums, private house events (business, yoga, fashion...). And... real street.

I'm not a good seducer at all. I struggle with communication. So I have a huge volume of leads in that sense. HUGE. Like a half time job (16-21yo).

So. If you have budget - dress up, groom yourself, hair - number one, facial skin - number 2, body - 3, clothes - 4 - a must. Ride a common nice car not a weird one or strange one. It could be old but look steez. And it must be always fixed and reliable and comfty inside. It's all about the vibe. Your apartment matters too.

yeah there are stories and my friends have a ton of cases how they were fucking with a hottie in a junkie spot. But its a 1-3 night stand. period.

Going for the next level:
I did it too. I gave myself a word that i'm not sleeping with anyone but a certain criteria. I'm struggling, suffering, frustrated sometimes. But i' moving forward. I try and try and learn. It will happen in NYC eventually despite the cultural difference and language barrier and all the other shit.

Independent-Bad218 · 2026-05-18T15:16:20+00:00

Here is a breakdown of the reality of dating 9/10s. While 10/10s dont really exist.

However bare in mind that the only way to approximate objective rating for girls is in terms of how much status you receive from strangers just for carrying them around.

A 9/10 is a girls where everyone checks you out. A 10/10 probably gives you more fame than a mayor

WiscoDJ920 · 2026-05-18T17:43:20+00:00

Don’t date based solely on looks. A simple accident or a sudden life changing illness can change the looks drastically and in a short amount of time. And suddenly you find yourself no longer attracted and then become the A-hole.

jimmy2179428 · 2026-05-18T19:13:05+00:00

It's very possible my friend. Just work on your inner game and take care of yourself first. I'm assuming you are still young < 25 years old? I'd say my looks is a solid 6.5 - 7.5 I'm skinny, balding, and with crooked teeth. Once I learned to stop giving a fuck about how I look and worked on my inner game and style then I was able to find peace with myself and then focused on sarging and being out and talking to anyone and everyone.

When I first met her she really wasn't interested in dating but I remained true to myself and won her over. 14 years later we're married with kids and I'd say she's a solid 9 - 10. I'm not just saying that because she's my wife. She got an inbox with hundred of men and women wanting her and throwing themselves at her as she's a content creator.

soothukundi · 2026-05-18T20:14:30+00:00

Drunk and on dancefloor. I spit good game and talked to her for a month and we couldn't meet cause of covid. But old habits kicked in, I simped like a mofo and she was gone. She was funny, in med school and witty. She was an actual 10/10.

- Push Pull
- Confidence without arragonce
- Not Reactive
- Never complain or badmouth others
- Never be judgmental in front of them
- Talk less about yourself
- Never be afraid to lose them

Bergfried · 2026-05-18T17:40:21+00:00

She had Borderline...

GiantDwarfy · 2026-05-18T18:11:23+00:00

7-8/10 lookswise were usually a complete 10/10 package because of personality. I dated a 6/10 looks gir that absolutely blew my mind in bed and is 10/10 for me in my book.

Ovaderr · 2026-05-18T18:40:53+00:00

Finding them is definitely the hardest part. I have met them thru work mostly. I do presentations to the public and sometimes they are guests in the crowd but mostly they are hired guns for the marketing stuff. They get a lot of attention and expect free stuff and gifts. They will go for the guy that treats them the best or whomever will pay for their next trip. So the easiest route is to be rich. If you’re not then you can still land them by being fun and outgoing. Think of creating a vibe around you and your persona. You want them to be intrigued by you. Once they are intrigued you bring them into your world and take them under your wing as you give them a tour of a life they have never seen before. So the key is to create new and unique experiences for them. For example I surf and I use this hobby to create mystique about my persona. I present my self as adventurous and a risk taker. I paint a lifestyle of a free spirit and I invite them to taste my world. I take them under my wing and they become invested. Women like most people are looking for a sense of purpose. If you can give them that sense of purpose as your partner in your life’s adventure they will commit to you. I have had women want to leave their worlds behind to ride shotgun in my life.

aromanremake · 2026-05-18T19:08:50+00:00

Live an awesome life, don’t be afraid to splurge a little, and early on make it very clear you’re different from other guys (ie be willing to walk away when the first inevitable time comes where your respect boundaries are being crossed).

Source: Married a 10, at least by society standards. Surprisingly she’s the most stable, down to Earth girl I dated. I dated some real crazy 6-8s in my heyday.

Almontas · 2026-05-18T19:09:55+00:00

Ok. First they are not dating other 10s they date the dudes that are funny, not shy and have MONEY (number one factor). So your looks is not a factor (assuming you are in shape and a 7?) as much as your personality and your swag. Be cool, take shots, bounce if it doesn’t work, keep your standards high.

ze55 · 2026-05-18T19:40:37+00:00

Dated Easter European with blue eyes, who was 10/10 looks wise, Jesus Christ it was exhausting.

Asked her if she wanted to get coffee together, she said yes. I changed nothing in my approach.

My advice is to always improve yourself, read books, work on your career, improve your social circle, be around places that will lead you to what you seek.

PoweredByCoffee5000 · 2026-05-18T22:55:42+00:00

I am 6/10 on physical looks, but got extremely lucky on 9/10 10/10s.

In the summary- they are extremely high maintenence, even though almost all of them say "I am low maintenance" and if you are broke Joe Nobody like me (Ivan Nobody since I am Russian American with multiple physical ailments due to military service) - even when exclusive, the men around her will low key (and possibly high key) will try to step on you in front of her and she may or may not use it against you as leverage in relationship.

I can elaborate but most likely my reply will be removed by moderators, since when I posted examples about behavior of the high class women, who knew their value - most of them got deleted.

Rotund_Flatworm · 2026-05-18T23:32:40+00:00

Been with a couple. One of them was a super well rounded type too, smart, funny, graduated top of her class and went into orthodontics, her dad was loaded (horses, helicopter, swimming pools, mansion, got a visit from G. Bush the 1st back in the 90s because he invented an important auto component of note, etc.). Got bored. 'Show me the most beautiful woman in the world and ill show you a man who's tired of sleeping with her' kinda thing. I was young.

lanseri · 2026-05-19T01:16:16+00:00

Once you realize they're just human like the rest of us, it's quite easy.

duke_awapuhi · 2026-05-19T01:35:41+00:00

I considered her a 10. She was a very dominant woman and picked me. I managed by just going “yes ma’am” and dating her lol

Sea_Independent_9511 · 2026-05-19T02:28:30+00:00

Aver te valen las 7 comp naras eres un clásico Chad en diferentes ámbitos Tienes exp. Pero te digo que las 10 de 10 están con el poder influencia narco películas actores fama millones eso tienes que tener o NINGUNA REGLA DE SEDUCCIÓN TE VA A VALER ESO SI ES PARETO

Imanuisance · 2026-05-19T09:14:36+00:00

10/10 are 9/10 horrible girlfriends

Competitive-Cuddling · 2026-05-19T14:08:28+00:00

10s are toxic narcissists who are deeply insecure because they’re personalities suck and they have no character, and issues with men in general.

The second they feel too weak, too unloved, too threatened, or insecure enough they compensate by turning to what reliably sustains and reinforces their ego… sexual attention from other men.

So if you give them any emotional leverage it will be a game of Russian roulette with a gun pointed at your head the whole time. Don’t give her enough attention, look at another woman the wrong way, wind blows the wrong way at the right time of the month… she’s sucking a dudes dick in a bathroom, probably your friend.

Far-Command-375 · 2026-05-22T08:24:22+00:00

The 10 is subjective. Some like blondes, some like brunettes, some like short and some like tall. Some like Asian and some latina's. This is why getting women off a pedastal is required for you to succeed with women. It's all in your head, which is why you fail.

Crazy_Telephone9671 · 2026-05-25T01:10:36+00:00

Man, I really have to unsub. I was curious about this subreddit, but it’s just so sad.

I’ve dated a 10/10. She was a bartender, and literally had men flock from one bar to another, whenever she changed where she works.

Whenever it comes up that we’ve dated, people always say that’s impossible.

You know how I did it? I accidently started a chat on fb about two years after we added each other while I was at a bar she worked at. We spent 2 days sending each other silly pickuplines cause it was funny. This is not repeatable and will never work with anyone ever again.

You know what she said when I once mentioned the scale system? She saids it’s all bullshit. 10/10, 3/10. None of that stuff matters.

Some other people said that the 10’s are shallow. Well, mine wasn’t. None of the 9’s I dated were shallow either. But they all absolutely hates rating people on a scale. Models, strippers, one Ms.Country. None of them believed in that shit.

Matter_Still · 2026-05-18T18:23:11+00:00

Prediction: 90% of the guys who pay attention to the 90% of guys on this thread who are bitter and contemptuous of uncommonly attractive women have a 90% chance of never becoming involved with a “10”.

___Mania · 2026-05-18T19:34:15+00:00

I took a lot of Xanax, gave no fucks, and was mean to her

HeroicPrinny · 2026-05-18T15:25:11+00:00

I’ve brushed besides the higher tier a bit and guys who date the higher tiers consistently. The key difference is money and status. Only the youngest girls care so much about perfect looks.

There are some average or worse looking guys doing really well because they have and live a baller lifestyle and social status from being rich and successful.

It’s made me realize my biggest failing has been not to advertise such a lifestyle myself on Instagram etc. I never post on social media which has artificially held me back

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-05-18T19:41:37+00:00

I dated a really kind avoidant 10. Looks of a literal Kpop idol. Pretty hair, makeup daily, amazingly fit body, pretty eyes. We attended the same event, she was on stage. I texted her about it, then got her laughing, then called her sexy and pretty right away, then built rapport, bantered. A few days later I'd play question games with her and tell her what I want to do to her, so more flirting with sexual and romantic context. A few days later she said she's basically okay meeting up with me, but her parents cannot know. So I rented a flat about a month later and traveled to her city, met up and escalated slowly until we were alone in my flat. We danced, did some trust exercises (eye contact, dancing). After a while I started doing things I described to her about 20 day earlier. We'd make out for hours and I'd press my leg in-between hers. I'd slide my hands all over her body and that was that for this trip.

Traveled to her one more time where I escalated to heavy humping, petting, saw her boobs, ass, it was the most intense 2 hours I've ever had in bed.

She initiated a break up about 3 months later because I began slipping into boyfriend frame hard, which put her off. Live and learn. But sex with her felt divine, and this relationship did wonders for my inner game. I've learned a lot, became non-needy and happy without relationships (took inspiration from her) and now hold the lover frame with women without slipping into boyfriend/provider territory.

They key is painting pictures in her head, not trying to be her boyfriend (so no presents or shit like that, let her pay for her own things and food on dates too if she insists), dominating her and letting her explore her sexuality in a safe non-pushy way. What she loved about me is how patient I am. I always escalated, but when she said no I'd take two steps back and try again later. It's mostly known as an anti-slut defense. The girl has to say no and you have to break through it eventually, but not immediately.

Early_Mine_1943 · 2026-05-18T21:02:24+00:00

I married a 9. A 10 if you include kindness, compassion, intelligence. Absolute unicorn. It was very stressful locking that down and I almost blew it multiple times.

But as others have said, when you date very good looking women, you often end up disappointed.

That being said, I have walked into a restaurant with a different 9/10 before and had the whole restaurant almost stop and go quiet, which was hilarious. People just stare. All the time. And going out at night where there are drunk people can be a problem.

United-Implement-382 · 2026-05-18T15:32:45+00:00

There is no such thing as a 10. Looks are subjective. What you might consider a 10, another guy might consider her a 7. She’s either attractive or not. Quit putting women on a pedestal.

jackthehat6 · 2026-05-18T15:57:38+00:00

cold approach for me. And one I met through work

dbootywarrior · 2026-05-18T16:43:09+00:00

Being assertive and funny but they not worth it

RainbowsTwilight · 2026-05-18T17:23:02+00:00

I dated a couple before my gf. I’d say silent confidence, witty banter, non-cringey flirting, dominance in personality.

I’m definitely not a 10 myself but it work; and I didn’t have to put it on. Their personalities were not compatible with me, so I left it at that. Im picky, I like my women emotionally intelligent. Looks don’t matter that much 🤣

IndividualPlay5178 · 2026-05-18T17:46:05+00:00

In general difficult in terms of personality. Feels a lot like another work you have to invest time and attention into

Carrera1107 · 2026-05-18T18:19:46+00:00

Do you make a lot of money?

SomeWonOnReddit · 2026-05-18T18:51:58+00:00

Get rich

modesbeast · 2026-05-18T19:11:25+00:00

Settle for a kind 6

TokenBlkGuy92 · 2026-05-18T22:20:57+00:00

Listen to me… the finer she is the bigger the headache. With that being said The 10’s are fun but it usually doesn’t last long just be content with having sex with them a few times and enjoy the ride

jabba-thederp · 2026-05-19T04:34:14+00:00

10 is subjective to just you. Once you realize you aren't trying to get with some sort of rare commoditand that they're just a person you can engage with confidence. After that it's just a coin toss like any other interaction. The nuances you'll learn after lots of experience.

I personally married a 9/10 looks wose because they're actually a 10/10 overall to me. Wasn't as hard as it seems. Everything just clicked.

nomoregame · 2026-05-19T09:33:17+00:00

I kept distance & they just came to me ...

Trust me 10/10 looks only fun after sometimes...

I seek for deeper connection ... not empty lacking brain blonde hot chick.

Yoh6820 · 2026-05-19T10:01:22+00:00

why would you go for crazy ones 😌

Milmoney43 · 2026-05-19T15:06:58+00:00

Stick with the sweaty 7’s. Trust.

Quinton1011 · 2026-05-19T18:12:04+00:00

10,s for someone else may not be a 10 for u...go look for your perfect 10, remember u want to make a life with this person..make sure you can stand her at her worst, so u can enjoy het at her best..good luck young Skywalker the force is strong with this 1..

ftdrain · 2026-05-19T20:09:31+00:00

10/10 girls dont even exist, the gym delish girls are always not so pretty face wise, but then the 10/10 face girls dont workout hard enough because they dont need, so they dont have 10/10 bodies or even close. So 10/10 overall doesnt exist and thats looks wise, forget overall package.

etherealromance · 2026-05-19T21:45:00+00:00

I have personally found that if you just treat them normally and maintain good investment ratio, there really isn’t any difference between dating 10 vs 7 or 8

Throwaway31427181618 · 2026-05-19T22:28:46+00:00

There's no guaranteed way to "bag a 10", without paying for it.

If you want to get it the old fashioned way, you need to either be a 9 or 10 yourself, be rich and famous, or demonstrate high social proof.

anoddabanga · 2026-05-21T16:54:58+00:00

Timing and a lot of missed shots. If you shoot at 100 10/10’s you’ll get 1.

N is that worth it? No

nordik1 · 2026-05-22T23:21:53+00:00

Have a fire IG and you can pull more of them

Sometimes they show up on dating apps

Other times it’s about getting in the right social circle or sparking conversation at the gym

Cold approach will be the hardest of all the methods because they can gawked at by everyone on earth so their guard is up. You have to be very relaxed and outcome independent to make it happen

Have found them through all of those, so just take more shots and make your online game bulletproof

VirtualOutsideTravel · 2026-05-23T06:00:41+00:00

In general,i its much harder to meet them online because photos can lie and they also get 100s and 100s of messages. Its easier to pull them on the street or in some public spaces, and i can also tell what they look like in person. After that its all down hill, just make sure you are well dressed and have some cash and free time when you approach.

MechanicCritical3566 · 2026-06-04T21:57:29+00:00

Trick is to find 9 or 10 that is humble normal girl, those exist. They can be funny and charming and still be stunning. Arrogance is not attractive

SluttyPotato1 · 2026-05-19T03:59:59+00:00

no (physical) compliments

lots of push before pull

making yourself rare

JFC stop listening to online bullshit.

Melodicmat · 2026-05-18T15:19:01+00:00

get too a 10 yourself. You're already quite close at 8-9

Into_The_Light_123 · 2026-05-18T16:00:50+00:00

Can a 5'8" good looking jacked guy ever land a 10? Either for a one-night stand or a long term relationship? Would you have to be famous and/or rich?

Busy-Buddy7956 · 2026-05-18T16:21:10+00:00

Treat them like a 5. Easy.

Pau-de-cavalo- · 2026-05-18T21:20:45+00:00

“No matter how gorgeous she looks, there’s a guy somewhere sick and tired of her shit”

ohmydaysssssx · 2026-05-19T00:42:15+00:00

I dated a professional model she was black but she was pretty huge eyes beautiful lips beautiful face skinny perfect proportions basically a model right she was a 10 but she was very sad inside she was feeling emotional at the time and she was quite normal just a bit sensitive to feelings she was feeling sensitive and sad but we did have a good time together and it wasn't anything different than dating a lower beauty girl is just treat her as a normal person and enjoy the company right it's just great

CaptainDolin · 2026-05-18T16:25:13+00:00

Be there at the right time and appear to not give a fuck to at least be different. Men around them usually give too many fucks and they know it.

It's hard to keep that up as an experienced 10/10 will test you and men will approach her a shitload of times. Once you've had the forbidden fruit, it's not easy to go back down.

Title	To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..
Author	J4nosch
Upvotes	256
Comments	186
Date	May 18, 2026 3:07 PM UTC (2 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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