Just found out that my girlfriend had been sleeping with a dude from her friends group for the last 8 months. She wanted to fuck him and she did, I get it. She could have told me one word that she wanted to do it so that I could go on my own way. But she didn't. She had been hiding this fact from me and behaved with me as if nothing was wrong.
I didn't ask her why did she sleep with him, rather why did she hide it from me. She says she loves me and it was just a fling. I'm not feeling bad for her whoring around, but the fact that she made me a dumbass all these 8 months is devastating to me.
I found about this while we were on a trip. I've calmly told her that what she did was disrespectful and I don't want to be indulged in a relationship with a whore. She cried, pleaded, yada yada. I bailed on her while she was asleep.
Although I didn't show my anger to her, I'm absolutely fuming inside because of the fact that she made me look like a dumbass. Why the fuck do women do this? She could just have told me that she wanted to sleep around, and I wouldn't have stopped her. But this hiding stuff has crushed my ego.
How could women be so evil? What does she get by making me look like a fool? Is this what I get for always letting her do whatever she wants, never suspecting her and not being a controlling freak?
When I think back of the moments we had all these 8 months, everything looks fake. How could women put up such a facade and be all lovey-dovey while whoring around behind the men?