Men here say they don't give a crap about how much a woman makes. But I also see men here say that they are wary of being used for their money/being seen as a wallet and wan't the woman to do her share.

It's possible that these are two different groups of men, which whatever that's fair, I don't pay attention to usernames lol

But for the guys who believe both of these things, how does that work socially when you're out and about, going on dates, taking trips together, vacationing, even going to the bar etc?

Because if a guy is making a lot more money than his girl, the only way for it to work where you aren't spending money on her is if you do things that she can realistically afford to go half on? So you're going to be eating at lower tier restaurants, not doing a lot travel, drinking solely at dives, no arts events, etc?

If you ever want to live together, you're going to be splitting rent in some shitty neighborhood because that's the best she can do?

The only way these income disparate relationships will work is if you shoulder some of the financial burden or like slum it on what her income can cover half of?

Like how does this work practically