The “jezebel” side being… having a sense of self, desiring and seeking autonomy, believing that our time, minds, energy and bodies have value. Meaning... not tiptoeing around men’s feelings at the expense of keeping our own gender subjugated and censored. Because what’s the point? Where is the reward? Where is the incentive?

Misogynists effectively dismantle 15-20+ years of patriarchal conditioning that the typical woman receives throughout her life— social conditioning that greatly benefits them, when they run their mouths on Reddit/online. When a woman spends 20 minutes on Reddit and realizes she can never win, that she can never redeem herself, that there are no avenues to being one of the “good women”, that no matter what she does— she is hated. What incentive does she have to pander to men, to seek their validation? What incentive does she have to give them the benefit of the doubt, “a chance”? Why should a woman endanger her own life, future and mind, for “the chance” that an investment in a man will pay off? By this, I don’t mean just in relationships— but in everyday interactions. What’s the point being nice to a strange man, when there is a high chance he will not see it as a gesture of politeness or human kindness, but as a sexual invitation?

Now add to this— men’s diminished economic, physical and logistical leverage over women. Why should women seek to be submissive to men, to continually give them chance after chance, when not only do they openly reveal their contempt towards women, but they are also literally not physically necessary anymore for survival? That in fact, oftentimes a man’s presence in her life, reduces a woman’s chances of survival.

Intelligent, nuanced and covert misogyny is much harder to dismantle, if not nearly impossible. FDS would not exist if misogynistic men were smarter and thought more long-term, if they could see shades of grey, if they had any self-control or self-discipline.

If misogynists were more than just sentient, if they could do more than fog up a mirror— not only would FDS not exist, female dissent would barely exist, there wouldn't be any feminists PERIOD let alone radfem leaning FDS ones, they wouldn’t have any “mean bad bitch women” to complain about.

As for gold digging— when you completely devalue women’s biological value, intellectual value, social value, her time, her earning ability, her options, when you have the audacity to want a woman to have her own money, but you don’t take her job/career seriously—you put off even naive sheltered young women who dream of homesteading, raising babies and chickens with a bearded manly man. You burst their fairy tale with your ugliness and grotesque entitlement, in a way that “jezebels” never can. Now add the sentiment of women being “gold diggers” because they screen men to avoid those hunting for easy pickings and low hanging fruit— and you make women everywhere realize that you have no gold to dig. That you’re a body, mind and soul digger, and that is your idea of what equality entails, you endlessly taking things that you think are free/have no value (because it is a woman providing these things)— but you draw the line at paying $15-20 for a woman’s lunch entree. Somehow women have a desire to go on dates with unpleasant, possibly dangerous men, for a ‘free’ $20 meal? Bonus— you don’t know or care that women live in a world and society that is inherently more dangerous for them than it is for you. But keep on bleating about eQuaLiTy— I’ll pay for my entree when the day comes, where you can search for sex offenders in your neighborhood— and offenders are 99% women.

Misogynistic men have shit in their own nest and they're in denial about it. The best way to destroy FDS, is by destroying red pill and manosphere, by taking an open stance against overt and extreme misogyny, by being more intellectually consistent. This would give misogynists everything they want and more, but short-term gratification feels better to them.