Absolutely Speechless- Scrotes doesn’t get GF an Xmas present but gives £1000 to his OnlyFans lady. GF doesn’t dump him.

icecream1013 · 2020-12-25T21:03:59+00:00

"and he doesn't have any other financially draining habits"...how can he if he is spending $450 on porn?!? he should not have any other big ticket "hobbies." This dude also sounds like a weirdo. Spending that amount of cash MONTHLY for porn and spending almost a full month's rent on an internet woman's Christmas gift.

I sure hope this lady's name is on the lease. She needs to end this relationship and he needs therapy.

likearealreptile · 2020-12-25T21:50:04+00:00

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Creative_Economics_5 · 2020-12-25T21:35:45+00:00

“He finds the women on this site helps with his anxiety”

FFS 🤡🤡🤡 As a person who has actual anxiety (you know, the one which is a daily struggle, sometimes gets debilitating and unfortunately somehow cannot be magically cured by paying $450 to cheat on my SO with OF porn) I hope he burns in hell. Not only that is absolute disrespect for his gf, but also completely discredits a difficult mental health condition. WTF??

MarshmellowMedic13 · 2020-12-25T20:51:51+00:00

The rest of the post was more drivel of her just asking for reassurance that it’s okay. When clearly it’s not.

This is why FDS does not endorse OnlyFans. Before FDS I used to believe that it was a woman’s choice. But the wider implications of sex work and OnlyFans are brushed over with that argument. Never ever consider a relationship with a man who utilises such services...

fancypantsdance92 · 2020-12-25T20:56:49+00:00

Should you be "mad?? "Mad" is literally the least you could feel in this situation. It would be acceptable to feel "mad" if your boyfriend perhaps, idk, ate the last gingerbread? Mam, respectfully, find yourself an actual boyfriend because this dude clearly belongs to the streets. These women don't have to cook, clean or put up with his bullshit and they're getting $450 a month. The only sucker here is you who is in a free relationship with absolutely nothing to gain other than a postcard every now and then, reminding you your "boyfriend" is capable of being a big spender and is actively choosing to not get you shit.

RhiannonEmilia · 2020-12-25T20:53:39+00:00

There’s so many things wrong with this story. She knows about the OnlyFans and is still dating him? Also even if we ignore the fact that he’s a POS who didn’t get her a gift but gave his OnlyFans girl one, who the HELL spends $1000 for a postcard?! She needs to leave his ass before he completely drains their bank accounts for porn and OnlyFans.

shortywannarock · 2020-12-25T21:01:04+00:00

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Waste-Win · 2020-12-25T21:24:03+00:00

Then people complain about always getting the "break up" advice but damn if she don't break up with the man I don'y know what else to say, the man is proud that He spent 1k on a stranger on the internet, WTF.

chateauduchat · 2020-12-25T21:52:14+00:00

$450 ON ONLYFANS A MONTH?! That’s fucking rent for a college student. He should just save up for a PS5 like all the other scrotes and leave this woman so she can actually find a better man she won’t have to struggle love with.

TheSuspiciousChard · 2020-12-25T22:09:27+00:00

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skiesarebluetoday · 2020-12-25T21:13:06+00:00

Reading this absolutely broke my heart.

Jiou112 · 2020-12-25T22:48:10+00:00

I'm too young for this kind of heart pain 😭

Lavender_flow · 2020-12-26T00:51:30+00:00

She should join the circus. Atleadt she would get paid for being such a 🤡

Maude2010 · 2020-12-25T21:26:29+00:00

How is she okay with him subscribing to OF at all? My mind is blown.

aquarieux · 2020-12-25T22:30:15+00:00

I couldn't keep reading after he spends $450 per month on OnlyFans subscriptions. Jesus Christ, how could you actively know that about a man and still decide to tie your lives together by moving in with him? I would be legit repulsed by that behavior. And he says the women help with his anxiety. Ummm, you know what else would help with his anxiety? Seeing an actual legitimate therapist! I can't read the rest of that mess omfg.

vancityvan7839 · 2020-12-25T21:31:13+00:00

I don’t even know where to start....

cue the libfems foaming at mouth shrieking at her for being “sex-negative, slut shaming, kink shaming” and whatever BS they pull out of their asses, because their bfs are doing the exact same thing LOL 😞

2020-12-25T21:18:38+00:00

What the hell did I just read?

Snoo-77746 · 2020-12-25T22:34:52+00:00

I really hope its one of fake reddit stories but im worried for this woman if its not.

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2020-12-25T20:50:24+00:00

I don’t even know where to start with this, can we save her?

2020-12-26T00:13:32+00:00

Another case of men actually love giving gifts and if they wanted to, they would. He just didn’t give his gf a gift because he doesn’t care about her and he didn’t want to.

Mcccy · 2020-12-25T23:20:07+00:00

Drinking game idea: Take a shot everytime you spot a red flag on her post

basicbagels · 2020-12-26T00:22:23+00:00

Red flag number one: “boyfriend” and “several years”

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-12-25T21:59:23+00:00

She has no sense and no self-respect. This is fucking cringe. So cringe.

biggestsigh · 2020-12-25T22:42:17+00:00

and then there is the edit which will break your heart. This guy just does not care about her and she's been doing mental gymnastics to make this all ok.

Edit: We have been together six years, including two years long distance until July of this year. I was in grad school and that's where my debt comes in. When I chose to go to grad school he thought I was wasting my money and he wanted to make it clear that our finances would be kept seperate because of my debt. This is why I am quite unwilling to get involved in his finances. He told me about his Only Fans in April when where he was living was very strictly locked down, he has asthma and was very anxious to leave the house, so that's how OF became an outlet. Since we moved in together his monthly subscription fee is $120 which is approx what I pay in gym and other subscriptions, so I don't want to be a hypocrite for judging his subscriptions.

nenindis · 2020-12-26T14:36:39+00:00

Women need to stop enabling this behavior and society needs to stop brainwashing us into accepting depraved habits such as this.

waddamelone · 2020-12-26T00:51:52+00:00

Hell called. They want their residents back.

LadyGrimes · 2020-12-25T23:03:38+00:00

DUMP HIS ASS FFS!

Never enable this behavior in men or you're part of the problem.

GrapeJuiceEnthusiast · 2020-12-25T21:04:46+00:00

I'm finding it hard to feel sorry for her tbh. He's been paying for Only Fans girls for months and she just puts up with it? Jesus christ grow a fucking backbone.

melsena790 · 2020-12-26T00:33:26+00:00

I left a comment on that post, but i really believe that it is just a troll because no one would actually accept that, I mean even the lowest of the pickmeishas would find that unacceptable.

maj0relle · 2020-12-26T02:41:17+00:00

I have lost the ability to feel sorry for women like this. She’s just an idiot.

Amelania · 2020-12-26T01:55:31+00:00

I don't think I can keep up with all this tbh...vetting for personality red flags, career and financial choices, possible ex wives and children, porn use, various lies and omissions including poor personalities, massive debts and ex wives and children....who the fuck cares enough to do this!? Lmao

Now we have to worry about them spending hundreds or thousands for women they'll never meet to send them pics or something? Wtf is only fans anyway!? Feeling old atm 😂

barmitzvahmoney · 2020-12-26T05:29:15+00:00

I don’t spend $450 a month on ANYTHING Jesus

ComprehensiveAmoeba9 · 2020-12-26T02:55:55+00:00

WTF???? He is spending a large chunk of his income on OnlyFans and giving nothing to his own girlfriend? This girl seems to be too far gone to dump his ass. What a bulls hit excuse on his part to tell her these cam girls help his anxiety🤢 he’s so porn sick his brain is fried. I am hoping the post isn’t real but I’ve lost faith in humanity nothing surprises me at this point

biggestsigh · 2020-12-26T03:32:58+00:00

I sometimes wonder how it much feel to post something like this and get HUNDREDS of people telling you that your partner is garbage and you need to leave.

She spent so much time rationalizing and now people are validating her feelings but telling her she needs to get out. How much must this mess a person up? Do we think she'll be wise and actually break up?

man-in-trash · 2020-12-26T12:54:36+00:00

What the fuck did I just read? What the hell is wrong with men??

spicyspa · 2020-12-26T04:07:13+00:00

I do not understand what I had read. Was that in Old Church Slavonic?

Novemberinthechair · 2020-12-26T06:38:50+00:00

Jfc, my brain is hurting.

GretaTheBeeotch · 2020-12-26T03:49:30+00:00

I hope someone extended an invite here

redwineandsolitude · 2020-12-26T03:53:50+00:00

The post is sad but these comments are sadder. Why are we calling her “brain dead” and saying that she has no self-worth, no backbone, and no self-respect? We are literally groomed to think repulsive male behavior is normal. Literally every boyfriend I had watched porn before I made it a dealbreaker. She has done nothing wrong in my book. Don’t blame the women. Blame the patriarchy! The moderators need to step in when people roast female victims.

AimiHanibal · 2020-12-26T16:31:58+00:00

Is this my ex?? 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Lmao

ItsFreezen · 2020-12-26T19:17:32+00:00

Obviously Dump Him.

AllTheBeanToes · 2020-12-26T19:37:36+00:00

I can't even feel sorry for that level of dumbness. Clownery is just embarrassing

faux_maux_ · 2021-04-20T01:28:42+00:00

Look how fucking long that paragraph is.

Title	Absolutely Speechless- Scrotes doesn’t get GF an Xmas present but gives £1000 to his OnlyFans lady. GF doesn’t dump him.
Author	MarshmellowMedic13
Upvotes	441
Comments	90
Date	December 25, 2020 8:46 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/kk5puk/absolutely_speechless_scrotes_doesnt_get_gf_an/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/absolutely-speechless-scrotes-doesnt-get-gf-an.345764 https://theredarchive.com/post/345764

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